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Title: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: LuwisPK on November 12, 2025, 05:07:14 AM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, each of us should try to achieve ideal qualities in our lives, the most important thing is that an ideal personality has qualities like honesty, hard work, fairness, humanity, tolerance and sense of responsibility, he never bows down to injustice, remains steadfast on the path of truth and justice, his words and deeds are consistent, and he is always busy wishing the well-being of others, as an ideal person, if we try to develop ourselves, we see many ideal personalities in history, they built their lives in such a way, now they are not on this earth but their ideal beautiful personality remains in the pages of history.
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: 348Judah on November 12, 2025, 05:12:34 AM Personal development is very important, because we are going to follow up with the emerging trends that could help us in achieving more in life, we can't afford to remain on a single spot for so long without improving on all sides, we need to start to learn how we could record some personal achievements made of recent times and see how progressive we've become, which all these starts by our interest in personal development.
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: palle11 on November 12, 2025, 10:31:16 AM To be selfish is one thing that also stop people from growing because you need people to grow and when they find out that you are selfish, they will start distancing from you. People like to help you when they see that you are a nice person who is also capable of helping others but after they have tried the first time to help you and you didn't show a sense of kindness, you will find it difficult with another help. So no matter how small the support we get from people, we should try to show gratitude to them. Just like God appreciate our praise and worship to him which shows appreciation to expect more, this is also how it is in human circle. It is an ideal person that will understand this philosophy to life. Kindness, respect, being responsible, standing in for someone etc are characteristics I see as ideal in human.
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Queen uloma on November 12, 2025, 11:37:59 AM Personal development is very important, because we are going to follow up with the emerging trends that could help us in achieving more in life, we can't afford to remain on a single spot for so long without improving on all sides, we need to start to learn how we could record some personal achievements made of recent times and see how progressive we've become, which all these starts by our interest in personal development. True, life is indeed short, the impact we put in during our existance on earth matters alot, an ideal person must carry everyone along, he lives to serve people with kindness and love, he stand on the truth, indeed true greatness doesn't lie in money, success or fame but in good character, when we practice humility it brings about peace and respect,The ones who lived meaningful are always remembered but not those who lived long on earth, we should try our best to become a better person, think in wisdom and walk in truth, when we are gone our names will always be remembered for good and not of evil. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Pauldesaints on November 12, 2025, 12:15:01 PM It's very important one.live life worthy of emulation.living honestly live is an asset to the family and the world at large.
It's an everlasting legacy the child will enjoy and get respected Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: passwordnow on November 12, 2025, 04:29:40 PM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, each of us should try to achieve ideal qualities in our lives, the most important thing is that an ideal personality has qualities like honesty, hard work, fairness, humanity, tolerance and sense of responsibility, he never bows down to injustice, remains steadfast on the path of truth and justice, his words and deeds are consistent, and he is always busy wishing the well-being of others, as an ideal person, if we try to develop ourselves, we see many ideal personalities in history, they built their lives in such a way, now they are not on this earth but their ideal beautiful personality remains in the pages of history. It's about leaving a legacy you mean. So, with the time that we have, we need to develop ourselves in the best that we can because if we're not going to do something good for ourselves, how can we do something good for the others? That's the whole point. Being an ideal person is not a just a dream but it can become a reality but someone who's trying hard to be one might struggle in it. Be yourself, do things in the best way that you can and with that, I think that you'll become an ideal person in your own actions that shall reflect and be seen by the others.Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: BADecker on November 12, 2025, 05:00:52 PM It's easy. Simply copy everything everybody says in this forum. ;D
8) Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Findingnemo on November 12, 2025, 05:49:49 PM Explain the characteristics of an ideal person?
It is subjective to every individual, which is why they are living their life in the way they want it to be. They don't consider anything wrong even some of the harmful things they do to others. Which is why we had religions in the first place and after 20 centuries the religion itself became a reason for the people to do cruel things. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Mhassan38 on November 12, 2025, 06:08:35 PM I most often get this thought !! What is the essence of life? Is it just for us to wake up every day eat and sleep??? Why where we created if thats all, but the concept of the whole convincing idea comes from religion and beliefs in as much as we all agree that life is very short and we all are going to die in no short time we just have to live the best way we can and make legacies that the next generation that come after us will be very proud to see or hear.
