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Now a days many people that disguised as a friend all of them are fakes, when you needed them , theyre like a bubble that suddenly gone you know what i mean? , i know that we all have experience something like this , or a fake friends.

My experience is when you do everything just to help that person and in the end there is no return, well i dont wish to have any return but, when you actually need a favor or a return theyre gone. Just like a bubble floating in the air that suddenly pop up *pop* they're gone without a sigle thought.

Share your experience i would like to hear , i know that we all have an experience to this, dont be shy to share it.

id rather choose to have few friends but real friends rather than many friends but they talk bad at your back.fake friends are everywhere so choose to friends that you can trust,i have few friends but I know they are real

Nowadays iylts really hard to know whos your real friend and fake friends.in your front they good to you but at your back they talk bad things about you.choose only friends that will be there for you in any situation  not the friends that only cloae to you when youre in up.

Fake friends are everywhere. Sometimes it also hard to distinguish who are fake and true friends.  Because most of the fake one are those who are good actors/actress. You will not know their true colors unless the situation revealed it to you.

So if you find true friends then treasure them.  At this time,  it's really hard to find true friends.. 

True friends are hard to find. It is better to have only few friends than so many friends but they are just fake friends. Real friends are there not just in the good times, but also in the hard times. Real friends are there whenever you need them. Even if you dont keep in touch often, they are still there no matter what.

I guess when we are younger we surround ourselves with people thinking that is they agree to stay with you and treat them kind enough then you will be their friend. As we go on our circle grows and grows. As we grow older experience teaches us to let go of negative people and actually value people for who they are not by their willingness to stay. From there we become wary and trust little of people around us whoch is good. Being burned ny a friend hurts but surviving it makes you stronger and wiser.

According to me, People should have  a few true friends than having a lot of fake friends . Fake friends are poisoning your life and make your life worser and worser. I strictly recommend people to get rid of fake friend around them immediately.

I cant let go though i think that im the bad person , but the way you said as we get older we learned , well thank you though. Anyway i want to make some friends online who can actually help me on understanding. And i want to add that the last sentance that you said it hits me a lot though, its true not because they dump you well it hurts but take it as a lesson will surely motivates you. Thank you though, appreciate every comments and reply here.

Actually there are no fake friends. Remember that there are many kinds of people with different kind of character some are nice and some are disgusting. But we are categorizing people and called people who seemed not good to us fake friends or traitor. But the question is that are we also a friend, a good friend to that individual or we are a discriminating one. If we are a good friend even if that person commits a huge mistake we must still be good to that person as a friend. The reason there are fake friends is because we are also fake to them.

Oh yeah fake friends scattered everywhere so must be careful to trust. it doesnt mean she or he is your friend then you are open everything to them,No,you have to choose who is really true friend  not to fake friend.Some fake friend is they like to talk behind your back,but when you are chatting with them it seems that they are your true friend but its not.

In our entire existence, we really could face different circumstances that might affect our belief as well as our trust for people. We usually call it crab mentality that even how many good things we do to make our friendship stronger and no matter how many good deeds that we contribute to others, we still end up being abused.

You know who is a real friend when they offer you help without asking you! I experienced it a lot in my life. Everytime I needed something only a handfull of friends helped me.
At that moment you realize who the real friends are.

The lesson is never discuss your secret with a friend what can cause you embarrassment in the public and be happy with yourself, have confidence in yourself, i want to believe friends who gossip have low self esteem. they can't stand once personality hence they tarnish your image to pull you down just to let you know you have flaws or out of envy. i have learnt my lessons, at a stage i avoided them because i couldn't trust or stand them. i have made up my mind anybody that can't add value to mylife should get lost.

It's sad to know that these people really exist in our life. These people are also great pretenders and they act like they are really your friend but it turns out they are just faking it. The saddest part, some of them are really the ones you are closest to or always hanging out with. But I guess in my case, I would as much as possible remove these kind of people in my life, they are very toxic and just sucking out details about you that they would use as their leverage to speak behind your back, talk about your life like you haven't done any good thing to them. These people are ungrateful and they shouldn't be in your life anymore. That's what I did, I cut ties with those kind of people. In the end, you don't deserve "friends" like them.

