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I am really having a problem with my speaking skills especially one-on-one. Can you give me some advice or link about improving speaking skills coz I think it will really be hard to get hired.  :-[ :-[ :-[

Read more to widen your scope of understanding.Interact more with both sexes,and be fluent in your language as well..i think this will keep you moving yh.

You can read more books about public speaking, I like the books of Dale Carnegie:

The Art of Public Speaking
How to Win Friends and Influence People
How to Develop Self-Confidence And Influence People By Public Speaking
The Leader in You

To name a few...you can search it on the net for more books of Dale Carnegie, if you haven't already.

And also, Developing the Leader Within You by John Maxwell.

These books can help develop your inner confidence about yourself and develop meaningful relationship to others as well.

But in order to speak well, you must first LISTEN well from others, and equip yourself with enough knowledge about the topic or company, in order for you to speak appropriately specially during job interviews.

And lastly, just RELAX, we are all just humans after all. Trying to make sense of our lives.

speaking correctly and clearly. Do not hide something or intend to deceive your audience.to be yourself. You are not trying to be someone else or pretending to be a different person. Do what you say. Integrity is obtained when what you say you actually do

be confidence and much practice in speaking, speak in front of mirror is recommended to improve speaking skill

For practice, I would suggest finding and joining a local Toastmasters club. You can attend a few meetings before deciding if it's for you. TM has helped me in my speaking both in front of groups and one on one by building confidence, breaking bad habits, and developing new good ones.

the first we start our conversation slowly so the listener can easily understand the conversation we are conveying and keep eye contact with the listeners so as not to stare too long into a point.

speaking in a low voice and knowing what you are talking about will hurt other people's feelings or not. If you think it will hurt other people's feelings do not say

It is difficult, not just the practice of speaking but mental also must be considered because it is done in public

Memorize concepts, not content. Chat up audience members before your presentation. Enhance your visuals and audio. Flip your mindset to ease your nerves. Get interactive.

in my opinion the way to be a good speaker is:
Always set clear goals in our conversation, Always know who we are talking to, Understand our strengths and weaknesses, Be yourself and look natural, and Eye contact with people in front of us, with eye contact as if we managed to bring them in. into what we're talking about and get them to focus on what we're talking about.

Always connect with your audience and communicate ideas that stir up real emotions.

Your question got me curious so I searches the net and here is what I got.

Memorize concepts, not content. ... - I practice this step most of the time. Just memorizing will not help you. If you forgot even just one word, you're doomed!
Chat up audience members before your presentation. ...-Don't know about this one. I usually don't talk to anyone before speaking in front. I tend to forget things.
Enhance your visuals and audio. ...- this is a must. Pictures usually make you remember things. If you are memorizing try to associate it with pictures. The moment you see the picture you will remember the things you memorized.
Flip your mindset to ease your nerves. ...- think only of positive things. Negative things will do no good to your nerves.
Get interactive.-

I think the most important one is practice. You may be nervous but if you're prepared nothing can go wrong.

Practices more and more in front the mirror.

Memorize concepts, not content
Chat up audience members before your presentation
Enhance your visuals and audio
Flip your mindset to ease your nerves
Get interactive  :)

I am really grateful for all your response I think this is the right time to improve myself, to not be shy and take courage. Thank you I appreciate all your responses I have read it all and was overwhelmed.

- Stop trying to be someone else
- Don’t look for approval. Focus on contributing
- Practice a lot
- Watch TED Talks
- Video yourself speaking
- Know your content cold

If you have trouble talking to women, then you have a love for him. but not revealed from you, because this is hard for you.
relax and speak with tenderness  ;D ;D ;D

we must listen carefully, before we become a conversation, or a mediator in a discussion.

to be a good speaker you should first construct whats your going to say in very encouraging way. And dont forget to make an eye to eye contact to your audience.

Well I think it is just because most of the time you are thinking what are going to say. Instead focus on listening the other person and ask questions.
No one likes the person who is just talking and talking. Be curious about the people find out their dreams hobbies etc. Then you won`t have a hard
time talking to people. The one who is asking the questions is leading the conversation. Keep in mind that you should not just ask questions like a machine.
Ask a question and then listen to what they have to say.

Hi, i have same problem like you before. I asked many lecturer and friend to suggest me how to be a good speaker and I realize that the best solution is just give a try. Try to join speaking competition, or some public speaking event in university or shopping center. This is how I overcome this problem.

Be confident
Make it interesting not only to you

The first step in becoming a good speaker is to be a good listener so you can respond appropriately to your audience.  Here are some tips that will help you become a good speaker:  1.  Study your subject so you will feel credible when discussing points and answering queries; 2.  Eye contact; 3.  Hand gestures;  4.  Avoid sounding monotonous so your audience will not get bored, disinterested or worse, sleep; 5.  Organize your thoughts; 6.  Speak clearly; 7.  Engage audience by asking questions; 8.  Adjust you pace or rate of speech; and 9.  Be honest-the audience will feel if you are making up stories.  It is okay to admit if you are not familiar with the topic of the question.

