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Title: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 22, 2012, 04:21:37 PM Hey. Recently I've taken a liking to a girl at my school, and I would like some creative, cheap, and not necessarily Bitcoin-Related date ideas. Also welcome, creative compliments, creative ways to come back from rejection, etc.
Good posts: Quote A good compliment is [insert compliment here] Quote A good date is to take a girl/guy [insert date idea here] Bad posts: Quote u shuld tell her "heybby, i wnna tap dat azz. U wanna go?" Quote Dates are stupid. Anyways, I don't want this to be just for me, so I'll probably update this post with other peoples ideas as well. Current Ideas: Creative Compiments: Most women/girls have a favourite accessoire that they wear often and that is different from the current trend, a neclair, earings, a pair of shoes, etc. Watch her style for a view days until you find out what it is. Then make a compliment on that specific thing. Note, you must speak the truth, nearly all people notice when you talk about why you like something and you lie. Look until you find something you really like (and not her boobs). It's easy to tell what someone is proud of with a little observation. And it's hard to make a lie convincing. If you don't like something on someone, don't lie and say you do. Find something else. And please avoid the following. Boobs Butt Things they're obviously uncomfortable about Rejection: Quote creative ways to come back from rejection Don't put yourself in a position to get rejected. As you carry on more and more conversations with her, make sure you're really listening and not just hearing her. Never interrupt her when she's speaking. During the course of the conversation, somehow takeaway something she mentioned, but don't elaborate on it. I'll give you a real life example. One day, me and girlfriend went to an upscaled mall to do some shopping to augment her wearing apparel. After parking, then proceeding to the entrance, she abruptly stops, and with excitement picks up a dime. A quick exchange pursued whereupon she said, "You don't know about me and dimes. Dimes are like power pieces to me." (New Age lingo) I replied with an, "Ah!" Come the following day, I entered our bedroom where she was putting on her shoes. I stopped her from completing that task and told her to wait a sec. I left the bedroom, closing the door behind me. Shortly, I returned and told her to close her eyes. I led her barefooted from the bedroom to the hall and walked her to the living room. Then I told her to open her eyes. What she saw 360o were a hundred dollars worth of dimes laying on the floor in the entire apartment with the exception of the bedroom from where we started. Immediately, she starting crying (I guess so did I). That's how powerful dimes were to her. That's how powerful listening to what she says is. Later that night, I received a well deserved piece of ass preceded by a blowjob one would die for, and it all started with some stranger losing a dime. In normal conversation, your lady friend may state that she likes such and such flower. Register it, and surprise her with the biggest batch you can afford. But don't make the mistake of asking her what flower she likes, then going out to buy a couple of them. She's already rewarded others via that approach, thus the surprise factor is already used up. If she's wearing perfume, simply tell her that smells nice and you like it, without asking her what it is. The chances are good, she'll tell you the fragrance. When she does, don't elaborate, but do retain the info. Think of it as a game. I'll assume you know how to play games. The goal is to win her without her knowing that she's being gamed. At the end of the game, please report back to your friends here, going into great detail about the epic blo.... Whatever you do, don't tell her about you being a member of BitcoinTalk or what you're pseudonym is, otherwise you're going to wake up one day while she's giving you a coffee edema. ~Bruno K~ Aikido. Be yourself, and enjoy the time together, whatever it is that you are doing. Take her to botanical garden, road trip, dinner, rock climbing gym, drinking, anything - and enjoy those moments to the fullest, just like you would with a close friend. Once she gets to know just how nice and smart and fun guy you are, she'll feel comfortable, and even more importantly - curious. It doesn't take but a few days, and if it takes more than that, then she's a guilt- and fear-ridden freak who is not worth the effort anyway. Don't just start pouring compliments all over her, pick a moment (walking in a park/ accidental pause in the middle of the conversation/ looking in her eyes for some time) and tell her how beautiful she is. Beautiful just sounds so much more powerful than saying pretty. you should not even worry whatsoever and let the situation be as natural as possible. Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate... I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone. Read Tucker Max (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Hope_They_Serve_Beer_in_Hell). Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick! btcANGEL points out a very important point: Women (as well as men) have - strongly simplified - 2 layers of decision making. The conscious and the subconscious level. The conscious is easy: these are the things you think of and can logically explain. It's the conscious part of their brain that when posed the question: "what do you look for in a guy" answers things like "I want him to be kind and intelligent, honest and a good listener". However there is also the subconscious part. This is how your body is wired and how your hormones work. These are your very primal responses to things like anxiety, fear, threat and the most primal of all: the sexual drive. These are the mechanisms shaped by evolution and natural selection. The subconscious looks for very different things in a mate: shelter from threat, power to provide for you and your offspring and strong genetic code to recombine with your own. These are things that can't be interviewed directly so the subconscious is dependent on picking up subtle signs like radiated confidence, social status, accumulated goods, strong body type and good looks (an indication of intact genetic line) etc. If you end up in the FRIENDZONE that means you met all the criteria of the conscious self but failed the interview with the subconscious part. You pleased their brain but failed to make their pussies wet. Their conscious self may tell you: "Oh, I love that you are so attentive and you asked me which restaurant we should go to for the date." Meanwhile their subconscious makes a mental note: "No initiative, no drive, no leadership: not the signs of a powerful mate" You are apparently very good at pleasing the conscious self. Stop worrying about that. Work on broadcasting the proper signals to please their subconscious. uh oh, that was a long list to read. Don't make this complicated. This is how I'd do it. Go up to her, look at her, and whatever she wears that looks nice, compliment her on it. For instance: "That's some really nice shoes you've got there, where did you get them from ?" Most girls would be all smiles from such a question, unless she had really ugly shoes, haha. Then you have the conversation going, and while the conversation is all lively, mention that you're going to x event (something that doesn't scare here, just an art exhibition, a fotball game or something else where you could share some excitement) and that your best friend ( a boy of course) could not come, and you still have two tickets if she wants to come ? Arrange to have the tickets somehow. Haha. If you want to make it even better, just ask her the first time for her interests. If she says for instance classical music, the next time you talk to her, you mention that your uncle was in town and had to leave because of a sick wife, but he left you with tickets to a local classical concert, something like that, to make it really exciting and innocent. And oh.. if you behave sensibly, and she thinks you're interesting, things are not really hard at all, it develops just naturally. Another thing would be to just ask her if she wanted to have lunch with your. Nothing scary about that! ^ if you compliment a girl on her shoes she'll immediately assume you're gay or worse a shoefag, the rest sounds a 'lil bit creepy, dishonest and cliche'd...... the truth is you're a young man and you want to get her drunk and take advantage of her, just be honest about that from the start and buy a bottle of vodka or something you can both enjoy. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Akka on October 22, 2012, 04:30:41 PM Most women/girls have a favourite accessoire that they wear often and that is different from the current trend, a neclair, earings, a pair of shoes, a handbag etc.
Watch her stile for a view days until you find out what it is. Then make a compliment on that specific thing. Note, you must speak the truth, nearly all people notice when you talk about why you like something and you lie. Look until you find something you really like (and not her boobs) Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 22, 2012, 04:33:15 PM Most women/girls have a favourite accessoire that they wear often and that is different from the current trend, a neclair, earings, a pair of shoes, etc. Watch her stile for a view days until you find out what it is. Then make a compliment on that specific thing. Note, you must speak the truth, nearly all people notice when you talk about why you like something and you lie. Look until you find something you really like (and not her boobs) Great point! Adding to OP. