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I bet on few matches and it happens that I had few winning but unfortunately I lost it because the last game didn't play as expected as Everton FC - Ipswich Town played draw after I gave Everton to win. Though I have other line up games which I was supposed to bet but due to the lose I wasn't that having that moments to stake any further games.

The curiosity led me to come ask if this has happened to anyone before, having double mind to stake game. Something keep telling you don't stake while the other says go ahead which would you choose if you were the one? Please your response are greatly needed.

You mean because you lose, you do not feel like betting that day again but another mind still want you to bet? I am very different about this because if I lost a bet, I may not bet for that whole week again or I may even extend it to the following week no matter how another mind is tellinge to bet, I will not just bet.

People are prone to more losses after they have lost a bet.

That is a normal feeling when you gamble. You thought that this x bet will make you win but if things didn't go well, you've just lost it and then with the other bets that are in your line up is about to happen and you've decided that you'll bet for them. But, when the time is approaching, you're scared because you might just lose it again. Remember that you are gambling, whether you are the most positive thinker bettor in the whole world, losing is going to be part of everyone's journey. So, if you're not up to gamble, that's fine and let that fear pass you before you're going to gamble again. That's how you can make yourself comfortable, don't be pushy so if you fear and don't want to gamble, don't do it and only do it when you're ready again.

I would guess it is normal, isn't it?
One losses money because a combined bet did not go as you expected and you come across feelings of disappointment and deal with then.
You want to continue to bet for the sake of entertainment and also in order to recover some of those losses you had, but you still have the previous experience in mind and realize there is still the chance you could continue to lose even more money in your next bet, it makes you feel reluctant of betting and scared. It has happened to anyone who has dealt with betting at some point of their life and has dedicated a minimum of time to it.

I would advice you to reduce the size of your wager if you feel scared of losing more money, decrease your risk until you feel comfortable enough with the possibility of losing that new adjusted wager on your screen, that is (in my opinion) the responsible thing to do.

Back to managing our emotions, because there will definitely be many desires and temptations during betting, such as:
- trying other bets that can actually distract focus
- raising bets
and maybe some other factors, which of course the hope is to be able to get more money to win.

But, remember! This is gambling!

So, keep reminding yourself to be more assertive and disciplined in managing your bankroll and also betting, because defeat can only be regretted, and the next bet has no way of returning our money.

So, we will not later experience regret because of defeat.

That just means you’re not confident in your pick. If that’s the case, better to let it pass and look for another game or just wait until tomorrow.

You have to accept the losses, especially when you’ve done the best you could. If you did your analysis right, then win or lose, it’s part of the process. Stop letting fear control you as it won’t help. You’re here to take risks, so man up and accept whatever outcome comes, especially when things don’t go as expected.

I guess this is pretty normal, anyone can have such thoughts even not on a betting. I feel like it’s your instincts and logic trying to protect you from potential loss while your hopeful side wants to take a chance on a win. But when it comes to this moment, ask yourself if you do some research to the game or teams you want to bet, if you will not regret once bet is made... Just like that.

When you are going to place a bet, you should not put your feelings into the analysis of the games and also during the games. Always remain calm and feel that you are prepared to accept defeat. Only celebrate after you see that the result was favorable to you. In this case, for example, if after you placed a bet you had put it in your head that you have a greater chance of losing than winning, then when you saw that you lost, it would not have left you with negative thoughts. You would continue to bet on other games.

For parlays, it seems like the last game we end up choosing in most cases always turns out to be the one or among the games that will eventually ruin the whole thing.

I can make some predictions for games that I want to place my bet on and end up not betting on them again; it could be either because I changed my mind on them or my instinct just asked me not to do it, so it's normal, but whatever decision I make, I don't blame myself if the game turns out positive and I don't bet on it.

Well it's up to you to decide whether to continue or not, Most times when people lose they wagger more or rebet to still try luck, but sometimes they chose or decide to call it a quit to avoid losing more . It is possible that your next move will result to win and it could as well result to loss, now everything lies on you to make decisions. But if I where you I will try like at least 3 times to see the outcome before you can decide to stop and continue another day.

My choice is going to depend on several factors which include - the amount I placed on the game and also the balance I have left. You know losses like this tend to affect your judgement in a way and if you’re the type that bets more than you can afford to lose you’ll no longer be able to think logically all that will be running through your mind would be how to get back your money and even if you don’t trust your prediction for the lineups you have you might still go ahead to bet; so that’s why when ever I feel any bit of hesitation in me about any game I tend not to bet on it and just trust my instincts on it because there’s a high tendency for me to still lose after the first game that didn’t go as planned.

Our emotions works different. If I were you in this position I will go ahead to gamble because one loss or two does not scare me. It also depends the game you are gambling on. I gamble on casino games for fun but you see sports games I do it with the intention of winning. So, if I lose in sports getting I can place more bet but this time I will make the bet less risky by adding only few games to the parlay so that I can realize the amount I lost earlier on. I may choose not to gamble anymore if I have exceed my bankroll for the day.

It depends on how much I've lost on my last bet. If I lost half of my deposit, I don't think I would want to go back into another bet but take a break for the time being. It's just part of you being a human being. You get scared or emotional when you make unfortunate losses. So sometimes for every loss you make, your courage to go into another game continues to decline and when you risk just too much, you may not even have the mindset to want in again. That's why you should risk only what you can afford to loss.

It's normal to have series of thoughts weather or not to gamble further after a loss which you've hoped on winning especially in cases like this where the entire game has been turning out really well except the last game. However it's OK to make decisions from our emotion in times like because the only person you can't lie to is yourself, some emotional decisions has lead to more loss or even make us profitable in most cases, I can't deny the fact that I do make some gambling decisions off my emotions though, it isn't advisable but if we are true to ourselves we can't really help but make some decisions off our emotions especially when it comes to gambling.

You lost in a bet but you still prefer to go for parley which could only mean another loss as people do lose parley and it is one of the reasons the gambling sites are getting rich day after day. I will prefer not to bet that day again is what I have learned while betting just to minimize losses.

Gambler's fallacy in reverse, because you have lost a game, you think that today you will still lose another game since you're using the same tactic.

Undestandable but illogical at the same time since none of the events are related in any kind of sequence, it would be logical if for example you would prefer to bet on a stable and the first three horses of that stable would all have lost, then it means the stable is out of form and their jockey sucks, so keep betting on them would indeed be stupid, but in football games it makes no sense.
The only thing that would help you here is pretty simple, don't bet unless you can easily toss that money in the toilet, if you don't care about them, you won't fear a loss either.

If you don't feel like betting, don't bet. At least you're feeling that way. It could be the total opposite to others. They could be feeling like they need to get their money back as soon as possible, and so they'll bet more and more simply for the sake of trying to recover their loss. They may end up sports betting as if they're just betting on some random casino games.

Or perhaps that's your instinct saying you're not feeling lucky that day. I oftentimes follow my gut feeling. I'm not saying it's accurate, though. ;D

It is normal if you are afraid to place more bets after lose because your minds may think that you can loss more money. Some people will decide to stop gambling but other people will keep place their bet because they think they may win. It is personal decision so you should consider carefully and the important thing is you need to accept whatever will happen with the result.

If you fear after lose, you should not place more bets in that day. You can back to the betting site other days so you don't have any negative feeling so you can analyze without feeling bad.

Also add the amount you lost because it adds to the fear you feel, especially if you lost too much, the feeling like your whole body went for a short period of time.

Take an example you lost small amount vs big amount - the feelings are different.

Yes what happened to you happens to majority of us and honestly whenever we find ourselves in this kind of situation you will agree with that there is no longer fun in continuing because you are already having double minded and in most cases we ended up losing and blame ourself for not listening to the other mind that said you should no bet any further perhaps it is not meant to be so because at that point you are completely controlled by your emotion resulting to not making informed decision, you might even not make predictions as you used to properly, as for me whenever I have this kind of thoughts I leave the betting premises and get my sanity which is very important.

The root cause behind this is that we humans dont like to lose. We like to win and we want to have a rematch when we lose just because we want to try again and win.

This will work in actual sports but this exact thing will lead to demise in gambling.

The casinos understand this method and thus they keep trying to push you to play more "to win it back" - you can never win it back and the losses will come back up. You never know the next game might also end up in a draw and you will be losing that too.

Loses kill morale and this is a simple fact, take for example, you go out everyday to do your business, you do today and business didn't go well as you expected, you go tomorrow and business didn't also go well as you expected it should, you try again the next days and the same thing happened, you will likely at this point lose your interest in trying or going to that same business again the day after that..

This also what happens in gambling or sports betting, if you bet on a game and lost, it kills the morale or the interest to bet on another game again, atleast, at that very moment, this happens to me alot of times, there are even times I go on a long break after losing multiple times to games, not because I don't want to bet but because I simply lost interest, I will need to build up interest again to return back and bet again.

The right decision would be to stop for a while to rethink your actions. You shouldn't rush headlong into it. This will only make the situation worse and many bets will be lost. You can return to analytical work, which will help you to distract yourself and collect your thoughts. Switch yourself to other actions, and not just bet every time you lose. After all, money tends to run out.

We are afraid of losing only when we lose our control. If you follow proper risk management guidelines you won’t be afraid of anything as you will he informed about your potential losses beforehand, so you will be prepared for that scenario mentally. People be afraid either when they face something (or some situation) they never faced before or when they take stupidly unnecessary risk. In these situations the adrenaline takes over and brain stops working. Basically we panic and panic brings more trouble in financial matters.

Unfortunately we will have to keep discussing this over and over again which at times it's tiring to the soul.

Mate you obviously lost what you shouldn't have used to place bet, that amount you risked is something you couldn't afford to lose, why the pain now? It is a curse that it's only when gamblers lose money is when they will think?

You place bet thinking you will win, are you the one that will go and handle the football field yourself? Even if you are part of the team you will only have to do your part, your team mates can still play abnormally or miss some goals opportunities.

Gamblers need to stop this already, never have any confidence in your bets, you are just a human, not some god like being who can read the future, know your place.

What you felt was a normal thing, normally when you lose you might not have the motivation to continue gambling because naturally nobody likes to be a looser. The answer is simple, if you don't feel motivated to continue, you can just stop and try your luck another day when you feel better. Gambling is not a job that we must continue whether we feel motivated or not because in jobs we're sure of getting income. I think that it's a good thing not to feel motivated to continue gambling when you're losing, it'll prevent you from chasing loses which we try very hard to avoid.

A gambler who is afraid to bet again after a loss, he is a gambler who values money very much and has pretty good self control. This is not the case for all gamblers, and only a few gamblers have wise thinking. And usually this happens the first time they gamble. And you don't need to listen to anyone's advice and it would be better if you do it according to your own mind. If you don't feel ready to gamble anymore, leave gambling for a while and come back once you feel better.

It's what you prefer. If you think you have enough spending money on sports betting, then go quit. There's nothing wrong with it, and it might actually be your best decision in your life if everything goes smoothly in the future.

But I bet it won't be easy because you are also advertising a gambling campaign, which means you will be in the discussions most of the time, and that could spark an urge to place a bet again. Those who quit totally mostly try to put anything gambling-related out of their lives, including emails and notifications. That way, they won't be urged to gamble again.
It's normal to fear betting again after a loss, it's our defense system that doesn't want to lose more.

Well this same thing normally happens to every gamblers but what I would say is this, if you still have the money you should bet another one but when you don't have any other money you should just stay put instead of risking what you can not afford to lose and regret later. Although sometimes you follow your instincts but our instincts are not always right.

Yeah it's really happened to me, The thing is that you will get afraid of staking another game because the lost is a fresh one, in a normal circumstances when you lose what you are not supposed to lose in the gambling you will be under tension for awhile, and I understand that really put people on tension mostly when you did expect to lose and you lost out of the game

And another thing that makes it shocking whenever you remember what you lose in gambling is that, maybe you have plans what you will use the profits for, when you have not win, secondly, the money you use to gamble is not been budgeted for gambling, if you want to think less whenever you gamble and lose or make profit, especially when you're losing often, make sure that you have a specific funds that you budgeted on gambling every week, if you have such, I don't think that when you lose, you will still having the trauma or the fear of losing again in the gambling.

But when you have a weekly budget and also a monthly budget in gambling, you will not be afraid of anything, because as you lose it will not affects you, and if you win, it will not also affects you, if you gamble with curiosity, it when you have high chances of losing, but if you gamble ordinarily, you have a good chance of wining.

This is typical for many. Our failures give rise to doubts in us. Some give up, realizing that they are not prepared enough for losses and are not strong enough in their analyses. However, I would suggest accepting such an experience and trying again. In betting games, everything is possible; follow the rule: hope for the best, but prepare for the worst. You cannot predict the results, but you can conclude those players who decide the results of games. If we study the habits of players and coaches, those who can unexpectedly turn the game around, all this will be a reserve of knowledge for us for new bets.

