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How hilarious it is when some persons brag about there there assets and achievement to the people close to them, but when it comes to things that will add values and meanings to there life they become mute, they don't share ideas and opportunities, many are quity of this act but don't forget that someone you help today can help you tomorrow.

Happy Christmas day my people.

I think another underlying question here is;
Why do you end up being available to all the bragging?
Now that you have all of them brags coming your way to dump their success stories and achievements, how do you take it?

Do you just go and sleep on it or do you allow it to aid you stay woke and motivate you on how you ought to be taking life, your life.
Yeah, the people you give informations to, to aid them to there salvation often tends not to fright you in life and could be the very pillar of support for you tomorrow, that is for sure but, having the idea that some of these persons that have achieved something worth their life time haven’t tried to aid some persons in life is false. I think most people try but, the response they get from their triers always impact them in some way.
Some of which might be negative and make them to be more reserved while, some might go out to seek out for just that person that deserves their aid.

Everyone will not get favored from one person in life we have lots of people who are successful today if they are talking about their success stories watch very carefully they have aided few people around them but they must not come to announce to the general public on their assistance to people or even show them off to general public to notice it. What happened is that when we are helped in life we should also try within our capacity to help other person's as well it could be family member or relatives with this we reduce hardship from the family lineage. You don't have to blame people that are showing off their achievements is because they were once facing down time over their life and having to scale through their lives and achieve those success it's a thing worth talking of at least to also inspire those that are indolent and refusal to make progress in life to pick up.

This matter no be small thing oo, the thing wey come dey pain me for inside na be say, most times the people wey dey claim say dem get well well, sometimes e fit even be say dem no even get shishi, but dem go just dey live fake life. While to some wey get the legit update some kinds times na based on trust naim make dem dey hide update, I know of some persons wey nor dey like to share update because there boys they carry dem play based on say dem don get small money from the update wey their boss show dem. Majority of the time na ungrateful boys and and apprentice dem naim dey cause this thing. Anyway sha e nor too good to dey stingy update but some kind times na to just keep the update in a healthy condition na make people dey stingy update.

Life is a matter of choice whether who to give or not. Giving sometimes is as a result of self willingness. Sometimes people find it hard to disclose the identity of their financial source of income due to security reasons, but only give you money rathar showing you the way. Reason being that if you know there source of income you posses the characteristics of instant hatred or envyiness which could leed to evil act of poisoning, kidnapping or sending assassin's. So this attribute makes people to keep monitery issues private.

No doubt, who you help today might be of help tomorrow depends on the type of help. Some people prefer to send you to learn a skill that will be usefull to you which in turn becomes your means of daily livelihood. And such person can not be forgotten. Another help could be training someone in school after graduation the person sees a better job and become a better person tomorow.

I think before you help somebody you should know what type of help somebody needs from you. If it's a help that will involve your privacy you shouldn't help atol. But if the help is a kind that you will do and it will not bring hatred then you can help. Because not all help are help. In most cases helping someone Too Close to you has %80 risk of hatred especially the one that sees your day in day out. But that does mean we should not help people Close to us. but help with caution.

OP don't make it look like it's a must to help someone in this life (wetin I dy talk self, here nah NAIJA LOCAL BOARD nah).
I know say e good to help oh but see am this way, the way you thing am to help person no be the same way another person think am too, I fit help you today tomorrow you turn Lion for my head, and you fit help me today or tomorrow and we become strong partner for business so e dy two ways and na the negative part piple dy reason pass that's why e hard for person to help people.
Advise I go share be say, even if you dy help next year today or whenever, make you just dy careful of who you dy help. This life no be all about giving some piple no dy that lucky as you dy, make person no put sand for our garri.


Happy Xmas my contri piple...

