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Title: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: lockes007 on May 21, 2018, 09:35:48 PM
Self-hate is a disease. It's a worse kind.
Blacks suffer the same disease. In theory,a black-man wants other black people to penetrate the white privileges and have a seat in the midst of white professionals. In practice, the black man wants to be the only Black-man in a setting of other races.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Sidiq SP on June 11, 2018, 03:04:30 PM
I think we have to understand that hatred is a bad thing, every religion teaches us to live in mutual respect, have love among fellow human beings, not even hate each other, by saving this it will cause various conflicts, even with hatred can make people kill each other, so let us get rid of hatred and create affection among others


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: change7 on June 12, 2018, 06:30:51 AM
Hatred is too bad that it should not be mention among us if possible, I agree with you that self hatred is a disease, people that hate their self feel inferior, they are not always happy with their self, this kind of attitude to self can lead to a lot of problems that may not have solution. Hating one self is too bad and it can lead to some act like suicide because a person that hate himself is not always happy  with him self or feel comfortable again, this can cause him to conclude that he is not good to live again.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: ETHenthusiast on June 12, 2018, 05:06:26 PM
I think we have to understand that hatred is a bad thing, every religion teaches us to live in mutual respect, have love among fellow human beings, not even hate each other, by saving this it will cause various conflicts, even with hatred can make people kill each other, so let us get rid of hatred and create affection among others

Any religion, plus common sense, plus history lessons.
In a broader sense, any hate (including self-hate) is a disease.
Though I may agree that self-hate is the worst of them all as it triggers hate to everyone around. And if G-d forbid the self-hater has any power over others they become tyrants (on small or big scale).


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: IndigoRed on June 12, 2018, 11:39:19 PM
I agree with on the fact that self-hate is a disease. It could be related to depression or self-loathing --when we are too critical of ourselves or constantly comparing ourselves with others. Different situations could make oneself feel inadequate too --ex. no job promotion or no career growth, friends and colleagues are more attractive or more fit and healthy, or simply, one may be drowning in debt.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: DOLONCHAPA on June 13, 2018, 12:33:35 AM
Medical science research has emerged through jealousy, contempt, and hatred in many ways, makes people strain, pulls up, builds stress. In a word, they make people a deadly person. Now we are sick of violence by seeing the happiness of others. So do not get peace if we do not throw others down. We get one kind of peace by harassing others. I want peace in my house by hanging in the house It's a kind of peace. Again, speaking lies, cheating, neglecting people by neglecting, robbing people's wealth and seeking peace.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: virtualvoice on June 13, 2018, 07:39:08 AM
Yea I think any group of marginalized or oppressed people have self hatred force fed into their psyche. You can see this a lot especially with women they are taught from a young age to be very self concious you have to be the skinniest prettiest coolest etc. etc. We have to become more confident in ourselves and the self hate will naturally go away :)


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: daunemas on June 13, 2018, 08:10:27 AM
Hate is a very bad thing. If there is hatred of heart then no goodness will be seen, which is seen only anger. Every religion forbids us to hate each other. Hatred is the source of heart disease such as revenge, jealousy and envy. Hate can trigger the occurrence of crime in society. So erase the hatred in the heart with love  ;)


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: PrimeBall on June 13, 2018, 05:32:24 PM
I totally agree with this statement and people need to take care of it as soon as possible. The first step would be to go through all the life stages and find the reason of feeling that way about yourself. Usually it is really hard for people to determine these reasons on their own, that is why its is better to speak to a person who knows and understands you the most or a speak to a specialist. Then you need to learn how to love yourself. Before loving other people you need to learn how to love yourself first- its a long process, but it worth it! We are lucky enough to be alive, we should appreciate it!


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Bennix on July 17, 2018, 06:55:56 AM
Self hate is more than a disease to the extent that people that hate themselves are disgrace to humanity because they will never contribute meanifully to society. They are isolated in everything they do. Sometimes, they feel like killing themselves that's why you can see someone going to rob on the highway of which he knows that he might be killed on the process, that's why you see someone talking hard drugs of which there is possibility of him being mad.
People that hate themselves tend to reject every piece of advice given to them because they see everyone as their enemies.



Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Raymund02 on July 17, 2018, 08:26:26 AM
Self-hate or any other forms of hate is a disease. Hate in general is one of the main causes of a lot of problems in life. Hate complicates the way of a person's intellectual thinking, it affects a person's way of socializing, it weakens his spiritual connection to God and it affects his well being. Hate complicates life. People who experience self-hate should be given a medical attention and needs councelling for they need to be treated and understood. We shouldn't judge them or put them down or belittle them, instead, let's make them feel loved and accepted so they can also learn to love their self.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: criza on July 18, 2018, 04:11:50 PM
Self-hate is a disease that gradually killing one's self and one's ability to discern what really is and hinders to the acceptance that we want to achieved despite our differences and diversity. I think that other people will find it difficult to accept who we are because we, ourselves finding it more difficult to accept ourselves --- and worst, not just the difficult in loving ourselves but the increase of hate to ourselves. I think that we should gradually and constantly accepting who we are, what we are,and where we came from. We must learn how to read between the lines and turn our negative and useless  thoughts into a positive and beneficial one. We must not let those kind of disease destroy us.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: presea18 on July 18, 2018, 05:40:01 PM
hate in general is detrimental to any society. However, one of the major issues today is depression and low self esteem. Most of the time caused by their exposure. If you let your people to be ill educated and ill mannered and corrupted from their infancy, can you persecute them for the way they are? We need to instill values to our children and educate them not only in accademics but also in the things that they may or may not encounter in life and how to make choices. lead by example.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: omonuyak on July 19, 2018, 07:24:42 AM
Self hate is actually a disease and this disease has spread around black races. The self-hate is actually the roots cause of under development in most of the third word countries and Africa. We have to love who we are as black, we ought to love ourselves and appreciate our colour and our culture and our professionality.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Emigham7 on July 19, 2018, 04:15:45 PM
 a terrible disease. I think the only way out of safe hate is by conscientious improvement of such individual involved. Humans need to start loving and appreciating themselves the way they are. The worst thing that can happen to a man is to hate himself.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: BADecker on July 19, 2018, 04:51:11 PM
All people hate themselves. A few of them are honest about it. They die young. After all, science has found no good reason why the body can't repair itself in almost every instance. It's suicide, even though it takes years.

