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Would you give a second chance to the person whom you loved but hurt you the most?

Everyone deserves to have a second chance.

That's why you love, you are doing it unconditionally.

And forgiving isn't a hard thing for you to do.

Yes I would. My woman has hurt me twice and came back begging after years. I had no choice than to take her back. Since our union  is approved by God. We plan to get married this year.

Usually, I make a second chance,
 especially if you love this person

I give her second chance but if she promise that she will not do that again. Second chance is better to give to the person who do mistakes. We are imperfect and only god can have rights to do anything. But depends to the person what they want gives second chance or not and I think they have different purposes what they choose.

Very difficult question.
I think that we should be able to forgive someone if we see that this person is honest and ready to repent.
If person can't repent and ask for forgiveness I don't think that we can forgive.
Forgive but not forget.

If the hurt still remain this means you still inlove with that person so giving second chance will bring a possibilities of becoming more love,because theres a saying that love is sweeter the second time around and hurting is part of relationship the important thing is how you manage to recover from the fighting and how you dedicate the love for each others

Yes, Because everyone deserve a second chance and nothing is permanent, everyone can change. And I do believe that if you love someone, you always give her chance cause you believe that the person you love can change for the good.

Sure everyone can change
We need to change to make our lives better
We must keep the people we love

People can mistakes and nobody is perfect so if you don't forgive anyone means you have to live alone which is very harder than giving a second chance for person who hurted you.

it depends a lot on the circumstances but i believe that i would give another possibility to the loved person we all do mistakes in life...

Yes, but if you had asked me this when I was younger, my answer would have been NO. Beacuse learning to forgive and learning to leave the pride aside are difficult things that you only learn throughout life.

How many second chances do you believe a person should have?     8)

If you love someone, then giving a second chance should be done in normal circumstances, but if you ain't ready to forgive, then your relationship will not work out, so before you give a second chance, you need to be ready to forgive.


Each new time is a second chance.  ;D

Hahaha the necessarys until I realize that I'm being stupid

Clearly not if that person did something that has really hurt you and you have trusted and loved them in the first place. But second chances generally speaking, isn't just about giving it to the person who mean special to you. It can be given to others in so many ways.

Of course i will definitely give second chance to the person i really love even if it hurts. I given 3rd chance already because if you really love someone, forgiving is not difficult and nobody’s perfect we all commit mistake yet everyone deserve second chance as God never get tired forgiving us and bestow us with unlimited chances.

We certainly need to give him a second chance.
Even if we do not like these people.
We need to maintain our relations with the others.
Our lives are better.

It depends on how bad did that person hurt you, but usually you should always give someone of second chance same as you would like to get one if you do something stupid. People do a lot of bad things that they regret later so you can either get your love back in to your life and live happily or there is also the chance the he/she is going to repeat that again and disappoint you even more.

Dengan senang hati karena memberi kesempatan kedua akan lebih baik lagi di bandingkan kesempatan kesatu,karena orang yang sudah memiliki kesempatan kedua mempunyai pengalaman yang bagus dari kesempatan pertama

My wife and I reached a consensus when we got married. When one of them does something that the other party cannot forgive, then we will not give the other party a second chance.

Why does not this plan deserve your wife a second chance?
Or are you not worth a second chance?
We must forgive the person we love

The rules we made at that time were "things that the other party could not tolerate." Therefore, if we can't touch the bottom line of the other side, we won't argue because of some small things.
This rule actually has another explanation. “Are you worthy of forgiveness after you do this?” If the answer is no, why are you doing this?
Both I and she believe that this can effectively prevent us from hurting each other.