As this your matter take be ehn, na better thing you talk so, but waiting me i want you to understand be say we all are not meant to make it in the same way, even though you open up to someone that this is what you have being doing for a living they should join you and make some money too, if that is not meant to them they will not have anything there, no matter how they give it a try. Waiting we dey face for this country no dey easy and na person wey don help himself finish they help another people, no be everybody mouth they keep quite, no be everybody fit keep secret, if you are about to help someone from there, he will start telling other people this is what you want to help him with, how did you think for this hard economy now is possible to help many people. If you help someone people today, they fit turn back on you tomorrow, that one dey happen everytime.

 My guy, things like this mata on sharing update don dey discussed tire for here. See, if you like share the update brekete, no be everybody go fit do wetin you fit do. It's more blessed to give than to receive we know but consider am. Sometimes too, no be all your friends wan brag, rub their success for ya face. Actually some just dey low-key but nah envy for say them dey successful and we aren't dey make that thought of them being prideful and bragging come to our minds.
Sometimes, when we comot our minds say we sef sopoz blow from that thing our friends dey do go help us genuinely happy for them when them come near us because when rain dey fall, e dey reach everywhere; both on the good and the bad.

This matter of helping someone is very dynamic. Some I fit give you #100k today and I don help you. You fit don go squandered the money come look like say I no even give you anything or rendered some level of help to you in the past. Having this mentality that someone is supposed to help us for this life has kept most of us lazy and not willing to take a bold move for ourselves. You should have this believe and mentality that nobody owe you anything in life, this has really helped me to keep pushing in whatever situation I find myself. If the help comes along the way fine, if it doesn't you will fine.

Normally nor be bad thing to render help though. According to the Bible heaven help those that help themselves. Because e get some pesins you go help dem go misuse am. Just Imagine helping someone with some certain amount of Moni and e nor even invest am e just waste am for irrelevant or wayward things. That kind pesin to help am next time  go tire you because are u go tey help persin wey nor wan help himself. So the thing is that help the less privilege wey ready to hustle and way ready to help themselves too. Nah true say nobody knows tomorrow.

Have you on your own assisted someone in the capacity that you can? The people who cry the most that nobody is offering a helping hand to them are people who have never tried helping others. It is a natural law to get what you give, If you offer help, you will get help when you need it, if you do not offer help when you can, and also do not have a heart of helping others, help will be far from you when you need it.

Help others so you can get help.

Many have learned from other people mistakes by trying to help someone but the person turn the help to frustrate the person by putting such person to regret from the rest of his or her life. But there is no way you will add value to someone life by impacting cryptocurrency knowledge to the person in this new year we are about to enter and the person will not live to remember you for good but don't forget that you need to help yourself first for other people to know that you need help before they will start referring you to some cryptocurrency link were you can learn more to add value to your knowledge.

Don't allow such people attitude to make you feel they are wicked, all you need to do to be great like them or to be greater than them is to start working on yourself before 2024 start so that you will not remain were you are in 2023 because you sound like someone that is not happy about his or her current situation.

It is only one that does not understand life that will brag with what he or she has, in life their is nothing to brag about.  The achievements you have today , you are not the first to achieve them, their are people who have done better than this and yet are still very humble. Sometimes life is unpredictable, the people which you use you achievements to brag or underrate can get and have more achievements you have today. If you can help people by adding value to their life , no need to underrate or brag about your achievements to look them less.

To help people good but the thing be say some people no dey like start small. Like some people wey no even get anything dey see demselves as too big to learn work and you wey go help dem go tire, dem just want make you carry money give dem for hand without bending down to learn and understand one or two things. Another thing be say, person go know who him go help or bring in. No be every one for road you go help, some people fit still set you up. I don see people wey in the name of help and being good don bring people come there house and at the end of the day them begin show bad character like raping the female children, stealing and setting oga or madam up.