Read more books about speaking and practice a lot

4 Tips on Becoming a Great Public Speaker
1. Memorize concepts, not content.
2. Chat up audience members before your presentation.
3. Enhance your visuals and audio.
4. Flip your mindset to ease your nerves.
5. Get interactive.
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I suggest that you can speak more to yourself in front of the mirror to build up your confident and try to have some oral practice or interview practice with your friends to train your speaking skills. Speak louder which can show you have full confident and with different taunt. You can also try to read out some sentences of books or novel to your friends and ask what do they think about your voice. Do not speak too fast as your listener may not hear well, just speak in a regular speed as normal. Sometimes you can listen to the radio, these speakers are professional which you can try to talk as them and learn their skills. Don't be shy, try to talk more and practice more, you will be a good speaker in the future. ;)

Being a good speaker requires planning, clarity of thought and a well constructed beginning, middle, and end to your speec
1. Make eye contact
2. Have a point and stick to it
3. Speak clearly
4.Adjust your speech for your audience
5.Don't use one tone the entire speech
6.Don't patronize
7.Be interesting.
8.Speak up
9.Be honest.
10.Organize what you're saying especially in long speeches
11.Be polite, follow social conventions and be rational
12.Use your hands!
13.Watch some videos of great speakers

In addition to all the great ideas given above (thanx, guys!) there are also online courses of public speaking that might help. I took one on Coursera and that turned out to be rather useful. Also, improvement of your writing skill can make a contribution, as you develop the skill of expressing clearly and make readers\listeners understand your thoughts. Good luck!

You have to believe that the credibility of a speaker can affect the level of audience trust, there are many ways to build credibility. for example with a straightforward style. but the easiest way is to prepare facts in the form of statistical data to support the statement submitted. and combine your presentation materials: humor, stories and statistics in the information that is very interesting to hear, here also you can persuade listeners and at the same time entertain them.

How to a good speaker? first, you need to think a topic that will surely caught the attention of all the audience. second, you must believe in yourself to boost your confidence and not to buckle your words in front of many people.

Eye contact to the people you are talking to important things that should concern you, Stare at a glimpse into one side of the head of your listener, Slow talk on an essential part, When you're done explaining an important thing and be the point of the press in Your conversation, take a pause for a moment about 2-3 seconds  ;)

- Stand front of mirror and practice.
- Speak slow and slower. We tend to speak very fast in the first time and no one can understand what you say.

to be a good speaker all you have to do for me is to attend in any kind of program and listening is the best way to be a good speaker you can apply it to yourself.practicing the words delivered in the listener,must watch the news and try to feel like a reporter,be a confident and courageous.

You should read a lot of books especially on the topic that you will discuss.

imagine people are all wearing a elf socks on their head.
or simply everyone is just naked or something.

overcoming the fear is important.

also look in the mirror and practice.
if you can find yourself ideally speaking, then it should be ok 

I think that the main thing is to be confident in what you will speak about.

Recently I read a report explaining how people posses better communication skills when they are drunk. You should try it out

flip your mindset to ease nerves and be confidence in your self and speech. Be consistent in reading books especially motivational books and novels to enhance your vocabulary skills.   

When I was learning foreign language, speaking to myself did really help. Just keep conversations with yourself in your mind on the language you learn. Also try to write more, it helps in speaking as well.

Just like the old saying goes, "You have to be a good follower in order to be a good leader", is just the same as "you have to be a good listener to be a good speaker". You should always know the topic in case you are speaking in front of a group of people so that in case there are questions you can easily answer them. Always have an eye contact with the person you are talking to or make eye contacts with the group of people you are talking to. Whenever you feel that your listeners are feeling bored with you talking, find a way to lighten up their moods.

In my opinion to be a good speaker you need to consider who is your audience are, so that you can use a proper and appropriate words for your listener. Another thing is you need to speak base on your experience so that your own story has it's own existence and be easily to believe in.

i feel okay when talking one-one but im so nervous when with audiences
my hand will getting wet and so cold like i do something wrong and its will killing me, lol
i try many thing like speaking to myself front mirror but still i cant kick away my nervous
sorry cant help  :'(

If you wanna be a good speaker, learn, practice and be bold. You can start by practicing in front of a mirror.

Practice. Practice. Practice.
Get rejected. Get rejected. Get rejected.


Time will come when you are not nervous anymore when being interviewed.
When will it come? I don't know. Just keep on trying.


Before you can become a good speaker, you have to be a good thinker first.
What will you say when you don't have anything in your mind?

Speaking in front of a large crowd is not a natural activity for anyone, to get better at it, you need to learn how to do it, prepare and practice “It’s a skill, not a talent.

Learn your topic really well, and practice practice practice!

Cant say as I am not a good speaker myself

Know you material inside out.  That will give you confidence and allow you to relax.  If you don't know your material, you are sunk before you start.  When I have given speeches, my best speeches were when I was free to move around.  I don't like standing behind a podium.  If I need to project something on a big screen, I like the room to be semi lit.  I like to still be able to see my audience.  Again, know your material.

For being a good speaker you have to take in deep breathes and should have good posture while speaking.

How to be a good speaker is being audible while speaking or making speech, be confident of your self and don't be scared or shy.

Stand infront of a mirror and practise speaking firmly.

Read a lot of books, watch a lot speakers and finally believe in your self and have confidence Sky is your stepping stone.

