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I am a loner, and rarely socialize, but I am actually uncomfortable with this situation, I am eager to be like someone else who is extrovert, but I find it hard to turn myself into extroverts.
Now what should I do?

Well. There is 2 choices.
1. You keep being an introvert and try to find the good things in that. I`m an introvert too and I find it easy to concentrate on work, for example. Thats why I`m being way more productive and don`t waste my time on little chats with someone. There is tons of benefits in this behavior. Just google them :)
2. You try to get away from your comfort zone and interact with the society. And by that I mean REALLY get away from it. You will need to force yourself to talk to people, to have some public speeches and other stuff. In the beginning it will feel like hell, but later on you will feel yourself way more comfortable.

Its up to you to change your life dude

If you have/make a hobby, you can socialize with it. Being in a band or doing a team exercise will provide you chances to communicate with others; since you and the peers have the same interest, it will be easier to talk. For example, I often talk and hang out with teammates from my BJJ gym. We mostly talk about BJJ, but in time we have become good friends who sincerely care about each other.

Hope you find good friends soon and enjoy the social life as you wish, mate.

It seems that now I am in a neutral position, I am uncomfortable to be in those 2 things. But sometimes I also feel comfortable in both of these things, just depending on my mood.

Find a group with common interests. Groups or events such as a book club, cooking courses or lectures on certain topics are great places to meet people. The participants of this event are good for the conversation and you at least have one common interest that can be discussed. More than this, it will give you the opportunity to start a real conversation, and not to talk about "about anything" that most introverts do not like.

I often play with my friends, I have 3 very intimate friends. I find it difficult to find other friends, I really want to be familiar with many people, but I do not know how.

Don't just focus to yourself. You have family or friends. Communicate with them. Many social media sites that you can join to feel others. If you really don't want to be alone. Keep it to yourself that YOU CAN! You can do what you should want to do. Don't keep in your mind that you are loner. THE MORE YOU IMAGINE, THERE'S A POSSIBILITY THAT IT WOULD HAPPEN. Think positive !

Initially I was an introvert, but I realized I could not continue living in solitude, I had to mingle ..

Can you briefly describe the process of changing yourself? I also want to change myself, but I do not want to change myself like others, but I want to change myself for the better.

Try to find friends who have the same interests

Life starts at the ending of your comfort zone.

If introvert is your personality, respect and dont suppress it.
If you are hiding behind the fact, then that is your comfort zone.

try to work in groups, dont for for people to initiate a conversation

Spend more time on the bitcointalk forum and make friends here. You won't need to meet them in person and you can be as intro or extroverted as you wish! The other option is to get drunk and go out, but don't over do it

I am introverted, but to be honest I am not comfortable with this introvert personality, I want to be extrovert but I am embarrassed with other people, because other people / friends I have a lot of experience in the outside world. My experience in the outside world is less than the experience of teenagers whose age is far below me.

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I am also an introvert, but the good thing is I have friends that are really true and they inspires me and support me in all of my decissions.

Introverts can be more communicative. Socialization is just a skill. You can develop it.

this is normal

I am an introvert but I've been working on my social skills with the help of some books which I can recommend. Now, I'm a whole lot confident when talking outside.

you need to change your mindset, change your introvert habits, and be brave to express something to other people.
Just keep calm, everything starts from zero

not all the people, who seem to be an extrovert actually really that type)

there is no need to become another type or pretend to be someone else))

If u feel comfortable and want to meet people u still can be the introvert)

Im an introvert too :) But I think the positive side of being introvert

Learn to get acquainted with others, approach people with extrovert personality and imitate how he socializes, how he friend and how he gets acquainted, imitate everything for a long time you will be able to.

Drink alcohol, use drugs? Or maybe better, just accept who you are.

Just be who you are is best, but I feel ya. I can't stand being around people but work and life require it. I only like my family. LOL

Do not need to turn into an extrovert. You need to learn how to benefit from the fact that you are an introvert

I'm also introverted and most times I find expression in writing which is why I was very active on twitter at some point. Being introverted isn't a bad thing as it can be put into productive use. A lot of mental work can be done in your solitude moments. If you so wish to change, try making friends with people who share the same interests with you, social more, get involved in group tasks

I think it is sometimes necessary to act more like an extrovert in this world, but what is wrong with being an introvert and why do we always think it needs to be changed. Maybe being an introvert is a good thing. Possibly we have associated it with bad things when in reality it is just a different way of doing things.

If you are introverted, you should share your feelings with your friends

As an introvert myself, I advise trying new things that'll make you comfortable around people or surround yourself with people who share the same interests as you. Sometimes if you share a common interest with someone, it'll help you in befriending them.

Me too. But it's ok. You are sincere. The world, kindless and healthy relationship depend on only us. So don't be upset. Try to be more open :)

sticking around positive communities like this and working on communication and opening up to others is very good and useful :)

I am introverted and I am grateful to be me.

