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What are the causes of domestic violence and what can be done to curb it

Domestic violence has become a common phenomenon.Many people have big problems in their family.People often do a lot of bad things in the family.Often women and children suffer violence.Today there are many such organizations against domestic violence.Many people can't say that they suffer various forms of violence.I do not think that nobody deserved to suffer any form of violence, because we are all living beings, we need to help each other.Because today it's important to be a man.

It's glossed over quite often but women commit domestic violence crimes just as often as men. It's just that men suffer in silence & if they do speak up no-one gives a fuck. In many places if a man calls police after a domestic violence incident committed against him the police will come and arrest the man. When it goes to court women are likely to get off scott free or receive much lesser sentences/fines. The legal system protects women and punishes men.

What are causes of domestic violence?

Mental illness (in many different forms), jealousy, greed, immaturity and lack of respect for our fellow humans. Mix drugs and alcohol in with all that and anything can happen.

Domestic violence is a system of one person's behavior aimed at preserving power and control over another person. Conflicts and disputes arise in any relationship. It is important to distinguish between domestic violence and conflict. A dispute can develop into domestic violence if in a conflict situation the partners participate not on an equal footing, if your partner resorts to violent methods, trying to control and control your actions and feelings.

Domestic violence (also named domestic abuse or family violence) is violence or other abuse by one person against another in a domestic setting, such as in marriage or cohabitation. It may be termed intimate partner violence when committed by a spouse or partner in an intimate relationship against the other spouse or partner, and can take place in heterosexual or same-sex relationships, or between former spouses or partners. Domestic violence can also involve violence against children, parents, or the elderly, and may be done for self-defense. It takes a number of forms, including physical, verbal, emotional, economic, religious, reproductive, and sexual abuse, which can range from subtle, coercive forms to marital rape and to violent physical abuse such as choking, beating, female genital mutilation, and acid throwing that results in disfigurement or death. Domestic murders include stoning, bride burning, honor killings, and dowry deaths

Domestic violence occurs when the abuser believes that abuse is an entitlement, acceptable, justified, or unlikely to be reported. It may produce intergenerational cycles of abuse in children and other family members, who may feel that such violence is acceptable or condoned. Very few people recognize themselves as abusers or victims because they may consider their experiences as family conflicts that got out of control.[10] Awareness, perception, definition and documentation of domestic violence differs widely from country to country. Domestic violence often happens in the context of forced or child marriage.

Domestic abuse often escalates from threats and verbal abuse to violence. And while physical injury may be the most obvious danger, the emotional and psychological consequences of domestic abuse are also severe. Emotionally abusive relationships can destroy your self-worth, lead to anxiety and depression, and make you feel helpless and alone. No one should have to endure this kind of pain—and your first step to breaking free is recognizing that your situation is abusive. Once you acknowledge the reality of the abusive situation, you can get the help you need

Physical abuse is the use of physical force against someone in a way that injures or endangers that person. Physical assault or battering is a crime, whether it occurs inside or outside of the family. The police have the power and authority to protect you from physical attack.

Any situation in which you are forced to participate in unwanted, unsafe, or degrading sexual activity is sexual abuse. Forced sex, even by a spouse or intimate partner with whom you also have consensual sex, is an act of aggression and domestic violence. Furthermore, people whose partners abuse them physically and sexually are at a higher risk of being seriously injured or killed.

Abusive behavior is the abuser’s choice
Despite what many people believe, domestic violence and abuse is not due to the abuser’s loss of control over their behavior. In fact, abusive behavior and violence is a deliberate choice made by the abuser in order to control you. Abusers use a variety of tactics to manipulate you and exert their power, including:

Dominance – Abusive individuals need to feel in charge of the relationship. They will make decisions for you and the family, tell you what to do, and expect you to obey without question. Your abuser may treat you like a servant, child, or even as their possession.

Humiliation – An abuser will do everything they can to make you feel bad about yourself or defective in some way. After all, if you believe you're worthless and that no one else will want you, you're less likely to leave. Insults, name-calling, shaming, and public put-downs are all weapons of abuse designed to erode your self-esteem and make you feel powerless.