Watch and learn from the good speakers sometimes you need confidence as well. practice with your when you are alone

just speak within your heart,and be good listener also.

A great speaker always speaks with confidence. CONFIDENCE is the key.

To be a good speaker you must know what is your talking about and be confident what you are saying.

If you want to become a good speaker, you should first have an idea on what it means to be great. Famous speeches became that way in part because the speaker knew how to wring the most feeling and meaning out of what he was saying. Pay attention to the pauses they take, the words they emphasize, and the steady pace most famous speakers perform at. Public speaking is ultimately an art. There are countless ways you can perform the same speech. Thanks

As per me you should have control over the language in which you are speak.

For being a good speaker you need to maintain good eye contact principally

I think you should pay attention to eye contact, for communication 1 on 1, you should look at his eyes seriously about 70%. If the speaker feel intimidated try to rilex and looked away to the side.

that way we have to prepare ourselves to be confident, need a broad knowledge and high courage

to be a good speaker is also being a good person it simply giving what you possess to your audience.

Read more articles to broaden your vocabulary, or any books you like. You'll just be surprised that after a few weeks, words just flow out of your mouth.
Also try and converse with different people or different personalities, it will help you build your confidence and heighten your esteem.

speak politely

There is a commonly cited statistic that people are generally more fearful of public speaking than they are of death. The idea of performing a speech in front of an attentive audience is a nerve-wracking concept for most people. Fortunately, it doesn't have to be. Being a great speaker is a skill that is learned just as much as any other. When you have a strong command of your voice and self-presentation, confidence with public speaking tends to fall into place.

Memorize concepts, not content. ...
Chat up audience members before your presentation. ...
Enhance your visuals and audio. ...
Flip your mindset to ease your nerves. ...
Get interactive.

Just go with the flow PAL.....

Don't be afraid of it, the more you fear the more you fail.

Read much, recite poetry aloud, speak publicly as often as possible, and ofcource build your self-confidence

A good speaker is a good listener.

to be a good speaker maybe you need to watch the movie "the king speech", the story is very good how a king who can not speak in public and stammer can be a very great even decide and declare to start the war

The best way to become a good conversationalist is to be confident and to master what you want to discuss, and the important thing is to speak honestly.

you should exercise before having the speech in from of the mirror, or let someone listen to you :) another suggestion is just have as many speeches as possible, until it becomes something natural.

Do your research beforehand. If you have information about the topic, then you can analyze and arrange your speech/thoughts so you know the flow of the discussion. Also, try not to stress yourself over public speaking because it's not yet the end of the world for you if you ever stutter in front of your audience.

I've watched several TED talks on this particular subject, so I do recommend you doing that. One talk that stood out to me explained that you need to have confidence when publicly speaking; and if you don't have the confidence within yourself yet, "fake it til you make it." With practice you will eventually acquire the confidence.

You have to be passionate about your topic and confident in your understanding of it.

I'm not good in speaking but I'm trying to be one.In my opinion you must have confidence and the best way is practice.before you infront of the people you should relax and try not to stress yourself.

Practice with perseverance and dedication and master the topic you're going to talk about

I will tell you that no matter what any body tells you hear if u don't practice it wont work
Practice makes perfect

Maintaining good posture and firm eye contact with gentle smile on lips are the key points to be a good speaker

Whatever you want to do well you have to learn, practice. You do not have the innate qualities you should diligently practice them every day. That's the best way for you.

being a good speaker is not difficult .. we have to master the topic discussed ... and speak with polite and friendly ..not to speak rude ..

Public speaking passing  with confidence knowing what you are saying and also knowing  what you are doing.

 In public speaking the  the major factors,  are confidence  courage,  understand the topic you are delivering,  finally work on self confidence  to enable you conquer  stage fright.

 But if you can't develop yourself  you need to read public related books,  get a mentor  develop your vocabulary  on your language skill

Be confident enough to testify your statement

Be confident,
Look into the people's eyes,
Have a good opinion about yourself
Believe in what you have to say
Believe that the people you are speaking to are interested in what you say,
Be passionate when you speak 

Build self confidence, widen your knowledge. If you are confident about your self, no matter what you say, no matter how your opinion may sounds, who cares, that is you, your individuality. Let them take it or leave it. Self condidence is all that matter because the fact is not all speakers are good but they personally feel good about it.

i cant suggest you as i myself suffer from stageophobia :v and cant yet overcome the situation

A good speaker is someone who can convey messages / information to others easily understood. To be a good speaker of course must often practice such as communicating with peers, older people or with parents though. When speaking we should pay attention to the other person and also have to add a vocabulary to suit who we are talking to and in what situations we are speaking.

Speaking at events is a great way to enhance your status as an expert and generate PR for your presentation. However, becoming a great speaker is an art, not a science. Their are some tips and some practice to improve your speaking skills.
1.Memorize concepts, not content.
2.Chat up audience members before your presentation.
3.Enhance your visuals and audio.
4.Flip your mindset to ease your nerves.
5.Get interactive.