However, Islam for example gave a convincing idea on what is the essence of life !!!I can recommend some book to read to know more about life and the universe at larger 1. The Bible, the Quran, and science: the holy scriptures examined in the modern knowledge by processor Maurice bucaille. 2. What is the origin of man? The answers of science and the holy scriptures by professor Maurice bucaille. Please find time to read this two books I guess it will a lot. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Fiatless on November 12, 2025, 07:10:43 PM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, each of us should try to achieve ideal qualities in our lives, the most important thing is that an ideal personality has qualities like honesty, hard work, fairness, humanity, tolerance and sense of responsibility, he never bows down to injustice, remains steadfast on the path of truth and justice, his words and deeds are consistent, and he is always busy wishing the well-being of others, as an ideal person, if we try to develop ourselves, we see many ideal personalities in history, they built their lives in such a way, now they are not on this earth but their ideal beautiful personality remains in the pages of history. These qualities you have mentioned are gradually declining in the world. Greed, power, and materialism have taken over the people. People are so desperate that they will do anything to acquire wealth and power. The reason for the wars, poverty, and inequality we see around us is that humans have sold their souls to evil because of power and wealth. We have lost our humanity because we want to live in luxury. Instead of becoming good role models, political, religious, and economic leaders have become liars because of personal interest. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: LOVER BOY 422 on November 12, 2025, 07:24:07 PM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, each of us should try to achieve ideal qualities in our lives, the most important thing is that an ideal personality has qualities like honesty, hard work, fairness, humanity, tolerance and sense of responsibility, he never bows down to injustice, remains steadfast on the path of truth and justice, his words and deeds are consistent, and he is always busy wishing the well-being of others, as an ideal person, if we try to develop ourselves, we see many ideal personalities in history, they built their lives in such a way, now they are not on this earth but their ideal beautiful personality remains in the pages of history. Life is a teacher so learning how to achieve personal growth by mapping clearly a certain goals , understand yourself very well , developing a nice habits, embracing learning,brinia nice support network,practicing mindfulness going out of your comfort place ,and staying organized,it will gives you a defined specific ideas to your life.Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Berry2d on November 12, 2025, 11:58:22 PM The first aspect of solution finding is identifying the root cause of the problem before looking at the possible solution to it at last but people think an unknown problem can be solved. For over years now, citizens are been faced with the challenging issues of how to provide lasting solution to our economic challenges and now I think one of the solution is self development before considering other possible solution.
Self development is a very important aspect of balancing the countries unemployment issue because a well developed citizen can find solution to the cause of failure and provide the right approach to financial stability and freedom. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: El_Tammy on November 13, 2025, 07:47:39 AM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, OP sir I think you've spoken just very well but there's one tiny but important fact you're missing. One thing about the most people in our modern society is the the acceptance of the fact that the life we live is short and wanting to make or live the most of it, enjoying every opportunity or chance they get and building a legacy for themselves. Of course yes it is a virtue to make a good name for yourself but these people, in the quest of living a great life no longer cares about most decisions they take. What matters is how well they spend their days and how much they have in their bank. In the struggle to enjoy the short life, people are ready, willing and comfortable with seeing a fellow man in pain to have the greater benefits in life. With these little been said, I'd also like to also remind you that man is naturally wicked and you can not always expect a man to have the features you have listed out because at the end, man will prioritize his own pleasure over everything else and will do whatever it takes to protect it, making society a fighting ring where the fittest or strongest wins. So while reminding people how good it is to live a great and exemplary life, also let the know of how brutish society itself can be so that men will not be deceived by the appearance and eye soothing sight of idealism. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Mhizlove on November 13, 2025, 05:12:54 PM You see life itself is really short and the best way to live,is in a way that we can be remembered for good by people and not about how long we've lived but how lives have been changed by us. If someone has qualities like fairness, honesty and hardwork in them such person don't have the fear to stand for justice and truth even when it gets though they will live a life that will always inspire so many people around them. Historically
Many great people has lived a kind life,but you see their names are still in existence because of the good character they left behind. I will say that we should live a better version of ourselves, do good things ,live rights and also make a good name for ourselves that when our names are being mentioned anywhere even after we're no longer in this life it will be meant for good things and not for bad. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: lodocus on November 13, 2025, 05:20:59 PM If everyone were an ideal person, it would mean that no one could be ideal. That's why everyone strives to improve their situation, but very few people can meet all of society's high standards.