Isolation – In order to increase your dependence on them, an abusive partner will cut you off from the outside world. They may keep you from seeing family or friends, or even prevent you from going to work or school. You may have to ask permission to do anything, go anywhere, or see anyone.

Threats – Abusers commonly use threats to keep their partners from leaving or to scare them into dropping charges. Your abuser may threaten to hurt or kill you, your children, other family members, or even pets. They may also threaten to commit suicide, file false charges against you, or report you to child services.

Intimidation – Your abuser may use a variety of intimidation tactics designed to scare you into submission. Such tactics include making threatening looks or gestures, smashing things in front of you, destroying property, hurting your pets, or putting weapons on display. The clear message is that if you don't obey, there will be violent consequences.

Denial and blame – Abusers are very good at making excuses for the inexcusable. They will blame their abusive and violent behavior on a bad childhood, a bad day, or even on you and the kids, the victims of their abuse. Your abusive partner may minimize the abuse or deny that it occurred. They will commonly shift the responsibility on to you: Somehow, their violent and abusive behavior is your fault.

a reward and punishment system to get the young to do what the old want

There seems to be many sources that point to environment playing a huge part in influencing future abusers, although nothing is ever as clear-cut as that. Social surroundings, economic stability, drug and/or alcohol addictions, combinations of all the above. Many factors play a part in both 'creating' abusers and victims, and although there are certain sectors of society that are theoretically more susceptible, it can crop up in all walks of life. One way to at least try and prevent it is to ensure that you stay in touch with friends and family on a regular basis, preferably face to face. That's my (unprofessional) opinion anyway.

We cannot blame them if they do violence specially in their family, they committed said offense because they have their own reason behind that violence, but for those person who do not know yet that their is a special law made by the government here in our country, the violence against women and childrens act of R.A 9262, surely you will be apprehended by the police and put you in jail.

Many abusive people, they don't think first the corresponding punishment of the violence they committed, many family was broken because of unruly behavior, childrens are crying because they feel afraid of the incident done by their own father.
And the worst thing that when the said father put in jail because of the crime committed, and day after the wife will asked to the police officer that she wants to free her husband, because said father is alone provider of their children,
 

Domestic violence is rooted from the background of the person who perform the physical abuse. It is how he was raise as a child and his experiences. Most likely,  these people have experience the same when they are young. They have suffered physical abuse by their parents,  relatives and other people and those who are tortured during military training. These people should undergo counselling and medical help to avoid occuring of the same problem. Some other cause are drug addiction. People under the influence of drugs are violent and harmful.

Cause of Domestic Violence is not Islam but instead the cause of Domestic violence is not following Islamic Teachings. This is something which is changing rapidly. Years ago it was always assumed that the male was the aggressor. Now we know there are as many female aggressors as there are men. Continuing education for police officers it the key to make them realize that women can be just as violent as men and often are. In my experience I have come across many woman domestic violence abusers who feel entitled to hit their husband or significant other as they believe the police will automatically blame the male.This could not be further from the truth. The modern officer knows this and an arrest for domestic abuse will be made if a woman strikes a man. I have seen a lot of this and have arrested a lot of women for domestic abuse and domestic battery. The tide is changing quickly and if there is evidence to support the man's complaint the woman will be arrested. Education of officers is the key.

Trully working overseas is such convincing because of the high rate salaries but at the same time life risking, but this days domestic violences are increasing maybe because they are not satisfied of the output, to reduce or to totally wiped this things maybe the government should do so extra work like background checking of the employees, employers and the one whom they will be assign, drug test and psychiatric exams should do, so that there will be no conflict between contries and all can be relief.

domestic violence is a phenomenon that I find inappropriate. This phenomenon of domestic violence is the result of a lack of financial prosperity and the consequences of an affair. The victims are children from families affected by trauma to broken home

The ladies who are going through domestic violence in the hands of their partners should make sure that they report to the necessary authorities when it comes to that regards. By doing that it those abusive people will stop doing that.

I agree with you in this. It all starts with the family. Family lack the moral support to their children which causes the children to be rebellious. Family is the basic unit of society so i believe it comes from family. Even if the surroundings are bad influences if children are well built in the family they will not adapt to their environment.

the causes are numerous, including drinking too many drinks containing alcohol so the brain can not control the body and end up making domestic violence, and my advice to reduce alcoholic beverages

Use of illegal drug too much drink of alcohol can cause domestic violence.they out of their mind thats why they cant control themself.they can hurt their own children and wife and even their parents.