I wish to be a good speaker so read this topic attentively

practice, practice, practice!

and maybe some rhetoric classes can help:
https://www.coursera.org/learn/public-speaking/lecture/4FOyH/what-is-rhetoric

recently i have been asked to present my company and my internal servises in up coming events.
at the beggining i was totally freaked out but now i can see that i really like the idea and love doing this

you need to be well prepared and feel confident. if i can do it you can do it. Be simple in order to understand you and up to the point.  this is it.

As far as i know you had to practise infront of a mirror and talk loudly maintaining right body posture.

As others have said, if you have an important event you are speaking at, practice is key. You will feel so much more confident after running through something for the 5th, 6th time and that confidence will show when you get up there

please I need advice too  :(

Its not an easy task to undertake, you need to have a vigorous practise and control over yourself before being a good onstage speaker

Fix a good speaker and amplifier in your mouth beneth tongue to become a good speaker LOL

I dont know because i am not a good speaker myself so how can say so. i stammer infront of even comfort zone

Everyone knows that speaking is hard. Speaking is terrifying. More so than death. After all, how dare I get up in front of everyone and demand you listen to me and only me? Well, personally, I dare because I believe, with all my heart that what I have to say isnot only worth your while, in fact, you'll be glad you came.

One of the best speeches I ever saw was given by a middle aged woman in a school auditorium. She wasn't wearing a designer suit. Or make up. She wasn't a motivational speaker. She wasn't any kind of orator.

the first thing to do become a good speaker is having good knowledge.

I don't know exactly, but when I took speech and debate in school, some things we focused on were; eye contact, knowing material, speaking clearly and slow enough so people can grasp what you're saying. Not too many hand gestures and filler words like umm and uh, not shifting from side to sider nervously, answer what are you trying to say? Don't stray off topic.

A good speaker must have a good posture and appearance, do not learn the podium.

as far as i know you should stand up for every speaking oppurtunity and try to speak in small comfort zones before moving to public

Stand infront of mirror and start to speak to yourself maintaining a well posture and eye contact with your own reflection

Speaking is an art and even a subject to be studied too. It involves various steps and immense practise

You should try speaking for the small number of people like your friends or relatives or even in front of the mirror
Practice is the best way to learn something

It takes patient study and diligent exercise to gain mastery in anything. These things are not secrets, just plain hard work. One must be ready to put in the hard work to advance.

be a good speaker. we must speak must be clear and polite

Some people are gifted that they are good  speaker,  they don't  panic when they are infront of many people.  But for us who are not gifted  we must exert a lot of efforts.  There are lots of tutorial in youtube which can help us abg gives us tips how to become a good speaker.

Practise a lot, try to talk with yourself.

You need practice more practice and more more practice and you become a good speaker.

Haha, i got the similar problem as you but is when i am speaking to more people rather than one on one. You can read up on more books to practice your speaking skills and increase your vocal so you can speak freely when you have more vocab plus you are able to know more information from books which will increase your knowledge on more things and you have more things to share.
If what you are lacking is self confident i will suggest you increase your overall image to gain more confidence.

Manners in speaking and make the conversation more relaxed and relaxed so that our conversation is fun and of course mutual respect for each other

You should practice speaking in front of you at all times, you should read many books understand many different areas. So you will have a deep and wide knowledge. Hold yourself firmly in front of the crowd. I think these factors can help you become the best speaker.

To become a good speaker you should master your speech, practice in the front of the mirror, have an eye contact with the audience and proper hand gesture, don't feel nervous and stand with confidence,  last but not the least pronounce the word clearly.

I attended lessons in public speaking, and they were very valuable, I'd recommend it to anyone! We learned these main things:

1. Learn to fight stage fright
2. Learn to control your body language and voice tone and tempo
3. Learn to have interesting content in your presentation (captivating intro, informative and dynamic middle, and a great ending)

So they are pillars of a good talk.

 If you want to become a great speaker, you should first have an idea on what it means to be great. Famous speeches became that way in part because the speaker knew how to wring the most feeling and meaning out of what he was saying. Pay attention to the pauses they take, the words they emphasize, and the steady pace most famous speakers perform at. Public speaking is ultimately an art. There are countless ways you can perform the same speech.

Practice makes perfect. Try on practicing your communication skills. Also read some books that will widen your thinking.

I think memorizing your topic before speaking is important. I think the more you know your topic the more confident you become.

youre weird man people find it uncomfortable when they speaks in publics but you find it weird on one-on-one?

Good orating skills are needed to be a good speaker.

to be a good speaker must master a good language

Just speak and speak.
Public speaking is not the same like training with a mirror.
Just do it and slowly you will feel more confident.

You should talk more and they will help you speak fluently in public. I believe that with your hope you will become a good speaker.

Read a lot and get your accent bang on when you are talking.

In order for us to be a good speaker one should always set clear topic and goals to be discussed. Always know who we are talking to, Know our strengths and weaknesses, Be yourself and look natural. One thing that plays a big role in being a good speaker is the eye contact with your audience, eye contact so that we will manage to bring them into what we're talking about. Also one thing to be done is to have interaction with your audience, you should not do the talking all the time, let them share their thougts with you and let it be interactive.

Great wisdom and confidence :)

To be a good speaker, you must know with your heart and mind what topic you will talk about. You also need to talk naturally and confidently to make the audience believe or agree about your topic.