It's a normal human instinct. When you are winning, you feel confident because your mind keeps telling you that you can do it, and since there is clear evidence of that (your previous and latest wins), you accept that thought thrown at you and you feel like you can do it. Similarly, when you are losing or when you lose, you lose confidence in yourself, and you think that you can't do it because you have recently lost, and that loss stays in your mind.

You can't completely get rid of this thing, but there are ways to control this, and the most easiest one is to always use funds that you can easily afford to lose because in that case, your mind would at least not be as stressed since you would know that the amount lost wasn't that much and you might be able to recover it if you try again and do it with more preparations. Or, you could take a small break, do something that will make you forget the recent past, you should know what does that, and then you can get back to it once you are refreshed.

Because you have lost the bet, your other mind is trying to get you to participate in the bet again, this is basically your greed, your mind wants to get a lot of money. When I bet and lose two bets in a row, I immediately retire, this is basically a sign of getting rid of the addiction. Because I follow what my brain advises me, but you keep yourself calm and stop gambling continuously.
You are losing at the moment, of course, the experience is increasing, I think and my personal thought is that losing in the bet increases the experience. Since you have lost, of course, you retire and later when your mind is calm, you can try betting again and try to change your luck.

I think your response to losing is okay because it is not many individuals who after losing will decide to stop gambling. I have read in this gambling board many times where they say it is wrong for you to chase your losses, and for any gambler who has the confidence to chase their loss means that they lack fear even after losing. Because of the lack of that fear, they go back into gambling platform and make more bets trying to win back the money they've lost unfortunately, they end up losing more because they are chasing their losses.

It is okay to be afraid of making more bets after losing if you ask me.

The first thing I will tell you is that you are breaking the rule of only betting with money you can afford to lose, which I would qualify as betting with money you are comfortable with. Apparently you are playing with money that you either can't afford or that you don't feel comfortable doing so.

If you had lost $0.01 would you be afraid? There's your answer. The thing is that the more comfortable you are with the amount you bet the less exciting the bet is.

I don't see any reason to be afraid or to stop for a while, because from the op statement it shows that he hasn't even bet that much. He said that he has some game lineup yet to bet, but due to the loss he had that made him not to continue and asking us wether to continue or not. For me his loses are not up to the level of asking wether to stop or not. This question would have been better if he had bet several games and lose but want to try more. its just like trying something for the first time and hasn't even gone anywhere and you are becoming tired already. I see that op is not a gambler maybe he is just trying to learn gambling.

OP, you have faced the usual thing gambler who lose have. Whenever they lose, they always say that they knew they should have placed different bet or bet on different outcome. This comes from gambler try to find excuse because they dont want to look losers in others eyes. That is totally ok. I wont say that all have fear after lose because of greed, I would better say that it OK to hesitate, because while placing a bet that gambler had sort of analysis or discussion with himself which bet is better to place. At least such gambler understand where was a mistake in prediction and next time maybe have better result.

I will always follow my instinct, if it tells me not to stake I wouldn't. However, you're to know when you stop staking and call it a day so that you don't get carried away by your emotions and do the wrong thing. If you cannot control yourself when gambling, it's gon be a problem to you in the long run.

Don't think of chasing your losses and only gamble with an amount that you can afford to lose. A lot of gamblers have experienced what you are saying.

That's why it's said that some bets require a lot of courage, or, as the locals say, big balls.

If you have a fear of losing, maybe you should stop betting... or you can try to overcome that fear with minimal stakes. That has its advantages, first of all, you get to free yourself and do it the way you want. You won't care if you lose, which is one of the characteristics of an experienced gambler: he doesn't cry over a loss, but just moves on and looks for the next good opportunity.

It’s a natural feeling after you lose—you just don’t have the confidence to bet again and would rather back off and save your money. But I feel that if you don’t have the confidence to bet again after a loss, it’s best to call it a day and take a break until you can get the confidence to gamble again. Because if you force yourself to bet again, you might make decisions based on emotion, not logic, and you might end up making the wrong decisions and losing more. So it’s best to only bet with confidence and only gamble within your means.

This happens often. I think it is a natural phenomenon since in betting the chances of winning and losing are equal. So our subconscious mind does this. Even though we go to bet on our favorite team winning, we often feel that the team can also lose. And in betting, the chances of winning and losing are equal. So it is natural to feel this way. But we have to come to a certain conclusion. I would say that a professional gambler does not make decisions influenced by anyone's trend. He will bet on the team he thinks is the favorite to win. That is what I do. I prioritize my own decision.

It has happened to me and others can say the same thing because we're humans and the next defensive measures we take after losing is to be afraid to continue. Only a few can take up the courage to continue gambling after losing and this happens more when the amount lost is too big for us to let go. The popular advice is to quit after losing hence I expect that should be the normal reaction from others. For me too I don't like gambling further after I lose big because I have noticed that it doesn't favour me as I'll keep on losing until I decide to stop. I might probably get few good predictions but the majority is going to be losses while when I continue after I win, there are more chances for me to continue winning untill the loss comes.

If you fear after the loss means youre not up for it. Gambling is a thrill and exciting game which you stake your money for it. Its normal to have fear esepcially when you are betting a huge amount. But in gambling, you must only used funds that you are okay to lose with before you even started. If not ready to lose then dont play at all since you are in doubt of potential losing badly.

Fear is in the soul of every man, like they say. That's on a general level. Every man has what scares them. Coming to losing, no man loves to lose; whether in gambling nor in other real life engagements. So, it's natural to get scared attempting immediately after a loss. It's the same thing that happens in trading. However, as a bettor you should've a gambling pool you take out for your stakes (that's amount you gamble with). If you've not exhausted that set out for the day or week, I think you shouldn't get scared trying again if you feel you've got a better chance at it.

Sometimes I do the same, I don't feel in the mood to continue betting after experiencing a defeat which is not in accordance with my own predictions, especially when I choose my favorite team and feel that they will win the match. But I think it's normal for humans to feel that way, for now I choose a way to overcome it by dividing the bankroll supply for gambling on sports, while the rest is for slot games, because I personally feel that if there is no lucky in sports, so I will continue gambling on slot games, because in this way I can usually get more entertainment and make my mood good again. And surely, I set limits so as not to fall into bad risk if a losing streak occurs.

Many people fail to think rationally when they lose, they decide to continue gambling in the hope of getting back what they lost before. But the reality is, they are actually getting trapped into their emotions that make them unable to control themselves. The advice often given by members on this forum is "Stop after losing", like stale advice even though this is the most rational way before falling into a bigger loss. I am unable to give any advice, because I often experience the same thing. So, we must continue to learn to be vigilant, don't let emotions take over on us.

I would say that after a loss there is no starch, only disappointment remains because of the money lost. Fear can be present during the game, when you understand that you can lose, and before a bet there is always mainly hope that this time the bet will be a winning one. So personally, after a loss I definitely have no fear, only disappointment and the desire to win back. This feeling is familiar to everyone and no one likes it, and the bigger the loss, the stronger it is.

I treat all my bets as a continuous process, and the fear of the next bet is essentially invented by you based on previous unsuccessful experiences. This happens not only to you, but also to other players, because fear makes us think that now it will happen again and again. It does not affect me at all, because I understand that losing is part of the game and there is no way to do without it. In any case, we will even encounter a series of losses, but after them, most likely, a series of wins will begin, this is the essence of the game on bets. I repeat that if you are afraid to bet, you can take a break, because your mental state is more important than any bets and money.

Obviously, you either didn't read the OP to get a proper context of the argument or even that salient line of mine up there. For emphasis, I brought that line out again so you could understand better that the issue OP raised wasn't about when a bet was on but on placing another bet after a loss. Both are two different things.

Being skeptical about the options we make in sports betting is normal especially when we have been dealing with losses..But one thing about betting is that it's very possible to have a different result from your previous bets.. don't allow your losses to put you in fear, the best thing you can do is to reduce your stakes on your next bet after losing, then when you make profit you can increase it slightly..fear can be a killer sometimes it can make you lose opportunities.

Cause you lost? I mean there's no particular reason to it, we're just human. And fearing loss IS being human. People who look like they dont fear loss are either people who have no emotions or people who know how to accept a loss.

Personally I've come to terms with it especially in gambling since I've ingrained it in my mind that when I started my session, I already lost everything. I'd say it's up to you imo but if you're second doubting yourself then yeah, better to just stop.

The best option would be to skip, but if I can't resist myself, i'll try to keep it as low as half a unit and shift my focus on the upcoming matches.

I've also been there countless times because sometimes I don't want to miss out on certain matches, and then it backfires a lot of the time, thinking it'll be an easy win.

If you're worried about losing again, then you might be betting aggressively. Anyway, don't feel bad about skipping matches. There's always another round of matches, and it's better not to force bets.

Maybe you could just follow your instinct and stay away from gambling for a while, then after that, you continue, as that could be a sign for you to take a break for the time being. Most times, we allow fear to grip us after we have lost some bets, but all the same, it is natural to fear, but not to go emotional about it. This makes me to say this because such actions sometimes might result as a factor of one's gambling to take profit but when gambling for fun with allocated budget, there would be no cause for panic or fear but all the same, if you have been gambling for a long time maybe this occurrence might just be a sign for you to take a break.

It happens this way probably when you have a long chase for winnings and when you counter such losses that moment you take a halt or stop to prevent further loses to be generated. So there's certainly no big deal  having fear knowing that gambling whereas betting will always give you that feedback and maybe you should stick to your instincts so when he tells you to stop you do so to avoid regrets later on.

Since the sporting games are mostly on selected week days and on weekends it's always a great feeling for slot players to fall back to clicking buttons once the match days are over. Interchanging games could help a player to have better thoughts or approach to the other game of interests, especially observant gamblers who wish to improve in decision making.

Yes, It has happened to me and even sometimes I still experience that feeling of uncertainty after I have previously lost a bet and maybe want to place another bet, I will sometimes stop my self from placing any bet because my mind will be telling me "what if you lose this bet again? "With such thought, I could just give up in placing any bet for that day. Fear is natural but I think we should not allow it to overwhelm us that we can not be able to place bets.

Loss makes you to be abhorrent to more losses. It is the feeling like the loss will rub-off on the other next bad. I think what they have called it is a bad mojo. The time I had that type of loss, I didn't even bother betting immediately again on the next game because I certaintly knew that it was also going to be another loss. Let me tell why I thought so because my mindset was already in the chasing losses mode. I was subconsciously trying to recover the one that I had by wanting to bet on another game inmmediately. In this moment any decision made was going to be wrong because my judgement is already poor.

There are bets that feel like there's a little 'angel' on one side telling you not to bet and a little 'devil' on the other side telling you to go for it, it's actually kind of funny lol. Well, here’s how I approach it: I think about the bet and how much money I’m willing to risk. If, while thinking about it, I feel comfortable, then I go ahead and bet. But if I feel even the slightest discomfort, I hold off... it's been working well for me.

Curiosity is always present in gambling, whatever the results achieved by the player, losing or winning, there will always be curiosity so that questions arise in the mind whether to continue betting or stop.
Those who like high risks will not have fear so they will continue.
All gamblers must have experienced that, but usually my decision not to make another bet at that time was because I had run out of funds in the account, or because I didn't have time to check the betting market.

If you are in doubt don’t bet. It’s your body defense mechanism to avoid further loss because you are not confident on your analysis anymore.

I lose most of the time if I keep playing even though I’m already doubtful on my next bet.

You can always bet on the other day or when your mind is already clear. Don’t think that all bet option is a limited edition because there’s unlimited bet option to pick every day.

It is a normal response for a gambler who's not yet ready and yes, not up for it. Because most of the gamblers who have been betting for so long, these scenarios are normal and they're not going to react a lot. What they fear is that they won't be able to gamble again for some reason. But the usual reaction they or we'd do is to try to win back those losses. If we fear losing again, we also know what to do and how to respond to that emotion. If someone doesn't know what to do and they feel fear, you don't have to make things worse and simply do a silent quitting.

That feeling I believe is very common to most gamblers. Of course, once you lost, you really want to recover your losses up until you are already losing more than what you planned. Because like it or not, sometimes our luck is very far from our side. However, we can't blame anyone about this but ourself. Thus, we need to control our emotions and be practical about it. If you know you are already losing beyond your target, take a pause and stop. Maybe, it is time to call it a day and just go back when you have more. You are never a loser if you admit to yourself that you need to stop the game because you have no more bankroll to squeeze. It is your money, so it is your prerogative to stop or continue.

You are not a gambler if you don't feel like that.

