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Infidelity is unforgivable especially if you are married and have vowed in the eyes of the law to be with someone. It is also destroy a marriage or relationship.
Can you forgive them and give them another chance . Because of the welfare of your children if you already have and you do not want to destroy your family. Or you want to separate because you're hurt..

There are several culture in the world today that abhor "infidelity"even at this present civilization time,and i will generally say that forgiveness depends on individuals culture and believe. Firstly, some culture forbid infidelity ,like my own society, and the penalty for offenders whether mail or female,is very frustrating and desgracefull .It is even worst in the case of the female, in that, when she is guilty of the act, will be brought to an open shameful cultural treatment.
There are also societies in the world today that infidelity doesn't atract any penalties, one can easily be forgiven and the marriage  just go on as normal.
Speaking on this present civilization and this generation, i think forgiveness of infidelity just depends on you, to keep the family together because of the children; or to remarried because of the hurt, whether culture or no culture.

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Infidelity is very normal because It can happen in every relationship. According to me, women or men must forgive their unfaitful parnter for the sake of their own health. Forgiving a fidelity is the best choice to save a relationship.

It depends on the two people involve.Maybe I will forgive but it will takes time. I'd rather take the pain rather than seeing my children suffering from the absence of the other and a broken family is not good for them they will experience bullying and that will hurt so much for me.

If your significant other is unfaithful, then one should consider the reason for the infidelity in the first place. There's always a chance to mend broken wounds of the heart, if your willing to work together. Humans are creatures of habbit, and no relationship is without its difficulties.  There is a saying, "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me!".
  Men cheat because they burn themselves out sexually,  and the the spark that keeps the passion burning is dying out. So men seek thrills elsewhere, all the while trying to keep up with the day to day appearances.
 Women cheat simply because of emotional detachment. If you don't butter a woman up every once in a while, she'll start fantasizing about rendezvous with another lucky chap. The goal is to make a compromise somewhere in between,  that both parties within the relationship can agree to.
   Alot of the time, infidelity is caused by sexual frustration. Variety is the spice of life, so naturally if a desire goes unfulfilled,  people will naturally gravitate towards whatever satisfies their desire, leaving morals and ethics In the back seat during the drive which the passions steer us towards.
 Never lose hope and call it quits unless it's a hopeless case to revitalizing the relationship.
Good luck chuck!

Marriage is increasingly losing its importance these days, and the wives are making the lives of their spouses hard by putting up unjustifiable demands and conditions. Infidelity normally occurs when the marital relationship is not very strong. If the wife and husband loves each other, then there is hardly any chance of infidelity.

It naturally depends on the couple. I've known of a couple who moved forward after a case of infidelity. Others actually stopped and broke it off. In my experience, i can't get over being cheated on. Knowing that, i would rather let my children live with a broken family that them being in a dysfunctional one. At least right off the bat my kids would face the problem head on and actually adapt to it. Others could live with the fact that their partner cheated in them, but then again that's them.

its so easy to forgive infidelity but it can never be forgotten and that makes it hurts most times. remembering it may turn a happy time to something else

Infidelity  is forgivable but it doesn't always mean that you will still stay together. Forgiving can also mean that you dont hate her anymore that you have accepted the fact that she's not happy with you anymore and you both go on your own separate ways.

That depends on the person. Me, I can forgive my spouse for infidelity. Nobody's perfect and we all commit mistakes. I, too, sometimes made mistakes but what's important is I learned from the mistake and I regret doing it. IF you love your spouse, no matter what happens and how hurtful it is to accept infidelity he/she did, you would still accept him/her.

It may be forgiven but it depends upon the situation and the persons involve.It maybe forgiven for the sake of the children so that they will not suffer from being in a broken family.Forgive and forget if the love is higher than the pain and anger.

forgiveness is precious key of healing after an affair,and to allow us leave from the wounds or pain in the past, move forward but we do so with lesson learned from the past sometimes infidelity is not totally necessary fatal to relastionship,the approiate communication theraphy and willingness to let go from pain,cause many couple get pass it on ,so that in some cases the healing process of pain can made relastionship stronger than before,,but forgiveness is not a mandatory to all person who take infidelity, if transgressor will not apologies or take resposability according her action..

It depends on the circumstances. How did you learn about it, was it a one time thing.
The most important thing is not to stay together just for the children.
Children are happier when they grow up with parents who are happy.
It won't make children happy if you hate the other person but you're still together.

