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Talking people say how others love to listen, and all the listeners are still convinced. Why don't people who can't talk don't know what is wrong or even talk nonsense in the middle of speaking, and the listeners have no interest in you. In the end, I don’t know how to talk to others like a normal person. How to practice speaking? What kind of good quality and psychological quality are needed to speak?

If you want to communicate smoothly with people for a long time, you must first be sincere, not playful, not fake, and not pretentious. There is a saying that you are the mirror of your heart. When you hesitate, your brows are frowned. When you are happy, others can feel your happiness, and when you lie, others can feel your hypocrisy and anxiety. So when you are sincere, you have the courage to communicate with each other boldly without fear of being exposed.

Speak logically, let the other party quickly understand the idea you want to express, and improve communication efficiency. First, you must speak in an orderly manner. The best way to speak is to line up "one, two, three," so that the expression is clear and simple, and the other party can understand it well. Second, you must speak rigorously, and the words spoken can withstand scrutiny and are related to cause and effect.

You must Know how to be yourself mate , talking to people deserves seriousness and truthfulness it doesnt matter if he will Believe what you say or not , but your generosity and sincerity will surely take place.

and also always consider your words , limit your delivery that won't Hurt their feelings in any possible ways.

Before you say something, think about it from the other side's perspective. That way is more suitable for the other side. Think about what the other person wants; think about what expression the other person can accept; think about the level of literacy, and use those words that he can understand. Being able to speak and do things with transpositional thinking is a watershed between the way of thinking between masters and ordinary people.

It is about comprehension. It is okay to start slow and go along with the process of understanding while you read, speak and listen.

These three are in tandem if you want to improve. You don't have to be at an excellent rate at the start and to improve speaking, you need to be talkative and apply it through talking with someone or just whenever you go like falling in line in the grocery, talk to the man/woman infront and behind of you. Start the discussion.

Mostly practice speaking to myself in front of a mirror. I think thats way more effective especially when you are about to speak to a bunch of people or in front of a huge crowd. At least you can see yourself speaking and point out some issues you might see for yourself.

Talk more, of course, you can say anything in a place where there is no one, such as the bathroom, and slowly improve. Try to speak as meaningful as possible

Reduce the output of uncertain words such as "probably", "maybe", "maybe", and "maybe". It is often because you are not sure enough about your own expression that these words appear. Especially when reporting work, you should be accurate to the number, not fuzzy. Otherwise, your boss will just think you are inadequate.

Conscious memory when watching English movies.
chat with friends.

I would agree but being too logical would leave a bad impression to the person that you are talking to, you don't want to sound like a robot when you are talking to someone, and you don't want someone to talk to you like that. What you need is just confidence to talk and maintaining an eye contact can be a good way to impose confidence. Your second advice sounds like something that you should do when you are being interrogated or being on the witness stand being questioned by lawyers but I do agree with that, although do not be too loose lips when talking, just get to the point and be playful.

When i was young i am also aloof to other people in which i cannot talk directly to them because i'm afraid of being corrected.

But when i start in college ? i build up my confidence and start becoming a speaker.

It is only in our Internal mind that hinders us from doing what we really wanted to do, but i believe that once you want it?you can achieve it.

First, stop giving a FCK about what others might interpret about your phrases and opinions. And then be sincere with what you say, ask questions a lot and obviously questions that are innocent and can be understood well by others.

Communicate more with others.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes.
Accumulate and recite basic vocabulary.

Give yourself 10 minutes of replay and 10 minutes of meditation every day.

Its about confidence. To improve speaking skills, one must know exactly what they are talking about, you can't influence someone when you don't even know what you are talking about. Most of it will be solved if you have confidence and confidence can be solved if you have dress well, groom well and appear to have money in your pocket. Its best if you really have money and a source of income.

Don't set limits to yourself, don't give up without starting.

Assuming being the beginner, so firstly you should be able to have a clear thought so that while speaking there is a connection between your thoughts and the words. This will make sense to other listeners. Secondly, include live examples or some scenarios which can relate to what you talk and these stories build a good impression and easy understanding to others as well. Making complex things easy should be the key and not otherwise.

Hey, I had a problem with these 2 years ago when I had a project to present at work, but this problem appeared since I was in the school, but at school I was with my classmates and teachers that I know and they could understand me. I have tried a lot of things and I am ready to share with my experience: I started to speak a lot and train myself in front of the mirror, read books and record your voice and listen it to understand where you have problems and should work to improve yourself.

Your topic reminds of my past life when I was too bothered about speaking in public. I read lots of articles but non worked for me. I experienced stage fright alot whenever I tried to speak in public.
My speech tend to flow easily these days when I'm deeply concerned about people I want to speak to, and I prefer to only speak when I am moved in the spirit to speak. By the way, it's better to speak about what you know really well.