Why does it say it is normal? Because we are driven by our emotions. Fear arises when we are doubtful. The 'what ifs' appear in our minds, leading to some fear and uncertainty. We live this kind of life, and no matter what we do to control our emotions, they still come out, especially if we bet huge amounts. That is why we should stop assuming that we could win. Instead, prepare ourselves to accept whatever the outcomes of our bets are.

It's quite normal to think that way because you don't want to have the same result again. Probably majority of gamblers are sharing the same sentiments. I also experienced that, it's certainly hard to decide because of our fear but if you have discipline to refrain yourself, it's best to just stop and come back next time.

In gambling, if you have doubt and can't bear the possibility to lose again, it's an indication to just quit. There's always next time and that is if you're in the good mood to stake again.

I always experience it, I think it is due to the fear of experiencing the same result all over again.
And the way I see it, it is my way of stopping myself on gambling again, restricting myself to indulge in it and lose more money.

I have been gambling more than a decade now. Not sometimes but most times there will not be luck at all because once the gambler or the bettor is losing, it motivates him to act recklessly into gambling or betting without thinking of the consequences and that is the time gamblers lose most. If he has more money, he will increase the money, aiming to win more bit lose more instead. This is the reason I prefer to just stop gambling after losing just once while betting.

Gambling & placing bets are each choice, if you are in doubt do not place a bet and if you are sure there is no coercion in gambling, for that anyone really needs analysis and thorough Before placing a bet, do not rush to take the time to analyze one of the good things to consider.

So, in the future for bets based on what you know, don't gamble on sports/clubs that do not know, if you do the incident it can be like that You do and consider the club's opponents before pressing the bet button, the point is hesitant do not force it to bet.

Relaxation is a key factor/major determinant to how good your predictions can turn out to be. You may have a better foresight of what the outcome of a game would be, but overthinking is lethal and can ruin overthinking.
That's an irresolute way of gambling. It's one of the major struggles in gambling. You ought to make your choices at once, but make them right. Have in mind that you don't have to win to feel the fun in the game; if the bonus gets to you, take it.
I don't why you should be scared after losing already, but I can confirm that it's normal to feel that way when your games are up and running.

Isn't it normal to lose at gambling? Because we are ready to lose money here? So for me, it's not fear but after losing, we should take a break while recovering the bankroll.

If you can't afford it then it's better not to bet --- or bet a small amount so that when the bet loses you will not regret or be afraid.
But I will continue betting even if the bankroll is still there, if it is exhausted then it is better to stop and continue again next week.

when it comes to gambling, people always want to win and not lose, and it does not work that way. So there is a lot of effort when it comes to being patient when it comes to gambling. Still, many of us don't want to exercise that patience winning and losing have their own effect on a bettor, because if you win, you are encouraged. If you lose the same time you will want to recover your money, so there is more to understand, and you can not even predict yourself when it comes to gambling.

Everyone loves to win but nobody want to lose.

The painful truth is if you are not ready to lose anything how will you even win? Aren't we supposed to prepare for the lose side more? Because if loses cokes we know how to stand the ground and endure.

It's even a different story with gambling, which was design to be more profitable for the house than gamblers, this is the perfect place for everyone to be extremely careful, honestly I've studied that gambling favours you even more when you are not expecting any wins back.

This is why those who enjoy gambling as means of enjoying and having fun always have a happy mindset, because whatever the outcome may be they are here to just catch the fun part and if they are lucky they accept that everyday isn't going to be like right now, they take the prize and keep having fun.

I think I am one of the minority of guys who bet on sports and eSports matches very rarely, and therefore practically do not think about the result. Yes, I do it exclusively for fun, at least recently. For example, when Tim Spirt won the international a couple of years ago, I bet a few dollars on them simply because they were from the country where I was then.
And that made it even more interesting to watch. Therefore, not everyone thinks long about it before placing a bet on matches.

We have our own definition of fun sp what you are doing is valid as long as you are enjoying the way you place your bet.

I’m betting on e-sports too during TI and some major tournaments in the past to support my favorite team. I only place bet if I knew that they can dominate their opponents while just watch the game if I think it’s a close fight.

I enjoy watching the game and at the same time don’t want to lose bet on game that has low chance of winning.

It’s a normal feeling that once you lose, you will develop fear in your next bets that it would come up losing again. Either you aren’t sure of your bets, or you have the feeling that it might end up in the streak of losing, it’s better if you just call it a day and set another day for your gambling bets. Otherwise, if you will pursue betting and still get losses eventually, there’ll be a feeling of regret that will put yourself on a blaming phase, something that if you can’t calm yourself, you will end up developing fear every time you decide to bet.

I only bet on weekend games and I make those bets during the week for the games
ahead. When I lose at the weekends I still make my bets for the next rounds so I
have time to recover after the losses to make the next bets.

I used to rush into betting straight away after losing to try and recoup the losses
but I can see how being apprehensive to do so is possible. In the end of the day
there is no 100% certain matches or games so you have to have some expectation
that your bet is going to lose.

Don't be easily influenced by other people's advice if we feel sure to decide to continue or pause the best we will make. Other people's chatter is certainly different and not necessarily he is also sure about the next match, some of them only give advice but if the match is lost they can only laugh, and if they win they also expect a reward, so that they can be given the results of the victory. Therefore, to determine the best we will make, we should not believe other people's advice, we must be sure and be able to determine it ourselves will be much better and more satisfying

I think the fear of losing that arises when gambling is a signal to stop betting, because often what we fear exactly happens, that's what we often call the Law of attraction. Some gamblers may not realize this, but I think almost most gamblers have experienced it. Save your money to bet on another day, I totally agree with that. Gambling for fun, when fear arises, the desired pleasure will not be obtained again.

I think it's normal for everyone to feel fear on losing more money when gambling. When we experience that, we doubt ourselves if we are choosing the right teams to put our bet on. Our analysis might be correct but luck is not on our side during those moment. In gambling, whatever strategy we have or how good our skills in determining teams, all of those are useless.

For me, I would continue betting on those line-up of games. You can't control luck so all you need is to believe in your bets and hope your analyzation skills will prevail more than luck.

I'm sure you realize that when you bet then you are ready for the results of losing or winning. Sometimes I will also continue to the next bet in that situation, but there is no need to force the results, because sometimes when we are in a losing position and very sorry because we almost won, the decision to make the next bet can be influenced to recover the defeat.
If you have time and can consciously make bets with good predictions, then it can be done. But many people say, if you have lost in several disappointing bets, then stop and don't continue. The results will only increase the loss.

I used to try to win back immediately so that I wouldn't have a period when I feel fear after a series of losses, but now I don't do that because my experience allows me to do it. I just started to understand how many things work in a casino, it allowed me not to concentrate on my losses, because I understand that it is impossible to do without it. Fear arises in those players who lack experience in the game, who do not have very strong nerves to withstand the blows of losses. Still, for those who are under pressure from this fear, it is best to refuse to play in order to maintain their emotional balance. In a bad outcome, in order to get rid of it, the player can start betting without any control over himself.

i don't usually focus on the results. if i feel like it, i bet, if i don't, i don't care which match it is or not. there are dozens of matches every day, i can always bet on one if i feel like it.

i think what we sacrifice is more important than the results. if i risked more money than necessary, it might be good to take a break for a while, even if i make more money with it.

that's my advice to you too, don't worry about missing a match if you don't feel comfortable. it might be better for you to pretend it doesn't exist.

I am not people I am me. I have been more favorable with parlay and it is one pattern that has worked for me. I don't include much game in my parlay as may other persons do. So I don't see any reason why I shouldn't do what works for me in gambling. If you prefer quitting for that day that is fine by you. Actually the loss was only on 1 bet. I see no reason why I shouldn't bet again.

I was thinking you will continue in the line of your thought of asking if someone has been in the situation and not to ask which one to choose because that is subjective. It is subjective because we all have our level of fear and the way we handle it especially with gambling. If you have something telling you to continue gambling or not after losing previously, it depends on some circumstances. For example, your bankroll can determine what fear you have because if you don't have much money remaining in your deposit, it will further breed fear in you. But on the contrary, if you still have enough balance, you may take a different step or decision all together. So, there is no gain saying that that losing can lead to fear in taking gambling decision and having a losing streak is the worst of it, the fear. However, balance you have can also determine how you can handle your gambling fear.

You are absolutely right bud, it is commonly said that a man's food could be another man's poison, and what this simply means is that what doesn't work for one or more persons could actually work for another out there.

Just as me, I also love to bet on parlay regardless of the outcome, I could bet on five different parlays in a day, lose it all and still proceed to bet another five different parlays again, I enjoy doing this and fortunately enough, I usually win some parlays some times when luck is really on my side.
So, gambling is really all about choices, what we love to do, the type of games we love to play, gambling should be enjoyed and the only way we enjoy is by doing what we find pleasing and enjoyable, and at the same time, works best for us.

After an unforeseen loss it's just normal to step back and reassess your plan. In some other fields in life, where people need to act and not hesitate it could end up being a problem.
In gambling, it's not a problem. And it might be wise to occasionally step back and rethink your situation. I mean what's the worst thing that could derive from that? Saving your money?

You might miss a winning bet, but there's also a change that you are saving your money. Which is worse? That's not even a question.

In gambling, unexpected losses are very rare, initially, when you just place a bet, you should already admit that you can lose the money you bet. So this loss is unlikely to be unexpected, but you are right in thinking that after a significant loss, you need to take a break to rethink everything.
If you try to win back immediately, then this will be a game on emotions, and such bets in most cases will also be losing. So after a loss, it is best to take a break, understand why this happened, understand why you made a big bet. Perhaps in the future you need to bet much less and count on a higher coefficient, or even rethink your strategy in order to avoid such situations in the future.

All of that looks normal for a gambler because we often get this kind of betting failed because the last match is not in accordance with predictions. I often experience defeat like this but because the bet I put not too big so it doesn't make me so worried about the defeat that is experienced. To be honest when you bet then you should understand the risk of loss because no one can guarantee we will be able to maintain victory consistently.

If you think it's necessary to stop then you don't need to be forced to continue because it might be able to make the next defeat if you continue to bet. It's up to you because that can determine the bet or not only you can determine but should stop first before Meljutl

Must be prepared with everything if the bet has been made then winning or losing is what we will face, then I will also make the same decision as the previous situation where sometimes betting again to recover the previous loss.

But with money that has been accounted for, it means that whether you lose or win, you should not regret it too deeply, let alone blame yourself for continuing to bet.

Even if it's an unlucky day and I do lose a bet - I realize I have to stop for a moment to clear my head.

Yeah, it occurs to all people. You are not crazy. You are locked in emotional memory against loss aversion. Your brain labelled the whole moment as "unsafe" the instant you lost your Everton bet. Every future stake now must pass across that emotional barrier.

Your mind is trying to protect you from losing, but you are in a game where losing is inevitable. What then is it really protecting you from? Comforts? Growth? The fun? "I wasn't in the moment," you previously responded, answering your own question. And it is the fundamental truth. Most people think the risk is money.

It is good to take a break not only after losing but also after winning. Since you are in a game and it may not be easy to take a break from it or your emotions may not support it but you should exercise control over yourself to protect your funds. You said that unexpected losses are very rare and I agree with you. And this should also be considered that we should prepare in such a way limit the amount of money allocated for gambling so as didn't to lose too much money. Being tempted by immediate winning after a win means that the gambler has fallen into the trap of greed and he will definitely lose. The future of gambling is determined by you and it depends on you how you are able to deal with it.

That Everton result shows it's a bad day for all your betslip, so there's no need to continuing booking your new slip again, that's a sign to stop placing bets because it'll all end in tears to be honest with you.
It's quite unfortunate that when you encounter such sign,you should restrict yourself more further and quit betting that particular day for your own benefits, for saving your bankroll and keeping yourself away from been hurt.

Everyone has to gamble based on his own strategy that works for you. It depends on the amount that you used to gamble and that's what will determine if staking again will do you more good than harm. If it's a very little amount that hasn't exceeded your gambling budget for the day, you can place your second bet but it you have reached your limit, quitting the game is the best option.

Do not mind me as you said you do not exceed your bankroll which is very important. As long as you are able to afford to lose the amount of money that you are using to bet. I do go for two or three parley also and I use to win also. But I have luck in single matches than in parley but while going for two matches parley, I also win at times.b

Buddy I must tell you that this has also happened to me before, this is a common thing that happens in gambling, I have to understand that making decision as a gambler can be confusing sometimes especially when you lose, losing kills gamblers morale but sometimes we fail to realize that they said losing is part of the game although I also know that no matter how we see things we must act as humans, talking about Ipswich and Everton match I was also not impressed about the outcome and the performance of Everton because I also lost some slip because of lapsses but what can we do.