Get your pronunciation right and your accent and sound convincing.

To be a good speaker know what you are saying and be very confident.

Watch youtube vids on how to speak
Practice, record yourself
imagine in your head you are a great speaker and people clap when ur done

Reading is the best way to improve your speaking ability, Read more often

There are many books that teaches that, read one to know better.

By being confident about what you are doing and saying.

My advice is that, talk to yourself to make practice in front of a mirror. And watch a lot of videos about that on youtube.

Practice as much as you can

Just believe in yourself. The only thing we should fear is fear itself. Think less about yourself and more about your audience and some of the fear will leave, as you perceive yourself not as isolated but as part of the group you are addressing - a group that want to hear what you have to say. Don't guess at what your audience's reaction mean. It detracts from your effectiveness to worry aobut those who don't seem to be listening, since they may be listening the hardest, anyway. Use fear to your advantage, charisma and adrenaline are closely linked, not worry about being a gifted speaker. Remember the facts, you are supposed to know more about your subject than the audience, you are there because you are more capable of covering the subject than most people. Believe it and you will do it.

I recommend you educate a lot, talk to yourself every day, read a lot. Although many people do not believe it, the general culture favors in great quantity the development of communication.

You can go to Grammarly. Com they have the best setup service for grammar writing knowledge people to learn and help understand better. You can even just practice on the website it helps a lot

Watch videos about public speaking, practice at home and volunteer to speak as much as possible. Practice makes perfect!!  :) :) :)

First you must have good communication with yourself.

Follow and learn from the best speakers. Watch a lot of motivational speakers, you will be inspired.

To be a good speaker you must have a proper diction and proper fluency.

Be confident about what you speak and how you do the things.

a good speaker at first is a good listener

There is a commonly cited statistic that people are generally more fearful of public speaking than they are of death. The idea of performing a speech in front of an attentive audience is a nerve-wracking concept for most people. Fortunately, it doesn't have to be. Being a great speaker is a skill that is learned just as much as any other. When you have a strong command of your voice and self-presentation, confidence with public speaking tends to fall into place.

Just try to :
1. Articulating Your Voice
2. Talk slowly and
3. Minimize filler words and stammering.

You get interview experience after many and many tries. You don't need to be a really good speaker, but you have to show yourself like a professional. I recommend you to look at some specific websites about the necessary skills for the interview

You will be a good speaker once you are ready to be a good listener. A good speaker is the one that finds any informational material useful; ready read motivational books and hear motivational speakers speak and be ready to make one a mentor.

It's all about practice and being confident in yourself. Practice in front of the mirror and someone you know very well. This person can also give you some tips. Eye co-ordination and confidence are very important.

I have one solutions for that: practice makes perfect :) :) :) the only way to improve it is to volunteer to speak as much as possible.

To be a good speaker you must have a proper speech giving thing and know your subject.

To become a good speaker you should master your speech, practice in the front of the mirror, have an eye contact with the audience and proper hand gesture, don't feel nervous and stand with confidence,  last but not the least pronounce the word clearly.

 I like to study the work of great speakers

If you want to become a great speaker, you should first have an idea on what it means to be great.

Practice makes perfect. Try on practicing your communication skills. Also read some books that will widen your thinking.

I think memorizing your topic before speaking is important. I think the more you know your topic the more confident you become.

youre weird man people find it uncomfortable when they speaks in publics but you find it weird on one-on-one?

Good orating skills are needed to be a good speaker.

to be a good speaker must master a good language

practice, find opportunities to talk in front of groups of people. more you do it the better you'll be at it. It's all about feeling and appearing like you feel comfortable in front of large groups.

Just speak and speak.
Public speaking is not the same like training with a mirror.
Just do it and slowly you will feel more confident.

Practice, Experience and making alot of mistakes will eventually make you a better speaker.
You will be suprised you just start to follow naturally

To be a good speaker you must be confident and be well versed with your subject.

Confidence is the key. If you don’t have confidence in yourself then you cannot be a good speaker.

You should prepare the subject to speak, speak confidently, slowly but firmly and clearly,

Being confident is the key and it is the only thing that is needed to be a good speaker.

Confidence is key and practice they say, makes perfection

Being confident and knowing what you are saying really helps the person.

First of all you need to like issue which you are talking about :)

Judging from your brief explanation, I guess you're having troubles during interviews. Employers don't usually ask too many questions unless your resume or biodata isn't well written. It's okay to stutter or be nervous! I suggest you entertain yourself like playing games on your phone or listening to music to calm your nerves. It usually helps me to be less nervous.

if you want to be a good speaker should be smart to speak and speak, must learn to manners.

Read books, topics on this site always help. Maybe listen to podcasts on your phone whenever you have the time, if you can't read books. Reading or hearing someone else, how they speak is the number one thing on becoming a better speaker.

I would suggest practicing your speech in front of the mirror beforehand.

Practice and experience make difference for sure, but to become really great speaker, it takes talent I suppose. Judging by my university professors, even 30 years of experience and deep knowledge in subject can't beat charisma and real vibes when speaker is flushed with his speech

Instead of memorizing the content, focus on the concepts. Do this by creating bullet points of the content, stories, data and key takeaways that you want to get across in each part of your presentation. Then, speak naturally about them. If you remember all of those key points, great, but if you forget some, no sweat -- you can move on to another point.

by learning language and also to be polite

Do not speak on any topic you a novice , also before you contribute on any issue make sure you have your facts ready. Talk less and hear more.