I can be happy even if I am alone because I do like being alone.

I do not like crowded and noisy places. I feel tortured.

In my opinion the only way to turn an introvert into an extrovert depends entirely on the circle of friends. Surround yourself with the right people and you'll be alright.

Like already mentioned not all who look like extroverts are extroverted lol, I am one of those. I act extroverted when I need to be but there's nothing I enjoy more than being alone. I think stepping out of your comfort zone and working on your self confidence (if thats the reason why you're introverted) is the best start

I am 22 years old.

I was an introvert since I was a child.

I do not know if this is the descendants of my parent, or this is the result of the environment.

but being an introvert is not a problem. everyone has their own advantages. all we have to do is be grateful.

find an advantage of your situation and you will go forward

i am the same as you . its ok

Alot of people are introvert .myself am one. but its gotta come off at  a time.

You must change your thinking . go out a little and get along . you'll be fine.

introvercy isnt a bad thing .  

So what ? that doesnt stop you from making new friend if you wont let it . chill man

Introverts arnt any different . just give em an environment they will be along . they become best friends. and they are very dutifull.

i think its cool. who are introvert are to me very open minded and very friendly once you get to know em

ITs fine to be an introvert.

Look on the bright side . you didnt make bad friends and your not into the bad stuff thats out there.

your being to hard on yourself.

Its not   a big deal . be yourself and try to make friends.

Well me too. and im okay with it. i keep to my works and im fine with it.

I think it will be really hard for you to do that step so the first thing I would recommend you is to go to a psychologist, if you can afford one, or if your countries health system pays them for you. If not try reaching out to real persons, depending on your age it can be hard. You'll need to make a few friends if you work try socializing with your coworkers.

You really need to decide you want to walk out of the present state first,
then work it out by approaching people spontaneously and engaging them in talks.
before you know it; you'll be looking for your old attributes  :)

I'm an introvert too. I basically have problems communicating with the opposite sex. I'm not afraid of them. I do not have anything to talk to them about. I'm looking for identity to solve my problem.

You can use your time for many fruitful things instead of regretting that you cant get to socialize.

Lol, you want to kill off his little self esteem?
Drugs effect is momentarily and then leaves you worse than when you indulged in it.
Practice makes perfect.
Let him make efforts towards leaving that introvert shell; even if it means faking it.
Befor he knows what was happening; he'll be ok

Introverts are very good at imagination they can create their own dream world and stay there for hours.

Nothing wrong in being introvert, they are very creative and trustworthy people.

Yea and very hard to work with. Socialization helps everyone.

there's no point in being introverted...
You can change your personality from an introvert to an extrovert if you want, the problem is that you are just too comfortable and not ready to get out of your introverted zone. Studies have shown that introverts tend to be arrogant and feel special and don't deserve to be with other ordinary people.

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Its very easy to be like extrovert person. Hiding your true personality is the key of being extrovert. Im introvert person too but when i started to university i needed that changing and I give them a story which they had to know. After then i played that role now everything is good for me. I did that because they mustn't know true me. Until now every person in my life damaged me because i give them that permission. Now everyone play by my rule. If you want to be extrover put a mask on your face ( Not for covid :D )

Being lonely and introverted is not good Man is made to be in company to socialize my advice is to find yourself a hobby that you do with other people such as a team sport or dancing etc. and you will see that slowly you will begin to melt and interact with your fellow hobbyists even going to dinner with them once the game or the dance is over, even chatting could melt you slowly

Everyone of us have (know) someone who we feel comfortable with. Just be honest with you and with those people whoever they are: your mother, brother, classmate, neighbor, girlfriend or a guy that works at Starbucks. You have to surround yourself with people who you can be YOU with. Let them know what you feel towards them OPENLY. Stop thinking that you are that weird guy and everyone else are too cool to hang out with you.

I don't think being introvert is bad thing. We just need to accept who we are and try to live with it better. In my opinion there are many introverts out there. Everyone of us has a time where he likes to be among other people and a time where he likes to be alone. And I think as an introvert we value the time with real good friends much more. There is nothing wrong with being in a smaller group.

If you are not happy as an introvert then try to be an extrovert person.

Change the way you used to and do things that you're comfortable with. But dont force yourself to pretend as someone you're not, just be yourself and do what makes you happy.

Just look for friends on social media that have the same interest as you.

Once the pandemic ends, have plans of going outside and doing this that you both like. This will make you get out of being an introvert and will help you to start socializing with other people.

I'm an introvert too. Just ignore it, it's not an indication of what kind of person you are. Do the right thing, do what you like. And the right people will appear around themselves.

I dont think its a bad thing for you to be a introvert as you claim.  Some of the most famous geniuses are introverts such as Albert Einstein, Eleanor Roosevelt, and Mark Zuckerberg.