As for the different things that comes to our mind when we lose game, for me losing will not stop me from betting the selection I have made already although I may also want to be calm a bit but because of my pattern of gambling which is gambling with what you can afford to lose, i may go ahead to rebet my game,  we never can tell what may come out of the rebetted selection although our individual decision is what matters in this kind of situation.

Yes, continuing betting can only be done when we have the money that we have allocated. It is highly recommended not to add to or make another deposit after losing. Because what actually happens is continuing the game to catch up on the defeat. The situation may be worse with a greater loss than we have prepared.
It is better to stop and clear your mind first.

Fear is a defensive mechanism we use automatically to avoid getting into trouble. It leads us to run from dangerous situations, which present some kind of risk to ourselves. That is how your brain identified the situation involving gambling on that day. Somehow it protected you from losing more money, so it fulfilled its function with success.

The problem is when fear gets out of control in a way the individual freezes towards every situations life presentsto him, as everything is identified as a potential menace. But if it's not the case, you shouldn't worry about feeling fear, as it's healthy and protective to your integrity.

We all become more clever after seeing results. I can recommend to use single bets. Odds will be lower, but chances to win will be higher. The same time you don`t lose all your money with one bet. Try to analyze matches before match day and don`t bet if a) you don`t have prediction for it, b) if odds are too small. It decrease excitement but increase your bankroll.

So, you place a bet on some games and then eventually lost after that last game cost you? and then suddenly you fear of losing money moving forward? Well, that sounds pretty familiar for everyone. Is that a good thing? Technically, yeah! because if you don't stop when you're losing and then you're starting to doubt your decision making in choosing odds, that will surely cost you more. If that happens, it should be a sign for you to call it a day and move on as you still have another fresh day to start betting again.
Having negative thoughts while gambling won't attract luck though.

I think that most of us feel that dilemma on a regular basis. If you ask me what would I choose, I don't always behave the same because it depends on different factors like my plans or my mood. Even if I decided to make X bets, if I feel discouraged because of some bad results, it could make me rethink and wait for a streak of better luck another day. But this is just superstition, because prior bad results don't affect future ones, so I usually keep a cool head and don't let myself be influenced by fear.

Whenever you begin to have a second though towards including a particular game to your selections, then don't be greedy enough to include it, because that mind in doubt is telling you of the possibility of losing it if included, but we sometimes seems carried away or pay less attention to what our mind is telling us, that is why we can see a number of games being selected by a gambler and everything went well except for a single one that ruin the entire ticket.

It's something that everyone feel, it's not a fear but cautious or just an instinct tells us that this is not the lucky day. And it's not really a bad thing though, it becomes problem when we chase the loss which is commonly associated with signs of addiction. The moment we let the emotions to take control of our actions and compulsive towards winning back what we lost earlier is when we are moving towards destruction rather we should accept the loss and move on.

I’ve been in the spot the feeling after a lose seemed like as sure win shake my confidence wanting to chase the next win and also fearing another loss my head &heart are in two different places. I try to pause & remind myself that betting should stay fun and controlled. Sometimes it’s better to take a break reset mentally & come back when you feel clearer but if you really believe in your next picks & you are betting responsibly going ahead is not wrong either.

This is natural behavior in people and is hard wired into our brains, as it should be. You can definitely learn from failure, but if you imagine all the way back to when the earliest humans were hunting sabretooth tigers, they had to learn from their mistakes or they would have been wiped out and none of us would be here today. Risk aversion is healthy, as it is a sign that you are weighing up the probabilities of a bad outcome versus a good outcome. If you never think you are going to lose and never analyse why you might have lost previously, all you're doing is making the casino or bookmakers richer - you are their perfect customer. People who re-evaluate all the time to benefit themselves will be the most successful in gambling.

It might be that the amount it will cost you that's what contributed to your fear but here is the thing, you are not sure on your predictions which is why you never went for the risk and it could also be that the risk isn't really worth it that's why you never took it anyway else you would have put little money on it. I also do see that kind of stuffs you know but I don't put any money on them because of the risk of loss to profit ratio is extremely low.

If what in going to get from a bet is too low, I don't even bother myself trying to see if the prediction will be worth it or not. There are some people that might go bet it regardless or even add extra games just to get a boost in their multiplier but the funny thing is they will get the first game that made them to set the bet in the first place and then loss everything because they include other games to get a boost in their bet multiplier.

What you can do is bet on games with lower odds to recover your self-esteem and it is important that you understand that defeat is part of betting

and try to bet on results that are statistically favorable to victory, so you will not have so many problems with the fear of betting.

It's normal human reasoning to have fears about a bet especially if the amount placed on it is high and probably have bad experiences with previous bets. But instead of having fears which are emotional instabilities that might be a distraction to your focus it's better to just reduce your stakes till you feel comfortable with going back to your normal stakes.most times fear is caused by fear of losing and if you keep feeling such anxiety there's no point in gambling.

Of course you are right and this doesn't directly mean that I am scared of placing my bet but at least I need to re-evaluate my previous games and current Match to bet. You know one needs to be extremely careful while gambling and if happens that one is staking with money we have to be very mindful on the kind of games and matches we should be picking in order to enable us make winning at last, even though winning is not certs but at least we should be that close to winning.

Fear after lose is a normal response to anxiety and feeling of emotions which is quite unadvisable to have in gambling. If this is supposed to entertain you there's no point in making it stress you out and give you unnecessary panic attacks. I remember when I used to stake huge amounts of money on casino games, it made me Panic and overthink. If this is how you are gambling you are preparing yourself to have some health risks In the future

Discipline is the key, if you're disciplined you won't have that feeling of fear when you want to state another bet after the one you placed didn't win. However, these feelings can be avoided if you don't give so much attention to gambling by monitoring each games you bet on till the bet get lost. People that have that kind of feelings after a lose is not even about their stake amount but it could be that after they spent a lot of time analyzing the bets before placing it, so they will literally be considering the efforts they put together especially if only one of the events spoiled the bet. If you are afraid of betting after a lose, it means you are gambling with your emotions and it's either you give yourself break from gambling or you quit.

It won't work because behind every loss, the person will have the realisation that the amount lost adds up and ends up being exactly the same as making a big bet and losing it. In fact, it is a game for the sake of emotions, not for the sake of earning, if a person puts a little each time, and if it is important for him to win, it is already a game for the sake of earning. There is a fine line here. But there is nothing wrong in the fact that a person feels depressed emotions after losing, it is a normal psychology

After losing a game, if you are scared of gambling further, it means the money you are about to play with is not what you can afford to lose. In a situation like this, you don't need to force yourself; if you feel worried about losing, never make any attempt to play. If you are ready to gamble and you are also ready to see whatever the outcome will be, you don't need to be scared because even if you lose, it is what you can afford to lose. We need to pay attention to how we feel about gambling and make good decisions.

Many gamblers have lost huge amounts due to their wrong mindset. I don't deny that I was in that situation, and even now. Of course, we feel disappointed, but I have already learn how to accept losses and never regret. This is gambling and our assurance of winning is quite low. We want to play again, but our minds are troubled and undecided. When this happens to me, I stop for a while and let my emotions calm. To difficult to decide when our emotions dictate to us what to do. Most of the time, it causes major losses.

Dude, this is normal and I'm sure it happens to everyone... who has never felt bad about losing a bet that they thought was a sure thing? We're there waiting for the money to hit our account, sometimes we don't even follow the game because we're already sure of the outcome and then when we go to check it out, all we find is a loss... that's really frustrating.

This is what some people call "loss aversion"... when you can win 5 or 10 times in a row and end up not giving it much importance, but it only takes one loss for you to start blaming yourself and trying to find the mistake as if everything else wasn't worth it, and the worst part... this unfortunately really compromises your next bets if you don't have a good psychological balance because that loss will "gnaw at you" and then you lose faith in the next bets... so instead of continuing to bet based on reason, on probabilities, you bet out of fear, with trepidation and end up missing out on good opportunities to even recover that loss if you had just ignored it and let it go.

When you feel like this, take a break from the game... keep betting on the next matches you had planned, go back to the one you missed and analyze the reason for the defeat. Sometimes you will realize that it was a small detail that you overlooked, a piece of information that you didn't consider, and sometimes it won't be there at all... you will realize that the result was a stroke of bad luck and that it's not worth insisting. However, this reflection will be good for you to put your head in the right place and continue betting sensibly.

That's what comes to my mind, it's natural for us as humans (gamblers).  
Fear after loss is a normal response to anxiety and emotional feelings, which is quite unadvisable in gambling.  This may also trigger our survival instincts, making us cautious about risking ourselves again.  So, if this is meant to entertain you, there's no point in allowing it to stress you out and cause unnecessary panic attacks.

This is how we manage ourselves and handle our emotions in gambling, which may lead to the consequences of chasing losses, which are unadvisable and make you a bad gambler.

Because most of the time they will be emotionally gambling soon. The shock turns into disappointment then might lead to some serious awful feelings which will then just make you impulsive and not level headed. I would recommend to move on from the shock because you might keep remembering this match for future bets when sometimes results of a match is not always that exciting or unknown.

Fear can arise when you bet with high stakes and you are really afraid of losing your money. But on the other hand you will not be satisfied with low value bets. This shows greedy nature which I think is not good in gambling. I think if you bet with the amount you are ready to lose then you will not be as afraid. I like to bet on high risk bets. It pumps my adrenaline. There is a feeling that I can't explain but high risk bets make me excited to watch the game. When I lose I can accept it. And when you win you will get a satisfying result.

It's easy to say but hard to do. It's not that easy to just stop playing at one point. The desire to win back appears, which overshadows the feeling of fear, another defeat. Many players know what I'm writing about. Here you need to find the strength to start observing discipline and not succumb to emotional excess tension. Everything should be moderate and carefully verified. There's no other way.

You are right, taking a break is the best thing to do in order for you not to make the wrong decisions when you have so many thoughts on to chase your losses or not. I have been in a situation where I got carried away with chasing my losses with the hope that I would hit it big in the next game. This was how I gambled all my bankroll and regretted my greedy nature.

Every player wants to win back quickly, I remember how it was with me, after I lost, I was ready to immediately make a bigger bet, just to win back on the same day. Several times I completely lost my entire deposit, it's good that at first my deposit was small, but despite this, I experienced these losses very unpleasantly. That's when you decide to increase the bet, perhaps it is fear that makes you do it, in any case, these are bets on emotions, and not only fear, there are several of them and they all affect your decisions.

Almost everyone experiences loss and fear while gambling because no one can guarantee victory here and when we lose the brain tells us that if we try again we can get it all back but in reality that rarely happens. Instead we end up losing more the key here is to maintain balance we should not let fear get out of our control nor should we blindly do anything out of greed. We should take care of our financial capabilities and mental state it is better to refrain from gambling when your mind is restless or you feel depressed.

I don’t think we can call this fear. “Doubt” is the best way to describe this feeling, and it’s normal. Unless we already know the outcome, which is not the case, we will be “right” in any choice we make. To avoid this, I bet on the first choice I make, because I know that I will think of another possibility too, and this will block me and generate doubts that will not help me at all.

Fear can be something that saves you from losing and at the same time it can lead to regrets. I remember losing 60 dollars on a crash game, after losing up to 50 dollars I was skeptical about playing the next round with the remaining 10 dollars I had, this was as a result of fear. In my head I was thinking that I was about to pick another round that might be a disaster but it turned out that that round had a high multiplier and I didn't take it. When I finally decided to stake again I lost it. You can't enjoy gambling in fear, stake responsibly and enjoy the game.

Exactly mate,that's true and your reasons are quite understandable.Some Losses can literally make you go broke and that's really hindering to just enter another bet so quickly.Some gamblers are emotionally aversive to life meanwhile loss is an unexplainable feeling especially when it comes to the likes of gambling.

Normally that is how it used to be sometimes, more especially you lost a bet. Though you will be think that when you bet again, that more losses would going to occur, I think I have often experience such thing and sometimes when I bet again I normally get a win, although not everytime. Because as a gambler it's essential to understand that gambling is not something to rely on because going back to bet more might likely lead you into chasing after losses. So I think the best way is to call it a day when you find yourself having double thought.

If you hesitate to place another bet, it indicates that you are not ready to lose the money you have, you really feel unprepared if you have to experience defeat again. In such a situation, it would be better if you avoid the next bet because if you dare to place another bet and what you fear happens (defeat), then this will not only increase the losses you experience but will also cause a deep sense of regret. And the bad thing is if you are not able to accept the defeat well, this can be a reason for you to bet even crazier in the hope of being able to return what has been lost.

On the other hand, besides in betting we must rely on strategy and analysis that is quite careful, but sometimes we also have to be able to rely on the instincts we have. And if your instincts say no, then it would be better if we did not place another bet.