I think the affair is a bad deed, especially if they are married. Forgive or not sure many people who choose not to forgive because of a sense of disappointment in his heart, but if already married whether to split? then how the fate of the child? Allah alone always forgive all errors and sins, then why can not you forgive?

Infidelity could happen when either he or she didn't get what they want in a relationship. It isn't always about money but also about loving and attention. Sometimes we just get too busy with our daily activity, our job, our kids, so without realizing we care about our partner less and less more and when that happened, here comes the infidelity. It depends on the person whether they want to forgive or not. I never say it's easy but everyone deserves a second chance.

Well as they say, a broken trust cana never be really mended. Thr hurt it will cause to the other person will leave a scar that will taint the relationship. So even if a person who committed infidelity is forgiven, things definitely will never be the same

I personally wouldn't forgive. Even using kids as the reason won't do it for me. They're kids but they're not stupid, they know something's up. Better separate than for the relationship to become toxic for both the couple and kids.

To me that is the most unforgivable thing in a relationship because it destroys the foundation that the whole relationship is built upon. And when that happens there is no way that a person will be able to come out fully trusting their partner again.

The answers to this question are quite different.I'm strange when it's a question.When I would love a person, I would be able to forgive her.She should have such a good reason to forgive her, because they aren't such small things.No one should allow this to happen.Because all people are sensitive to it.When we choose the right person, there is no way that it could happen to us.Because nobody is worth it.

I'm ready to forgive adultery if it was once. The man is polygamous. But if I repeat this betrayal, I will not tolerate this! Children should not see this!

adultery is the Friday we can not forgive, we have to love someone that been dumped this makes them easy to arise the bad idea and can hurt other people.

adultery is a bad idea and even worse. can forgive because forgiveness is the best for many people but some are not. Depending on the perspective and a change in consciousness. that considers forgiveness.

For me it's inexcusable. I could never be in an open relationship. When I care about someone I care exclusively :) and expect the same from them, but of course that is something I communicate early so there is no confusion. 

Yes, infidelity can be forgiven as long as it happens just once. Everyone commits mistake as there's no perfect individual in this world. We just have to accept our shortcomings which are the reasons why our wife or husband looked for third party.

Well, it can be forgiven, it depends on every situation or people. But if the person who's been cheated on decide to forgive the mistake, he has to FORGET it and never use it as a weapon during fight, over wise, they won't be able to be happy together again.

for me the affair can not be forgiven,
because when you forgive it will happen again adultery,
start something new.

OK, we understand now that your wife has probably slept with someone else or you suspect her to have done so or that she might do so. The point is that everyone does what they feel like, and everyone reacts to that in the way they are personally more inclined to. The is no general rule for that, which one has to obey to. Everything in this area is 100% subjective. So no point to ask others. The choice is only yours.

unforgivable because I hate infidelity, it feels like we are losing our senses 💔💔💔

an affair may be forgiven if you want to change and not repeat the affair. but do not disappoint the oarang who have given a second chance if you repeat the second mistake do not expect to get the chance to be forgiven once once possible but if twice the patience of the person there must be a limit.

Infidelities can not be forgiven according to religion and the law because the actions that are not commendable and could have a negative impact for couples.Therefore each spouse must be able to sort and choose the best for infidelity can be avoided.

people who've never done screwing then if given the chance would do the same mistake later. If it's already been screwing then never condoned or given another chance because it definitely will not be wronged.

I don't think the law should dictate our emotional investments - I am not married and faithful because the law says so, but because I feel personal obligation to our relationship with my wife. If that would ever be lost, my loyalty would shift as well. I am not in it for society, but for the two of us.

Circumstances matters, depends on what he/she do. And how big or how far he/she go in the infidelity. There are things that we can forgive but we can't forget. It's good to give chances but that doesn't necessarily mean that you are in martyrdom. It is just you have a lot of patience and love in your heart and once you lose all the patience then it's the end.

affair I can forgive but not to go back together I am sure if there has been an affair it means there has been waning of love I am sure my child is able to understand and accept the fact when to part with the obvious reason also besides there are many other good people in this world

Infidelity is one of the most talked about issue regarding marriage. And one question here is that, is it forgivable or not? Well, I believe that everyone deserves a second chance so as in this matter if and only if, it is reasonably deserved a second chance. It depends upon the situation and how it will affect your family in present and in the future. Just give him/her a second chance, it it does work and make your relationship and your family stronger and better, then continue. But if it happened again after you gave him/her a second chance, then that is when you should let go because it isn't healthy anymore especially to the kids. It is better to have a broken family than to a family that is physically together but really broke in every other aspect.