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Phinnaeus Gage on October 22, 2012, 05:14:00 PM Quote creative ways to come back from rejection Don't put yourself in a position to get rejected. As you carry on more and more conversations with her, make sure you're really listening and not just hearing her. Never interrupt her when she's speaking. During the course of the conversation, somehow takeaway something she mentioned, but don't elaborate on it. I'll give you a real life example. One day, me and girlfriend went to an upscaled mall to do some shopping to augment her wearing apparel. After parking, then proceeding to the entrance, she abruptly stops, and with excitement picks up a dime. A quick exchange pursued whereupon she said, "You don't know about me and dimes. Dimes are like power pieces to me." (New Age lingo) I replied with an, "Ah!" Come the following day, I entered our bedroom where she was putting on her shoes. I stopped her from completing that task and told her to wait a sec. I left the bedroom, closing the door behind me. Shortly, I returned and told her to close her eyes. I led her barefooted from the bedroom to the hall and walked her to the living room. Then I told her to open her eyes. What she saw 360o were a hundred dollars worth of dimes laying on the floor in the entire apartment with the exception of the bedroom from where we started. Immediately, she starting crying (I guess so did I). That's how powerful dimes were to her. That's how powerful listening to what she says is. Later that night, I received a well deserved piece of ass preceded by a blowjob one would die for, and it all started with some stranger losing a dime. In normal conversation, your lady friend may state that she likes such and such flower. Register it, and surprise her with the biggest batch you can afford. But don't make the mistake of asking her what flower she likes, then going out to buy a couple of them. She's already rewarded others via that approach, thus the surprise factor is already used up. If she's wearing perfume, simply tell her that smells nice and you like it, without asking her what it is. The chances are good, she'll tell you the fragrance. When she does, don't elaborate, but do retain the info. Think of it as a game. I'll assume you know how to play games. The goal is to win her without her knowing that she's being gamed. At the end of the game, please report back to your friends here, going into great detail about the epic blo.... Whatever you do, don't tell her about you being a member of BitcoinTalk or what you're pseudonym is, otherwise you're going to wake up one day while she's giving you a coffee edema. ~Bruno K~ Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 22, 2012, 05:22:02 PM Quote creative ways to come back from rejection Don't put yourself in a position to get rejected. As you carry on more and more conversations with her, make sure you're really listening and not just hearing her. Never interrupt her when she's speaking. During the course of the conversation, somehow takeaway something she mentioned, but don't elaborate on it. I'll give you a real life example. One day, me and girlfriend went to an upscaled mall to do some shopping to augment her wearing apparel. After parking, then proceeding to the entrance, she abruptly stops, and with excitement picks up a dime. A quick exchange pursued whereupon she said, "You don't know about me and dimes. Dimes are like power pieces to me." (New Age lingo) I replied with an, "Ah!" Come the following day, I entered our bedroom where she was putting on her shoes. I stopped her from completing that task and told her to wait a sec. I left the bedroom, closing the door behind me. Shortly, I returned and told her to close her eyes. I led her barefooted from the bedroom to the hall and walked her to the living room. Then I told her to open her eyes. What she saw 360o were a hundred dollars worth of dimes laying on the floor in the entire apartment with the exception of the bedroom from where we started. Immediately, she starting crying (I guess so did I). That's how powerful dimes were to her. That's how powerful listening to what she says is. Later that night, I received a well deserved piece of ass preceded by a blowjob one would die for, and it all started with some stranger losing a dime. In normal conversation, your lady friend may state that she likes such and such flower. Register it, and surprise her with the biggest batch you can afford. But don't make the mistake of asking her what flower she likes, then going out to buy a couple of them. She's already rewarded others via that approach, thus the surprise factor is already used up. If she's wearing perfume, simply tell her that smells nice and you like it, without asking her what it is. The chances are good, she'll tell you the fragrance. When she does, don't elaborate, but do retain the info. Think of it as a game. I'll assume you know how to play games. The goal is to win her without her knowing that she's being gamed. At the end of the game, please report back to your friends here, going into great detail about the epic blo.... Whatever you do, don't tell her about you being a member of BitcoinTalk or what you're pseudonym is, otherwise you're going to wake up one day while she's giving you a coffee edema. ~Bruno K~ This was fantastic :) Short moral: LISTEN Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Phinnaeus Gage on October 22, 2012, 05:28:25 PM I forgot to mention that your wearing apparel should be such that you're showcasing your moose knuckles (http://iamsocruel.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/moose.jpeg) and crown jewel, even if you have to augment them.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 22, 2012, 05:30:37 PM I forgot to mention that your wearing apparel should be such that your showcasing your moose knuckles (http://iamsocruel.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/moose.jpeg) and crown jewel, even if you have to augment them. Hehe, always a good idea. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Blind on October 22, 2012, 09:16:53 PM When I'm lazy with my dates, I just sit there in silence, stare deeply into her eyes and lick my eyebrows.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: niko on October 22, 2012, 09:29:41 PM Aikido. Be yourself, and enjoy the time together, whatever it is that you are doing. Take her to botanical garden, road trip, dinner, rock climbing gym, drinking, anything - and enjoy those moments to the fullest, just like you would with a close friend. Once she gets to know just how nice and smart and fun guy you are, she'll feel comfortable, and even more importantly - curious. It doesn't take but a few days, and if it takes more than that, then she's a guilt- and fear-ridden freak who is not worth the effort anyway.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 22, 2012, 09:45:28 PM Aikido. Be yourself, and enjoy the time together, whatever it is that you are doing. Take her to botanical garden, road trip, dinner, rock climbing gym, drinking, anything - and enjoy those moments to the fullest, just like you would with a close friend. Once she gets to know just how nice and smart and fun guy you are, she'll feel comfortable, and even more importantly - curious. It doesn't take but a few days, and if it takes more than that, then she's a guilt- and fear-ridden freak who is not worth the effort anyway. Great idea! When I'm lazy with my dates, I just sit there in silence, stare deeply into her eyes and lick my eyebrows. Whatever you say boss. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: SaintDevil on October 25, 2012, 08:08:36 AM Don't just start pouring compliments all over her, pick a moment (walking in a park/ accidental pause in the middle of the conversation/ looking in her eyes for some time) and tell her how beautiful she is. Beautiful just sounds so much more powerful than saying pretty.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Blind on October 25, 2012, 03:40:03 PM tell her how beautiful she is. And what if she isn't? Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Akka on October 25, 2012, 04:09:33 PM tell her how beautiful she is. And what if she isn't? Then just get drunk. The rest usually works out on its own. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: SaintDevil on October 25, 2012, 05:01:19 PM tell her how beautiful she is. And what if she isn't? :o would the date be happening if she wouldn't I mean to each person beautiful stands for a different reasons. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on October 29, 2012, 04:47:53 PM caffeinewriter:
Just saw this thread, how did it go? I don't think I have any specific advice like a "trick" (lol) or something, but it seems to me that women like/take interest in people's skills/hobbies. While bitcoin may not be the most mainstream topic, it is obviously something you are interested in, if you are able to convey your passion for the subject (or something else you are truly interested in) in a low-key uncrazed way I think it could score you a lot of points. Let her know what you are about while letting her tell you what she is... Somebody (forget who at this point) had started a topic that was like "the ladies like my bitcoin..." that made me lol, you might want to read that too I found it interesting. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 29, 2012, 05:03:26 PM caffeinewriter: Just saw this thread, how did it go? I don't think I have any specific advice like a "trick" (lol) or something, but it seems to me that women like/take interest in people's skills/hobbies. While bitcoin may not be the most mainstream topic, it is obviously something you are interested in, if you are able to convey your passion for the subject (or something else you are truly interested in) in a low-key uncrazed way I think it could score you a lot of points. Let her know what you are about while letting her tell you what she is... Somebody (forget who at this point) had started a topic that was like "the ladies like my bitcoin..." that made me lol, you might want to read that too I found it interesting. Well, it went fantastically, until her boyfriend showed up. Yeah, that was awkward, then I got put in the position of awkward dog/protector-while-not-being-romatically-involved-in-any-way. She has an ex who isn't the cream of the crop, and basically her boyfriend told me to back off, but to watch out for her -_-. Story of my life man. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on October 29, 2012, 05:07:59 PM I am sorry to hear. I hope the situation didn't ruin the day for you--there is nothing like a communication mixup to leave me feeling a bit churned up myself.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 29, 2012, 05:10:07 PM I am sorry to hear. I hope the situation didn't ruin the day for you--there is nothing like a communication mixup to leave me feeling a bit churned up myself. If only it were a communication mix up. She just led me on. Plain and simple. Anyways, a cup of tea and a few hours of programming/gaming, and life goes on. If only I could get an author to let me do a pay-waht-you-want for their book. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on October 29, 2012, 05:13:47 PM Do you draw/photoshop?