Fake friends are just around. Sometimes, the people that are too close to us are just fake. What we need to do to get rid of this kind of people is to get to know the person well before trusting them. There are people around us who pretend to be the best people for our lives so we better be observant in dealing with them.

I for one had alot of friend as i was growing up. My criteria for a friend was simple then. If i talk to them then they're my friends and I'm a very talkative person. Later in life my criteria for friends become more complicated and my previous friends gets fewer and fewer as the years go by. Now  there are friends with different circles. The closer you are the more i trust you. This trust was tested and tested again so that i wouldn't be burnes again like before.

If we have a new friends, we need to know why he wants to be friends with us. Is he really sincere? Or just a fake friend? A sincere friend will remind and admonish us directly in front of us, while a fake friend of duplicity. I prefer to have few friends but sincere, than many friends but fake. And thankfully, my friend is sincere to me. And those who are two-faced, I don't consider them as friends.

We cannot aware from that have many friends but some of them are fake friends, They are good at your front but when you back it up they telling you something bad. Even if we have a close friends also they doing to you also, we have a good friends but a friends of your childhood i think.

Fake friends exist depending on how we treat them. Being  friends should be sincere and happy. Friendship should be made by people who cares with each other. Some friends were fake because they have a motif

As funny as it might sound you need to have both "fake" and good friends. How to see who is who, only time can tell.

Don't forget also a fact that people change. This is not made up thing, every atom in our body changes in about span of 3-5 years so do we.

An honest enemy is better than a false friend. When in doubt, pay more attention to what people do and less to what they say. Actions not only speak louder than words, they are more difficult to fake.

I liked that analogy.

To add to that (in my opinion) - In the end, all acquaintances in life are temporary. Relationships will always be fleeting in nature, because we are born alone and will eventually die alone. So when relationships end, see it as what it naturally was - Inevitable.
Some may say this is a bleak outlook, to value every relationship in life to its ending... but it isn't - at least to me because from those endings are new beginnings. The only concept that will never change in the universe is change itself.

I dont know if I should call her fake friend or a traitor or a snake. I treat her not just a bestfriend but a sister but one day I find out that she and my boyfriend are having an affair. Everytime i remembered i still felt the pain.

Sometimes it's good thing to have fake people in this world.
It helps you find out who your real friends are.

we live a life that can not be separated from the problems we face, at times like that, we need friends to share and tell stories and help us when we worm off, but generally they go away and as if do not know and ignore us, but that's when I need it, lots of fake friends and pretending to be close at the time we are happy and happy, but only a few are there when we really need them, that's a bit of my experience about fake friends who pretend good with us

Well to be honest its sad , we have the same story though , its hard right? , sometimes you cry in the night thinking why they stabbing you , why they talking s*** behind your back , sometimes you cant swear them though, for me they abused me , not because im kind . But i feel you though , and remember there are tons of people around you that will help and show you the true meaning of friend.  And now i have true friends and im cherishing them, i hope you too.

False friends will not be concerned about the problems that beset You. They just want You to hear him. Ever feel like You have a lot of friends but You don't feel they really exist? Several times You told me about Your difficulties, they don't respond like a friend. As a result, You still feel lonely even though they always label themselves as Your friends. When sharing stories, giving suggestions or solutions are not primary.

most people actually pretend to be what they are not. my personal experience was horrible. i always think that people can have a little sense of dignity and respect for others. but unfortunately the reverse has always been the case

If you're not sure, test them.
Otherwise just open your eyes and look at how they treat other people, especially the ones they can't get anything from.
And listen to your deeper gut feeling about people, it is highly accurate.