I attribute bragging to low self-esteem, Anybody Who  brags is feeling less important and  tends to announce their value to others in a wrong way. Like the saying goes, "you can't cover pregnancy with mere hands". A successful person doesn't need to announce himself because his productivity does the announcement for him. Low self-esteem has a way of making proud people try to impose their value on others, they think they're creating awareness for their value and drawing admiration of everyone, while the reverse is the case, they're simply sampling their stupidity and low self-esteem. People hardly like to make friends with a person who brags about this and that, because they're accustomed to fake life and dishonesty. While bragging, a lot of lies are told to give the boast a soft landing. Bragging is very bad and should be avoided.
Over to not sharing useful updates with people, unless an update that is classified to a set of people only, and the person in question is not supposed to consume it, people who don't share update are low key witches and wizards, that's another level of wickedness. Withholding an information that can be of help to a friend is very bad and such people don't progress much as they're locking the doors to other people's progress, karma is also locking the door to their own progress, there's no two ways about it. The measure you give is the same measure you receive  and what goes around, comes around.

Sometimes helping someone sopos be something we do to people wey dey in need. Because most people no the value of wetting them dey do for them except with option. like for example if person dey teach you work or dey give you free money, you no go appreciate wetting him dey do. but when you don dey struggle on your own you go know say life no easy . So the option wey some people dey like na make you serve somebody sothat you go use the kind intimidation wey you dey see come ginger urself up to push harder. so to me refusal to help somebody na a sign to motivate your struggle than always cautioning blam on them.

Is not a must to help. Because you no no wetting all those men dey undergo before them reach where them dey. Some self fit be ritual wey dem do, and the law be say make them no help person and no be there mind not to help you out but the place where them get money no allow them help people. So just manage your self struggle and pray for God blessings and you will reach your destination. Most of those people you see your life is Better than them. Some of them are walking corps. Dey even desire to be like you.

The issue with bragging depends on your own view, sometimes people don't even intend to brag or show off but the way they dress and appear might get someone else jealous and unknowingly to the person, and the other set of people they always want to brag about their achievement. I love seeing people like that cause I will love to do same likee if you're rich you don't even need to brag people will always see the wealth, if you're really talking about the rich ones it's very rare seeing such people, I will assume you're talking about the jealous ones who always want to paint others dirty and bad, talking about ideas and creativeness I don't know about others so I'm speaking for myself, if my friends around me will not add value to my life in terms of new ideas and creativeness I will prefer to cut such friendship cause now what's the essence of making many friends and still yet there's no value added to your life it makes no sense, I'm not trying to say our friends should be blamed for our wrong decisions or act but we should make friends that add value to our life,  The best thing to do this new year is to avoid such people and focus more on new year goals.

As for me if I help someone today I will never and I am not expecting any financial help from the person because of you put that at the back of your mind and help someone then the help is no longer valid to the way of the God. As others have said if you no brag your achievements to someone close to you, you achievements with your character go tell people say you get am. In dis days people no dey do like those days wey people dey tell others about their wealth to win girls but dis days only wears go tell Dem say u get am.

Helping people is good but instead of giving Dem money why can't we teach Dem how to fine money if the can do. Mostly teach Dem how to invest.

This one nah simple thing: as you day around people, wey no one see you prosper. You suppose to leave them na you too. Check am, we day together You no day help me, but you sabi day tell me. Watin you don achieve Haba no be say if you show me I no go sabi am oo but you no share how I go talk know am to me if I get that kind person I go just mute am neh because e no get use 

A wise men said, "If you are not given value at the place, don’t go back there again,” which is the truth because your rich friend will not check on you unless you are also rich, so let's also be thinking wisely because those rich or successful friends around you that refuse to help you or show you the way are not your friends but just your close enemies, so you need to stay away from them, and again, others might be afraid to share because they might think if you join them doing what they are doing, you will end up gaining more of them, and they will not like it because they won’t like to see you ahead of them.

What I will say is that to me, I will just go and find another way to also succeed in life, especially as we day this naija ways to get money plenty. Nah, only you don't want to join, but all I will do is make sure I look for legit and legal money and stay away from the illegal ones.

its very necessary I help others rise with you, if you are the only one doing well financially in your circle and all you do is just gist with your friends and has never cared to carry them along you are endangering yourself big time. The truth is that you can't help everybody rise up financially and you can't always be their to provide financial advice to everyone that comes your way but its very necessary you guide the few ones who are sincere about their zeal to learn.