Before I speak, I always make sure my mind is  clear.     Lots of times when I speak really well without much thinking, the speech is likely coming from the Spirit. That is the kind of speech I have noticed moves my listeners alots. And it works most of the time whenever I'm moved in the spirit to speak.

Usually read more books or movies with strong logic, and communicate with others.

Communicate more with people, pay attention to logic when communicating, and speak directly.

Communicate with others more, be sincere when communicating with others, and pay attention to what others want to express.

Watch more movies, pay attention to your own thinking, and think more about some problems.

Answer in a humorous way. Humor can relieve embarrassment and make chatting interesting. It is a speaking technique for comparing audiences.

For some sensitive topics, we will respond as if we didn't hear clearly. No matter how sharp the topic is, generally after we didn't hear clearly, the other party will not chase us to ask, so as to avoid speaking disputes.

Listen carefully. Pay attention to the emotions of others.
Don't inquire into the privacy of others too much.
respect others.

Look at the location and occasion. In different places, say words that fit the occasion. For example, a company party, soliciting opinions from everyone to eat hot pot. You say "I don't like to eat, get angry." Then you will be blacklisted by most people. The suggestion is that you can eat the clear soup, if not, you can buy something else to eat or ask for leave to not participate.

How to behave is a kind of knowledge, since it is a knowledge, we can learn through books, improve our speaking skills, but also read more books. Even if we say less, it is better than we say wrong. If you want to express yourself better, why not read more books.

listen.
respect others.
The use of different languages on different occasions.

To improve your speaking skills, you must be practical and not afraid. You practiced very well in self-questioning and answering, but you really couldn't speak at the scene. This is stage fright, on-the-spot fear. To overcome stage fright, we must fight. Every time you don't dare to speak because you are nervous, and you want to escape, then you will never speak bad words. But if you can adapt to the feeling of tension, you can speak with tension over time. Don't be afraid to speak out and be teased by others, dare to be embarrassed, seize the opportunity, speak more and practice more, and pretend to be indifferent even if you are nervous. Over time, your ability to speak will become stronger and stronger.

read more books.
Read more newspapers.
Eat fewer snacks.
Sleep less.
Learn more.

it counts on what you've been through for me, esp. what your childhood is. For those who have a lovely family, they have a stable and peaceful mindset and they speak fluently, clearly with organization. while for those with miserable childhood, they can easily get nervous and out of control, so they speak orderlessly or too fast/slow and they usually get affacted by others, thus their speaking disturbed.
many people need the whole life to heal the trauma left by childhood.

  I learned how to talk fluently from constant practice, having a rententive memory is highly important because while watching good English movies I tend to bring my ears down to learn how they communicate effectively and efficiently without stress, I also grab their vocabularies and go back at my quiet time to come through them. Indeed I have learnt a whole lot from movies and reading novels.

I advise you should try this too😊😎

practise but admittedly i haven't really the chance to improve lately with the quarantine

To improve your speaking skills, you must be practical and not afraid.
You practiced very well in self-questioning and answering, but when you really arrived at the scene, you couldn't speak. This is stage fright, on-the-spot fear. To overcome stage fright, we must fight. Every time you don't dare to speak because you are nervous, you want to escape, then you will never speak bad words. But if you can adapt to the feeling of tension, you can speak with tension over time. Don't be afraid to speak out and be teased by others, dare to be ashamed, seize the opportunity, speak more and practice more, even if you are nervous, you have to act indifferent. Over time, your ability to speak will become stronger and stronger.

You must learn to see the strengths of others and praise others in front of others. You must say more about the strengths of others, "sincere and kind." People will associate these traits with you. Don't speak ill of others secretly, people will also associate these negative comments with you.

To listen to the ideas of others, you must first learn to listen, know what people like to listen to, and understand that people are more likely to accept certain expressions. Pay attention to personality skills in continuous speech, do not pause between each other, because pause for a while is a normal phenomenon in personality.

Ask more. Speaking is a subject of knowledge, with many objective laws and successful experiences. Also need to accumulate knowledge and materials.

The accumulation of knowledge material is the foundation of the ability to speak, and the accumulation of habit in daily life: broaden the scope of interest, read more books and read the news.

Speaking and tone are very important. Sometimes the same sentence and the same meaning are expressed in different tones, but it has a completely different taste. So pay attention to tone when communicating with people.

Read more to improve self-cultivation.

Read by yourself and read it out loud. Insist on reading some articles every day, not only practice articulation, but also accumulate some knowledge and information.

It is recommended that you install a large mirror in your living room or on a wall in your office. During the reading process every day, you should train in the mirror to train your eyes, expressions, and body language.

