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This life no balance,and if you are trying to balance it ,it might course a big issue to you but all the same will all try our best in anything we are doing to make sure that life is smoother for us ,can you imagine a girl his man do everything for her yet she still went ahead in cheating on him ,I want to know what exactly that push ladies into this double dating .

The reason could be anything like one can be rich and the other one shows love and affection so when someone wants both they just prefer dating both men instead of thinking straight.

When you are in serious relationship then it's important to be transparent and honest with your partner, when you feel things are not working better break instead of cheating.

if the man did everything for the goodness of the relationship and for the goodness of
the Girl yet she cheated ? then that girl deserves nothing but betrayal also .
that kind of girl does not deserve any love because she cannot be contented with
everything that lovers provided .
i felt sorry for the man if this is true because i am also a man that loves my wife so
much , but lucky that my wife is loyal since day one of our relationship.

this is what happened if you are not open to each other I mean sometimes there is a issue that both parties are not willing to talk to each of them.
this is why I made sure if i am entering the relationship me and my partner will never hide secrets and wanted, and mostly it is the problem in Bed ,we are too shy to open to our partner what we wanted and what are we desires in love making.

The question is what is the measure of love the lady hard to the man who provides all things , there is one say though you gives all you hard without love it will still profit you nothing this some principles of some ladies they we take all what you have because they have no love for you thereby profiting you the giver nothing.

Secondly the man who the lady is cheating has he carry out some psychological check on the lady to know the lady emotional feeling if love exist because is only love that can stop cheating as well know the intention of the lady .
Other mere reason is insecurities if been married by the man they date, it may appear that in the process of dating they have occasionally remind the man to pay their Bride price but the man prolonged and keep promising of doing where they loss confidence on him.

Another may be sexual satisfaction, they may be financially satisfied but sexually not satisfied, also issue of nagging from the man etc. lastly some too has cheating as hereditary where it's difficult to control no matter the level of financial satisfaction and the sexual satisfaction given by the man they always desires to cheat.

i was once in that position where my girlfriend turned out to be dating someone else. i thought that whether i was less attractive, less affectionate, or for other reasons, but apparently i was wrong, the biggest reason why she dated other men when she already had a partner was because she felt bored with the partner she had now, so for this reason, she is looking for another man to satisfy her boredom.

most women apparently get bored with the partner they have, so they look for another man because they feel bored and there are no challenges in their relationship and this is why many women cheat on their partners because their relationship is too flat.

Some women are born prostitutes. Now a days,Most men date for beauty even when they are fully aware that she is responsible. If you want to date a woman,date a God's fearing woman,it  matters a lot.you don't expect a girls you meet at the club,a Sex addict,a girl that loves money so much to be faithful to one man. Date a God fearing woman that respect and acknowledge the things of God and you will never regret it.

Too many stories to tell about that.

It's about the preference of the girl that goes into cheating despite being secured with her partner. Also in among men, there are also that kind of story that they've got a wife material partner but then they decide to cheat.

So when you find the partner of your life that you like to settle for your life, don't be an idiot that you'll find the things that can't be found to her but instead, find the great things that you've found on her.

People are all different and we all do things for different reasons.

There’s no definitive answer to give you because we are not the woman you are talking about. There could be lots of reasons but I would suggest to not think or blame oneself for your partner cheating. More often times than not it has nothing to do about you and more to do with the cheating partner and the person they found.

If someone cheats after doing everything for him then there is nothing left to do. But for what you mentioned I think you should become friendly with your partner and not hide anything from him. If you can't do something friendly then it won't be possible to solve this problem. Have to share everything with your partner.

Do we really need to answer this? your post already given the answer in that highlighted part .

that this kind of girl is not someone who can be trusted , because even if you gave her everything still she will cheat because a cheater will always cheat .

maybe this girl is not gonna be happy in single men.

I think money pushes a lady into a double date.  Sometimes it can be due to other reasons.  Again, even if one is better than the other, the girls double date.  But it can be due to different reasons according to the situation

If you think or say that money pushes ladies into double dating,what about those that has money yet their women still double date,what exactly did they want ?

I was once in the position where my girlfriend was dating someone else.  Because most girls leave the first partner, girls don't like being with one guy and then start dating guys, they have a crush on another guy.


The big problem of girls is that they never understand a boy's mind, they just want money to float well, but really who's love is never sold for money.

Sure true love is not by giving money but the pure love from the heart is the best I totally agreed with you sir

When you enter a relationship that is run by money and lust and not love then for sure you will
have this kind of partner , the cheater type because all they care is the benefits in physical and not emotional part.

there is no explanation for why a girl need to double date when they can just broke up first
before finding another one , with this attitude means they are not the type of women whom
you will be proud off.

No doubt women are just extra ordinary being their way is far different from men ,like they have fish brain and are easily to be decived mostly when their is money involved,so I think women cheat because of many reasons in many ways ,but not all women do same.
Just like men all men are not the same we have exceptional men ,men that are different from other men,the truth is that god create men in different ways
Use your tounge and count your teeth

Nice guys finish last, always.