Infidelity is wrong to start with. I often think infidelity is as a result of greed. And lack of understanding that you gain absolute nothing that gives peace of mind. As for forgiving an infidel spouse. If it is for the purpose of love and educating her.. I will forgive

I agree, infidelity truely is wrong in the first place. Regardless of the numerous
reasons people resort and surrender to such acts, it’s still roughly considered immoral
especially to married couples and individuals. Reconciliation and forgiveness depends
with the involved persons, there are customs in countries and different religions in
society that deal with such sins with certain manners. It truly depends entirely on the
couple it seems, sincerity and different circumstances will always influence how
situations like infidelity is dealt with and resolved.

There is no-one that like infidelity because it's wrong in the first place.whenever there is infidelity between two partners, there should be need for forgiveness only if the offender is ready to change to avoid confirmation and continuation of infidelity. The reason is that no one is abovemistakes,no-one is perfect.My own take is infedlity may be forgiven if the offender is ready to change for good. 

this must not be forgiven if ones in a relationship want and do infidelity. and if he or she does not want that to happen and only accident, there is small chances of forgiving.

you are married to someone because you are ready to become in a relationship and responsibility. you must not do any sins like this because this is not proper in the eyes of god and also other people. your conscience will hunt you

Why are there still so many people who say that infidelity is unforgivable and I think that experience happened when a bad past? For example, experience as a result of the nearest person or parent who committed an affair. Yet every problem there are also who do not understand that problems in the household can be resolved, including the problem of infidelity.

But to decide whether after a marriage deserves to be hold or not, of course, depends on personal decisions and it all depends on how we can communicate evaluate the conditions of marriage. Whatever the reason, the name of the divorce will surely be painful and will definitely affect our lives a lot.

I don't think this is something that anyone can easily forgive. When you are married, you already know what is at stake, what are your obligations and responsibilities to each other. You choose to be unfaithful to your spouse. So that is something that has consequences of course. If you are one that has been cheated on, the choice to stay in the relationship is yours. Whether or not you forgive the person is another story.

Forgiven or not, depends on how the couple decide, wether they want to save their marriage or not. If the hurt one wants to forgive and give him or her spouse a second chance to their relationship then it is good. But it all comes back to them. Because it will not be easy, even if you already forgive your spouse, you can never forget what they have done to you.

It's your choice if you want to stay or not, but always think about the your children. Remember, you're a family now. Think about the future of the kids growing up without you. But in the first place, you shouldn't commit infidelity! You're a grown up now! You're not a child anymore that can roam around in any room to find a pleasing person. Always remember your vow to each other. Well, for me, forgiveness and mercy is upon the people who are hurt. You can never find a person who are willing to forgive and forget.

In a committed exclusive relationship, infidelity can be a very hard thing to deal with. So many marriages and relationships have been ruined because of it. I think that it really has to be looked at on a case to case basis. It's very hard to imagine a situation when infidelity can be excused, but I believe there are so cases where it can be forgiven over time. It is a big mistake to make, but if the partner comes forward, confesses to what he/she did and commits to never repeat it, there are cases when I think it could be better to forgive. When children are involved, it can complicate things even more. Sadly, even after forgiving a partner for cheating, I think the relationship can become weaker. It can be harder to trust.

It's obviously going to be on the person who was cheated on whether or not they can truly forgive and forget something like that.  I know some people who were able to get past it and still have a happy marraige.  I don't think I personally could do it.  I might try to forgive for the sake of my kids/family but I think I would personally just be so disgusted by the act that I would probably never be able to truly let it go and forgive.  I feel like every time you have a fight about anything that is the kind of thing that would always come up again.

As non-believer I dont this kind of problems maybe just dont care about this religions thinks not rly worth of time. If this could erase your life

Yes, it could be forgiven, but could not be forgotten. If my partner cheated on me, he shouldn't expect that things will be the same again, even though we have kids. It's not selfishness; it's self-respect and self-love. If his love for me had faded away, well at least, I was not left with nothing at all. I still have 'me' and my kids to love me and to respect me. And I think for my kids and for others to respect me, I ought to pay respect to myself first. So why will you live again with someone who didn't respect you? Relationship problems are always reconcilable, but not mendable. Once broken, it'll not go back to how it used to be before.