Generally, losses are inevitable and same thing applies to Gambling losses even to a larger extent.Normally,Losses are known to trigger certain psychological threats that produces fear and uncertainty.
Moreso,losses are also part of the growthline because it makes life more adaptable and mentally stronger for them to evaluate their mistakes all along.

Totally inevitable or lets say that this is something that will be that part of it and there are those times or moments that no matter how good your analysis would be bust still it will be that not giving out that assurance that you be able to have that sure win. We do know that on the moment that you have experienced up some loss  then for those who are just that new then they will be thinking about on having that hindrance on doing up those choices at the next time that you will be making up that lose or simply you've been scared at the moment that you do able to be on such situation or after a lose.
For those people who had been that playing for the sake of fun and thrill then they arent that affected by these things because they do know that they are that having the chance of losing money.

Gambling and betting are indeed synonymous with having fun, but no one feels happy when they lose, maybe some are even afraid to bet again, because they don't want to lose money in their bets again. Meanwhile, in gambling and betting we are required to bet with the amount of money we are ready to bear.

And if you feel hesitant to place the next bet, it means you feel unprepared to lose money beyond your means. In a situation like this, it would be wiser for you to stop your gambling and betting activities for a while, while trying to forget the defeat you experienced. and you can only place bets again, when you have indeed been able to forget the previous defeat, and feel ready for the next defeat.

It is also important how sensitive a player is to losses, because one player is made stronger by them and develops resistance, while another player's emotional state is so shaken that he simply loses all his money without stopping, just so that the fear of losing does not hang on him, driving himself even deeper each time. In general, players should try to understand the inner world of these fears that arise from losing, because the fight is necessary, because there is a small chance to deal with it forever. I think professionals overcome their fear, but this happens gradually, perhaps we should learn from them.

You are absolutely right, but another great advice would be that gamblers stop spending money on gambling that if they lose, it installs fear of placing another bet or gambling again in them, this is why I believe we are always adviced to not risk money we know we can't afford to lose, gambling was supposed to be an activity we willingly engage ourself in for fun, but most gamblers today have turned this into a means of making money, I believe this why we see some gamblers using huge amount of money for gambling which they lose, it becomes a big problem for them.

We all as gamblers need to ensure we get rid of fear, because what we fear has a way of finding its way to us, and that includes loses in gambling.

It is very important for us to be able to change our perspective on gambling. What we do must be in accordance with what we think, so if our thoughts are wrong about gambling, then it is likely that we will often make mistakes in gambling which will ultimately only result in losses. Therefore, it must be emphasized again that we should not consider gambling as a place to seek profit.

It must be remembered that we are only players, not casino owners, the profit should only belong to the house, while what we get is just luck and the rest from the efforts we make.

I think this situation often happens among gamblers. Sometimes there is a barrier in the mind and sometimes a high hope of winning affects the gambler from both sides, which is why the gambler often finds himself in a dilemma when making a decision. In gambling, there is no certainty that a gambler will always win. Even a losing match can be won, and a match that seems to be winning can be lost. In betting, we should not expect that what we think will always happen. Moreover, if the gambler is not financially stable, then every bet will be stressful for him. When the gambler has money to lose, there will be an opportunity to gamble without stress.

If you do hate up on losing money then you should have refrain yourself on making out some bets and would be focusing into something on which you do find yourself having no stress. Gambling or betting should be that fun and entertaining rather than on being stressful or could give out that anxiety because you dont want to hit up further loses. Its true that losing money is never been fun but since you've been dealing up with betting then you should be getting used to it. The key on here is that you do make use of the amount on which you can afford to lose. Its normal to have that fear but if you've been that accepting about your possible fate when losing up a particular game then its just that fine, as long you are making having that good handling with your finances and spend up into those funds which are meant to be bet on then i dont see any problems with it. Just take up the loss and moved on and find for another potential winning bet. Just like been said that betting should be fun and entertaining and not something giving the other way around. There are just that those times or moments that your emotions cant be controlled or that be able to avoid on feeling it out on which its normal but once you do have that sufficient experiences in the past then you will be that getting used to it.

It's just a common feeling among gamblers, I am sure everyone else here has experienced it or had that feeling before. In gambling, you must be courageous enough to try more luck after the first loses before you can stop for the day. I know it can be challenging most times making decisions to stop or not. But then we can still give a try again and be sure you are not lucky for the day before stopping.Why I emphasis on trying more luck is that most times gamblers tries luck like 5 to 6 conservative times before they are lucky to win huge, but that can not be achieved after only one bet and no other attempt.

If gambling is used as entertainment, then losing in gambling is not so scary, but when gambling is used as a means of earning money, then there is definitely some fear because a gambler must use a large amount of money to earn money. I clearly remember that once I participated with a large amount of money, I lost, and after losing, I was very afraid to participate in gambling later that I might lose my money again. However, after a few days, when I became normal, I participated in my gambling with a very small amount of money, but when I lost, I no longer feel the fear of losing.

Once you conceive and conclude in your mind that you are in a particular game that is a special one or a sure win, like some may call it, immediately the game doesn't end the way you planned it, especially when it happens near a miss. It will indeed drop some fear in your mind where you will have to question your next decision if you should put too much confidence in it or not, which ordinarily that's how gambling should have been treated.

Good question and it got me thinking, everyone usually feels this way. People feel the pain of losing more intensely than the pleasure they get from winning, I think everyone does.

In gambling, our brain associates losing money not only with financial losses but also with emotional losses such as self-esteem and sense of control. Setting financial and time limits before playing can reduce the effect of fear and regret, it is always best to set limits in a logical way in this situation.

Uncertainties arise because we overthink that we are not lucky today. And if we continue betting, we will possibly lose. This feeling is normal for everyone, but we must be thankful for this because it also saves us from losing more. We think that our emotions can cause trouble, but sometimes we also listen to them.

We don't just focus on the game and how much we can possibly win. But also, we consider our situation, especially if we are already in a losing streak.

Gambling is not just always on the go, sometimes we need to stop and take a break.

Op, if you become hesitant of betting after the first lose it means that you are conscious of your finance and you also have the consciousness of risk management. It could also be that you don't have enough or you are gambling more than what you can afford to lose. If if you are gambling within what you can afford to lose, you wouldn't be fearful of betting more when you already lost the first one. When you gamble for fun, you will use a little amount of money that you can afford to lose and everything will be fine.

I need to ask this question, in order to draw my conclusion; when you are on a winning streak, are you also tempted to continue betting in other to win more or you also experience that kind of fear and immediately stop betting or take a break for the day. If it happens both when you are winning and when you are losing, it is a good thing.

Yes it's normal to have this doubt when you experience loss. We also experience such situation and it's understandable if you're now uncertain to continue or just stop to avoid further losses. Well, in gambling, losing your money is already part of it and it's inevitable. If you're still playing despite this fact then it's not going to be hard to accept the result since you're aware of what to expect.

Indeed. Don't push yourself if you're uncertain on what to do. Take a break because gambling is just there and you can come back anytime when you're in the mood.

it is a very common habit with gamblers—everything is just based on winning, and the high hope of winning is one of the problems that gamblers are always facing, and that is why you don't have to be to confident and you need to put everything under control so that you don't overdo things we know we all want to to win but we have to control our emotions, and there is a lot that we actually need to learn as a gambler Also, gambling is just as crazy as it is interesting, so we need to understand some certain principles, and that way things become more easier because you dont need to follow people when you are gambling. and when you take gambling too seriously, it will not help you, so the best thing you can do is to just have fun, but putting too much interest in it will only bring more dangers to it, so its better to do your gambling for fun and money.

Getting confidence about how positive that the next outcome of your bet might come out doesn't guarantee you'll have it as a win, your losses could still be doubled. Which is what I seem to think differently here is that whether or not you're confident about your next bet after streaks of losses, the best decision to to take a break. There's nothing hurting there, or a feeling of defeat to be felt there, I feel it's a sign of maturity and responsible gambling lifestyle walking away after you realise you have incurred much losses.

Since their best was not good enough, and so the fear comes in, because they have used all the tactics and knowledge they have and know when playing the game.,fear is a normal feeling that we all do experience whenever we want to place a bet, and this fear continues until after the result has being known, then the individual takes time to digest the result before you will be your self, fear is always there because it involves money and nobody wants to lose in the game everyone always feel they could win if  possible since they don't want to lose, but when it comes, they accept it with good faith for those that are not chasing their loses and don't want to be addicted.

This will always happen if you don't have a daily, weekly or monthly limit of what amount you should gamble with. If you have a limit and you haven't exceed the limit, then you have nothing to worry about even if you lose the first bet.

I think the regrets and the "what ifs" are all too highly focused on in past tense scenarios and its a painful experience too looking and examining your losses so up and close and keeping them so everly present on one's mind. Its easy to do this though and easy to be regretful of loss. The fact is that it comes with the territory and gambling isn't for the faint of heart! Its hard on those who lack money and its even harder on the ones that have money! It is the sand in the sandstorm and the water in the rain!!! Gambling is quite a wild ride.

This happens to me a lot, makes me feel like I'm having bad luck for the day, especially when a single game cuts my betslip. I wouldn't stop if it happens only once, but when it's happened more than once in succession, worse of it all in a single day,

my subconscious would just give up and I can no longer bet for the day, the remaining budget for the day is then rolled over to the next gambling session since I'm scared of losing everything in my losing streak for the day.

But still, we need to remember that there is no guarantee to win in the second bet. If you still want to bet, you need to realize that you should know about the risk. Your loss will increase if you lose again in the second bet although you have a chance to win. But when you place your bet, the chance to win will reduce so your loss chance will become big.

You need to limiting your money for placing the bet. If you think that you are afraid about losing in the next bet, you should not place a bet and stop gambling. That will be the best decision you make because you save your money so you can use it in other days.

Your limit can`t protect you from losing, and, as result from fear of losing. It can only make your losing not so critical for your budget.
In your way of planning good idea is to set bet size, depends on your planned budget. You will know that you can lose 5-10-15 bets and it can help to avoid fear.
But if you feel fear from betting just avoid gambling - you don`t get positive emotions from the process, why do you want to torture yourself?

Whether it's what most people do or not, it's at least what people should do when they lose. Even if you don't step back completely, you should at least hold back, reevaluate your bets and the strategy you are using, see why you lost the game, and then, when you bet again, you should make sure you do your homework very well before it so that you don't lose. If you did everything right but you lost purely because of luck, then you don't need to do anything at all, just continue, and you will win if you know you are making the right bets.

Sports betting is all about knowledge of the game and those involved in it. If your research abilities are good and you analyse every angle before making your bets, losing a couple of bets here and there shouldn't be a problem as long as you are winning most of them, but if someone is losing most of their bets, then they surely need to have a look at their bets and where he is going wrong.

Initially I also felt the same way when betting but over time I was able to overcome this problem by limiting the amount of bets from each gamble I made. To make it easier to overcome, getting involved in football betting with a small capital is the solution so that even though we experience defeat it will not affect our psychology too much.

Defeat is indeed quite painful and it is something that people hate quite a bit but that is the fact of gambling so that when you are unable to control yourself it will affect someone's subconscious. So it is better to pay attention to the amount of bets that we can afford to lose so that we do not get too caught up in the defeat that we feel.

I think it’s a common feeling that every gambler has experienced at one time or the other. It doesn’t get better with time, no matter how experienced you’re in gambling you will always feel a loss of confidence after a consecutive streak of losses and that drop on confidence often gives way to fear. It takes discipline to combat the fear that comes after a losing streak. My strategy is to stop gambling when losses are becoming too much and my confidence is weakening.

Even though it is not a stressful pressure, the consecutive defeats that I have experienced have indeed made me quite unconfident in continuing the game. But I feel lucky enough from that feeling that finally made me stop playing for a while.
I think that is better than having to continue playing with a mind that is not good enough. What happens in a longer time may be that I can lose control for a greater number of defeats.

And the reason for this is the same in almost every case, and that is human being. It is a natural human tendency for our minds to harbor a latent fear in the corner of our minds, despite our confidence in these matters.

For this reason, if you notice that many times in sports betting, even though the opponent team is strong, we have a fear inside us if the weaker team wins. And it is normal to have this, but I think it is necessary to have it, because of overconfidence, the gambler may put an amount on the fund bet that he cannot afford to lose.

You can lose at any time while gambling. Not only in casino games but also in sports, even if you bet on a strong team, you can still lose because a team is not always seen playing well in all matches. Therefore, in any gambling sector, bet only the amount that you can afford to lose for any game. Otherwise, you can lose even a confident bet at any time which can make you very depressed.

Those who bet more than they can afford to lose are those who are deeply addicted to gambling and have a high level of panic gambling.