They will marry the guy that makes them feel safe or that they believe they have complete control over. Then they will see if they can date up from there (fools gold) or they are just garden tools. Most fall under the garden tool category. They figure you won't dump them like you should and dump the heavy lifting of fixing the relationship on the man.

Don't be captain "save a ho", yo can't great guy them into being good people.

They cheat, get rid of them. Trying to reason with them is like reasoning with cancer.

You find out protect yourself and your future as best you can, hide money assets whatever you got to do. They gave up fair treatment.

no one says that they are all same , we are pointing here about women who is double dating
and that is what we are talking about so i don't know where did you get that comparison to a men
because the topic run in your question why women is dating others when they are in relationship.
and even men and women are created differently but behavior and attitude are almost the
same in relationship matter because there are more men who's cheating than women.

Well for me a women that is doing that is not a right women for you. We want to have a women that is going to be there for us and not another man. And not the one that has other men on her mind.

But I think they do that for more attention from the men. That is something we must remember about them. If I am not going to give her all he attention she wants then there is some other man that will do it for her. 

It never get's better.

If she cheats cut her free and never look back.

She will never stop betraying you, ever.

It's never "just a mistake" don't believe that shit.

or maybe Give her at least one chance mate? because if that is your position then better to Cut her neck instead of just cutting her in your life  ;D

sometimes once is a mistake but twice is a intentional  so with that better cut her forever in life because she will keep doing this everytime you are not around like a mice when the cat is not present .

maybe those women are looking for complete package so instead of breaking with their partner they are seeking for another one in chance of finding their prince charming first before giving on him.
or maybe they are just a complete cheater that does not want to be with single men and constantly looking for different male.
agreed 100 thousand percent , there are lots of women there that deserves your love .

And one more, then one more it never stops. I have NEVER in my life seen this "work out". you spend years of your life and sanity chasing a ghost when it could be better spent with someone who wants you instead of settls for you until something else comes along.

These are the exact same women who say "where are all the good men at".. Well, they are all over, they just don't want to be with you.

correct on that , why we need to suffer for such relationship when there are much better that awaits us from the one that really deserves us , good explanation there mate.

I hope those girls will read that strong words and I wanted to put my palm in their faces having those words to not wanting to be with them.

First of all I want to tell you that life cannot go on without balance. If we lose balance in life, we will go crazy. Only a madman on earth cannot maintain his balance. If we go on in our life, happiness, sadness, joy and pain will be side by side. Both success and failure in life will be side by side. By failing I will waste my life and the one for whom I have failed will live a life of great joy. I would call it nothing but madness to do such a thing. When someone leaves us or cheats on us, at first we may feel like we're done. But if you spend a few days with patience, you will understand that life has many meanings. But we have to be conscious in choosing a life partner. A person's character can only be understood by asking the people around him. If you ask ten people, ten of them will not tell a lie. A decision can be made based on what most people say. Relationships don't happen overnight. When we are with someone for a long time, it becomes a relationship. We should still understand what kind of nature he is by looking at their behavior.

We are free to choose but others wanted them to have burden all their life having cheating
partner and that is truly insane , though sometimes they have their reasons but why need to cheat
when they can break up first and do on their life.

if they are doing that for attention then they should not hide it? but why hiding and not
telling partners that they are cheating?

Sure the woman is not a perfect one for anyone, because any woman who truly love his man we endure everything and wait

Not only to wait mate but also to take care of their partners feeling because relationship
needs full respect and trust and not to cheat by any chance , never that we will put complete
respect when a women or even the men will move to cheating because that is complete BS .

Woman with cheat spirit even when all things is available remain to cheat , I think most of the cheat is course by parental up bringing and some environmental influences but most cases is as a result of hereditary where it serves as courses or basically in Africa where there are many beliefs, to deal with a cheat is the hardest to do because the trust or love won't exist avoidance of such woman is best.

Many cheat because of unknown fear of been dump by the spouse or guy why some as result of unsatisfied desire either sexually or earthly things which spouse can't afford.

At all they don't understand the mined set of boys ,to understand boys is so hard to the extent that they need control,too much control

You would get so many answers as how many women in the world. All cases are unique. But mostly it's because they don't think that the man that is "doing everything for her" is going to stay with her forever. She wouldn't cheat on him if she was sure of him.

Most ladies don't trust to be with just one month many think he can end up dumping them so instead they will keep two to three boyfriends . When they cant make it with one guy they switch to the others think it is a simple theory for me.

That means they just don’t like each other enough.

If there’s a possibility of him dumping her then he might not like her as much and if she isn’t sure of him to the point that she has back ups then she also doesn’t like him that much. In conclusion they aren’t meant to be together. People should look for people who like them and they like just as much maybe even more to avoid things like this from arising.