Put up one or two persons you can trust in your circle and build them up to becoming strong with you, they will feel that they owe you are lot and you will always have a trusted backup in times of difficulty.

It's better you don't even associate with people your financial state intimidates than associating with them freely and assuming they will always be happy with you even in their brokenness.

Inasmuch is good to help people or lift people up with business opportunities and ideas it needs to be done right. You need to do such to people with like minds as soon will pull you down.
Study individual and tailor your help to them

Op nothing comot for way thing you talk o, but na way thing people don experience for helping friends naim make some people stopped to they help their friends. You fit they help your friend when you get small thing wey they give you small money like to give am clothes and shoes to wear go where he wants to go, and even sometimes you they give am money to cook food chop for in house. But if this your friend come later see update wey blow am, in no go even reason your matter wey be they help am when he no get anything. Na because of these attitudes naim they make people no dey to help friends again, and they prefer to only help their family members now. Secondly, if you no follow your friends in the line of hustling wey them they hustle, e go hard before they go help you o because you no know what they are going through to make this money. Just know that help is not coming from anywhere unless you initial how you go carry comot yourself for poverty o.

Nice talk bro, na waiting just dey mind to tell him you just talk like this so, help? My brother help na another risky thing for this life now, you fit help person make the person later begin dey see himself say him don make and no be you show am way to succeed, this thing's dey normally happen na and we dey see, you go help person and him go backstab you, we Don see that one too, so my brother sometimes you have to know the kind people wey you go help because of waiting go come back to you.

Although to help na normal thing and it is also another way to show love but if I wan help person I must know the person very well be because after you show person road and he succeed, him go jakpa dey enjoy him life and even forget say you dey exist, life is very simple but you gast use your brain too.

Don’t make it sound that it is necessary to help everyone that you come across in this life. And the day you give an helping hand don’t make it look like a favour that you’re expecting something in return from them. The day you begin to have such mindset, you’ll begin to hate on many people that you’ve helped and think that they’re also financially buoyant to help you also when you’re in need. Charity is good but it is not compulsory if you don’t feel like, but the best of those are the ones that give and expect nothing in return. Help people for the sake of humanity and not the sake of what you stand to get in return.

The bad economy of the country no d give people that kind mindset again to the reason on how them go take help their fellow being this time around because of the hardship wey the hover around the country. Nowadays, everyone the face their family and cut down their level of spending and rendering help to the other. So if peso wey you expect to help you no help by next year, no take am personal cos ground no d run smooth for everyone again. The rich and poor the complain for this present economy and anyone wey help you in a little wey d can, appreciate them cos it is not easy again for everyone. Peso no know how 2024 go be for Tinubu government. We pray make em d fine for all of us and we go fit help in a little way we can but if anyone of us no fit help the way we are supposed to, make peso no go pressure himself or herself to.

It is best for a person to go about his business and work hard in order to achieve our goals in life. Relying on others who possess more than you is not a good idea, and those who do not wish to help others or who have never had anything to begin with forget that life is full of surprises and that those who have today may lose it or have it transferred to someone else.They simply live their lives as they choose, and you have no idea whether the individuals you assisted today will be the ones to aid your children tomorrow. The most terrible aspect of our country is that individuals are graduating on a daily basis, there are no jobs for them, and the government refuses to look over them.

In as much as it's good to help people it's also good to be aware of whom you are tryna help because some people are just ingrates, no matter how good you are they will still mess up the least you have done for them.

I can remember my dads favorite phrase "It's good to be good", yes it's always good to do good because you don't know who will favour you, it may not be the person you helped so just do the best you can!

I think OP deserves a merit for this because it's Christmas and it's a season of love, someone should show him some love!

Expect the subject matter is illegal or the source is not clean. Personally, I don't think people hide stuff again because most things now require you growing a network of people whether people with close interest or people who can help you do those things when you're not around. Infact personally I think the best way to build and grow wealth is even by bringing people into the space and expanding your work force and to some extent get free time for yourself.