Emotional abuse. To underestimate the personality of some members of the family mostly causes domestic violence, for instance when a younger sibling is performs far better than his/her older one. The parents mostly insult the older which sometimes threatens his/ her love for the younger one which brings about hatred and quarries both at present and future. This can be curbed if the parents decide to treat everybody in the family equally despite their status in terms of academics, wealth and health.

if I think domestic violence occurs in because of the relationship is not good and less harmony between couples so that there is a difference of opinion and to overcome if I think that is by mutual communication good between couples, hopefully my opinion is useful, thank you

Economic factors are the main cause of domestic violence due to many needs and expenditures while less income.

We have also five(5) basic concept of domestic violence from human as a victim,like childhood experience,
major life changes,economic circumstance ,and insecurity.Domestic violence are happen  probably in some family as will as community.

The first thing needing to be done is identifying it. What is domestic violence to one is not to another.

For example. There are many instances of a neighbor overhearing a heated argument of a couple who live next door. The neighbor called the cops. The cops cam, and the arguing couple forbade them from coming onto their property.

In other words, a heated argument might seem like violence to some, but it isn't to others.

In some of the above cop cases, there was even evidence of injury between the couple. But they sided with each other rather than with the cops and the neighbor. Same with kids. They often side with their parents rather than with CPS coming to take them away.

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Domestic violence is a common problem these days, especially in families. Mostly it happened because of the effect of alcohol. I've heard of many incidents when the husband beat his wife and kids to death. I think this situation might happen when a woman doesn't choose her husband wisely. Usually, people who take violence against others are more aggressive ( and this can be noticed after getting to know the person better). So please try to get to know the person you want to marry or live with a little better to avoid situations like this.

Domestic violence occurs as a result of ones past. One may inflict violence to his spouse or to his children because in the first place this is something that he experienced when he was little. Domestic violence had been a problem for many years now and have been accounted for many cases of annulment and divorce. Laws were formulated to address this and there are ways to resolve it through psychoanalysis, psychotherapy and mental rehabilitation (for the victims ).

People just can't talk with each other. They start to use violence because can't express their mind
And they don't ready to solve problems. Easiest way - use a force

Domestic violence occurs because of the lack of mutual understanding that results in discomonication. To solve the problem should be mutual communication, if there is a problem to be discussed so that agreement is reached and there is no dispute.

The Domestic Violence Unit aims to provide quality social work service to adults and their children suffering abuse in family and intimate relationships. The Domestic Violence Unit is committed to the promotion of society with zero tolerance to violence.

Domestic violence has been on societies for centuries. But, fortunately, now the people are willing to see what is wrong with abuse. Since the last decade, women are beginning to talk about what are they suffering in many houses. It has, also, a cultural component, so in many places, it is still well-seen to behave as a dominator, for it means "being a man".
Nevertheless, men also suffer from domestic violence. For instance, due to the legislation in many countries, a man has to provide everything to his ex-wife, or if a man is accused of domestic violence, he will be guilty before innocent is proved.

Anyway, this is a new state of society. Women have suffered from violence (and still suffer) historically in many ways, and now they have a voice. I think the next step is to give voice to men suffering from the same too and seek for equal policies that provide both genders a legal basement. The domestic violence is a serious issue and too normal, I 'm afraid, and it can happen in many ways:
- Psychological abuse, for instance, is one of the most dangerous. There is a phenomenon known as "Gaslighting" based on the abuse of a person above another: the abuser convince the other person to be crazy and positioned him/herself as the only one able to understand and support the abused. So, they make the other completely dependent. It is really difficult to prove and the victim takes much time to realize the nature of the abuse (if he/she ever realizes what's going on). Of course, there are many other types of phycological abuse, but this one is truly interesting and also dangerous, of course. You can read more about it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting
https://www.theguardian.com/science/2017/mar/16/gaslighting-manipulation-reality-coping-mechanisms-trump
- Physical abuse is the most well-known and denounced one nowadays. It can be seen in a form of bruises in the skin, an, of course, is easier for people to believe the victim.