A losing streak is a sign that you really have to stop, not to continue to believe that victory will come quickly.
Before the winnings arrive your money will be used up first and you will keep saying that you need to deposit more if you don't realize that you really have to stop.

This will play into your gambling psychology and you really have to know when to stop time winning or losing, otherwise you will just play with more pressure.

One of the reasons for fear in gambling is placing bets with money that you can't afford to lose and also expecting too much from gambling wins. If a gambler is able to plan a good budget that they can afford to lose and not expect that the outcome of gambling must be a win, I don't think there will be any fear while gambling. When there is fear in gambling, there are two things that need to be done: either one should gamble only with money that they can afford to lose or not gamble at all.

You are certainly not the only one because for all the people who gamble on sports games, that's always the things that happen on gambling, so it shouldn't have to be a concern that would discourage anyone from executing the bet they had arranged, it has happened to me that I have lost count of those bet one game disrupted the whole winning and honestly with alot of times it had happened if i had let it troubled me it could have completely made me to disregard having more than one bet but on the contrary some of the times i had wining that made me smile was won by the collection of different teams.

I have been in that place when I hesitate to stake again because I’m not sure if it's the proper move or just emotions talking. In those moments I usually take a brief break clear my brain and only go back when I feel more confident and less emotional. If I still feel unsure I just skip it.  It’s better to wait than to force a bet and regret it later.

I don't know how many times I have been in this exact situation like you say, I have played the crash game for so long and decided to quit after not having the results I was expecting to have. As soon as I quit I saw that the multiplier has gone to over 200x and not just a single time but a lot of times, this I said to myself cannot be, I must have a great amount of luck, the only problem is that it is a great amount of bad luck  ;D, and that feeling was very tiresome and destructive regarding my psychological well being. I think that it is better to not have fear if you are decided to go and play even after you have lost, taking a break won't change anything in this situation, so going all in if you are playing in a slot machine is something logical to do despite many people will disagree with me in this point.

The crush game is really psychological torture and destructive for a person's mind. I can feel what you both are going through because I was the same, but I left that game forever. The reason was that when I took part in the bet, the bet crushed at 1.5x or 2x, and my funds kept going out. When I decided not to take part, the bet went over 100x, and I was like, "What the hell?" After wasting all my money, I came to the conclusion that there are certain things that can control us, and that was biased. I satisfied myself by saying that I could be controlled by someone and decided not to take part in it again.

In sports, it is very common for a team to dominate the sport for a period of time. The golden state warriors in NBA, Real Madrid in La Liga, New York Yankees of baseball. But of course all dominance end at some point. I think Real Madrid is the best example right now since they are not doing very well currently.
They are definitely those who are hoping to win big. Worse if the money they are betting came from a loan.

Someone? If we are talking about emotions and addiction to the thirst to win, then this ‘control’ does not come from outside, it comes from within you, it is you yourself who do not let go of the game and go on, you are trying to win, losing every time and not realising that you can stop, leave these attempts once and for all. No one can control it but you

This doesn't have anything to do with limits; even if you still have enough funds to gamble based on the budget you have for the day, there is the type of losing that some will lose, especially for sports bettors, that will make them have a rethink about their next bet. Even if they have marked it all out, they will have some doubt either to play or change the game since the last one was a failure.

This all depends on the bets I have running and how confident I am with them. If my confidence is shaky on the remaining games not played, I may let the bets slide away, but if I strongly believe the remaining games to be a winning bet, I may stake them back again. By the way, losing little money doesn't cause harm. What should cause harm is when you put lot of expectations from gambling.

Believe me, it is difficult to control yourself when gambling. Even disciplined people sometimes break their own rules. When it comes to betting, anything can happen. Like a series of failures followed by a streak of luck. Our brain remembers it. Do you understand what I mean? That is, a situation when a person knows that he can win back what he has lost before. But this does not happen. Alas, this is how this direction is arranged and the admins are well aware of this. After all, all this was created by specialists in the field of psychiatry.

You probably meant psychology, because psychiatry is different. And for those who can't stop when they are addicted to gambling, you need to either stop playing altogether, or take the time to set clear rules for yourself with a budget limit. But I find it hard to believe that people who have problems with gambling can stop themselves one day and start playing responsibly... I don’t even know what drives such people, I think it’s not fear, because they would be afraid continue to lose money.

If the main objective of a gambler is to win at the casino, it is normal to feel that way because they are looking for profit from their gambling. So there is their expectation
that they will get a profit from playing at the gambling casino here in the crypto space.

But for those who are just having fun, I don't think they will feel that way that they will have second thoughts about their bets on a game here at the casino,
I don't think so.

I think many people don't know how to let go after they lost, this is what i am seeing here, they are going to use any other money to try to recover what they've lost, the kind of style that newbie gamblers use but still backfires in the end.

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First rule of gaming is to make sure you use an amount that you won't feel remorseful about when you lost it and this is still the reason why many chases after they lost some money, nothing good comes from chasing losses.

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I prepare for my losses more than me winning because I know that losses happens more than winning in gambling.

I feel this so much. There’s this weird, private moment that happens right after a loss, where logic and shame try to have a conversation but end up yelling over each other. That’s the exact moment most people “chase”. I don’t even think it’s about the money half the time. Like, I need to feel like I still have control. Which, ironically, is the exact thing you lose when you go into chase mode.

But I like how you said it: “I prepare for my losses more than my wins”. That is so clean. People prep for the high. They visualize the jackpot. But no one rehearses how they’ll breathe when the room goes cold. Maybe gambling isn’t about beating the system. Maybe it’s about staying yourself inside the system. Keeping your emotional pulse steady when the chaos starts spinning.

There’s also something really human in the need to make things right. That’s what chasing is trying to do. The problem is, the machine doesn’t care if you’re having a personal moment. It’s just gonna keep spinning. Unbothered. I think the future of gambling (the healthy kind, the fun kind) starts when people stop expecting it to fix their feelings. Play like it’s a game. Lose like it’s a lesson. And don’t let a machine tell you who you are.

I have found myself in this condition many times especially when you had much conviction on the side you picked to win the match due to their current stats being very far better than the opponent they'll be meeting. And boom! They just be the very one to spoil your ticket. I even have to drag foot in compiling a fresh predictions to stake on. So if you're having it that way next time, I'll advice you just let it slide and come back the next to try again under a light heart.

I realize that, and of course will do better with my gambling. Sometimes, seeing other people's experiences is not enough to give a warning about bad things that can happen. Gamblers learn more from their own experiences to be able to control themselves better.
Losing streaks provide lessons for every gambler to pay more attention to the gambling they do, so as not to cross the line. Not only for me, but most gamblers who are still unable to control their gambling well.

It would seem to be obvious that it is always better to learn from other people's mistakes, but in reality, many people just ignore it, and only a few take into account other people's experience, whether it be in gambling or any other activity. I think this is a psychological moment that a person better learns mistakes through their own experience, not someone else's.

I wont say that people are brave by itself :D People are often afraid of something unknown and unexpected. Next round round in gambling fits perfectly under "something unexpected". Fear is doubled when there were fail before. Additionally people fear other people judgement, that is why they rarely talk about their losses and confess in fails. Additionally greed makes people hesitate to do a next step.

This is simply a human nature that will make you lose focus and consistency. You simply yielded to the emotion created by your initial loss, it's as simple as that. This can either be a blessing or a curse because you might play more and lose more, or you can play more and gain back the money you lost initially.

The good part is that, this fear is good because it will help you gamble less, and it shows you are not addicted to gambling.

Not going ahead to place other bets that you have in mind because of a lose is a normal thing but if you have confidence about the ones that you are yet to stake you can go ahead. If you are using small amounts to place your bets I don't think that there should be a reason to fear whether you will still lose again because the amount is quite insignificant to you. Where worry and fear might come is when you are using significant amount to place the remaining bet, you will not be happy to lose money that is quite big. Although no matter the amount of money that you want to use to place your bet, whether big or small need some level of confidence before betting, if it's not there there you can decide to try your luck another time.

The fact that you are confident in the bets does not mean that they will be winning, and those bets that you doubt can be winning, this often happens, so you should not give any of them a higher or lower priority, each of them should have the same bet if you decide to make it. You can skip the bet that we doubt, this is normal and will not affect anything, making more bets is not always better, sometimes it is better to choose one bet. And in order not to worry after a loss, make bets that will not hurt you.

Most often, of course, it will be a loss, because according to statistics, most players will be losers and I would not recommend players to continue playing under any circumstances. Fear still tells you that it is better not to continue, because it can be even worse. Today, I will definitely not continue playing after losing a certain amount of money that I had intended for the game, because I need to recover mentally and understand how to improve my strategy, think over some subtleties, etc. And if I continue to play through fear, then I simply will not feel any pleasure in the game, and if so, then why play at all?

Seeing other people's experience is enough for us to learn from their mistakes so we don't do the same as them. We can avoid what make them loss too much in gambling so we can just use enough money to gamble. We don't have to fear with the loss in gambling because that can happen anytime. We should avoid losing streaks from gambling especially if we don't use too much money. That is why we must be a wise gambler who know the situation so we can make a right decision.

Yes, I already spoke about it, if I lost a bet and maybe while trying to place another bet, I just feel so uncertain about the out and perhaps I feel scared of losing again, I will just take a break from gambling for that day or that moment and I will postponed betting till when my mind is more settled. Like you said, it's very smart for someone to take a break too when they are losing or when they have lost an amount that is big for them to have lost at once for that day. Some people can be very confident about a game and they could decide to stake with a huge amount, only to get disappointed at the end of the game because it didn't go as predicted. In such a situation, it's better to just take a break.

It is a normal feeling everyone normally or is suppose to have anytime they incured loss and I don't actually called it a fear rather it is just consciousness or being careful because there is a possibility you can win or lose after incurring loss and you further play again. I think the reason why one can make a loss is because they won't settle down to predict the game because of the feeling that you have lost money and so, one maybe be distracted with this and sometimes you will be having this feeling that how am I sure that this will even enter for me.

Idea of a "wise gambler" sounds both funny and sad at the same time. Yes, it is possible. But rare. No one goes into a gambling thinking they'll be the one to fall. But somebody always does

You're preaching controlled fun, which I respect . Seriously. But gambling doesn't let you know when it's no longer fun. It goes from being exciting to being dangerous very slowly. That's the risk. You feel like you’re in control way past the point you’re actually not

Seeing other people blow their stack should be enough for a lesson. But humans aren’t copy-paste learners. We're emotional people who act like we're logical. We sometimes take risks not because we want to forget the past, but because we think we'll be the exception. We tend to exaggerate our odds. We narrate our losses. We gamble with identity, not just money

Fear is normal because losing up money doesnt give out any good feeling because we do value money that much and once we do able to experience up that then it will be giving out that kind of fear.
Somehow if you are that accepting on the risks involved with gambling then you would be just that that simply move on because you do know on what would happen most of the time.
When you do gamble then its important that you should be that using into the amount on which you can afford to lose so that you do easily that forget with that disappointment.
Loses are inevitable because gambling is something that should be fun but once you do have that kind of mentality then you wont be caring up that much and wont be finding themselves getting messed up in the end.

I agree with that. The high expectation is the most harmful of all. When making a bet, we must first accept that the chances of losing are high. That way, we will be more careful with our picks, especially on sports betting. Then, it becomes easier to accept the losses when we do that. Fear of losing is part of being a gambler, it is a way to make us rethink our choices so we can make a better one.

I believe those who keep on doubting their bets will have a better choice in the end because they will keep on reviewing it first before they place their bets. If it becomes a habit, better.

Some gamblers will have to fear because they don't want to get into trouble after losing, but i keep on asking why they have to get their self into such all in the name of gambling, we should gamble base on our ability and affordability and not that we gamble to show ourself to impress others, we should not force ourselves into gambling, instead wait patiently till we are in the best position to do so and not to divert funds on the same purpose and gamble irresponsibly.

Do you know that some people are been mislead in the gambling and that is why some people do stake big amount, secondly some people do stake base they have calculated the odds, and see the potential wining, so it's that pushed many people to gamble with what they can't afford to lose, in the gambling we are supposed to know our limits so that if we lose it will not affects us, but out of greediness makes some of us to stake what they can't afford to lose, and immediately they lose they will be regretting until three to four months, nothing is better than, when you are gambling with peace of mind, knowing that you can lose at any time.

But there are some gamblers who are too greedy and confident that they will win and keep playing until their money is not left and do all sorts of ways to play again.

This is the beginning of addiction that is not even easy to stop so there are many negative things that will happen.
I found some such people in my neighborhood and they were difficult to remember and it became a habit until eventually their possessions were lost due to bad and uncontrolled gambling.

