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How many of you here are quite smart and great at many aspects of your life, but have difficulty talking to and meeting with women?

I'm just curious how many guys here are quite successful with crypto investing, but terrible with women. How are you planning to solve this situation for yourself?

they have difficulties talking to me haha

What do you mean? :) I'm curious!

I think who is successful with crypto investing but terrible with women is a smart person. They follow the correct "flirting strategy". If they are not good at talking with girls, they have to be rich so that girl will come to them.  ;D ;D ;D ;D

No ,talking to lady is very simple but strategic sometime. Is easy to make friend with lady

Not at all I am very comfortable doing that and it's not difficult dude

Yes, I am also a very generic person in talking to the public, but somehow if I speak directly to women my age, I always feel nervous, face red and feel a little itchy. I try to fight the problem by eliminating my negative habits like watching porn and masturbation.

I don't have any difficulty since I always make sure the girl I'm talking to s comfortable with my presence like if she shows signs that she doesn't like me, I'll back off. It's also a plus that I'm not really a straightforward type of speaker because some women don't like it when the person is too aggressive or too eager to talk to them. Just be casual and try not to talk about things that make them uncomfortable.

I feel the same when communicating with women or men

yes indeed, I if in front of women if want to talk I still hesitate to start a conversation with women.

Most time I do and most times I don't, it depends on my mood and approach

It depends on the situation. But most of the time I dont.

Sometimes

I was afraid and nervous when I met a woman, but over time I have become accustomed to meeting women because I have run the following tips:
1. Do not feel ashamed of your shortcomings.
you do not have to feel embarrassed if you meet women, because you need to know that the woman you meet also must have shortcomings, but they are not ashamed. So basically you do not be embarrassed because who have the shortcomings not just you.
2. Exercise by talking to the closest person.
If you have a sister then you need to practice talking to her, you have to practice to look into her eyes and practice the others. Once you get used to it, you can test directly to talk to other women.
3. Maximize your strengths.
If you are talking to a woman, try to take advantage of the advantages you have, for example if you are good at singing, then sing your song to the woman.

There are some great replies here, thank you guys. I was just gauging what's the situation here on this topic. Please feel free to direct message me if you feel like you have a serious problem with the topic and need help. Cheers! :)

when you're done with this kind of work especially on a personal computer you feel like it's hard to communicate with other people because you're always alone and sometimes just focus on the time and time you're in your personal computer is so difficult for me to adapt especially to women. So my solution to this is to limit everything that is used first and to socialize with others

I have no trouble talking to girls but I find it difficult to talk to the girl I like 😊

i have no difficulty talking to a girl, im a person thats into girls alot and i mostly talk to girls always

I think most guys have difficulty talking to girls. Getting rejection is a high stress and uncomfortable situation, so unless one is not self aware they will have difficulty.

Yes,  I have difficulty talking to girls, and what can I do and how to go with it to become bold,  I mean to the girl I like

I am confident in communicating with others. I am most confident when talking to girls. I'm fast, have a good sense of humor. I understand the psychology of the girls and know what to do to make them happy. So they enjoyed talking to me. I have no disadvantage in talking to them

When I talk to girls I tremble. I do not have enough brains to say more. I do not dare to confess to any girl so far I am 30 years old still have no wife.

welp i dont have difficulties while talking to any girls but i do sometimes.

Why challenge so that we speak like two civilized people

Yes ofcourse some guys really need to overcome their self from getting nervous or timid while talking to women. It's self thought and i'm sure most men can do it it just need time.

I have a wonderful wife. to me that's all

Yes. Because i am shytype person

Yeah, like I really need a big help in this situation, I dont know what to say or what to do to be honest. I cant man up when I'm talking to them in personal. All I can do is chat. Lol

I have difficulty in talking to a lady I like,  but no difficulty in talk to ladies anyway,  but to those that I like I don't have the boldness

It gets easier the older you get but unfortunately then you are older and less attractive.  :D

Yes if that girl so beatifull

No not for me. I know how to start a conversation with a woman. In a polite gentle manner way

No I am not. I am a very confident dube.