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on October 29, 2012, 05:18:12 PM Do you draw/photoshop? Yes. If I do it well is another question :P What do you need? Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on October 29, 2012, 05:21:54 PM Well, lol, honesty is a plus for me, why don't you pm for details?
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on October 31, 2012, 04:50:45 PM ^Most women in a nutshell.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 01, 2012, 08:03:35 AM Life is life :) Life sucks. Watch romantic comedies instead.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: SaintDevil on November 01, 2012, 09:03:51 AM Life is life :) Life sucks. Watch romantic comedies instead. U shouldn't say that, ahh it's my feng-shui talking lol. You should only say good things thus they will happen to you. :P Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on November 01, 2012, 01:10:37 PM Because that's worked so well for op so far in this situation. :P
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 01, 2012, 05:01:37 PM Score:
Anyways, someday, it'll happen, and I'll get my future wife into Bitcoin. Anyways. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: 420 on November 02, 2012, 07:51:49 AM caffeinewriter: Just saw this thread, how did it go? I don't think I have any specific advice like a "trick" (lol) or something, but it seems to me that women like/take interest in people's skills/hobbies. While bitcoin may not be the most mainstream topic, it is obviously something you are interested in, if you are able to convey your passion for the subject (or something else you are truly interested in) in a low-key uncrazed way I think it could score you a lot of points. Let her know what you are about while letting her tell you what she is... Somebody (forget who at this point) had started a topic that was like "the ladies like my bitcoin..." that made me lol, you might want to read that too I found it interesting. My intelligence and skills seem to be the thing that gets me more turn downs than anything else... Anyway, tell her she'd be more beautiful or still beautiful without all that makeup on, thats what I'd say :) LOL at least online okay serious now: Are you in high school? or college. then I can get more specific with advice Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: JohnBigheart on November 02, 2012, 09:52:49 AM Don't worry, they will come begging.
http://comics.gameology.org/sites/comics.gameology.org/files/smbc%20nerd%201.gif They will eventually realize that all the behavior traits they once thought "cool" in high school and college directly lead to a career as a gas jockey or convenience store attendant. Meanwhile the skills you accumulated pay off 10 years later in your career as an IT millionaire. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 02, 2012, 05:24:37 PM Don't worry, they will come begging. http://comics.gameology.org/sites/comics.gameology.org/files/smbc%20nerd%201.gif They will eventually realize that all the behavior traits they once thought "cool" in high school and college directly lead to a career as a gas jockey or convenience store attendant. Meanwhile the skills you accumulated pay off 10 years later in your career as an IT millionaire. Oh, I have no worries about that :) Because right now: https://sslimgs.xkcd.com/comics/law_of_drama.png And someday: https://sslimgs.xkcd.com/comics/outbreak.png But until then, I'll keep myself entertained by: https://sslimgs.xkcd.com/comics/nerd_sniping.png Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: SaintDevil on November 02, 2012, 05:28:31 PM Don't worry, they will come begging. They will eventually realize that all the behavior traits they once thought "cool" in high school and college directly lead to a career as a gas jockey or convenience store attendant. Meanwhile the skills you accumulated pay off 10 years later in your career as an IT millionaire. One of my girlfriends told me absolutely same thing. But hey if a guy actually knows stuff and can hold a conversation about crazy things it's much more interesting than hearing crazy ass screams at the tv with a soccer on it. (Not to offend anyone, but it seems that all my IT friends don't really like TV) Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: OgNasty on November 02, 2012, 05:46:56 PM Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 02, 2012, 06:00:20 PM Well then, I should probably say life blows :P Don't worry, they will come begging. They will eventually realize that all the behavior traits they once thought "cool" in high school and college directly lead to a career as a gas jockey or convenience store attendant. Meanwhile the skills you accumulated pay off 10 years later in your career as an IT millionaire. One of my girlfriends told me absolutely same thing. But hey if a guy actually knows stuff and can hold a conversation about crazy things it's much more interesting than hearing crazy ass screams at the tv with a soccer on it. (Not to offend anyone, but it seems that all my IT friends don't really like TV) I'm a movie buff, but not a huge fan of sports/reality TV/etc., so if they can stand my obsession with filmmaking, random conversations about anything from the weather to quantum string theory (hasn't happened yet, but I'm sure someday I'll be hellbent on talking about it), and my somewhat cheesy smile, that'll be a pretty damn epic relationship. For me, it's just a matter of location and interest. I managed to go on a trip to Europe where I was repeatedly told I looked like Superman. I don't see it, but I'll take that compliment anyways. :) https://i.imgur.com/2Y50I.jpg Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Chang Hum on November 02, 2012, 06:00:36 PM Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate... if you don't get stinky fingers on the first night just keep trying. good luck!