Sure brotherly if they cheat on you leave them ,women runbishe people with fish brain,I think this has really show me something,am thinking that many of them can't be save for anyone who clame to be an indengious person,you need to apply straightness so to observe the voice calm please

That's how most ladies think, and I agree with that. They have every right to think like that and behave that way too, in my opinion. It's unfortunate that in some places, even today, they are stoned to death for it.

Those are the stupid humans , these type of people or woman don't deserve to be
loved instead to become oldmaid because they will never respect male all their life.
they only treat male to be their asset or reserved for their own greedy attitude.
Just like them?  we can also do this against them there are lots of women that can
love us without bounderies .

Double dating is just fun for some people, that's all.

It's probrably her vision of a fun night, and it's natural for similar couples to go out together anyway. It can actually make both parties feel super comfortable.

Every heard of a "Power Couple" before? It's like that but x2!  :)

Many are unsure of keeping only one Man thinking he may cheat on them sometime later that's why they opt to date many people incase if one didn't work then they will switch to the other.

The interesting thing is that a woman's brain keeps a copy of the DNA of every man she has sex with. This can cloud her judgment about her partner that she wants to make her permanent partner. Avoid women who have had many sexual partners. Try for women who are virgins so that you are the only one.

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I was curious about this topic, but when I read this issue I felt even more fun. To me, life is about balance, it's just your attitude when facing life.

The situation you mentioned is a personal matter for that person, and of course there are all kinds of reasons that that girl can justify, but it is also that girl's life. I think there comes a time when that girl also realized the mistake in her behavior, and even she knew it was wrong but still accepted it. Perhaps paying the price for that behavior is inevitable. That's why I say life is balanced when bad behavior will bring bad results. But for a man who tries to nurture feelings, if he knows the truth about being lied to, he will also have many different choices. But I think that if they express a positive attitude towards life, they always deserve to receive good things just challenges help them overcome, not defeat.

Yeah, but still I would suggest to wait a bit. Maybe he will never cheat, maybe he's the man of your life. Don't make his life harder just because you think he may cheat sometime later. It's unfair.

What pushes a lady into double dating.


I heard a guy named Ed explain it this way: "Two Eds are better than one."



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there is a new trend starting now where its not just double dating. but double engaging.
many women rush the dating process to get guys to propose and give women an engagement ring, gift and join account to "save up for wedding". this then causes the man to think he can start joining his assets with the woman. .. she then takes the assets and ends the relationship, even without marriage

they sell the assets (engagement ring and gifts) and then repeat with the next guy, all while living rent free and getting allowance or gifts from the guys that think they are engaged.. its become a career for these types of woman

it started as a trend with women engaging with men who recently join the military and about to get deployed. to rush to be engaged before deployment and whilst the guy is on deployment she lives rent free in his home and spends his salary whilst she organises the next guy to set up with.
but now the trend has gone viral and more women are following this trend and doing it more often. usually it only works well with situations where the guy has to work away from home for periods of time.(salesmen, truck drivers, oil rig workers, etc)

One thing that is always sating about women is even if you give them everything that you have on this earth a cheating one is always a cheating one, so that's why is always necessary for us to date a responsible one that we always love you weather you are Rich or not she we always love you, although dating a girl that is always cheating on you is dangerous more especially when you are Rich she can plan with her boyfriend and send you to early grave just to takeover your wealth.

of course there are several factors that cause someone to cheat and usually cheating does not only happen to women but also men, the reasons people cheat include;

economy problem
revenge against a partner
genetic
normalize

cheating can only be cured by religious teachings because all religions teach loyalty

I wouldn't be so sure about that.  8)

Why need to be two eds when there is Mike available with fresh offers  ;D ;D

giving consent to a girl making double dating is something that will ruin each relationship and every male in the world because that will hurt their pride and their believe in themselves.

Lets not generalized mate because indeed that mostly they will never change but sometimes there are
mistakes that  is forgivable depending in how much they are sorry for  what they did and how they wanted to
change for good not mentioning about Love that mostly the reason why there are forgiveness that happens.
we are human and can do wrong but this must not be permanent or else your advise must be followed.

Maybe lack of trust being with one man only in case something goes wrong along the way .

Considering the kind of character that most of our teenagers are putting up in relationships nowadays, it look like faithfulness seen to be a thing of the olden days because I doubt if there is anyway most teenagers will stick to one person in a relationship. However, there are so many factors to be consider as the major causes of unfaithfulness, it could be as a result of influence of peer group or societal influence, lack of parental responsibilities or poor upbringing, poverty, ignorance, inappropriate orientation, economic factors and indecipline. I honestly believe that if most of hese factors are handle properly I think there will be some limit in the rate of unfaithfulness in relationship.

Lack of trust alone is not enough reason for cheating or unfaithfulness because if someone see that there is no trust in a relationship I don't think if there is any law that prohibit the person to walk away from the relationship and look forward to building a better and trustworthy relationship. I think there is more to that than lack of trust.