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i am electrum wallet retarded i had some sentto my wallet at first it said something about unconfirmed parent so i wentto the option of child to parent whatever raised the fees and it went through and my balance showed everything was there..next day i open my wallet and it says unverified and my balance says synchronzing..i am using the portable version...50 usd went through fine no problems the higher amount said unconfirmed parent then i moved up the fee(through teh child to parent option thing) and it went right through balance showed everything......now this morning  is still saying unverfied remember im very new to this so anyone who can explain what i can do in lamens terms id appreciate possibly even give a small amount of bitcoin to for service i have alot

If you are prepared to post the transaction's ID here we could provide more help. To get it click electrum's history tab, then right click the top transaction and select details from the list that appears. A new window should open with the transaction ID in a text box at the top. Copy that and post it here.

If you don't want to post it here search for it on this page.

https://blockchain.info/home

If that website says it's unconfirmed then keep submiting the transaction ID to this website until it says acceleration successful. Afterwards the viabtc mining pool will confirm your transaction for you (probably within 24 hours).

https://pool.viabtc.com/tools/txaccelerator/

Unlike bitcoin core, electrum is no full client, meaning it does not store a full copy of the blockchain.
Electrum gets transaction data relevant to your addresses from servers and verifies this using block headers.

Seems like one of those steps is causing issues for you. I'd try connecting to another electrum server.