8)


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: cryptowhiz on July 20, 2018, 09:40:10 PM
As Sarah Bowman pointed out in order for one to sense onself in a state of self-hatred the person had to go through a very negative upbringing, education, negative environment. So much so that such upbringing, education overrules our inherent operating software which is absolute “self-love”.

By default our whole being is programmed for self-service, self-justification, self-protection. We can’t make any other calculation but for self-benefit based on the egocentric “pleasure/pain principle”. Thus one needs to go through a serious trauma that can suspend this inherent operation. Of course it does not help that today’s media, marketing is making all of us feel “not good enough”, lacking in order to artificially generate “aggregate demand” to fuel consumption. Satisfied, content people do not chase after newer and newer gadgets, pleasures every day.

Restoring healthy “self-love”, contentment, confidence and aspiration for the future needs the right, mutually supportive, mutually complementing environment. Nobody can free oneself from their own prisons, personal holes they find themselves in. Thus the greatest harm ruining their lives that “self-hating” people (and others) can do to themselves in not searching for the right environment.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: BADecker on July 20, 2018, 10:01:35 PM

By default our whole being is programmed for self-service, self-justification, self-protection. We can’t make any other calculation but for self-benefit based on the egocentric “pleasure/pain principle”.

Which means that we are not programmed for truth. So the real disease is lack of truth = lie to yourself and everyone else... not self-hate.

8)


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Evan_Smith on July 26, 2018, 05:25:38 PM
I guess you are referring to ethnic self-hatred. I was confused at first because I couldn't figure how a person hating himself has anything to do with black people. I have seen this happen in some cultures. I know know if it is exactly the same thing, but I find that some people always want to be together and others don't. For example, it seems like Mexicans in other countries always group together. They seem to be supportive of one another. I have noticed the same thing about Kazakh people too. It seems like wherever they are they are always together. On the other hand, I have seen some Russians that don't seem to want anything to do with other Russian when they are living abroad. They even seem to have some resentment for other Russians who are having some success.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: SkyFlakes on July 26, 2018, 08:29:44 PM
Scientifically speaking, I think self hate can't be considered as a disease. But if we would see it more clearly, then we can realize that it is somehow a disease to be considered. First is that self hate has a negative effect on us. We could be stagnant on what we are doing and/or we could be a source of another ailment that ypu can experience. Also, another is that self hate is like a disease as its cause is like a virus for a disease, as the cause of self hate is negative taughts and a like.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Merritt_Baldric on July 26, 2018, 08:34:38 PM
It is really hard to prove your thoughts. Actually, everybody tries to be the best. It has nothing to do with black or white. I agree that Self-hate is a disease. We must love and admire ourselves in order to achieve great things. It is impossible to hate our qualities and at the same time be successful. It sometimes takes time to achieve this. We are not born with self-esteem. We need to work on it. It is hard to achieve but once done, it helps us to be the best. I am sure you agree with me.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Nathan_Weymouth on July 27, 2018, 01:51:36 PM
Yes it is.
When the feeling of self-hatred and anxiety becomes too strong, there is a risk of engaging in destructive behaviours to deal with or numb the unpleasant feelings. Cutting or otherwise damaging the skin can be a way to relieve the anxiety and to punish the body as well. A person with self-hatred can get the feeling that the body needs to be purified. Eating disorders and abuse of alcohol and drugs are other ways to attack the body. It is also possible to develop suicidal thoughts.

Self-hatred and destructiveness cause a person to withdraw. Isolating oneself is a way to conceal one’s state of mind and behaviours. It is common to feel ashamed and then feel even worse because of this. Perhaps the person feels that they do not even deserve to feel happy. This can make them stop caring about, or even avoid things that would make them feel better, such as good food, good sleep, exercise and socialising with others.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: fairyvibes on July 29, 2018, 12:38:12 AM
Some of us have low self esteem and are prone to self harm due to traumu growing up.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Rockernewf on August 02, 2018, 02:23:41 PM
Hate is a big disease, if you hate, don't respect yourself, there is no way others will feel differently about you.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: kiamankudos on August 03, 2018, 08:56:55 PM
self hate shutters and close many potentials in our lives . Its a bad activity


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: amobi on August 04, 2018, 01:59:59 AM
self hate always occurs when some one is suffering from depression, and if care is not properly taken, the person may start harboring suicide thought in mind


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Antonina on August 07, 2018, 08:51:29 PM
perhaps yes, it is a mental illness that needs to be eliminated for a long time and only close people can help in this


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: Isinya on August 07, 2018, 09:21:19 PM
I would have agreed with you if you hadn't tied it to color.


Title: Re: Self-hate is a disease
Post by: cyrax00777 on August 08, 2018, 07:41:01 AM
It is not a disease, it is a lack of motivation, lack of roots used to be the base of your life. Self-hate could become from the lack of an aim in your life too. Think about this.