Become the good speaker we have to know the topic well, so when we explain or deliver our speech, the audience can accept our topic without missunderstanding

Just study your speech, and practice until you are no longer need a paper to read on, because it my destruct your odience :)

a good speaker is born from an educated person, an educated person must speak carefully and know which to say and what not to say. because educated people think before talking :)

Have the confidence and while speaking look into the eyes of the audience that helps.

I used to watch ted talks on how to present and read psychology books on body language. It did help a lot.

To be a good speaker you must be a good listener.

Be sure of what you are talking and be convinced that will make you the best speaker.

By exposing yourself to crowd and getting used of talking to other people. In that way you can improve yourself.

in one on one situation maintain eye contact, believe on yourself, watch your tone, and prepare yourself for anything
in public speaking, just be confidience and prepared
or in other way you should read book about public speaking

that my tips

You have to be first sure about your topic and be confident all that time.

being a speaker is not easy, being a good speaker should lecture in the field of language.

Having a wee bit of confidence and having eye contact with your audience helps.

Most times it is a gift but you can learn by following good speakers and listening to their talks.

You must be able to speak with confidence and should not hesitate at all.

self confidence and content are a very important part for being a good speaker
there are people who have a lot of content but cannot speak up as they lack confidence and have stage fright
there are also people who have zero content but can talk for half an hour without content and the people will also listen as the person speaking is confident about what he or she is speaking
to be a good speaker you  also need to have a little sense of humour which helps to hold on to your crowd people also need to understand the crowds reaction properly for a better delivery of the message they want to convey

notes. You don't want to READ from them, you want reminders about what you want to say, and in what order
friendly faces. If you have to speak, and you're nervous, it's helpful to have someone in the room that is going to like you no matter what happens.
rehearse. I have problems with hitting time marks, so I practice to make sure I'm not going to run over. I also find that when I hear myself speaking outloud, some of the things I was planning on saying just sound funny, and I get to change them before anyone else hears them.

One advice I can give you is watch videos of great speakers and then try to practice by yourself having similar speeches and imagine there is  a huge auditorium in front of you.

In my opinion, what is needed to be a good speaker:

1. First say good
2. Being able to perform well
3. Have deep and broad knowledge
4. Learn and practice anytime, anywhere
5. Believe in people and the good things
6. Desire to help others succeed
7. Do not become a copy of anyone

At first, a person ought to be eager to say something. Strong motivation is the clue.

Be confident on what you are speaking about - practice it until you know it almost off-by-heart.

Take notes. Everyone forgets things sometimes.

Speak slowly where possible - remember that you know what you want to say (hopefully) but the audience may need more time to process it.

Speak loudly but don't shout. If you have the option of a microphone try to avoid handheld ones so you can flip through notes or activate remote for slides.

Try to scan your audience where possible so it looks like you are speaking to them, not just reciting.

Always keep in the back of your mind that you judge yourself way more harshly than anyone else will. I've spoken at many events and meetings and I can still remember times I got something wrong or did something I though was embarrassing. I've seen many more people present and I can't remember any specifics of the times they have made mistakes although I know some made errors (I just can't remember when or who). It's human nature to be self-conscious but you can learn to get past it with practice and perspective.

You should practice speaking in public. And that is how you speak more fluently while speaking.

I am really having a problem with my speaking skills especially one-on-one. Can you give me some advice or link about improving speaking skills coz I think it will really be hard to get hired.

For being a good speaker you need to maintain good eye contact principally

For being a good speaker you need to maintain good eye contact principally

There's a Youtube Channel called "Charisma on Demand" you should watch it, that channel is helpful to master public speaking and confidence. ;D ;D Good luck

Find a subject that you know a lot about and practice speaking to someone about it. It is difficult to talk when you don't know the subject and don't have much to say. Build up your general knowledge so you always have something to talk about

there are online courses on this subject that you can take. i would also recommend working on your body language. body language is highly important when communicating with other people.

confidence confidence and more confidence

Practcie makes perfect I guess.the more you do itbetter you will become.

It depents on the kind of speech.


In general being informative and passionate are good startin

To become a good speaker requires a lot of knowledge available in person, and one thing to grow and become a speaker you will have to learn many things around constantly.

good speaker is a good listener.

Start with reading more to help improve your vocabulary and try reading aloud as well. Practice makes perfect, try talking to yourself whenever you're alone and in the mirror as well. Give yourself practice interview questions and watch yourself to see if your body language matches what you are trying to say. Hopefully this will help you become a better speaker.