That's why the psychological abuse is one of the most dangerous, for it makes the victim even question his/her reality. Of course, it happens both to men and women.

The main factor of domestic violence in my opinion is the lack of communication in a household that is open, so that when a problem arises in the "peak" condition, all the accumulated out of unresolved small problems followed by all forms violence both physically and mentally.

My advice to avoid domestic violence is to cultivate the nature of openness with communication in married life, to avoid accumulation of revenge and also with communication we can be more familiar with the husband or wife as well as the child who is a member of the family.

 I think main causes are alcohol,stress and disturbed psyche,of course mostly violence comes from men and even taking in account all negative factors they should stay humans and not become animals who go into rage easily. Girls should do a right choice and not marry someone rude and violent,who seems to be a nice person in the beginning.

There are many types of domestic and family violence. It is violent, abusive or intimidating behaviour by a partner, carer or family member to control, dominate or cause fear. It doesn’t have to be physical abuse. It can be emotional, psychological, financial, sexual or other types of abuse.

It can affect anyone in the community, regardless of gender, sexual identity, race, age, culture, ethnicity, religion, disability, economic status or location

Alcohol they say bring out the real character of a person that’s why a lot of people sometimes are very abusive to their spouses whenever they are drunk.

Domestic violence is very rampant nowadays. People are suffering from this kind of violence. Domestic violence is a kind of violence that shows superiority and inferiority of the ones abusing and the ones who was abused respectively. This domestic violence leaves a traumatic mark in the life of the victim. It then causes psychosomatic and psychological problems and often leads to crime commitment due to the intensity of their worse experience. And as for the perpetrator, they must be given an appropriate punishment for the domestic violence to put into stop. I think thay the government must create law about this if there is still none and implement it effectively and with consistency.

A lof of factors or things can lead to domestic violence. Financial problems in the home, economic instability, having a violent partmer (I mean some people are naturally violent) and so many other factors. One other fascinating cause is the lack of unity in the house. That is very dangerous and can lead to serious violence

I think it's lack of respect for human life that causes domestic violence. Someone who knows that life is a gift that should be cherished will not really be engaged in domestic violence. If every one can learn how to respect another human being, I think that can curb the issue. Also, if u know that you are involved in this act, you can see a therapist or a Guidance counselor to help you on this.

Well we can prevent it by the respect i think , domestic violence are most common on some workers abroad or also known as the OFW , those people that been experience it , still justice is the best.

And this is some causes of domestic violence , feel free to look at though https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/domestic-violence/causes-of-domestic-violence-domestic-abuse .

Domestic violence is the kind of violence happened in between the couple, children, the older members, or other family members. Domestic violence can happen to anyone and can be influencing the physical conditions and psychological victims. The violence will use fear, guilt, a sense of shame to suppress or hurt you and even threatening you or people around you

Obviously it occurs when there are dissatisfaction toward one's feelings. Addition for harmful drugs and alcohol, imbalance hormones, abnormally of one family member can lead to violence. Respect, self discipline, and iron hands of the government must be done in order to prevent the massive numbers of violence.

Domestic violence is caused by a psychological issue. Problems(especially financial factors) that make them go crazy and causes them to harm they very own love ones. The easiest way to prevent it to leave them, if you still stick with them after getting hurt many times then you're a martyr.

There are many factors that causes domestic violence. That person is suffering from traumatic experience he has experience in his childhood life. He should undergo treatment and psychological help. He needs help,  support and acceptance. He need to overcome his past and forgive the person who did it to him.

triggers of domestic violence in addition to the habits of the person, among others, lack of communication so as to trigger a fight that resulted in a fight, to prevent violence is mutually respect each other, maintain communication, not protracted in the problem, open and aware of the lack of each other and excess pair

Domestic violence; A social quagmire that the justice system of most countries are battling to with over the years.This social menace often starts from students who were bully back at school and were given the necessary attention.These people tend to carry this ill behavior into their relationships with people who they find vulnerable, hence this is directed towards their spouse who are at the receiving end of the violence.
 