What does this have to do about religion? I mean, sure, most religions preach that we should have committed relationships, but I don't think it's just a religious thing. I think the topic here is committed relationship in general. Even if you don't believe in a religion, most people still want to have relationships with people they can trust. It's hard to believe that you will be completely fine if your significant other leaves you for another person, even if you are a non-believer. I have heard that some people choose to be in "open relationships", but I don't think they are very common.

I think that is the worst thing that one does to their partners and it should be stopped.

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But when there is an extramarital affair, everything in the family changes. If I encounter such a thing, I may choose to divorce instead of forgiving her!

Infidelity is a deal breaker for me. Forgiving infidelity is actually easy for me because I understand that feelings can override rational thought sometimes. However, I cannot forget it. For me, trust is everything in a relationship.

I don't think that the difference in feelings can't be forgiven, because I think that people make any things or choices through the brain, and even if you forgive her, she will still do the same thing!

Say someone to forgive for Infidelity is easy than making it work because only the person who is in the situation knows how he or she feels so it is something that should do according to the situation and considering there partner

an affair may be forgiven if you need to change and no longer repeat the affair. but do not disappoint the oarang who have given a second hazard if you repeat the second one mistake do no longer expect to get the chance to be forgiven once as soon as viable however if two times the persistence of the man or woman there have to be a restrict.

I don't assume that the distinction in feelings can't be forgiven, because I think that humans make any things or choices thru the mind, or even in case you forgive her, she can still do the identical thing!

Infidelity can be forgiven, all humans makes mistakes. If someone commits infidelity and that person ask for forgiveness & vow that he/she will not do it again then maybe he/she can be forgiven. No one is perfect everyone commits sin.

Infidelity is one of the most talked about issue regarding marriage. And one question here is that, is it forgivable or not? Well, I believe that everyone deserves a second chance so as in this matter if and only if, it is reasonably deserved a second chance. It depends upon the situation and how it will affect your family in present and in the future. Just give him/her a second chance, it it does work and make your relationship and your family stronger and better, then continue. But if it happened again after you gave him/her a second chance, then that is when you should let go because it isn't healthy anymore especially to the kids. It is better to have a broken family than to a family that is physically together but really broke in every other aspect.

Yes, it is a crime and should not be forgiven at all.

For me, infidelity is something that cannot be forgiven. if I have a partner and he is having an affair, I will release him right away. Cheating is a very shameful thing, you should have no love and affection for your partner, you have to let go of it instead of betraying his love, give an explanation and make him understand not betray.

  Everyone deserves a second chance. Time is short-lived, so you can not spend them on unnecessary grievances

nope.
if you are not happy in your relationship, talk it out or separate with mutual understanding.
infidelity is not cheating your partner, you are cheating yourself

That is indeed a tough question. I do not know what to do if that happens to me. I do not know if I can give a second chance even if we have children. But like today, If that happens to me, I won't. Because that hurts. And I can't live my life with my partner knowing that she cheated on me. However, that is not a final answer.

infidelity is unforgivable, infact it is the only ground for divorce biblically, it is a break of trust and each time you see the partner involved, the ghatred grows and that may lead to violence domestically, so a total seperation is adviced.

Perhaps if he had been really conscious and regretted what he had done and I will forgive even though I hurt because I'm thinking about my children welfare, but if he continues to do the same mistakes repeated maybe I would choose to split up.

however whilst there is an extramarital affair, the whole lot inside the family changes. If I stumble upon the sort of component, I may additionally pick to divorce as opposed to forgiving her!

people do change, their experiences teach them how to properly live their lives, so it depends upon how they learn their lesson. if they already realized their mistakes and tend to correct them infidelity should be forgiven however dont put your guard down but show them that theyre slowly earning your trust again so that they would not loose hope.

human beings who've in no way finished screwing then if given the danger might do the same mistake later. If it is already been screwing then by no means condoned or given another threat as it absolutely will not be wronged.

