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first of all i want to say GOOD MORNING and HOW ARE YOU? i have a bad experience having a friend and become a business partner. i have a few project for online busines like drop shipping and e-commerce they leave my project and unattended. they used my server for his personal intention. like do his personal business. thats why i cant trust anybody that pretending to be a good friend.

Good morning,
You must differentiate between job and your social relationships. Work is work. Of course, you can seek help from friends to work, and this makes you a team, and this will help your work flourish, but all of this remains under the conditions of work, and at work there are no friends or relatives,  each one has his duties that he must fulfill , they takes this into consideration. Some people may seize the opportunity, and they become negligent and lazy and do not do their work to the fullest extent. Work has its time, and friends have their time.
Friends are a positive thing at work, but if you invest that relationship in creating an understanding team full of innovative ideas and determination to complete the job and progress further in the plans.

you become a friend when a person you meet online? or she is your friend in real life? because I have seen you posting your business week ago and hope that you will find a better partners sooner.
and good luck to your business mate.

therefore, you need to distinguish between friendship and business when doing business with other people. in business there are no such things as friends or relatives, there are only interests and money. if you trust too much and think that the business relationship you have with someone you consider a good friend is good business, then you could be very wrong, because humans are dynamic and can change when it comes to money.

so you need to learn more about how to do business well and don't need to trust people too much when you do business. make this your experience and don't stress too much.

Well it is sad for hearing you have now this trust problem with them. We should be careful if we make a business with a person like this, a person that is our friend and we must make money decisions together.
Does he say why he did just leave it not attended? If he is a good friend well he needs to apologize for his acts. If he does not well then you do not need to have that in your life.

potbox.ph still not update all control from my friend. im the one who pay my server and domain

Trust has been one of the biggest challenges human are facing today ,is something that keep repecting that we shouldn't trust anyone but yet their are people we should trust
Many people are being trust no matter what ,if you have trust issues you can never trust anyone and that will deprive you of many things in life ,your wife ,your children,your siblings,you don't trust them at all which is very bad , it doesn't means that since you don't trust anyone you can't eat your wife's food because you might be scared of poison,is very bad if their is no trusts in our life today ,no need to have a wife or children
If you don't trust your manager you can't entrust the company in his hand ,is good for us to learn how to trusts our friends and relatives, theirs need to trust some people in our life ,is good to generate the life of trust but not over trust ,trust to a limit

This is why they say you should never work with a friend.

Usually businesses will ruin that friendship you have built with your friend. Even if you say that you are comfortable with each other and trust one another, there would be times where you would be so annoyed at each other until it builds and the friendship is no longer there.

Learn how to draw boundaries even with a friend especially if we are talking about running a business here.

Never trust the words, only action tells us who are real. To become a partner in business you should make official contracts than some friendly promises to keep the promises intact and if things goes side way then one can claim the loss for others.

Good day and I'm fine, thank you.

This is why I don't do business anymore with any of my friends and relatives. The trust that you're giving them is their key to take advantage of you.

That's why if you're going to do with these kind of business or any of it, don't hire and partner with a relative or a friend.

And I hope that you're going to feel better soon mate.

In this situation, I understand how you feel when someone else takes advantage of your trust, but looking more broadly in life, we don't always face these types of situations. In the past, I also faced cases of trust abuse, but then I realized one more thing: I made a mistake and must admit all my own mistakes before blaming anyone there. Anyway, I hope you have a more positive outlook on life because it doesn't always have many situations like that, and in fact challenges help us grow more mature. Maybe a little opinion depending on how you feel, but don't trust anyone yet, an interesting thing I know in a certain country they teach their children not to trust anyone even then is a close family member.

Sorry to hear about that mate but I believe that you have already learn your lesson from all of this cases , there are abuser and user in this world so better to know whom you are trusting or never trust anyone at all.
we can engage in everything  without trusting them so try to do such .

Don't worry mate not everyone will do the same , try to trust still because even if they
treat you wrong at least they are the one that have lost a chance in having a good friend
and companion an d not you.

sometimes there are reasons why they are doing such and giving them some time to
explain will clear everything .

