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Title: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: Kinghunter0071 on September 16, 2021, 09:33:17 PM Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now.
Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over. I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: boyptc on September 16, 2021, 10:29:46 PM You'll find your partner soon.
But for this time, focus on your kid and that's all you have to do. Your kid is your inspiration to continue fighting and surviving while you're experiencing sadness. Real love will come and find you. Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: ethereumhunter on September 17, 2021, 06:01:50 AM GOD will give you another way to take care of your kid and you should believe GOD. Do not give up because now you have a kid who can give you an honest smile. Yes, it is tough, but I know you can do that. You just confuse and it seems everything is dark. Be patient and still pray to GOD to show the way.
Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: Ucy on September 17, 2021, 09:18:48 AM What happened to the father of the child/children? Is he still living? He should help you take care of your child/children.
I would advice you to depend on your CREATOR, HE definitely listens when we are sober or do what pleases HIM. HE will take care of you and be their FATHER too. Depend on HIM alone not humans. I would advice you to listen to HIS Words always. It will guide and confort you. That's the support I can offer you on the internet. You can ask questions when necessary. Wish you all the best. Book Of Matthew: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=j6ENtjQqgoA&list=PLIxhnx0kb33ORn8RQgHH54rdJMmqaRfmd&index=40 Book Of Timothy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9cWN9LTthgo&list=PLIxhnx0kb33ORn8RQgHH54rdJMmqaRfmd&index=54 Book Of Peter 1: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VW6P6ObOhtU&list=PLIxhnx0kb33ORn8RQgHH54rdJMmqaRfmd&index=60 Book Of Psalms: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7zEHZOx66j4 Book Of Proverbs: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=liPJFT-5Bug&list=PLIxhnx0kb33ORn8RQgHH54rdJMmqaRfmd&index=20 Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: semobo on September 17, 2021, 06:09:55 PM Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now. You have two choices now either you can wait for someone to come into your life so your tears will go away or you can start building your own empire and make the world to feel under your feet.Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over. I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. Now the choice is your... :) Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: Soldierswitlittlefaith on September 17, 2021, 07:53:19 PM Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now. Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over. I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. @Kinghunter0071, i'm commenting on this just because i'm about to embark/fight for a similar course. everyday we see children related or unrelated to us goes into hardship,child abuse, slaughtering ...ecc Pls, know you are not alone. Be strong & Couragious. Just like to other member had suggested earlier, pls, take a break & take care of your lovely kid(s) Don't be in a worry to jump into another relationship. Have a moment of reflection. In addition, you can connect & hang around with single mothers/women like you in this forum. Thanks Soldierwitlittlefaith Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: Davidvictorson on September 18, 2021, 01:02:09 AM Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now. Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over. I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. I may not fully understand what you are truly passing through at the moment but I want you to know that it's gonna be alright. History is filled with success stories of single mothers who started out with little or no support and through God's help and mercies were able to rise above their situation. Keep you head up, believe in God and work damn hard and smart and in no time you wouldn't even notice when the tears dried up. Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: cabron on September 18, 2021, 01:29:50 AM I feel you. Financial problem is the worse than having love trouble because it brings everything down but if you disregard everything that people will think of you, you can do great things. I witness my mom did a tantrum to the PTSD level when she saw me going somewhere else and not helping her sell in her store. But she did everything she has, not minding everyone will tell about her, she goes out walking half a mile to buy food to save as much as possible.
The family will always matter in the time of crisis. Don't ever regret bringing a kid up, there are so many street children out there but they live a good life after few years. Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: Chato1977 on September 18, 2021, 04:47:57 AM Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now. THis forum is enough to lend you a Open Ear to listen just tell us whats your struggle and we will comfort you.Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over. I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. But never try to seek for partner just because you are desperate to have one to help you out because for sure you will only find a wrong one and will took advantage of your vulnerability and desperation . find enough work to sustain your Kid's need and never rely on other for support. Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: JohnBitCo on September 19, 2021, 03:17:14 AM Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now. Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over. I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. I can understand your feelings but do not lose hope. Also don't regret to bring a baby in the world. May God help you and give you easyness and happiness. By the way, where is your husband. You haven't mention what happened to your martial life and why are you alone now ? Title: Re: Tears Of A Struggling Single Mom Post by: mich on September 23, 2021, 08:20:46 AM Being a single mom can be very difficult and I empathize with your feelings of wanting to give up on everything.
A single mother has one of the most difficult jobs in the whole world; raising someone and giving yourself fully to this other human being while at the same time being a full time provider requires so much compassion and hard work it's hard for others to comprehend. Just know that giving yourself fully to the pursuit of being the best single mother you can be is a worthy life goal and can become the reason to put up with all of life's challenges and inspire you to become more resilient for the child's sake who is desperately relying on you. |