To be a good speaker is to be a good listener so much for that, speaking in the front of lots of people is not simply as you think fist thing you have to consider is the interest of your listener is your topic can catch the of the listener?next is how you deliver your topic how they can understand your topic?by speaking fluently continues through maybe you can add some twist for the listener to enjoy the topic and last you must have full of knowledge about your topic and full of self confidence when you are standing in front of lots of people while speaking

Meeting with the people you are going to be speaking to before you give your speech has several benefits. First, it warms them up to you. Second, it lets you gauge their sense of humor, which is particularly critical if you are a speaker that tends to let a curse word fly or uses bold and provocative stories or language. Finally, you can glean insights to incorporate into your presentation

Read more. Read anything that can be read to add knowledge and insight. And the most important thing is to enrich the vocabulary. Then often discuss with people who have knowledge and ideas. I think this way is powerful to train myself to be able to speak well with the content of quality delivery

to be a good speaker, is base on practices and confidence

Talk confidently, without any hesitation. Even if you are worried while speaking try to pretend like you are not. And, always try to speak out loud.

You need to practice constantly, practice at any time, speak with different people, and grasp the reaction of each other so that you can continue to progress.

I mean outside knowledge and deep understanding of the problem to speak, logical speaking skills, fluency plus body language, wit humor will convince the listener!

just think and build confidence before you speak

I like to study the work of great speakers

Just do this more. Try to spend more time talking to someone and later on you will feel easier then it was a week ago, for example

I absolutely love public speaking. Here are some tips that I've gathered.
1- Silence is fine. Speak clearly and don't use filler words like um or like
2- Plan out (if possible) a general outline of what you are going to say. Don't write your speech down word for word because you will just be reading, though. Without an outline, your speech is going to be a babble or really awkward. Also, a good intro and conclusion would help because most people tend to remember the beginning and end of presentations.
3- Speak with confidence. This means eye contact and speaking loudly and having good posture!! The biggest problem with public speaking skills is that they don't appear to know that they are saying. Before you speak, try to go to the bathroom and look in a mirror. Tell yourself that you are fucking awesome and everyone's gonna know it.

Practice in front of the mirror.

Being a good speaker doesn't always means to have good verbal knowledge. It needs to have good posture and accesory gestures

hi,First of all make confident with you.Next browse about what you speaking. View videos for public speaking or speakers .

To become a speaker must have a lot of personal skills as well as academic level, I think many people will bring profit if good.

Don't look at me! I cant tell you because it was me only who tremble all the time when it comes to mass speech deliverance

IT IS BEST IF YOU ALREADY KNOW THE TOPIC BEFOREHAND, AND IT IS IMPORTANT TO DO YOUR RESEARCH TO PREPARE YOURSELF.

You just need thousands of confidence.

You should have a proper grip over the language you want to speak into because if you forget the words itself, then nothing can be done.

you just need over confidence

I'm not a person who knows and can talk fluently like many speakers, my job is not related to presentations so I want to learn more.

Be talkative but in a defined manner and prevent talking rubbish. Try to attempt and use every chances of having a speech.

Even the most seasoned speakers can get nervous prior to presenting. The most effective way to take the pressure off of you is to change your mindset and think about your audience rather than yourself or the speech. Remember that you are there to provide them with valuable information and if the audience members leave with one or two new items, reminders or a new perspective, you have made it worth their while. Focusing on being helpful or in service of the audience, instead of on yourself, can help you to relax.

If you want to be a good speaker you must be first a good reader and listener. If you know a lot about the language you want to speak it can boost your self confidence.

we have special schools to linguists especially those who are articulate and smart to find loopholes and reasons in a problem. the most important thing we must have a provision of mental and intelligent mind .

To be a good speaker needs a lot of ways. Nowadays, people who take part in social media phrases often have excellent expressions. I think I want to say good things to learn.

i really follow gary vee , he is the new sensation .

listening to ted talks can actally make you a good speaker.

try speaking in front of small gathering, get confidence  , then infront of bigger and bigger gathering

Being a good speaker is not that easy. Despite understanding a language, standing in front of audience to address them especially for the first time is very difficult considering stage fright/phobia. But with constant practice and continues appearance on stage, one can gradually develop the skill.

When I was starting in my teaching profession, I was also you that is having a hard time with communication skills because I am afraid to make mistake but as the time goes by and I learn how to speak in front of the class I manage to speak and communicate easily. The reason for that is that you just need to trust yourself and just encourage yourself that you can do it. Face what you are being afraid of and overcome it and you will see as the time goes by then you cannot notice that you are getting better and better and a good speaker on that day.

1. you can be a good listener first.
2. you can try to integrate what you want to say before you speak when you talking with other people :)

1.Make sure you use the right grammar.
2.Have confidence when talking, no need to worry about the opinions of others.
3.Use the volume that suits the conversation situation.
4.Do not cut off other people's talk or talk when others talk

useful thread , reco +1 , talk with hands and confiance .  Before people , prepared yout speech

Eradicate fear of speaking and crowd by indulging in active group discussions in your working place. This would help a lot.

Expand communication with people. It will improve communication skills.

I read what you need to start to speak in front of a mirror. I advise you to attend courses in public speaking.  :)

Not too many hand gestures and filler words like umm and uh, not shifting from side to sider nervously, answer what are you trying to say? Don't stray off topic.

I recommend you educate a lot, talk to yourself every day, read a lot.

I would suggest practicing your speech in front of the mirror beforehand.

Respect the listener

Being a right speaker requires a lot of knowledge in people, many of whom have succeeded in developing their speaking skills by learning more about social issues.

you must practice every project  before delivering.

successful readers are practitioners. the believe in practice makes perfect scheme.