It seems like you contradict yourself here. You say that everyone deserves a second chance. Then you go on to say that, in this matter, a second chance must be reasonable deserved. Everybody deserving a second chance sounds lovely, but not so much if you think about it more. There are many things that don't deserve a second chance. If a man molests one of your children, for example, will you just say, "That was bad, but you get one more chance"? If somebody kills one of your family members, will you give him another chance? There are certain things that it's better not to give a second chance on.

In my opinion it is not because of the infidelity of a deed that has a big sin and has no benefit in life but we will get the impact

I think it may be forgiven if both partners give themselves a chance and talk it through.

I might forgive of course if some one cheated on me but it will take lot of time to make my mind   

I doubt I will give another chance I am not that person because I know my mind 

You better shouldn't give your identity to any one.

It is not a very big crime and there are always some factors that leads to that.

It completely depends on the person to person and how they are with their partner.

It is difficult to forgive because of the hatred and jealousy that occurs during infidelity so I can never forgive 

Forgiving is not possible for me that is really a difficult task so I wont continue the relationship   

It all depends on how you feel about this, because people are all different and everything in different ways can treat this situation, but personally I would not forgive!

It cannot forgiven because breaking some once rust means a bad thing   

It can be forgiven but not to provide another opportunity. There is no reason to justify the affair that occurred.

there might be a second chance, because the relationship is not about ego but there are children who must be sacrificed because of divorce. I think there will be a second chance for that

Yes, it is a crime and should not be forgiven at all.

The affair is included in a person's mental and brain problems, although it can be forgiven, it is not impossible that someone can repeat his behavior again, the best way is indeed to be separated.

I know God always gives us a second chance but as for me, I don't know if I can give a second chance if that happens to me. But if we have kids, of course I will prioritize my children. And giving a second chance is the best option just to save your family.

It should be forgiven if the partner accept the wrong doing did and promises not to do that again 

fellow human beings must forgive and provide opportunities even if it hurts

Infidelity is an absolutely sensitive topic. It is always best to avoid it completely. This is not just true in marriages but in relationships also. Hearts are very delicate organs and trust is hard to acquire. But if it happens, it is necessary to properly assess the situation. People make mistakes and I believe that they should not forsaken for such. In view of the efforts and sacrifice put into relationships and marriage, forgiveness is a very great option. But in circumstances where one partner is consistently unfaithful, I do not consider that such relationships should continue.

Cheating is the worst thing that can happen in a relationship.
Betrayal can not be forgiven and do not need is foolish at least

I guess it depends on the conditions. Was it a one time off thing? How did the other person find out? Was it being talked through.. of course trust is lost at least in some way and you cannot turn back the relationship to be same as it was before

 To me, infidelity is certainly forgivable, even in an exclusive relationship if the person truly regrets it and endeavors never to repeat it again.

I personally, will never forgive people who have broken my heart. Moreover, our position is married, it will definitely be very disappointed.

Forgive  but never forget. Because forgiving the person cheating is for myself to put everything down and move on.

Cut it off. Because if there is once... there will be 50% chance of another. And if it so happens again, the probably just got higher in %..

It is possible to forgive someone and release the resentment and bitterness you have toward them without reconciling. While forgiveness in marriage after infidelity is not based on the other person’s repentance, reconciliation IS most definitely based on their empathy, sorrow, repentance and their ability to be safe. If the person who wounded you does not take personal responsibility for what they’ve done, is not willing to make restitution, and won’t take steps to assure it doesn’t happen again, then reconciliation may not even be wise.

Infidelity cannot be forgiven as I believe. Because changing once, it will happen again. And if you will forgive to it under the pretext that you need to save your family, you will deceive yourself.

I can't read all of these comments about forgiveness. Are you serious? If you knew about infidelity, you have no choice than tear this relationship apart. Your boyfriend or girlfriend (husband or wife) have to do everything to his partner never knew about their infidelity. Otherwise, it was their choice and I don't wanna see anyone forgiving this choice.

If someone cheats you once, then you can expect it more times. People would sacrifice for their children but why the other side did not think about that. If you forgive once, you will forgive and other times.

Unforgivable, you forgive the person however you can't stay with someone who can't be loyal.

That happens a lot. Once it's in the DNA. It's hard to clean it out.

Infidelity is completely unforgivable. I do not accept that, I think divorce is the right approach

You will only deceive yourself if you save the relationship after treason for the sake of children and something else. In such cases, you need to end the relationship, but sometimes emotions do not allow it to be done and that is bad.