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on November 02, 2012, 06:02:19 PM Quote she'll be frothing at the gash mate Added to personal favorite quotes of all time list. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: BitcoinCoffee.com on November 02, 2012, 06:13:35 PM you should not even worry whatsoever and let the situation be as natural as possible.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 02, 2012, 06:16:19 PM Quote she'll be frothing at the gash mate Added to personal favorite quotes of all time list. Who wouldn't? :) you should not even worry whatsoever and let the situation be as natural as possible. Great advice :) Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Chang Hum on November 02, 2012, 06:17:12 PM you should not even worry whatsoever and let the situation be as natural as possible. ^ this exactly, metophorically suggest she nosh you off, but don't bring up anal Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: JohnBigheart on November 02, 2012, 06:20:38 PM Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate... I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone. Read Tucker Max (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Hope_They_Serve_Beer_in_Hell). Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick! Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 02, 2012, 06:27:57 PM Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate... I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone. Read Tucker Max (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Hope_They_Serve_Beer_in_Hell). Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick! Brilliant explanation! Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: SaintDevil on November 02, 2012, 08:20:50 PM I'm a movie buff, but not a huge fan of sports/reality TV/etc., so if they can stand my obsession with filmmaking, random conversations about anything from the weather to quantum string theory (hasn't happened yet, but I'm sure someday I'll be hellbent on talking about it), and my somewhat cheesy smile, that'll be a pretty damn epic relationship. For me, it's just a matter of location and interest. I managed to go on a trip to Europe where I was repeatedly told I looked like Superman. I don't see it, but I'll take that compliment anyways. :) Haha, don't worry my conversations usually go to wonders about physics and biology most of the time..and then people look at me strangely... Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate... I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone. Read Tucker Max (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Hope_They_Serve_Beer_in_Hell). Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick! :o Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on November 02, 2012, 09:08:29 PM See look she's surprised! ;D
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: btcANGEL on November 02, 2012, 10:49:07 PM Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate... I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone. Read Tucker Max (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Hope_They_Serve_Beer_in_Hell). Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick! We like confidence, but we can't tell the difference between earned confidence (successful alpha male) and unearned confidence (asshole beta male). It's a very old instinct for finding a Good Provider for a mate. It worked great when overconfident beta males got eaten by velociraptors before they had a chance to mate, but it's not very useful in the modern world. You can be confident AND nice. This is why firefighters and veterinarians are hotter than policemen and doctors. But if you're just nice without confidence, the only bodily fluids we're going to share are my tears on your shoulder. If we're on a first date, I've known you for an hour and you've known you your whole life. You're the expert on you. If you act like you're thinking, "I have to Be Nice, because I don't have anything else to offer her," I'm going to assume you're right. If you act like you're thinking, "I hope she orders the $400 wine so I can tell her my mining farm will have it paid off before she's done drinking the first glass," I'm going to assume you're right. Packaging is all that heaven is. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Chang Hum on November 02, 2012, 11:15:36 PM Try being a bit of a dick to her but make her laugh she'll be frothing at the gash mate... I can second that. Being "nice" to girls just gets you into the Friendzone. Read Tucker Max (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_Hope_They_Serve_Beer_in_Hell). Don't be an asshole (like Tucker), don't abuse chicks but realize that girls are attracted to alpha males. And alpha males are confident, and a bit of a dick. Beta males are nice. This is why they make such nice friends. You will be so nice and understanding when they weep on your shoulders about that total dick that they fell for who *surprise - surprise * turned out to be a dick! We like confidence, but we can't tell the difference between earned confidence (successful alpha male) and unearned confidence (asshole beta male). It's a very old instinct for finding a Good Provider for a mate. It worked great when overconfident beta males got eaten by velociraptors before they had a chance to mate, but it's not very useful in the modern world. You can be confident AND nice. This is why firefighters and veterinarians are hotter than policemen and doctors. But if you're just nice without confidence, the only bodily fluids we're going to share are my tears on your shoulder. If we're on a first date, I've known you for an hour and you've known you your whole life. You're the expert on you. If you act like you're thinking, "I have to Be Nice, because I don't have anything else to offer her," I'm going to assume you're right. If you act like you're thinking, "I hope she orders the $400 wine so I can tell her my mining farm will have it paid off before she's done drinking the first glass," I'm going to assume you're right. Packaging is all that heaven is. ^ exactly + 1 lie as much as you need to get in her knickers, but if she orders a $400 bottle of wine hit her square on the nose, happened with me and my missus when we started going out but we had the most fantastic make up sex after..... well I say "we" but she was still out cold. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: 420 on November 08, 2012, 01:29:34 AM Why do people still want girls that like guys that are dicks...
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on November 08, 2012, 01:31:37 AM I definitely don't. >:(
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: flower1024 on November 08, 2012, 07:18:51 AM btw its not really true that *all* girls want men who are dicks.
girls who had a nice father in their childhood usually tend to look for a nice man. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: SaintDevil on November 08, 2012, 07:34:17 AM All girls are different just like all guys are different. Guys should not just say that all of us want same things.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: 420 on November 08, 2012, 07:35:25 AM There's a broken record in here
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: SaintDevil on November 08, 2012, 09:17:35 AM Or wait maybe a lot of girls don't understand the benefits of being with smart guy / nerd / geek:
* Have education (most) * Have a good paying job * Intelligent enough to keep conversations * Will take you everywhere ..on the beach, on the trip, on the Moon wait maybe Mars ::) * Wouldn't mind going shopping with you just to see how pretty you look in anything you wear (had a guy once in my store, couldn't stop talking about how hot his wife is (and he was like 40 something)) Someone else could prob continue keeping a list. I think knowing that your guy is smart is much hotter than finding that he is not. But of course that is my opinion and everyone else could express differently so please don't judge me on it. http://serve.mysmiley.net/angel/angelnot.gif Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 08, 2012, 05:37:40 PM Or wait maybe a lot of girls don't understand the benefits of being with smart guy / nerd / geek: * Have education (most) * Have a good paying job * Intelligent enough to keep conversations * Will take you everywhere ..on the beach, on the trip, on the Moon wait maybe Mars ::) * Wouldn't mind going shopping with you just to see how pretty you look in anything you wear (had a guy once in my store, couldn't stop talking about how hot his wife is (and he was like 40 something)) Someone else could prob continue keeping a list. I think knowing that your guy is smart is much hotter than finding that he is not. But of course that is my opinion and everyone else could express differently so please don't judge me on it. http://serve.mysmiley.net/angel/angelnot.gif Hehe, perhaps I should create a thread on "Why to date a nerd". Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: underminer on November 08, 2012, 08:30:03 PM To each their own sure--but I tend to have a thing for beautiful women. Call me crazy!