Not only that, but the core problem is in the online casinos they play at, namely illegal casinos that are only manipulated and set to lose and now continue to appear to deceive many people.

the wise gambler is the one who can manage risk and manage their emotions
who know how to identify when lucky is on his or her side and can keep on their streak, the one who avoids ruin and who stick to these values as the most important ones regardless of how they feel inside from day to day

have you read this book about a gambler by Dostoyevski? it's a really good one

There must always be a balance between fear and greed in betting, because those are the major problem in any betting, while greed makes you selfish, so you want to take all the money in the market, fear deprive you  of games you would have won.

Fear is also a major part of failure in betting, as some will want to leave the market I.E not betting on sure games they have seen, maybe because they are afraid the market will take the money they have gotten.  But, in all know when to bet and when to not bet. Get a strategy for your gambling.

In gambling, the fear of losing too much money is the cause. Most gamblers stop gambling because of the instability and uncertainty and they want to find a guarantee of winning, but gambling is always a jar full of uncertainty where you have a high chance of losing. Fear prevents you from getting too close to winning. This fear is not just about losing money, it is against the self-esteem of a gambler.
Being consistent with being greedy and being afraid can mean how much you can overcome these negative influences and not allow yourself to be greedy to win again after winning. Or you can become greedy and gamble more out of frustration because of losing regularly.

For me it is normal specially if the amount that we lose isn't a small amount or just a couple dollars.
I usually feel like staying out or laying low after losing a good amount of money, but if it is just a couple of dollars I would still continue to play or bet.

Waiting to feel that you have accepted defeat is not enough, you must accept it in your mind...a lot of people think it's extreme when I tell them that every bet I place is considered lost by me, I immediately move on from it even though the bet hasn't been settled... Most people would see it as being negative but to me it's a way of just being immune to losses..until gamblers have such mindset they will always be perturbed whenever they place a bet.

it's interesting to consider every bet as lost money, this way you cut a little bit the hope to win and you can play from a place where every outcome is already a reward, you already set your mind to accept you have the worst outcome possible, from the bottom you set yourself into the only way is up

I like this way to think

The fear comes when you aren’t ready to accept the loss, you don’t hope to loose it and so, you are scared to put it out. For your sake, I would say you shouldn’t, if you are not ready.
You must feel the entertainment in it, the having to dare your guts feeling for a reward or an “okay, it is what it is”.

I almost don’t have this feeling, most times, I just feel those where the places I could have lost and try again or I just wait for tomorrow bets.

This is me, if I feel bad whenever I lose and so I always remember that this is it and it is what it is. There is no going back and that fear always comes next when I am about to bet about having the thought of what if I lose again.

Someone who has lost a lot can think of this and that's why every time we gamble and we have lost, we move on quickly. I think we have developed the idea of recovering not just with the bankroll that we have but also the emotional thinking after losing big. If the losses compiles and we've been into such, we simply accept and move on so we can bet and worry about tomorrow.

In fact, a very small percentage of people are able to learn from other people's mistakes. The rest either learn from their own mistakes or do not benefit from their experience at all. And if we talk about gambling and betting on sports here even their own experience is very often does not help to improve their results because in this area is very much dependent on chance. None of us can be sure that his bet will win no matter how wise we are. This is the essence of gambling.

You're right about that,  when I was a novice, I had those fears, obviously because I did everything that one should do, I did it , so in view of this, I am a person who now does not feel even the slightest fear of losing, because it is as you say , I only lose a little and I do not allow myself to lose amounts that will damage my overall economy.

Well, if you know a lot about your favorite team, you can try and try use the facts that you get from your experiences and conclusions made when watching games. There should be no fear here; otherwise, there is simply no point in betting on sports, but if you are a casual visitor who once had an experience that ended extremely negatively, next time, no matter what, you need to rely not only on luck but also make some reviews of future games and the likelihood of the outcome of the game.

Cash is on the line, right? Then avoid going with your gut and follow your intellectual decision. If the latter is NOT applicable to the given scenario, then go with your gut. At the end of the day, money is on the line here and you should exercise all the possible means of winning.

In gambling, you should always aim to win even if you do not see it as a money-making venture. The element of risk and reward make it very desirable for most people to test their luck and win some money along the way. But if greed blurs your purpose on why you gamble in the first place, then you have to be careful and responsible with all the decisions you make along the way,


This sets-up a dangerous precedent if you do not fear losing. If that is your approach in gambling, then there is the possibility of you overspending on your budget, ultimately prejudicing your position at the end.

Like what I always mention to similar posts like these, be responsible and accept all the consequences of your decision. Know your limits and be disciplined when it comes to your obligations.

They come because they are curious about gambling, want to try their luck and get a little profit, but do not want to lose money in gambling.

The fear of losing money in gambling, this can be a savior for the person so that they do not gamble excessively which can spend more of their money. However, in some cases, when they experience defeat, they are unable to accept the defeat and finally choose to continue gambling in the hope of getting lucky, getting a win that can return the losses they have experienced. They will only stop when they can return the losses they have experienced, or when they no longer have money to deposit. However, it is a lie, if someone can return the losses they experienced in gambling on the same day.

It is pretty much clear the amount of damage and fear with receive psychologically as gamblers is directly proportional to the amount of money we could lose or have already lost to the casino, no questions about it.
What makes things different from a gambler to others is how each one of us would react inna situation in which we find ourselves losing money and getting afraid or hurt for those outcomes.

The immediate reaction I have when comes to those situations is to logout my session and try to forget how much money I have lost in a single seat and still come to terms with the fact I won't be able to recover it.

In general, it is easier to feel afraid of losing money when one has already lost in the past and we are venturing into territory of spending money we are not supposed to gamble.

There is no doubt about that, that is why I say that I only lose the amount of money that I am willing to lose, therefore I do not bet more even if I feel that I have Thousands of good feelings or good hunches or something like that , I do not do it because simply where it does not fit with my Own rules , then that is where my control would end and I would start to lose money without more.

Laying low is something I can understand too. People feel bad about losing it and dont want to show their face on the chatboxes and stay away from public. My opinion to avoid this, playing with a small budget and only playing for fun keep the system under check.

You have a set budget and you dont exceed it, if you exceed it you lose. This should be the motto of every gambler trying to quit.

Fear comes from the notion of what would happen if one loses. This needs to clear in gamblers minds - if you lose you face the consequences of the loss and bear it throughout your life.

There will always be a state or feelings of inferiority complex especially dur to a situation whereby you encounter loss while trying to to achieve something and it'll seem like there's no more hope after the loss, so that's the reason most people nurse that fear of trying again after that great loss. But mostly what I usually let people consider basically in gambling is that they should always set up their minds to receive something as this so when it comes there won't be any cause for alarm.

In gambling it works exactly like that. When you start playing, even when you are just making a deposit, you should already be prepared for the fact that there will be losses. And you need to know how to manage your deposit so you can get through a streak of losses without it seriously affecting your balance. Of course, losing will be frustrating, there is no way around that, but if you are mentally ready for it, it will be much easier to handle.

You are right, another thing too is, a gambler should always set out the amount they can afford to lose at the moment they are gambling or betting. For example, if I say I want spend $10 today in gambling, and I make the decision that it's either I lose the money or I make 3x of the money, so until I lose it all, I will not have the fear of continuing to gamble. Some people ignore making budget to gamble, that's why they cultivate such fear too.

Many people do not understand how much they can actually spend on gambling without affecting their everyday expenses. To accurately know the amount of free money, you need to keep a budget, recording all expenses. In addition, you need to take into account not just ordinary expenses, but also all force majeure expenses (a tooth hurts, needs to be treated, etc.). And then it will become clear how much you can afford to lose in gambling on average. I have seen few people who calculated their expenses this way, and there were no average gamblers, unfortunately.
Often, people's expenses are simply spontaneous, and they cut back on expenses for everyday needs due to their greed and lack of restraint in spending.

Making a gambling budget is the most important aspect of gamblers who most gambling and maintained a safe gambling practices, allocation of budget or budgetary is something that would determine how much you go per stake or per section and how long you would spend in total hours of gambling and whenever that time or period, hours are met there wouldn't have been any moment such person go temper additional funds to gamble knowing too they have gambling budgets and limits.

Some people can allocate a huge amount that if they start gambling, it can still serve them to gamble for a very long hour, for them to maintain a limited time in gambling, there's need to create a time table or set a reminder of the time it will take you to stop gambling. Some people can make budget for one or two weeks but could spend all the money in a day.

Often, there are other gamblers who are satisfied with their positive thinking in the gambling they do, the problem is that they do not expect to lose or this is what they do not expect to happen, so often the result is that they feel like they are losing or they have a hard time accepting it in themselves.

That is why there are still limits on playing in online casinos, they should still have a limited amount so that they can practice controlling
their emotions in themselves at least.

Responsible gambler must know how long s/he must spend while gambling, that is why it's very important to know the total hours to gamble and when to stop, anyone who doesn't calculate or know how long he would spend while gambling makes them an irresponsible gambler. Location huge amount doesn't mean that they would gamble without having limits, at least what makes a gambler that responsible is knowing when to start, when to stop gambling.

Gambling is all about winning or losing, but I wonder why some of the gamblers will be losing whenever they bet, and instead of them wiseing up and thinking like a sensible woman beings that this bet is always losing all the time, if they should continue, what will be the results at the end of the day? But they won't; that's why a lot of people are getting addicted to the word gambling.

But what I'm seeing is that it is only those that are new to gambling that don't know how they can play the bet to reduce their losses. Because the professional people know their way to survive in gambling without too much losing, since they do not sacrifice all their time to gambling, they deal with the right time; because their wish is their command, they do make their decision within themselves.

I agree. A gambling budget is important because that way we can have some rest if we lose that budget for the day. The real problem is the discipline. Can we really abide by our own rule, and can we really follow that discipline each day, whatever happens? I know there will always be an urge for revenge. We want our money back, so we deposit more. Those instances are when we should be strong and resist the urge to gamble more just because we need to chase the losses. Honestly, it's difficult to do, especially if you have gone deep in losses.

Its do usually happens in a game because anything can happen on a sports betting sometimes the team we put a bet didn't perform well and we know the outcome of it of course lose. Having a doubt and fear to lose is part of the risk we take in playing gambling and of course we didn't win a large sum of money if we did not put a wage. But if you lose already make sure for the upcoming bets you will do is the assurance you will win, we are counting the gains not the number of losses.

In setting a budget, one must be disciplined and strictly adhere to the budget, although many people set a budget in the first place, in reality they cannot adhere to their budget properly. Because they are not ready to accept their losses in any way, but they do not understand that because of not accepting this small loss, they are going to face a bigger loss. Excessive gambling will definitely bring disaster, and if it is uncontrolled, you will definitely face a loss. So, no matter how much loss you have before, forget it, in the hope of recovering that loss, you will lose more valuable things.

You are right, I don't think there's any gambler that would panic after losing a small amount of money, it's always those that gambles with an amount of money that was meant specifically for something important or perhaps the entire amount of money they have in their account. This is why going all in is a very stupid idea because when things goes South you are left feeling nothing but constant regrets and fear.

This happened to me most of time if on long losing streak. My inner self keeps giving me a signal to not bet anymore because I’m on a bad luck run.

We are losing money so it’s normal to feel fear especially if you loss confidence already that you will not win on your next bet due to your current bad bet.

Take a break and come back when your mind is clear is best thing to do if you are already experiencing fear on your next bet.

In my opinion you are setting your winnings requirements too high considering you want a 300% profit. Chances are you'll lose everything faster than you'll make that kind of profit. In the long run you will be dominated by losses only.

I try to withdraw my winnings by increasing my deposit even by 20-30% and I'll be honest, it doesn't always work out. My last gambling session in slots lasted no more than 5 minutes. I didn't even have time to notice how my $100 evaporated.

You have the mind of a mature gambler, that's how it's supposed to be..as a gambler you must learn to take your losses quietly and either quit permanently or try again another day, these are things that I didn't do when I started gambling as a beginner... gamblers end up in fear after losing because they cannot come to terms with the fact that they probably lost a significant amount of money that was meant for something important

This is part of gambling because the fear of losing is one thought that keeps people from gambling as often because your mind keeps letting you know of the dangers that are is associated with gambling which is losing and having lost before it's only natural that you have this kind of feeling


But you don't have to allow your emotions to override what you plan to do because gambling is about taking risk and anyone who is going into gambling should be prepared to go take the risk involved

The fear of losing also limits their spending and gamblers cannot keep up with losing money on a regular basis. They try to control their emotions before they bet instead of keeping themselves in touch with reality. I have seen some gamblers and gamble in such a way that they bet more and take more risks even though they know they will lose. Overly emotional makes some gamblers take risks, which can sometimes lead to higher winnings even though they had a higher chance of losing.

