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Title: When you consider leaving a person... Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2011, 11:50:32 PM ...always communicate before hand. Tell them upfront what is bothering you and what desires are not being met. Not just for the sake that it might be fixable but in the name of improvement. At the least, give the person some knowledge and wisdom to go forward with.
You all will laugh but my previous love has just admitted that she distanced herself because of my political tendencies. If I had known that, I would of cut it out. I certainly didn't enjoy her and want to be with her to discuss such things. I thought she might of valued it but she certainly did not and never once did she communicate her displeasure fully. Communication is key, folks. Don't ever be afraid to be upfront and state what you desire because in a relationship you are one being essentially. A relationship should be a coalition in the name of achieving mutual satisfaction. Their desires are yours and your desires are theirs and neither one of you are mind readers. Such things have to be stated. Title: Re: When you consider leaving a person... Post by: Trader Steve on August 21, 2011, 11:58:12 PM +1
Title: Re: When you consider leaving a person... Post by: jackjack on August 22, 2011, 12:34:38 AM +1
Title: Re: When you consider leaving a person... Post by: NothinG on August 22, 2011, 03:07:38 AM +1
Words of wisdom. Title: Re: When you consider leaving a person... Post by: silverchair on August 25, 2011, 05:00:08 AM I like this one, cool :)
Title: Re: When you consider leaving a person... Post by: Danijel Habek on August 27, 2011, 12:34:15 PM +1
Words of wisdom. As much as I think of myself that I'm more of an introvert person, I've experienced for myself that keeping things that you should communicate to other party involved for yourself, hurts you more in the long run then coming up straight to the forehead, and get it right. So that ole movie line: "What we've got here is a failure to communicate." should always be somewhere in your mind even before it comes to that, and you can use that in many situations in life, business, or personal relationships. This is one of the things I have succesfuly changed in my behaviour a long time before, and it has brought only benefits to the quality of the relationships being involved. Title: Re: When you consider leaving a person... Post by: cbeast on August 27, 2011, 01:14:12 PM "Just slip out the back, Jack, make a new plan, Stan
Don't need to be coy, Roy, just listen to me Hop on the bus, Gus, don't need to discuss much Just drop off the key, Lee, and get yourself free" - Paul Simon |