It is truly absurd for everyone to strive to live the same life. Of course, we must embrace our human characteristics, but trying to make everyone ideal is absurd and impossible. The ideal should be something that not everyone can achieve. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: 9ja Amaka on November 13, 2025, 07:03:47 PM To me , being an ideal person isn’t about being perfect, nobody is perfect let’s be real. It’s more about trying daily to be a better version of yourself. Like being kind, treating others right, doing the right thing even when it’s hard and leaving good mark wherever you go , because at the end of the day that’s what people will remember. Not how you were rich or how you dressed but how you made them feel. You can be gone tomorrow but people will still talk about you and the good you’ve done.
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Hispo on November 14, 2025, 12:32:48 AM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, each of us should try to achieve ideal qualities in our lives, the most important thing is that an ideal personality has qualities like honesty, hard work, fairness, humanity, tolerance and sense of responsibility, he never bows down to injustice, remains steadfast on the path of truth and justice, his words and deeds are consistent, and he is always busy wishing the well-being of others, as an ideal person, if we try to develop ourselves, we see many ideal personalities in history, they built their lives in such a way, now they are not on this earth but their ideal beautiful personality remains in the pages of history. Sure sure, but all of that is too idealistic, in my opinion... Not all people who come to this world have the same opportunities to be remembered for their good deeds for others, some are fortunate and were born in rich families, and that allows them to control their destiny, give to the poor and work in philanthropy, there are many billionaires who work in such a way, but those are very limited cases. The best thing one can do with one'a life is to try to be the happiest possible and not to care whether one will transcend to the human history or not, because one can be either famous or infamous, but that does not equals happiness whatsoever. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Dunamisx on November 14, 2025, 04:23:24 AM Most of the people want something better, but they don't wat to pass through the process and be the same better person they have wanted to be, in live, we must be ready to get it hard, if not, to make it may be more difficult, all because of our kind of mentality, we should never be the type that will want something good or a change to take place but not creating room for such to happen.
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: LuwisPK on November 14, 2025, 05:37:46 AM The change happened spontaneously without me knowing it, but right now I am enjoying this change very much. My life has become complete since marriage. Earlier, I felt incomplete in my life, there was no definite aspect in my life. Now, I always think about my family, my wife and my children. Now, my only goal is how to keep my family happy. I think it is important for every man to have such a change in his life.
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: mvdheuvel1983 on November 14, 2025, 07:44:30 AM Most of the people want something better, but they don't wat to pass through the process and be the same better person they have wanted to be, in live, we must be ready to get it hard, if not, to make it may be more difficult, all because of our kind of mentality, we should never be the type that will want something good or a change to take place but not creating room for such to happen. The mentality of this generation is what is affecting the younger generation and their mentality of getting things easy and getting quick money without working hard for it is what is keeping them in n the dark, there is no escape to poverty and suffering if there is no change in their thinking and the mindset of feeling entitled to what they don't work for, there should be proper orientation to the young ones and they should be made to understand the importance of working for what they want and what they want to achieve instead of allowing them to feel they can get things the easy way when they do not work. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Achalugo BTC on November 14, 2025, 07:53:38 AM Personal development is very important, because we are going to follow up with the emerging trends that could help us in achieving more in life, we can't afford to remain on a single spot for so long without improving on all sides, we need to start to learn how we could record some personal achievements made of recent times and see how progressive we've become, which all these starts by our interest in personal development. Exactly, whatever thing that will make one to grow we should work towards it, which it's important to be around people that will add more value and support you in achieving your success because it is believed that if you surround yourself with people who has the same dreams with you or has positive mindset towards you, you are likely to experience posivitity as well but being around those that doesn't add or support you in getting or achieving your success order than making you remain stagnant which you won't be able to get what you want.Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Marykeller on November 14, 2025, 10:03:45 AM Being an ideal person is not easy in this present day, where people are looking for means they will outsmart their fellow beings, to be wealthy, to unlawfully take the things of their brothers or neighbors by force, being an ideal person no longer fits in today's world where there are whole lot of bad breed in the society that has corrupted the minds of others with money to support and back their evil deeds. Even in a government political position, or the court, it's how rich and corrupt you are that will give you a win over it, not honesty, fairness, and tolerance because the world sees that as weakness, that they won't like to have in a system run by corrupt leaders, who are enriching themselves and their families. For any reason of bringing an ideal person in their midst, it is cancelled because it will expose their corrupt financial dealings to the outside world, which they won't like it happen.
