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Hey, I'm just wondering how some people have a High self esteem. I'm a 24 yrs old Guy who definitely has a low self esteem. I don't even know to interact to other especially to women face to face. I wanted to do something about it and sometimes I tend to get so stressed out in this.

Maybe not caring what other say and keep in mind that no one's perfect, just stereotypes bro. Good luck.

Taking some time to realize that you should believe in yourself always and dont mind the people who sre judging you because you have your free will.

To gain high self-esteem, first thing that you need to do is love and respect yourself. You are wonderfully, carefully and beautifully made by the Lord. Every pieces of you is unique, even the number of hair you have, the colors of your nails, everything about is made perfectly and you have to be proud of it. You have your own identity. If you won't love and respect yourself, who else will do that to you.

A lot depends on the route of it and really only a psychologist can probably really help you get to the bottom of some things. But there are some steps you can take yourself. For example if you not being able to talk to girls is due to any anxiety issues you may have, try and force yourself each day in to a situation you're uncomfortable with. For example just asking a girl how her day was or something simple like that. If you keep doing that each day I bet you'll start to feel more and more confident each day :D

The most important thing thing is to accept yourself, if can't do this you can't love others or feel well with them.

Gain self-esteem requires social interaction with others, and how we respect others, because With respect for people We will also be respected by people.

How to gain self esteem?
I used to be a "painfully, horribly shy" Real_Person.
Given a rare chance to give a brief talk in front of ~100 people I spent hours writing a simple statement that took only about 90 seconds.
I received an overwhelming standing ovation with people clapping loudly.
It felt so awesome!
I was "instantly addicted", with one more chance to talk again.

The first time, I was not trying/expecting such a reaction.
Second time, I needed to feel that way again.
Thud... Tried too hard and no one cheered.

If you are ever blessed with a genuine, unexpected standing ovation, enjoy the moment, since it may never happen again.
^^^
Hey, this guy is pretty good, let's give him some applause!!!!  :D 

just accept what you are and believe in yourself don't listen in what others say to you.

Just believe in yourself. Accept criticism. Nobody is perfect, just make every mistakes a lesson learned.

by respecting yourself and being positive you could easily gain self esteem...

I always thought that getting in shape was going to solve it for me, I used to be really skinny, after 2 years of training I looked good but my problem was still there. The ONLY way is to actually face your problems, trust me, it is the only way but it really works. If your fear is talking to women face to face, you should start by talking to women. For example at the grocery shop if a woman talks to you, try to look her in the eyes and talk to her back. You can talk to many different girls in many different places, you can start even by asking strangers on the street about directions even if you know the place just so you can start practicing and then you can get more and more adventurous. Good luck

Just try to act like you and feel strong. No matter how others are looking at you, try to look best.

Just be yourself. Don't care about what people around you think. Be yourself and people are gonna accept it.

Go to find a mirror. Stand in front of the mirror and try to speak yourself like you're making a presentation to crowds. This way you can improve your skills to gain self esteem.

I have not ever tried the mirror, thanks for the reminder.

Love others and gain love from the others; that's the way!

Make goals, challenge and contest with others, compare yourself and find your strong sides.

I think you should be yourself and don't let others intimidate you. All you need to do is socialize and be confident of who you are and what you are being capable of. Do not think of negative things to stress you out. Just be positive and I'm sure you will gain your self steem just think that you can do it.