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I've been in my first relationship for almost 4 years now and we already have a baby who is turning 1 Yr. Old this month.
Our relationship has been cold and we were trying to fix it and I could tell that it was working well,
But I got into a fight with her GrandMother and I decided to leave the house to chill down but she suddenly decided to cut it all off.

It’s probably just in the heat of the moment. Give your girl some space for a day or two & then go & see her with some flowers or a small gift. I doubt the relationship will be finished, beyond repair just because you argued with her Grandmother.

Good luck!

you have a kid. meaning you are going to be involved in some way with that kid for atleast the next 18 years.
no if's or but's about it.

so once you accept your next 18+ years are going to involve communicating with the mother and grandmother of the child. you can then collect your thoughts on a new strategy to communicate without stress or insults

.. in short. man up and stop acting like a tantrum kid. because in your new family you cannot be the tantrum kid. your baby has taken on that role. its now time you take on the role of a parent

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dealing with 'the mother in-law'has to come with compromises. remind her that the baby means both you and her are going to be involved in that kids life for many many years(atleast till kid is college age) so for the benefit of the kid you both need to find common ground

Apologize to the grand ma and talk to her why you had picked a fight with her grand ma. And when you're asking for apology, you should show remorse that you're really willing and wanting to fix things.

And for the sake of your kid, it can still be fixed, think of the kid's future.

Sorry to hear that buddy. It is hard to give someone else advice without knowing everything, but if you have a kid together I don't think you can move on from that. Fighting happens in every relationship, its all about reconciliation in my opinion. Maybe you can try and go to some counciling together? A fight with the grandmother shouldn't be about you and your girlfriend. Having a kid, is a huge bond.

Wemen is always like this, they commit if the man is sure and also commit. You can't move on yet, but be strong and convince her that everything will work and you will prosper together. Wemen sense weakness, so you don't show your weakness, my man!

Thanks for all the advice and I assure you all that if we could still work it out I would love to continue our relationship,
I don't want my kid to grow up with a broken family and it is what we both have promised when she was pregnant.
It is hard to tell the whole story since it is a private matter but I just want to know some advice since it is really hard for me now and it hurts a lot everytime I remember my baby.

I believe that the reason for this issue? because you don't provide completely what your Girlfriends wanted.

You are living with Her family right?

Because you had a fight with her grandmother and you have to leave for a while?

You are not a responsible Boyfriend considering that you already has a Child, Your GF got tired of your set up and wanted to live a Life that is much better than you can give.


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How to Move On? imagine you wanted to Move on while You must have deal with it and comfort her for the child.

Respect elder mate, Make Friends to her Grandparent because that will Make Your Girlfriend think you are a Disrespectful Man and that is a Turn Off from a Women.

We should be kind to elders and not get into fights with them since they are much older then we are and deserve to be treated nice.

If you are given another chance to redeem yourself remember you cant act like this to her ever again.

Time will heal everything, have you got married already?

Married or not but still you got a baby which needs to be taken care by the parents so moving on should not be your thoughts now, just wait for the moment to stick together again.

I suppose the mother of your 1 year old child is already your wife? I think that will determine my advice to you on how to behave to her grandmother. By the way, I wonder who "cut it all off", the girl or the grandmother?
If she is your wife, she is yours and no one can separate both of you.