Yes indeed. True friends are rare. All of us need a true friends just because everyone of us needs true happiness to remember to someone special. A true friend is always by your side, in good times or in bad times. They will always help you in times of failures and being depress. Treasure your friends so they will treasure you as well.

i was recently engage in a situation wherein a friend is just taking advantage from all the benefits she can get,  and in return,  i finally got fed up and blurted out all the benefits she was used to or was expecting from me all of a sudden due to anger... after that  it turns out i was the bad guy,  wherein fact during the time that she was enjoying all the benefits and considerations she's rcieving she doesn't even think of the hassle and inconvenience she's putting me to,  and when i needed her i can nvr turn to her at all,  she's got all these reasons and so fort... now i burnt that bridge and dont want to have any connections with her at all since i know for a fact in the first place she never considered me as a friend but someone that she can take advantage of... its not that im expecting something in return as well,  its just that you'll get to a point where you will see and realize if a person is a friend or just using you as a friend

Everyone has fake friends, i guess, there are bunch of fake friends out there and maybe the one closest to you is the real fake friends of yours. They are just there whenever they think they'll benefit from you (money, foods, or just because your intelligent or beautiful) this fake friends of yours will just leave you behind and be gone in just a blink of an eye without a single word and act just like they don't know you after getting what they wanted. This is the reason why it is much better to have few friends but the reals ones than having lot of friends but "fake friends". Even the one you considered as your "best friend" is your "best fake friend", you should be careful of choosing your friend cause who might know that the one you care the most is the one who "hates" you the most.

Yes all of us has a fake friends, they are your friends if they need something but if they didnt need you, they dont know you! Snake friends are also there beside you, you dont know that they are stabbing you at your back, talking at your back with other person, saying your negative attitude. I dont get it why they are like that, maybe there are getting some attention to other people so that they are good to other.

Some friend usually remember you when they needed things like money or any other things but that's what make you're friends, helping each other when in times of need, so when you need some help too try to ask them especially when it is the same, if he helps you big or little that's a real friend, but if he give you reasons then you know what are they.

Yeah i know what you mean. I have friends like you have. Theyre always asked about borrowing money on you. But theyre not gonna pay you. Of course youre gonna be shy to asked about the money. I want to wait until theyre gonna pay me. Then you already know what kind a friendship you have.

It is hard to get rid of fake friends specially if were trying to be nice towards the people around us. There are really people who are pretencious and hiding their true identity no matter how good we are towards them. What we need to do about that is just to choose the people we trust and always have the courage to know people better.

So sad but to have true friends can makes your life happy.you have shoulder to cry on someone that you can tell about your problems.not all people are the same i know you can find also someone that you  can give trust.

I have some bad experienced with my friends also. Some of my friend just know me if they need something from me. But if they don't need anything they are gone. Real friends are hard to find. They are like treasures. So if we find them we need to takecare of them so they will take care of us too.

I hate those people who will only be your friend when they are in need. Yes you are right, they are called fake friends. People who will just take advantage of you whenever they needed something or they have a favor to ask. Most of the time I will help them because that who I am but I hate the feeling when they just disappear once they achieved their gold. I am not asking for anything in return but at least be there and talk like were real friends.

I think it is really difficult to find true friends nowadays. Most people try to be close to someone who they think will give benefit to them. Most people choose to be friend with someone where they can get an advantage. The best thing to do is just to be friends with anyone but never trust everyone.

I don't know what real friendship is and I don't know if I ever was a good friend. When I was young, I used to get used to one person and do everyhting for her/him, and I was very jealous when she/he spent time in another company. Then I changed many communities like in the university, at work and so on and it's more difficult to built a strong friendship. For now, I believe that we can only count on ourselves and don't expect that others will help us... In the same time we should ask for help when we need it. Sometimes people may turn out not so bad  :)

Well now a days its been so much tough though to have or to find a true friend. But i have some friends that been true to me to help and to support me , amd someday you will encounter that , some day there is a friend who can help you and motivate you in many ways. God too will help you and , to be honest if i have some problem God is our number one best friend.

There are lots of them out there they would only know you when they need something from you and would forget you when they don't need you anymore,
There are some who would just comfort you because they know that they could get something from you ,
Some people would only know you when you have money and they could use you but when you are a nobody they wouldn't stick around or hang out with you.
So for me I think you shouldn't trust anyone so easily .

Always choose whom you should trust. It's a sad fact that some people nowadays are pretencious and some of them are hiding their true personality. I believe that it is better if you will get to know the person well before giving your full trust. Also, you should limit sharing personal matters about your life.

Sadly I have experienced this once. Don't feel comfortable sharing the full story, but in the end I just phased him out of my life. I have no time for people who think the world revolves around them.