There is no point in always thinking bad things. This can happen to me someone can treat me badly don't always think like this. Never have too much hope. Don't judge a person by social media. Because truth and falsehood cannot be understood through social media. Also excessive social media use can alienate you from others. There are many times when you can be a good friend and lose opportunities if you have this bad attitude.

Op trust is relative I think is Best defined to who ever that is using the term trust, many trust and some don't it's not a win-win situation but win and loss , what I can tell you at trust is that there are some friends that Worth trusting even stick closer than a brother despite the global changes some friends still who they are in terms of integrity, dignity and worth trusting . But we must know one thing as human that any body is liable to change at any given time, and nit all secret is to be revail to a friend even brother because what you called secret once revail to that you called friend base in trust the level of trust you have same is your friend to another person who he/she may confide information with and your secret can be exposed one day.some person share secret and believe that oath taken can find them but even with oath it's not a secret only when you alone have it in your heart that is when is secret. Therefore talking about trust can be relative.

Most of the friendships are lost due to money or business problems, in today's era it is very difficult to find selfless friendship, also the problems in business are very sensitive, because of little things, problems can increase a lot. So it is better not to bring any of your relativesor any friend in money or business. Do it yourself.

What’s that saying again “don’t mix business with pleasure “ right?
If I’m to go into any business partnership I’ll focus and trace every step with power and might because humans are the devil we’ve been hearing about. In fact, if I’m to do any business I ain’t doing no partner sh*t I’ll just do my business on my own to avoid things like this.
Imagine trusting a friend and this friend stands in to ruin your business life it’s frustrating, this is the reason why trust now is difficult not just friendship even in marriages and courtship trust has turn a very difficult thing…

Trust is a bigger challenge in people's life today, someone you trust always failed and give up so easily,and at a long run you start questioning your self why you give out your trust ,so to me I don't trust anyone at all but we keep moving to see where the real truth and fake people we are staying with.

and that is the reason why  we must not give our trust to everyone and never to listen
to what people says and also try to take our loveones word as valuable than just coming from
someone that you don't really know and most specially from the people we only met in internet
or somewhere outside our comfort zone.

Good morning,
all people are different. You can't form an opinion about other people based on just one example. I'm not encouraging you to trust people "pretending to be a good friend", but don't think bad of them right away. Give them a chance.

To some extent I agree with you, but you need to understand what kind of things we're talking about, because it's easy to trust people in some unimportant matters, but when it comes to personal matters, you need to be especially careful. You are right, all people are different, but in spite of this, I would not share any frank information with anyone, which could be blackmailed or worse, used to harm me in the future

agree, for business, put aside friends first. Because why? with business, we run is full of hard work, money and time. So, there is no harm in trusting a friend if he is a hard worker and can be trusted.

correct , its hard to trust someone close to us when talking about business or work because in many chances we will surely fail because of so much confidence and will not get serious as they knew we will favor them always.
so if you wanted to succeed in business ? try to get into people that is not so much closer to our lives.

You are right. Do not do that. There are lots of examples people sharing that kind of info when drunk or something and regretting about it later.

It's hard to trust people you've never met online.

What?

Do you mean people you haven’t met personally and only met through online? Op didn’t even mention having an online friend. But you are right that it’s difficult to trust people online as everything can be easily faked these days. They can give you fake and misleading information backed up with documents they have also falsified. It’s still recommended to be careful whether with friends online or In real life.

Seriously, no matter how much you guys think business will not affect your relationship it will still affect it pretty badly especially if things are not going well in your business. Emotions will run high and frustrations will come out. You will say things you probably don’t mean but you won’t be able to take it back which will cause the end of your relationship.

Business partners you only meet professionally are the best people to be involved with.

You are very correct because you will not take because of how your friend disappointed you and say that you are not going to trust anybody again in your life is very wrong because if you say that you are going to trust anybody, that means your wife and children are also included Normally is not really good for us to always put our trust in someone why because once you put your trust on someone the day that he will fail you it would look like the world have ended for you.

why need to trust someone even with unimportant things mate?

Trust comes from our inside and when you said trusting someone in unimportant but not when
its personal matters ? that is a wrong perception and attitude because lets take things always
personal when we are talking trusting.

that's it mate, we must not be pretending to be a good friend , because it is always bets
to be real in life ... ALWAYS .