If possible, I suggest that you take pictures of your voice and the speech process every other week, so as to observe and study again and again where I am stuck, where the gestures are not in place, and where the expression is unnatural.

Lie down and read aloud! When we lie down, it must be abdominal breathing, and abdominal breathing is the best way to practice sound and Qi. Every day before going to bed, lie in bed and read aloud for ten minutes. Before waking up every day, lie in bed and sing a song before getting up.

Get a speech or a beautiful prose. First take a dictionary or dictionary to find out the words and words that you don't know or understand in the article, figure it out, figure it out, and then start reading aloud. Generally speaking, when you start to read aloud, the speed is slower, and the speed is increased gradually, and the reading is faster than each time, and finally you reach the fastest speed you can achieve.

In your free time, you can grab a piece of newspaper, flip to a paragraph at will, and then read it all at once. Moreover, in the process of reading aloud, be able to pay attention to the first half of the sentence and look at the manuscript, and the second half of the sentence to the front.

personally, you could think before speak. think about what you gotta say, all the things you wanna say and the logic between them. it's similar to writing. before write something, we need to organize our thoughts for a high grade. ;) think twice before speak

how about trying imitating people in the movie/TV series or other TV shows. their speaking rhythm and speed is suitable for the listeners. when we were young, we listened to our parents, that's a kind of imitation as well ;) if you wanna speak appropriately in case that you annoy/hurt others, read some books about speaking skill or go to class for speaking training.

Nowadays I think if you are not normally educated then you can speak English. You can develop your skills in English. If you want to do that, of course I think you can watch many videos from youtube. You can learn English by watching many tutorials.  Can do better

To be able to master the audience, you need confidence...
but a good speaker is formed because the person is willing to start over and continue to practice speaking in public. You can start practicing speaking in front of 5 or 10 people and then if you have found confidence, you can upgrade yourself and speak in front of hundreds of people.

At the moment it might be a bit hard to find some get togethers in real life where you could improve your speaking skills. The corona pandemic makes it harder for all of us to adapt. One idea could be to join a discord server with some local people who speak the native language. Speaking online via video chat would already be a first step towards improving your speaking skills.

It seems to me that the main thing is to be a master of your craft. Then what you say will be very useful to those to whom you say it. And in order to speak naturally and easily in everyday life, you need to have a calm, positive state, when you can speak easily and with joy. Why else would you talk? I speak when I feel like talking, when I am inspired and I want to share something. Then I’m not afraid, even if I don’t know how to speak.

Write more about learning about speech and eloquence, write down your knowledge and feelings about speech eloquence, and raise it to a theoretical level.

Speak with confidence. The first step to developing your speaking presence is to speak with confidence. Speak with great confidence, without any timidity or cowardice.

In many cases, it is not that there is no proper language to describe or describe, but the expression is not clear and concise because of the hesitation and anxiety. So a good way is to communicate more with people.You can start with friends and classmates, and gradually push to contact strangers.

Speak more, dare to say, and exercise your eloquence, not for you to talk nonsense, it is related to your solid foundation and ability to reflect.

read more books.

It is logical.
The presentation is clear.
quick thinking.

There are some skills in language communication, such as slowing down, listening, strengthening the tone, changing the rhythm, and paying attention to the open or closed choice.

You must continue to accumulate insights, analyze the problems encountered in life and business in a critical way, and accumulate them to make more achievements. A speech full of thought does not burst out overnight.

Normally, you must develop a good habit of taking reading notes. Of course, you can also record your usual analysis of the problem and news, and record the beautiful sentences you encounter.

Get into the habit of writing comments, don't think with your head, write with a pen. Only when you write with a pen, your thinking will be organized, and your expression will be organized.

If you don’t know the consequences of speaking, you must not speak. At first you will find that your speaking has become slower, but the speed of your speaking mistakes has also become slower.

read.
Communicate with some well-mannered people.

Watch some talk shows.
Or interview

Read some books that improve emotional intelligence.

If you want to work anywhere in the world, you must have experience in speaking English. To develop your own skills, you must complete various courses. You can complete some of these courses from YouTube if you want. So much for developing your skills.  I can tell everyone

Some sure and effective ways of improving ones speaking skills are;
- reading (read novels, journals, publications etc)
- watch good movies. (By watching and listening, our brain captures some vocabulary and speaking style of some of the actors and actresses)
- listen to people that have mastered the act of speaking in public. (These people may be on radio, television, a podcast, or even you close friends that are articulate)
- Practice with your self.

Feel free to add your own.

My friends has told me that I'm very good speaker and my social skill are amazing.
I can't tell that I'm shy and nervous but the other people can't see it idk why..
My speaking skills has been improved by the time, and the contacts with many different persons. Probably this is why I can do it, because I have been speaking with so many different types that I can change my mind and the things I said will be liked from them.   