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: caroasi on November 14, 2025, 12:38:53 PM "KAIZEN is steady effort of improvement in all, with purification of hearts, and for total goodness. You can get better, stronger, and faster at many things, if you put your heart and mind to it. If you can't get strong, you can become less weak. If you cant get good, you can become less bad. Few people reach their potential because they don't know their self, they don't accept their self, and they don't attempt to improve them self constantly. Virtues and values can be strengthened, tuned, and attended to. You may constantly improve your self. Bend rather than break in adaptivity. Attributes without attention may become weaker over time. You can accomplish more than what you are doing now. You can do so by force of will, and you can do so by learning more and training more. Everyone is capable of great improvement by spending time. However, if one does not know their self, they may be improving a worthless ability or behavior, or even working against their own goals. To improve your self, first discover your self. Network with others who share your goals. Learn from mistakes by listening to supporters opinions and by continuous evaluation of goal progress. Mistakes happen, but will you let them happen twice? To improve, seek and make room for improvement. A crisis demands we do something, but preventing the same crisis usually demands we undo that which enabled it. Track your achievements and progress to goals so you can use that information to improve. Every writing can be improved. Write a new beginning. Write a new middle. Write a new end. Many people think their actions are uncontrollable. Even coughs and sneezes can be controlled with training. If you were offered an incredible reward for changing your life course, could you do it? For example, if you were offered a solid gold statue to stop eating for one day with good food there for you to eat, could you do it? One hour? One minute? Or, if you were offered an incredible punishment to avoid the behavior, could you do it? If someone were going to kill you with no exceptions for eating, could you stop eating for a day? An hour? A minute? These are two tests of choice. If you wait to be ready for change before you do change, you may be waiting forever. So, don't always wait to change. In Kaizen, don't just survive, but thrive.
FAITH Dreams can lead to hope. Hope can lead to faith. Faith can lead to confidence to face our fears and press on. Intuition is the instinct that allows animals to succeed in life even without the skill of logical reasoning. So, faith is an intuition that allows people to find joy in life with or without logical reasoning. The less information available about something, the more the belief about it rests on faith. Evidence lowers the need for faith in a belief. Because some beliefs cause harm to our selves and others, we have a responsibility to discover evidence. So, seek and welcome information to strengthen well placed faith and to replace misplaced faith. Our faith is often put to the test, but you may avoid many trials by putting your own faith to the test. Build courage to welcome information about beliefs that contradict your beliefs. The more different perspectives and opposing views you know of or adapt to, the less wrong or more confident you can feel about your beliefs. Absence of evidence is not evidence, but faith. When you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains as improbable, is a faith. Logic is limited in reach because all lines of reasoning eventually lead to the unknown. So, logic rests on a foundation of faith or instinct. Science and logic often require more time than what is available to reach a confident conclusion, leaving us to our instincts to form a decision or belief. Also, science can sometimes lead a researcher in logical circles, which is invalid logic. Logic only works in lines of reasoning, not in circles of reasoning. Where we have little evidence, we may have faith, and when we have faith, we have hope." Source: bitbucket.org/metanexom/rainbow-road/downloads/Rainbow_Rock.pdf (free PDF) Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Agbamoni on November 14, 2025, 01:27:38 PM Life is a rollercoaster. The ups and downs, good or bad, right and wrong. We cannot be perfect no matter how we try, such is the game of life.