Most of the time when gambling you are controlled by your emotions and no matter how hard you try to control yourself you may not be able to win. A good way to control your emotions is to limit your spending on gambling for fun and to control yourself so that you do not feel stressed when you lose.

Fear is not always good, there are several opportunities we may end up missing when we easily give in to fear, and speaking of gambling, it makes no sense to be afraid, I personally have always said that there is no reason why some one that is afraid should engage in gambling because such a person can hardly bear the loses associated from gambling.

I have a thread on this same topic but it's been over several months since it was last active, a gambler should never be afraid of losing money because that is part of gambling, it's like the Norm in gambling, if you are afraid of losing money, the best thing to do is to stay away from whatever will make you lose the money because it's clear you can't bear the loss.

I think it’s normal thing to have this fear of losing but are suppose to be scared? You are betting something you know in wouldn’t cost you anything when you lose, why should you be having the fear of betting again? It’s not like you are the person that controls events, we can only do the betting but you can’t control how the game will start neither control how the game will end, even the best team can lose a game when you have high hope on them.

A guy was disappointed yesterday in his games, Atalanta on his game yesterday and he was expecting potential cash out of $110 and eas presented $98 when Atalanta was having a lead of 2 goals against Parma, he took the screenshot and was disturbing every on X but after some minute of the game , he was humbled as Parma did a come back with 3 goals to win the game and that’s how he lost the bet m, everything turn grew without cash out. This morning, he has dropped some bets agains. :D

Yes, it is true that those who are afraid of gambling cannot avoid the losses of gambling. This is because they gamble with the intention of making a profit and they consider gambling as a source of income. Due to this, they are afraid of losing and losing money. But those who gamble for real fun are never afraid because losing money does not matter to them. They are able to have fun and pass the time, which is a big thing for them.

I'm not afraid to gamble because I use very small amounts of money there, so if I lose, it won't be a big financial loss for me that could put me under pressure in any way. So I have no reason to be afraid when gambling.

I think that many players have fear due to the fact that they represent this loss again and again, they seem to not believe, but continue to do it. Nevertheless, I had more fear when I was just starting to play, but then I gradually left when I lost many times. Now I don’t have it, but there is a rational approach and bets very rare only for a certain matches in which I am more than sure, but of course this does not mean that I will not lose. Of course, if I exceed my bets with a large limit, then fear will appear again, but I will not do it.

I have a question about betting here;
Have you ever been in doubt about whether to bet or not, with one part of you wanting to go and the other telling you to let it go? Which side do you usually listen to?

I'm asking this because I'm going through this right now. I don't want to bet right now, but I keep thinking... should I or is it better to wait? I get a little torn sometimes, and I wanted to know if anyone else has been through this and how they resolved it?

If you have a dilemma then the correct answer is not to bet. If it feels like compulsive need for betting then especially it is better to avoid betting of any kind.

Fear comes in as a result of the loss the person has experience, thinking that if he continues the loss will keep reoccurring, and that is why gambling is said to play for fun and not for money, and that is also the reason why you must gamble with what you can afford to loss, when fear is seen all over the person there is a tendency that he may have borrowed the money,now he's thinking on how to settle his debts, and so the fear of not getting the money from anyone is very possible.

If you're in doubt, ask again, is this idea/analysis came from where? Is it from research? Or just what you feel, if you think you are not sure what do you  want to do, better stop and think again.

What normally cause a player to have that fear of gambling after a lose may be due to the past experience in gambling. Gambling is not an activity of the weak which is why when you don't understand how things ought to work, you will be having challenges which could reduce your morale to bet more for a brighter opportunity to make money.

Every gambler must be disciplined so they don't fall victim to their own fear. The free if losing in the gambling space is the beginning of more loses. Those that have been gambling for years know the effects of having fear which could reduce the momentum which you should have used to earn some good profits for yourself.

I think betting small amounts can be the best way to continue gambling and avoid fear, although still vulnerable to losing more money due to loss of control. It can also create an automatic limit from addiction, which usually arises from the desire to chase losses. We can easily forget the defeat if we lose a small amount of money, and it's not a problem to bet larger amounts from winnings along the way. I think many people think the same thing, like those who like slot games, bets will be increased when in a profitable position without fear. But it all comes back to each individual goals, don't gamble if you are constantly haunted by fear, even if the money you are betting is a small amount.

It's like a feeling, but I can't explain it in part. I don't know if it could be fear or maybe it's because I've never delved deeper into the subject, but it's something I feel. Do you happen to bet? Do you have any strategy tips or advice you can give me?

I'm new to betting.

Yes, being torn between such decisions is actually a good sign. It depends more on what exactly are you thinking. If you are making an analysis of the situation, benefits but also downsides then you are doing it right. Gambling can be fun, but it is dangerous. A responsible adult should never rush into dangerous activities without giving it a second though. When it comes to gambling in particular, I had my share of these feelings. I think they are more common during losses or streaks of losses than when you are winning but it is similar.

Many people ruin their wins because they lack this feeling to stop them from playing again.

Well, I think this feeling is actually good, right? It shows that the person is thinking before doing something stupid. Playing can be fun, but it can also be very risky if we don't know how to stop. I identified with what you said about defeats... it seems like that's when we really feel it the most. Do you usually have a strategy to deal with these moments? If so, what would it be?

Losses bring about more losses, even though you might have a chance of recovery after chasing the chances are very slim. Immediately I lose the first bet of the day I don't bother to try again because I know what might happen if I keep going further, a lot of people get so agitated to the point where they only care about getting back their losses and not what they lose while chasing after them. Avoiding gambling after losing is the best thing to do

You think you’ve got it all lined up then one unexpected draw just ruins everything. After that it’s like your brain’s split in two. One side urges take the risk again and the other says cool before you lose more. Personally when that happens to me I try to go away for a bit. Clear my head, Because wagering while you’re emotional or pursuing a loss usually just ends worse. It’s challenging but sometimes not betting is the smartest option.

And when I was very keen on betting, I often managed to successfully predict expresses (whole series of bets on the end of matches).
And when I became very self-confident and successful, I made two big express bets on huge stakes. I was sure that at least one of them would be completely guessed, but I miscalculated and because of this my deposit in the stake decreased by half. This hit my inner self-confidence so hard that several months have passed, and I still can’t get over it.
And I want to confess to you that guys do not be greedy or overconfident, because this is a step that can practically end your betting hobby.

When it comes to gambling you can never be 100 percent sure of the match you predicted and that is why you need to work on your mindset, now how do you see gambling for me if I lose any bet I won't feel sad because I see gambling as a fun event I do just to make myself happy and I have made my mind in such a way that my lost and win is not a big deal to me.
So if you structure your mind this way you won't be sad when you lose a bet, like I always say gamble for fun and not for making money purpose.
Whenever you lose a bet tell yourself that this is just for fun and not for money purpose.
A lot of people have lost a bet they should have won because of sadness and reflecting on their lost, and that made them not to continue in betting.
Stop crying over a bet that you have already lost move on because there are great wins in front and always remember to gamble for fun and not for escaping poverty or becoming rich.

Once upon a time this was my most basic mistake, when after a successful winning series I decided to increase the bet, or some event on which I was ready to bet more than usual, and it is not difficult to imagine what this led to. After this you will have regrets and this disappointment can be long-lasting.

But I believe that this experience was not in vain, it showed that all bets should be equal when we evaluate their risks, one bet cannot be considered less risky than others, risk management should be applied to all bets equally, only in this way you can develop the necessary habits that will help you, we need to use our previous experience to our advantage, so that these losses do not become in vain.

I have a question for you, have you since been gambling in the same way that caused you to lose that much because for me, any type of bet that made me to lose too much, I usually do not go back to gambling in that way. When I was playing aviator games and noticed that I was losing too much, I stopped playing and up to this day, I have not gone back to playing aviator games. There has to be fear after you lose unless you are the type that do not value their money. I use my spare money for gambling but that does not mean I just want to throw away my money. I still want to get something back from the games that I am playing. I understand that I would not win all the bets I take but some should favour me that is what I want.

Losing in gambling is a very natural thing, and it is very easy to start a losing streak, but if you cannot stop yourself and continue gambling emotionally, it will cause you huge losses. After losing at gambling, if you can't realize the right thing, and continue playing emotionally, it will definitely cause huge losses.

Aviator game is currently one of the most addictive games, most gamblers are addicted to this game or this type of game. Where they always think of big profits but always lose. This Aviator game is a highly addictive game, so if you cannot keep the right mindset while playing this type of game, it is very difficult to get out of this game at the right time.

Many will be in fear after loss because they are aware of the conditions at stake for what they have done and this brought us back to responsible gambling and why we shouldn't let the over excitement of playing a bet and get into trouble, gambling should be done under a perfect moderation and we should consider more chances of losing than winning, so that what we do will not bounce back on us later after the results is out.

I say that the fear is not of losing but of the things that the person has to face in daily life , because that includes who has to go and take responsibility for all the obligations that Should not be Missed, responsibility is something incredible, and if the sense of responsibility Fails due to these errors such as gambling and losing money that should NOT be lost, then you have to resolve it , it's that simple.

I would say it's a normal feeling for people generally especially when someone is not an addict. The loss of that will definitely tell on you and it's demoralising. Of course you already have it at the back of your mind that it's your hard earned money you're using to bet and if you lose it your morale will be low. If eventually you go ahead to keep on playing, there's a higher possibility that you will keep on losing. The best thing to do is to stop for a while and resume later again to maintain a certain balance in your gambling life.

A gambler will be in fear after loss, because he has used the money for something important to gamble and has no way to replace the funds that he has used. Some of them even used money that was given to them ti keep or on an errand. After losing such funds, fear, panic and sadness with befall on the gambler.

Except for a case of a strong desire for recovery, after your first loss, you naturally have this resistance to attempt a bet again on same selections, if it was a totally new selection, ther may be little to almost no hesitation but since it is same selection, you may want to think that ther are other wrong game and you will nurse that doubt till it becomes fear and you will not be able  to place a bet again and may actually regret it when the rest of the  game becomes a won game.

I don’t entertain fear after a loss, nope, the deal is done and there is noting I could do about it or to change it. I rather forge ahead and face what is that is to come. The fear I do entertain after losses is in the event of having placed another bet. Definitely I wouldn’t want to entertain the idea of loosing this time and that’s where the fear crips in because, I must have played with money that I’m not allowed to lose. Oops, I sure don’t and that’s where the phobia is.

I understand what you are saying , it is clearly not fear but the phobia you are talking about, but things need to be seen from a point of View closer to clarity and relaxation In cash, you lose, you win, but losing is not a reason for shame or anything so bad The bad thing is betting a lot of money and losing it because the money you should Bet is the money you have to lose, that is the way it should be , and after that there would be no need to be afraid of any kind.

If someone thinks of gambling excessively to recover those money after losing too much while gambling, it would be a complete mistake for him. If we can take gambling as entertainment, it can be a good thing for us. And if we take gambling as the only means of earning money, it can be a big loss for us. No one can ever guarantee that he will always win while gambling because there is a risk of losing in gambling.

I think most punters are just very optimistic about their bet and some of them don't even consider the possibility that the bet might not win. I often hear the concept that a bet is "cast-iron" and this means that the punter is absolutely confident in it, even if the odds are very high and he is betting on a dark horse.

And unfortunately, most stories about strong addiction to betting on sports events begin with winning such a bet, which brings a large income to the bettor. After which he begins to believe that it is possible to get money, now only in such a quick and easy way.

Football betting is prediction and we are not sure of any team Winning. The best team we know might disappoint us. And I believed many if not all have that feeling that I will lose the next bet it I do since I didn't win the first odds. That is gambling for you. It is a common thing for all. And if you win your think that you would win again and that lead to play all the wins funds. And in the bet you lose all again to the casino.

What you say is true. Why be afraid of losing in gambling? After all, if you're truly afraid of losing, it's better not to gamble in the first place. Now, if we're afraid of losing money but we gamble anyway, that's tantamount to inviting illness, isn't it? There's a possibility that the desire to chase winning will lead us to continue gambling.

Now, if the fear is the desire to bet or deposit more money, that's something I think should be avoided, because regular gambling is not recommended.

Fear is definitely a part of gambling,  because it's a game of chance  and luck. So I think it's nor to have that fear, not just when you loss a bet, but sometimes when you just want play. I think it's a good feeling,  this will definitely help you control how you gamble and it will help you not get addicted to gambling. 
When you are afraid to make a bet after a loss, it's really good and it helps you to reduce losing more money, because most time when you lose a bet and you try to recover on the next bet, you tend to lose more. Nobody needs to bother about having fear before gambling,  but should see it as a good sign that helps you reduce the way you gamble.