Fake friends might have a lot of negative effects in our lives. We must learn how to get rid of them. I think knowing the person well would be a helpful way to avoid unnecessary people in our lives. We must know the people that we deal with very well before trusting them because some of them aren't real.

my experience.

I once felt what you felt, when we were happy or when we won them there, but they were not there when we got off. Friends like that I have left.

now the friends I'm with are there when I win or slump.

You need to be more careful to make friends, try to better recognize your friend's personality.

Well my experience is kinda same like yours , and i think all of us has been experience like this when you need them no one will save you but when they need you , you know what i mean? , we cant erase them all of the sudden , its part of living that we would positively encounter some fake friends, even there is fake there is true dont forget that there are some who is willing to help and support , i know its hard to find them but if you have it cherish it.

True friends are always there for you. Fake friends only appear when they need something from you. Time passes and you begin to see people for who they really are and not who they pretend to be. Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule. But love people who never look at their schedule when you need them. Life is much too short to waste time on people who don’t really care for us deep down.

I guess that fake friends only appear or usually appear around rich people. They praised you when you were rich, take you for granted, enjoyed every little thing you had for their own good, but when you were down you got no one who helped you out. They just dissapeared. Real friends are hard to get. So be grateful for what you've got, cherished your friendship, always be there for them. Because the older we are, the harder we get real friends that stick with us no matter what.

I had a friend with whom I was friends for 3 years, I thought that his best friend. Often helped him and helped out in different situations. But when I ask him to help me, he always pretends to be busy. Once I asked him to come with me (no matter where) he said that he could not because he felt bad. When I went I met him with another company. Since then I have not been friends

Appreciate the comments and reply guys , and thank you for keeping the thread alive.


For rmoto thank you for sharing and btw , i feel you dude i often do his homeworks so that he cant be fail , but same as yours when i need him/her , he/she just gone like a bubble in the air that suddenly pop up , i was so angry that time , that i cant forget what my friend do to me , wait let me revise that a fake friend rather.

there's this friend that i truly cared about.. but then somehow she betrayed me just bcos someone said bad things about her and claiming that it was my words. she should've believed me tho. she started spilling personal things that i only tell her about and i pretended that i didnt hear about all those but in the end, she kept telling everything to that sneaky someone. she's so fake i can't ever trust her again.

Though the world is truly cruel, you need some people who will help you and watch the things you are doing the reason you need some friends. Yes, you can take them all in yourself but in the end you will be looking at yourself alone and that will be really sad.

Observing your friends is a thing that must be done in order to know whether they will lead you to a wrong path. You must know what they like, you must know them so you can know whether they needed to be cautious with or to be stick with.

OP is to idealistic. That's normal in life, everything and every one come and go, and probably you are expecting something from them because you've done good to them.

In my experience, I don't have too many friends, no close friends except my brothers. It makes my life simple, no more spending too much because of peer pressure, no more late night gigs, no more drinking too much and best of all, no headache.

As we grow up, we should think about our stability and stop being dependent to anyone who could help us (friends and siblings). Trust me, it makes my life easier that way than having too many friends.

All my friends are fake, yes I know that. I had better quality friendships, but there were some problems. I have good relations with my neighbors and relatives, but I always have distant relationships with my friends. If you want to make real friendships, give them time.

You have to also disguise yourself as if you are finished to see how your
friends would react.A friend in need is a friend in deed.You choose your
friends by the strength of their character and not based on sentiments.
Once the chips are down, the pretenders shall abandon you completely and
go their separate ways.But a good friend shall stay and bear with you in trying
times or even help you out of the ugly situation.There are more fake friends everywhere.

At college I had some friends. We were always together and ate together. He was unable economically, but we always understood him. Every time we ate, we often treated him, even when he wanted to borrow our motor that was filled gasoline full of motorcycles. One day we were disappointed that he chose his new friend. Just because of the better facilities offered by his new friend he changed friends. When we needed his help, there was always a reason to avoid it. We were disappointed, it turned out he just took advantage of us.