You need to exercise more, don't be shy, seize every opportunity to show yourself, and continue to summarize and accumulate. Speaking must have content in order to make others benefit and resonate in the process of speaking, so that others are willing to listen.

Speak with a sense of rhythm, pay attention to speaking speed, and have a loud voice. Communicate more with people who can talk and learn other people's speaking skills.

think about the main idea of your words and utter them step by step to make sure they're well-organized! speak with priority and focus on the main point :P

You need to be clear in your mind what exactly you want to speak, you need to think in the same language in what you want to speak else in translation for beginners it is difficult. Then practice in front of somebody who knows it and will help you give the feedback and how and where you made mistakes. Continuous practice for few days will build your confidence and will help you for future as well.

High EQ chat does not necessarily require learning fixed speech skills, learning to figure out each other's emotions, avoiding polite speech skills, so that both parties can feel comfortable from the bottom of their hearts. This is the real "way of speaking."

Yups because our mouth is the window of our personality .

Like the Jokes in any sense is 60% truth and 40% lies meaning most of our jokes towards others are true we just can't express in right manner that is why we present as joking but deep inside it is indeed true.

Read aloud, retell, communicate with native speakers, listen to audiobooks and repeat

Speak native speakers and surround yourself with that language as much as possible (translate your phone into that language, for example)

The most effective thing to help absolutely everyone with any language is to speak with a native speaker

For speaking skills,correct breathing and posture to allow clarity of voice and good deliberate pronunciation of each word
For language skills,same as above after learning said language

record yourself speaking about something! once I did that and noticed that my eyes would dart around and my tone would change depending if I knew what I was talking about or not. maybe in the beginning it made me more self-conscious that I did those things, but eventually I was more aware of things I wanted to change and eventually learn to speak a bit more assertively, also slower

mirrors work too except its a different perspective and you cant hear yourself like from a video

Talking, Speaking is an art but listening is a hundred times better to it.
 Someone asked a leader that your opponents are continuously talking against you but you are not giving the answer he replied that God has closed the lips but keep the ear open. Its meaning is that speak less and listen more.
A person who is talkative and talks too much is more sinful than a silent person.
In the past, people like to keep Quiet fast.

But after all of this, speaking skill is very important in today,s life. The main quality of leadership is that he should be a good speaker. We need Speaking courage in all trades of life.
At the school level, it is essential to train our kids about participation in speech competitions to develop speaking skills. This develops & improves speaking skills at an early age.

The easy thing to improve speaking skills is learning and maybe you need to talk to others every day to improve your speaking. Or you can join in the course to learn more details. You can watch Youtube and learn from the entrepreneur how to speak with right and manage your nervousness.

Everything is practice, practice makes perfect. How to speak very good is something that can be developed with always reading of books and exposure too, relating and interacting with people it can contribute to speak well.

Yes, Practice is the key to achieve success and survive for a long in the Forex Market.

you have proven that by posting this, I don't know what this is all about lol.

Engaged in many english conversation even if you can't literally talk in fluent english still try to have communication.

with this you will learn little by little and this will take time and you'll be better soon.

Increase your vocabulary to increase your speaking skills. If you know more and more words you will be able to express your words more beautifully and seriously like wise people speak with confidence follow someone you may like the words of different speakers or different people follow the style of speaking that you like. Surely you can also speak in order you can also improve your speaking skills by watching videos on youtube.

I think we all lost a bit of confidence & became awkward in social situations due to lockdowns & being restricted throughout covid. I guess the best way tp get back to normal & be good in social situations is just to get back out there & be around people.

talking with others help. if not others, then bots?

Read out loud, it helped me a ton

Learning new words everyday will greatly help your vocabulary skills. You don't need to learn a lot in a single day. Take your time and use the new words in talking to people around you. In that way, you can practice using those words in regular conversation. You can start using those at home if you are not yet comfortable talking to strangers. As you build your confidence of using it, you can add more everyday.

I think the best way is to live in a native English country for a while.

Start speaking to your friends or closest relatives more often and who are better than you. This will help you to correct your mistakes from whom you already know and this will help build your confidence as well before you reach out to mass public and that can be little tedious. Slowly you will develop a good habit and will start speaking in a better way. Keep practicing it.

There are many ways that a person can improve his or her communication skills. One great way is by going to a group or individual speaking class. Classes can help a person become more comfortable speaking in front of an audience, overcoming fear, and much more.
If you have a large vocabulary, the odds are that you use it in everyday conversations. It's not uncommon to hear someone say they don't know how to pronounce something because they don't speak a lot of the language in question. A large vocabulary and variety of native languages have great advantages when talking to other people.

You must have good social skills first then everythhing will be easy