Domestic violence happens because of many reasons. Sometimes lack of knowledge and and getting married in very youg ages. Sometimes heavy usage of drugs and metal situation also may be a reason. If people could have the mutual understanding we can minimize this to a considerable amount. And the both parties should be tolaratable in this situation.otherwise it causes the way for huge problems. Mainly females suffer a lot from this issue. Because still we can see most of the families which dominated by males. Not only mentally some people are physically suffering. Most of the fights are ended up in hospital or police stations. Domestic violence is one of the key reason for getting divorce. It avoids the happy family life. Serious fights between two parties causes severe damages. Here I mainly focused on fights between husband and wife.but there are other mods of domestic violence too. May be parents to children or grandparents. To maintain the happiness of family life we should avoid this violence in family. It will help for the socio cultural development of the society.

Domestic violence is caused by selfishness in thinking and dissenting opinion but the financial factor becomes the main thing in the cause of domestic violence and often occurs in the life of the household is, wife earnings bigger than husband earnings. Usually a small problem becomes a big issue,

The way to overcome it may be from the husband must be well aware who should sustain the family's economic needs. Must keep working even if wife income far greater than husband's income. And an wife should not boast. Showcase her great income to bring down her husband.

In Domestic violence women tend to experience more severe forms of violence. Violence against women is a crime, domestic abuse can be broken if women know how to empower themselves.

the whole mechanism of the occurrence of domestic violence has long been analyzed in many countries, and effective methods of counteracting it have been developed. At us such measures are registered already not in the first project of the law on protection from domestic violence. Now the next bill is under consideration by the State Duma.

Domestic violence can be caused by the following factors: Misunderstanding between couples, one partner wanting to usurp the authority of the other. It can also be caused by heated arguments which then results to use of physical fist. Lack of love and feeling of pity for the pains of others. Tolerating each others weaknesses  is necessary to curbing it.
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A husband doesn't "help" his wife with the housework... 😳 🏡
is it " Domestic Violence?"

Domestic violence for me is caused by mirage of reasons. Its caused by negative thoughts from violent videos, movies or online. Its also ignited by stress and frustration from work, ambition or even choice of partner who  the person realised he/she dosent truly love. To control it, one has to be prayerful, tolerant, patient, seek counsel and accommodate each others flaws while curtailing your anger.

Studies suggest that violent behavior often is caused by an interaction of situational and individual factors. That means that abusers learn violent behavior from their family, people in their community and other cultural influences as they grow up. They may have seen violence often or they may have been victims themselves. Some abusers acknowledge growing up having been abused as a child.
Besides, alcohol and drugs may contribute to domestic violence. A drunk or high person will be less likely to control his or her violent impulses toward their partner, so keeping such drinking or drug use episodes to a minimum may be valuable for a person living in a domestic violence situation.

In our country, I see domestic violence as an issue to talked about. Domestic violence is not physical violence alone. Domestic violence is any behavior the purpose of which is to gain power and control over a spouse, partner, girl/boyfriend or intimate family member. Any form of violence never made any good effect on someone. Here, domestic violence against children often seen as a form of discipline for a child. However, that's not only make them disciplined but they might carry the behavior and do it with their own child in the future. This should be stopped as it doesn't makes any positive effect on anybody.

this is a very serious issue we are facing in our world...domestic violence has been coming about due to poverty, hardship and selfish interest  in the in our world....

Domestic violence has become a common phenomenon. Many people have big problems in their families. People often do a lot of bad things in the family. One example of the cause is Lack of Mutual Respect, Inner Needs Fulfilled With Not Perfect. And to overcome if I think it is trust each other, And always be grateful what has been in love by god.

i think it's bad.

I think it's lack of respect for human life that causes domestic violence. Someone who knows that life is a gift that should be cherished will not really be engaged in domestic violence. If every one can learn how to respect another human being, I think that can curb the issue. Also, if u know that you are involved in this act, you can see a therapist or a Guidance counselor to help you on this.

I think that economics and differences of opinion are things that trigger the dispute. The most important thing to stop it all is to talk to your partner with tenderness

Many factors that cause domestic violence, including the first factor, are economic factors, usually violence occurs because couples feel depressed and stressed because they cannot meet the life needs of their partners

This issue is so serious that I cant tolerate with it

I think miscommunication is the main factor of this issue.

I think that domestic violence is associated with a person’s uncertainty or some kind of psychological trauma in the past.