Time will show...
For example, the story from my colleague: she had fine (around 55$) because of her friend. And this friend said, "now, it's not because of me, it's your mistake!" and disappeard

Yea, it's true. Fake friends are more dangerous than enemy. I had many bad experiences like this. I have done so many things for my friends and become culprit to my close ones instead of these i didn't say a single word to my friends but now I've no value in their eyes.

I the past i had a friend and i thought that he is my bestfriend. We were like brothers. But all were change when my girlfriend tell me that my bestfriend tell her that he likes her. If he is my true friend he will not do such thing that will ruin our friendshipml.

I once had some fake friends, they were friends who were just friends based on their interests only.
A fake friend will only accompany us when they feel they need our help, need our energy and will stay away when there is no value of their interest to us.
In the end I decided to stay away from my fake friend, I just made friends with some real friends who can be honest and can accept my self as it is, and I am very grateful that up to this day I have some very good and wise real friends.

in my experience there are a lot of fiends who are really fakes.they are very nice if they are in front of you but in your back they are bad.but i found a real friends those people who wants to help you even with out pay in return.

I have faced people with fake personalities for a lot of times. There are the ones who cheer with you and celebrate with you but they are also the ones who will laugh at your mistakes and will bring you down even more during your down fall. They are just pretending to be nice in front of you

Blame not for we are all have our imperfections in life. There are people in the world that the problem is inside their own. They have self battle in the mind that even themselves they couldn't fathom. Personality problem is in everyone how much old we are we have that kind of issue for there are no perfect in the world. I think those friends who are real are the matured enough than those who do not. Mature person can accept the whole imperfection that their friends have. That is my opinion.

Most all friends are fake.  The only friends I have are family, and they are real friends.  I only had one true friend many, many years ago, but time, marriage, children and distant ended that.  I will be a good neighbor but I am not your friend. 

There are lot of it out there specially if you are popular or rich,
They would get close to you to be popular to they are only going to use you then once they get what they want they would forget you.

Such person is like a garbage which you can find everywhere, you can find it in a work place,  school, market, in any kind of organization, or even in different religious sect. For me it is OK what is not easy to accept when that person is already has a place in your heart and you have a high expectation that in bad things he/she is there to share with you not just for good moment but he/she isn't there.

Well,  that's life, better to know more a person before expecting greatness act from him/her to avoid any negative results.

Franky i think I'm one of those fake friends. the kin of friend that will walk up to you and actually talk to you if I could something out of you. Could be money because you're filthy rich. Power because you're my boss. Of course sex if you're hot, and willing (or just willing). What i do hate the most is getting found out, so i would be like doing you favors left and right if it's convenient. But i will definitely make it sound like it wasn't you you'll owe me. Dropping some serious BS about my life to make you think that you know me.

Don't get me wrong but if you help other people you should never expect any in return. It's not genuine when you help people expecting that they'll be returning it to you in the future. Would you only help other people if you know you'll be receiving favors back?

What I mean is you shouldn't measure your friendship because of favors. Give what you can, then steal what you want. If he forgives you, he's a true friend (not applicable if you meant to steal his girlfriend).  ;D

There are many people these who fake friendship these days.    

If you have a lot of money then you can get a lot of fake friends. All of them would run away when you don't have money.

Don't trust anyone! because fake friends can hard to distinguish,but if you have a real friends its just like a treasure due to finding the true friends are just difficult at the same time ,therefore fake friends and true friends are just different according to their action and belief,mostly fake friends are crabmentality that can pull you down as go lucky,,while real friends are just able to support you from positive output plan in your life

Those are called friends on social media platforms like facebook and twitter.
Mostly called followers but have never met them face to face in real life.
The public is finally becoming aware of this from the Zuckerburg testimonial and Trump's fake news revelations in the news(public focal point) right now.

There are people who are born to fake and if you are friends with them then beware.

Just like we have true friends in friendship also have fake friends, we sometimes think of real friends but they are not real friends. They can do everything for their own interests ,without loss from fake friends,nothing is expected. so fake friends sugar Must stay away from as far as possible.

Friends are each others helpers. It is incredibly difficult to know who your real or true friend is and who your fake friend is, but you can determine that one day when you study your friends or when you are in trouble or in need of him one day in your life. it is better to have one true friend than to have many fake friends.

No, I only know about real friends. I am very choosy when it comes to friends.