I don't have a problem when it comes to talking to girls. If I see her frequently, I'll soon build up some conversation and friendship. My only problem would probably being friendzoned for I am too friendly. I don't care about that anymore because I have already a girlfriend and talking to girls would might be an issue for I am committed to my significant other.

all of course depends on the girl and her interests, it's sometimes difficult to maintain a conversation, but there are no special problems) Well, if you can not talk, why talk with her?)

i have a big problem with talking to girls

the problem is i don't know how to

lol maybe that's the reason i cant get a girlfriend

god please help me

No, I don't. In fact it's nice to talk to them sometimes.

Sometimes yes 😢

yes

God knows what power does a girl has in her. When i look at any girl it just sents a shiver up my spines. Its just terrible feeling

Was shy so every time on the phone would actually go out or talk softer like the house was haunted.

However playboy a man be, when comes to the matter of real women for whom his heart beats, he is sure to fall nervous

here i am. I am aggressive and manly in all respects in my life but still is not handling chats with girls

How can i talk and handle other girls when i am unable to win over my sister and mother only LOL

Maybe a little bit nervous

I am a girl I don't know why guys feel shy or uncomfortable to talk to us.

no, because I am easy to make friends with women sometimes have annoying comments

Nope I don't have any diffulty talking to any girl. I am a friendly and funny person and girls like me for that.

really gan let alone when I was a bachelor. it's like to talk, chatting with them calmly. but that often happens the body is like shaking. Mouth was muffled. but after I got married. already used to talking to them .

it is true. I always tremble and hard to talk to women especially women beautiful. I ask a solution how can I not be nervous and hard to talk to women ??

I think it's not hard to talking to a girl. Always keep the courtesy and respect for them, the possibility that she will be impressed with you. In particular I think you should not talk too much about yourself, talk about your salary and your possessions. That's annoying for a girl. Why do I know that? Because I am also a girl - And that is the common psychology of girls.

To be honest yes I do have some time talking to them .

no, I'm with my ordinary girl, because I've always been used to talking or hanging out with girls.

Truly speaking girls are the weirdest character in nature. You cant open their complex mind however clever you are !!

I like talking to women. I find women always happy and sociable. I love woman.

I am also a shame when I meet women. But now I'm trying to make sure I'm not ashamed of women anymore, I'm trying to cover up the deficiencies that are in me like big belly, curly hair, and I'm developing my talent in sports. If the shortcomings within me are minimized, then I am sure if I meet a woman, I will be more confident again.

It depends on the situation.

I do not know what the best way to talk to a girl is; I think that in the world many right people talk to girls when they learn specific knowledge about life instinct.

Used to have some kind of problems with that like 3 years ago, but now its gone

I think I do have a difficult situation when I want to talk to a woman. Because I am one of those introverts.

nope, not difficult I have a lovely Girlfriend so it is not difficult to talk to other girls

Nothing is difficult there you feel free and talk to the girl like your talking to a fellow men like you

If you want to get indulged with girls too much then you will either get mad or fall for the girl. So maintain a safe distance from them.

No, just flow along the stream

Haha there's no planning to overcome women, they are too complex LOL

Same to me. I find it hard because I canot guess what's she thinking.

Yes , so i am lacks self- confidence.

Yeah I have it most of the time even though I am a girl. Because girls and I have no hobbies in common. :) they care about fashion, stars, music, films but I don't.

Most of the time, i feel shy approaching ladies of my age mate but i am overcoming such shyness

Yes i have. I don't know what i should talk. Seem like a nude

Yeah really there are people who are very hard to start a conversation with a girl, and there are those who even begin to talk to them begin to feel terribly nervous and carry delirium!

When I was younger I used to have such problem ;D But nowdays there’s no such problem,if you’re not totally silly and shy,have a sense of humor you will easily come to understanding with her.

I have no difficulty whatsoever in talking to girls.

Yes. When talking to my daughter often shy, not confident, I do not know where to start.

yes, but only when i'm going to talk for the first time.

Not really but some girls are hostile and they do not open up up for conversation.

No, talking to girls has always been fun to me because i only need to be friendly, calm, innocent looking with a bright face, then my appearance alone will attract their attention and the flow of communication between me and them will be endless.