We all should choose the path we want to follow. As for me, I just want to live, love and be happy with the people I claim to love. There is nothing more important than this. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Boy_chef on November 14, 2025, 03:14:14 PM For you to develop your self your mind set really matters and the knowledge and determination matters because most people desides to seat for someone to give them something why not work for your self for others to work for you which is we need to work for our selfs to be an ideal person
Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: LOVER BOY 422 on November 14, 2025, 04:30:57 PM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, each of us should try to achieve ideal qualities in our lives, the most important thing is that an ideal personality has qualities like honesty, hard work, fairness, humanity, tolerance and sense of responsibility, he never bows down to injustice, remains steadfast on the path of truth and justice, his words and deeds are consistent, and he is always busy wishing the well-being of others, as an ideal person, if we try to develop ourselves, we see many ideal personalities in history, they built their lives in such a way, now they are not on this earth but their ideal beautiful personality remains in the pages of history. Surely we have come to this world grown to this extent what happens is to make sure we grow up in thinking to make sure that we level up in life ,just as you said that the major thing is to make sure will get up and bring up our thinking to the extent to better us in one way or the other,I believe this really motivated me the more ,am really touch by this op ,if you are an idea person you will not lack of good things or opportunities because of your nice or good subjection they will be looking for you for good updates and good ideas because many will always look up to you as a good and fair human.Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: programmer3666 on November 14, 2025, 04:31:27 PM Every person's mindset should be like this, we have come to this world for a short time, this short life of ours should be such that people remember us after our death, each of us should try to achieve ideal qualities in our lives, the most important thing is that an ideal personality has qualities like honesty, hard work, fairness, humanity, tolerance and sense of responsibility, he never bows down to injustice, remains steadfast on the path of truth and justice, his words and deeds are consistent, and he is always busy wishing the well-being of others, as an ideal person, if we try to develop ourselves, we see many ideal personalities in history, they built their lives in such a way, now they are not on this earth but their ideal beautiful personality remains in the pages of history. honestly life on earth is short and becoming a better version of ourselves is one of the few things we truly control. like being honest, responsible, fair and kind might look simple, but these qualities are what separate ordinary people from those who are remembered long after they are gone! because an ideal person is not perfect, they just choose discipline over excuses, truth over comfort and compassion over selfishness and truely history only remembers the people who lived with purpose and good character at the end Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Rockson1 on November 14, 2025, 04:41:04 PM Life is a rollercoaster. The ups and downs, good or bad, right and wrong. We cannot be perfect no matter how we try, such is the game of life. Good decision you have made man but sometimes life sucks, one thing i will advise you as person is this, since you have chosen the part you highlighted, make sure you don't get disappointed if same people don't give you back the energy you give as you love them because such is life too, in life we don't expect people to love us the very way or level we love them, to avoid being disappointed, we need to understand how these things works, is just like giving and expecting anything in return, you might be disappointed at the end, talking about being perfect no one should ever have such in mind because as mortals we can never be perfect that's the reality.We all should choose the path we want to follow. As for me, I just want to live, love and be happy with the people I claim to love. There is nothing more important than this. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Stormisover on November 14, 2025, 07:05:46 PM Personal development is very important, because we are going to follow up with the emerging trends that could help us in achieving more in life, we can't afford to remain on a single spot for so long without improving on all sides, we need to start to learn how we could record some personal achievements made of recent times and see how progressive we've become, which all these starts by our interest in personal development. Exactly, whatever thing that will make one to grow we should work towards it, which it's important to be around people that will add more value and support you in achieving your success because it is believed that if you surround yourself with people who has the same dreams with you or has positive mindset towards you, you are likely to experience posivitity as well but being around those that doesn't add or support you in getting or achieving your success order than making you remain stagnant which you won't be able to get what you want.Success is about growth and it doesn't come without a sacrifice, you can't be doing same thing and be expecting different results, in life being too comfortable will make us stagnant, some times it is good to leave our comfort zone to go and look for more better opportunities, it is a good point to find ourselves among those that are doing better than us, it gives positive energy and motivation of becoming a better version of yourself, it helps in changing or shaping your narrative and aspirations in life. Title: Re: Develop yourself into an ideal person. Post by: Pearl_20 on November 18, 2025, 03:20:02 PM I have heard a lot of people say that the live you lived speaks for you and your generation in time's to come, and the life we're is so short that you can't tell of what happens next. Have heard about stories of people that I don't even know, the things they do while they were living so having an ideal personality is something we should all try to develop especially honesty, hardwork and humanitarian services.
People should actually know you for something, you don't have to be everything, I know of a man who my dad keeps talking about when he was alive, that his someone who has touched lives positively, and his someone that if he say's something that's how it is, his honesty was top notch and people knew him as such and for several years they keep referencing to this same person. It is important also that we find ourselves with people who share these qualities and people who can impact good morals to your daily lives. We should live our lives knowing that tomorrow isn't promised, so working hard, being honest, helping those around you in your little way and developing you should count all day. |