Na true be that, doing good na the best thing in life, we should all know say is only God that can repay any good deeds not human being, so make we no dey expect any good thing we do in return from the person we help, and we should all know that any good things we are doing should be for the sake of God because HE is the only one that can pay you back with happiness, expecting return from anyone you help will all landed you in a disappointment, there is a saying that giver never lack but you have to believe in this faith before it can work for you, but remember for the sake of God, then your mind will be free and will be at rest.

My brother na for the head of the nail naim you knack so. E dey very good to help people even if you nor dey expect anything from that person sef for the future, but the truth na be say we nor know where help dey come from. Tomorrow that person wey you help fit recommend you to person wey fit change your life for good. So e dey very good to help, but make we still know the kind of person wey we dey help, because this life na soso evil and ungrateful people we dey see around. Even for the bible after lord Jesus healed the 10  persons with leprosy, only one naim come back come say thank you. That kind person I guarantee you say if e ask for another thing e nor go hard to give that kind person.

No go help who you no supposed help oh, people dey wey you wey help them rise na that same people go be the tools wey go want bring you down tomorrow. Na make when it come for helping people you just gat know say no be everybody you go gat give help.

And one thing be say if you don't decide say you no want help person make you no go the still talk big big talk for the person front, no go the give am lamba and fake promises wey go the raise him hopes.

My two cents be say e good Wella to help people from grass to grace because the greatest development in life no be structural development but nah human capital development be the best investment for the future because we no know how tomorrow fit become for us and our children.

Very difficult to carry just everyone along, even when lending someone a helping hand they may not want to take it seriously or some may be too lazy to perform.

It's good to help those who are also ready to help themselves. Some even after helping them into the light they become the same person who will pull your legs out because you thought
them your own way and they now have few details about you.
We can also observe it in the music industry, after getting into the light some loose respects for their bosses and this will reduce the kindness of that person to help another

I'm telling you my dear, it is not as if people  are not willing to help. The truth is that we are in a difficult time that people are striving for themselves to provide for their family.  The economy is just too hard which is affecting every class of citizens in the country.  Make people understand say things hard just incase they feel or think they are not receiving help from people,  this shouldn't let their mind to be bothered, everybody dey try to meet up with one or two.

I think everyone has a way of handling or dealing with things,  that is to say that it's not everyone you think is bragging is really doing that because most of them are not...,  that's just their life and some people brag not because they want to...  But because they have really seen things that left them with no choice  and some people it's their thing right from birth.
However, some people don't share ideas because they don't want the people  they are sharing it to be more than or greater than them tomorrow and some doesn't because the people they are sharing it to can't utilize what is been shared thereby making the idea shared look like nothing and it won't be nice after sharing or giving someone something that will be useful and at the end it turned to be nothing the person who shares the idea won't be happy.
My advice is make yourself relevant and available because someone who will help you will definitely help you no matter what, it will only take time but trust me if you are capable of handling any relevant idea or opportunity you are good to...

Op, you don tlk well, e dy good to be a source of help to people wey need am, but you also know say na human we be, e dy very discouraging to help person again wen one ingrate don show you shege, but e go take only someone with a heart of gold to help again.

So most of this people wey dy wicked or wey no dy gree help person I no dy too blame dem, because na one ingrate make him or her dy act dat way

No be small thing my guy, no he everybody go fit handled some kind of things way others dey do to get money.
Person fit dey sell pure water in bags as supplies but if the person go tell iem friend about the business and how iem dey get iem profits, the friend fit look am as let down (like how iem go go dey supply pure water to people). But on a norms to be useful in life is a good thing and mostly when we share ideas with people that are mean to get money (I mean people way really dey mean to make legit money (hustling spirit).
No be to tell person about good ideas or good way to make money, na if the person go really do am, but if you done talk am be say you done talk am, na for am to decide.