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Chang Hum on November 08, 2012, 08:40:48 PM just try fingering her without asking
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: BitcoinCoffee.com on November 09, 2012, 04:18:30 AM just try fingering her without asking This may work. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: caffeinewriter on November 09, 2012, 06:16:04 AM just try fingering her without asking This may work. It always does. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: JohnBigheart on November 09, 2012, 12:39:29 PM btcANGEL points out a very important point:
Women (as well as men) have - strongly simplified - 2 layers of decision making. The conscious and the subconscious level. The conscious is easy: these are the things you think of and can logically explain. It's the conscious part of their brain that when posed the question: "what do you look for in a guy" answers things like "I want him to be kind and intelligent, honest and a good listener". However there is also the subconscious part. This is how your body is wired and how your hormones work. These are your very primal responses to things like anxiety, fear, threat and the most primal of all: the sexual drive. These are the mechanisms shaped by evolution and natural selection. The subconscious looks for very different things in a mate: shelter from threat, power to provide for you and your offspring and strong genetic code to recombine with your own. These are things that can't be interviewed directly so the subconscious is dependent on picking up subtle signs like radiated confidence, social status, accumulated goods, strong body type and good looks (an indication of intact genetic line) etc. If you end up in the FRIENDZONE that means you met all the criteria of the conscious self but failed the interview with the subconscious part. You pleased their brain but failed to make their pussies wet. Their conscious self may tell you: "Oh, I love that you are so attentive and you asked me which restaurant we should go to for the date." Meanwhile their subconscious makes a mental note: "No initiative, no drive, no leadership: not the signs of a powerful mate" You are apparently very good at pleasing the conscious self. Stop worrying about that. Work on broadcasting the proper signals to please their subconscious. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Herodes on November 09, 2012, 03:21:15 PM uh oh, that was a long list to read.
Don't make this complicated. This is how I'd do it. Go up to her, look at her, and whatever she wears that looks nice, compliment her on it. For instance: "That's some really nice shoes you've got there, where did you get them from ?" Most girls would be all smiles from such a question, unless she had really ugly shoes, haha. Then you have the conversation going, and while the conversation is all lively, mention that you're going to x event (something that doesn't scare here, just an art exhibition, a fotball game or something else where you could share some excitement) and that your best friend ( a boy of course) could not come, and you still have two tickets if she wants to come ? Arrange to have the tickets somehow. Haha. If you want to make it even better, just ask her the first time for her interests. If she says for instance classical music, the next time you talk to her, you mention that your uncle was in town and had to leave because of a sick wife, but he left you with tickets to a local classical concert, something like that, to make it really exciting and innocent. And oh.. if you behave sensibly, and she thinks you're interesting, things are not really hard at all, it develops just naturally. Another thing would be to just ask her if she wanted to have lunch with your. Nothing scary about that! Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Chang Hum on November 09, 2012, 03:49:56 PM uh oh, that was a long list to read. Don't make this complicated. This is how I'd do it. Go up to her, look at her, and whatever she wears that looks nice, compliment her on it. For instance: "That's some really nice shoes you've got there, where did you get them from ?" Most girls would be all smiles from such a question, unless she had really ugly shoes, haha. Then you have the conversation going, and while the conversation is all lively, mention that you're going to x event (something that doesn't scare here, just an art exhibition, a fotball game or something else where you could share some excitement) and that your best friend ( a boy of course) could not come, and you still have two tickets if she wants to come ? Arrange to have the tickets somehow. Haha. If you want to make it even better, just ask her the first time for her interests. If she says for instance classical music, the next time you talk to her, you mention that your uncle was in town and had to leave because of a sick wife, but he left you with tickets to a local classical concert, something like that, to make it really exciting and innocent. And oh.. if you behave sensibly, and she thinks you're interesting, things are not really hard at all, it develops just naturally. Another thing would be to just ask her if she wanted to have lunch with your. Nothing scary about that! ^ if you compliment a girl on her shoes she'll immediately assume you're gay or worse a shoefag, the rest sounds a 'lil bit creepy, dishonest and cliche'd...... the truth is you're a young man and you want to get her drunk and take advantage of her, just be honest about that from the start and buy a bottle of vodka or something you can both enjoy. Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Herodes on November 09, 2012, 03:56:38 PM ^ if you compliment a girl on her shoes she'll immediately assume you're gay or worse a shoefag, the rest sounds a 'lil bit creepy, dishonest and cliche'd...... the truth is you're a young man and you want to get her drunk and take advantage of her, just be honest about that from the start and buy a bottle of vodka or something you can both enjoy. lol, class act Sir! Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: 420 on November 09, 2012, 09:25:31 PM subconscious and conscious differences, that's it.
Title: Re: Creative Date Ideas Post by: Mushroomized on November 10, 2012, 04:04:50 AM or just spend time making money
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