For me it depends on who the girl am i talking to.. if that girl is my relative then i dont have difficulties in talking to them but when it comes to the girls that i dont know or stranger i feel ashame in talking to them...

Yes a bit in starting , but once i had made conversation with them once , i am all comfortable :)

only if she is very much beautiful.

Not at all. I don't have any difficulty talking to lady's
Am comfortable talking to them and they are always impressed

Saya pikir semua insan itu sama bila kita bicara...

Honestly Im not yet successful at cryptoCurrency but, Im at the average when taking the initiative to talk to girls right now at my age, when I was younger I get really shy and cant even talk Right in front of them specially when their my Crush. I got the right amount of money back then to buy them stuff but once we're at it, it just stops. Through time, with everyday interacting with different kinds of people, I learned how to be Good at it.

Well, let's deal with the first question: Why can't you talk to girls? Probably because you're putting way too much pressure on yourself now that dating is on the menu. When you were a kid, you probably talked to a bunch of girls with no problem. Why? Because there wasn't pressure and you were comfortable being yourself.

a little bit. being drunk helps!!

It is not hard for me as I really want an honest and fun conversation with girls. With this I decided that to whoever I talk to whether I like the girl romantically or not I always see to it that I am honest, if she would not like me as I am I accept that with all due respect and if she do likes me and how I talk to her then I know we would get along fine. It is important for someone to be honest because hiding and pretending to be always best foot forward will never be consistent, there will be times you will mess up but what is important is if she accepts your flaws and still likes you then that is a good thing. So just be honest, be yourself and respect her.

The first thing you should do is we have to build confidence and start talks with something light with talk about your activities every day.

I believe initiation is the key to confidence. Start with the basic of talk, ask for something, and SMILE! Very important!

Not at all because I have so many girl friends

no, but I have difficulty in starting conversation with girls

No difficulties in case she is open-minded and educated

I was slightly scared when talking to beautiful daughter.

Yes, but not all the time, I do play with most of the girls I like but find it difficult to talk to those who I love

no im not.

No I don’t think I have any difficulty

It's easier when you keep trying. Everything is hard when done for the first time, but when you practice, you gain selfconfidence and it makes everything easier.

Yes, a lot of times.....

Yes I have trouble talking to girls because I don't feel confident with my appearance.

I not only had difficulty communicating with the girls but also with the men. I am a very introverted person. Until now I don't want to change, I am very comfortable in the solitude and tranquility that I have been doing so far.

When I talk to women, I tend to be embarrassed because I am a more introverted boy. I rarely have words to communicate with girls!

It changed over the years. It was always hard when the sexual/romantic context was apparent.
It was usually better with just friends, girls seemed to like me, I was kind of a "good guy".

Got easier with time. Was extremely difficult until I was about 20, 30 now and better.

It was usually them approaching me, and my current girlfriend actually helped me a lot with being at ease with women (meaning, herself). Though I still rarely feel the urge to approach them with sexual or romantic interest (even in the mind's eye).

I meet no difficulty when talking with girls, i have six packs and handsome.

If you do not have enough confidence to talk to girls, I think you first need to suit up yourself, make your appearance comfortable with you. Then, think about the topics you want to discuss with. Last, expose yourself to other girls at all times

I rly dont have problem with this. I dont understand people who have problem with this.

I think I'm not so difficult to talk to a girl as long as I talk to her at the right time and have prepared a topic to discuss together so she doesn't get bored with me.

God knows what power does a girl has in her. When i look at any girl it just sents a shiver up my spines. Its just terrible feeling

It is strange that someone is generally shy, first of all I speak with a person, the rest is details

 we cryptos used to stay at home learning new stuff and not having so much self confidence to talk to other people.
try going out find new friends and learn to interact 😉😁

ooopppss,i think i will raise my hand?lol i am one of this kind.

i am good in many things even in school when i was young but girl?there is a feeling inside me that afraid of them hahaha

i almost fell off the chair whenever my crush comes near me,and wanted to melt infront of her lol.

I am not quire successful with women but that's not because I am afraid to talk to them.
Usually I don't talk to them because I feel like they don't really want a random guy to talk to them and bother while they are having time with their friends.