Such is life my brother. Make we no allow love wet we show somebody and the person was ungrateful, then e go come make us make decisions no to show help again to anybody. If you reason say person no appreciate wetin you do and you don decide not to help, make you know say you too you no deserve help from people too, because as we dey for this life, everyone needs help. Make we just continue to do the one wey we go fit do. Though we need to dey careful with the people we dey help, but e no mean say make we no dey help again.

In actuality, you can't help or even vouch for everyone all you can do is your best, and I'm convinced that any sensible person will accept any favor without taking offense after all, many individuals enjoy taking advantage of others. Rich people will always lend a helping hand to those in their immediate family, and most of them won't want to make the announcement because doing so will draw attention from other people. They Always give an explanation for their actions. And most times people they love to render help to the most in their relatives and it might just be that they want to reduce the poverty in their family. I don't see the relevance of helping someone and then showing it off. Does not make any sense to me because it might even make the person feel bad.

Apart from say showing off fit make the person wey you help feel bad, e fit still put you for place wey you go dey in danger. I no see any benefits of showing off say you help person, the only thing wey the person fit get na pride, and people wey get pride many of them dey fall like ogbonor. So pride sef no even good for us. Even the bible sef talk am say if we dey do our alms for our right hand say make our left hand nor know. Meaning if we dey do good to Mr A make Mr B no know.some person sef na because of their character naim make people no dey help Dem, after you tell Dem to keep am on a low, e go just be like say dem they use tv broadcast take they advertise the good wey you do, and that thing no too good.

There are some people, no matter how you try to help them, they will never appreciate and you need to allow them to go through some things that will make them to know that is not easy to help. But the best help someone can give to you is to teach you how to fish not how to eat fish which are part of some of the things I enjoy so much in this community and, if you are ready to learn from those that are above you, I think you will grow.

Any help that will cause you tear, avoid such a help because it will lead you into frustration and the person you sacrifice your tears may not value your sacrifice than to join other people to bring your business down in the society.

This is very common among Nigerians. They hardly share ideas or opportunities that make them rich with people. Even in business, they will never want to show you the way out. They will rather constantly give you money than showing you the way to the opportunity. This is another year, like OP has said let's try to bring someone up by showing them the way not by constantly giving them money.

Wetin you dey try to talk here bro? This thing is not peculiar to only us in Nigeria. E dey everywhere and in fact na wetin oyibo use to overtake us be that and dem still dey do am up to now. Na oyibo dey do am pass sef because dem no wan teach us how to make good use of our resources. Our refineries wey no dey work, you think say na normal things? Dem no want us to be independent completely.

I'm not against helping someone but person go dey careful on who to help because helping someone this days come with a lot of consequences if care is not taken. Especially for this our country wey everyone is so desperate to make it even at the detriment of others including person wey show them way. We don hear and see cases of such where person dey set up him helper just to take over his position. Na why many people no like to dey share update again because people fit put sand for your garri. As we know, privacy is power and they can not destroy what they don't know.

And again make we also know that nobody owe us anything. Na this entitled mentality dey stop some people from hustling on their own and create unnecessary enmity with people who no feel like helping them. If people help you out, accept it and if they no help you, life goes on.


This one no follow because person wey need help how you dey expect make he help someone when they need help too? This natural law no dey always play out as expected and if you even observe very well, na good people dey suffer pass until God comes through for them sometimes. Offering help is a thing of choice and you don't need to offer one before you get in return. Although, helping someone when you get means is a good thing but it's not a guarantee that you will also get help when you need it.

I don't see the reason why someone will get the opportunity to help and they will not help; it is never a good idea; it is a very bad idea, and I see it as wickedness because if people have not helped them too, they should not have gotten where they may be. No matter how smart someone may be, someone may have contributed to their life too,so why do they get the opportunity and refuse to render the help? Let us know that helping others really plays a very important role in the development of a country, society, and even family. If they don't help others, it will be hard to get a better environment in this life. But one reason why some people are not encouraged to help more is because people who they want to help are not ready to help themselves.