Infidelity can happen in any relationship. No one is safe.

imho it fully depends on the circumstances, your trust to your partner and your characters.
Once I did forgave my boyfriend, and even though we're not together anymore I can't say it was a mistake to forgive him/

It can be forgiven  but cannot be forgotten, there is no excuse for infidelity.

Yes it is. Who are we not to forgive, but forgetting is a different thing.

Infidelity is a choice, and even cruel, but the choice of the person who makes it, we always strive to condemn such people, because they swore, promised to be true, but, we always forget to ask ourselves why he - she suddenly changed? (her) go to the side to another person? And there may be a lot of answers! There is even such a testimonial: "That one cannot judge someone for the fact that he has fallen out of love or has fallen in love, a person does not have power in his heart." Is it worth forgiving? The choice is also each, if you still have a spark of hope, why not reanimate the marriage, and if not, do not interfere with each other, you need to clear the way.

I think there should always be a second chance, an infidelity is always because of sex with another person, and yes, maybe it is a lack of respect, but I think everyone deserves a second chance and more when there is a family, children involved, Separations are not very pleasant, they always have to seek to be together despite mistakes.

Of course if someone changed it , you can't forgive , if a person found you a replacement what do you need to find someone who will appreciate you

I agree that partners should forgive one another but if either partner refuses and insist on divorce then you have yourself to blame.
 Infidelity  is one of the most abominable thing to do in a marriage It's totally wrong and has nothing to do with being civilized.. It is serious breach of agreement

 Finally, your partner forgiving your infidelity shouldnt be an excuse to continue sleeping around.

It's really very difficult question and there is no a unique answer that would apply to everyone.
A person must first be honestly repented and based on that condition we can, I think, forgive but I never had such experience and don't know if I will be really able to forgive.
Maybe yes, have no idea.

This is a serious matter since it's an issue about trust, but considering also the grounds, you also need to weight the situations, if you have kids who
still wanted to have a whole family, you need to sacrifice your ego and you to consider forgiving your partner, assess yourself on why he/she did betrayed
your vows, from that point you'll be able to understand and you can adjust for the benefits of having still a complete family.,that pain will be heal keep opening your heart and find that space where you first fall in love with your partner to lessen that pain and to healed much quicker.

For me it can be forgiven. Especially if there's sincerity from the one who's asking for forgiveness. What can't be done though is forgetting the mistake made. Once trust is lost it can be very hard to recover it but i think it's possible over time but forgetting what was done to you can open you up to being fooled twice of several times over. Forgive but never forget.

I would never forgive this man finds you a replacement you can forgive , do not even need to be humiliated , better to find that person who will appreciate you

everyone can make mistakes in life but i personally would not give a second chance to a the partner who betrayed me because i believe he could do it again,it come a lack of confidence...

Only those who can forgive can forgive. And few people can forgive. And another important degree of repentance. You can forgive someone who asks to be forgiven and asks sincerely. And you can forgive everything. Another question - what to do next with this person?

The scriptural's position on infidelity is that you as a man can taking the decisions of forgiveness or send her parking or live him but I am on the part of forgiveness because of kids.  Most time some of this infidelity do come from the mistake and disagreements between the husband and wife and that is why it is good we treat all this hard to take issues with carefulness.

In many countries it is allowed but some countries have high punishment for this guilty.Maybe you can forgive if you love the person but don't deserved to be relationship anymore.

I think this topic depends a lot on the formation and values ​​that people have in common, there are many cases where couples are such liberals that allow them to have other couples, this is a somewhat taboo subject, but that can be taken into account, of course, it is a subject that must be taken into account from another point of view of maturity that the couple has.

In the capital of my country I met many people who have their formal couple of married years and that each of them have their partners apart from the normal, and enjoy, in fact they plan meetings, because they say that sexuality should be explored and that feelings is a totally separate issue, that they see that sexuality should not have limits, and that the love they have is because they want them to always be happy, and that everything has to be as part of life, if they decide to join is to get old and help each other, accompany each other but life must be enjoyed, they are not explained as many marriages are broken because they are sexually with other people, that there are reasons that in reality must be force majeure for two people to decide to separate.

Of course this is a completely different point of view from the others, I would say that they are much more liberal, that they have many things that society still does not accept. But if we take into account the best and the positive, I think that from there, people need to have second chances, and have more communication.