By always learning, reading books and practicing it on our day-to-day.

You don’t want to be blindsided by the size of a venue or a crowd right before you give a speech. By arriving before you’re scheduled to speak, you’ll have time to get used to your surroundings and, if you’re speaking from a stage, get a feel for the space. If you can, try introducing yourself to a few audience members. Having some allies in the crowd can only make things easier.

It’s common for speakers to start out with a joke, but Kokocki discourages it unless the joke serves a specific purpose. If someone is already nervous about giving a speech and then their opening joke falls flat, it could spell bad news for the rest of their performance. Kokocki also warns against starting with an apology. Don’t set the tone by telling the audience that you didn’t have enough time to prepare or that you’re not a good public speaker.

- Practice speaking on subjects you are comfortable with first tiny groups before proceeding to larger ones. You can even start with the mirror or shooting a video of yourself speaking on your laptop camera. Would give you sense of what you do well vs what you don't
- Pick one or two persons in the audience you think looks less scary and pretend you are talking to just them. If you feel bold enough, for a hall full of people, pick one in each corner of the room.
- Keep "props" handy to take a pause if you feel like you can't remember what to say next. A glass of water or a cup of coffee do well, or even a poster, picture or presentation you can walk across to to point at to make a point. If nothing, when at a loss for words just take a deep breath and count till 3 before you resume. Silence is a lesser sin that sounding like you are fumbling for words.

Public speaking is in lots of ways like performing in a play. Get involved in the complete performance, the drama....not just the words.

“The goal of communication is to land a message,” Kokocki said. When it comes to public speaking, flawless delivery feels great, but your content, and the substance behind it, is most critical.

I think it's a self esteem issue. Just try to be yourself and you'll be fine. Also, try to get books on communication skills it would help greatly.

The first thing to do become a good speaker is having good knowledge.

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There are many ways to improve yourself toward the public speaking, by increasing your self-confidence. Just take everything easier, do not stress and calm down this is the first rule. Read more books and watch more videos to ;)

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Hi, I had such a problem, I solved it with the help of books, and started to relate to people, it does not matter who he is or who he works with, the main thing is that he is a person and we all are able to adapt. In the same way, when starting a dialogue with a person, do not be afraid to seem stupid, ask any question that seems like a good beginning for a dialogue.

Try to learn a lot. You will say more smoothly.

you can learn good public speaking skills by:
- reading books and articles on public speaking
-doing research on the particular topic
-Listening to great public speakers
-and reading about them too

practice yourself . train your tone and select good choice of wards, avoiding violent choice of wards we motivate your audience.

First of all you should be relaxed,attentive to the person you're speaking to.Nothing difficult especially with oppurtunites given by internet and social network.

just dont get nervous and relax. stay calm and be confident enough to speak.

I think you should first identify where you are having trouble with in public speaking this way you will be able to address them one by one. If you have trouble with it in general, then you can read up on it or watch videos like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tShavGuo0_E for some tips. If you get stage fright, then you should probably do some relaxing exercises to help you with this. If your challenge is your voice, then you must do voice exercises for public speaking. There is a lot of other helpful material you can find on the net once you can pinpoint your challenges.

I often listen to songs or good movies and think before say

This is a very good suggestions. Like you I struggled in the beginning too and I have a lisp lol but with research and reading and practicing infront of a mirror I was able to be conscious of where I was lacking and how to not eliminate my lisp but to neutralize it a bit. Good look on bettering your speech

To be a good speaker you need to overcome your fear in public speaking and you need to have a strong and firm self-confidence because that is really what you need in order to be a good speaker.

Listen to people and learn their way

More training. Learn simple, and you will succeed.  ;)

Read, Read and Read...

The more you read, the more confidence you will gain which will translate into your speech...

I have always followed this principle and I hope it works for you !

you should be a fluent in speaking thats a factor and knows a proper grammarization

Prepare a good content, then practice presenting it many times. Then practice speaking in public more and more. Practice makes perfect.

By being confident about what you are doing and saying.

which of course we must first be a good person, let our conversation can be accepted by others.

It always comes down how you prepared your speaking session and how confident you are delivering how the way u speak.

Being a good speaker depends on your preperation. If you prepare your speech, reahersed everythibg should go well

Hey, 7 steps presented in a clear way are here:
https://www.troyfawkes.com/how-to-improve-speaking-skills-in-7-simple-steps/

There is also the book (with recordings attached) "How Now Brown Cow". It improves your pronunciation and the fluency of your speech. The book is available in pdf format.

enjoy and do your best  :)

1. Take a positive attitude.
2. Focus on the audience.
3. Be dynamic.
4. Be careful.
5. Tell anecdotes.
6. Take care of the right look.
7. Be original.

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speaking correctly and clearly. Do not hide something or intend to deceive your audience.to be yourself. You are not trying to be someone else or pretending to be a different person. Do what you say. Integrity is obtained when what you say you actually do

Practice and experience make difference for sure, but to become really great speaker, it takes talent I suppose. Judging by my university professors, even 30 years of experience and deep knowledge in subject can't beat charisma and real vibes when speaker is flushed with his speech

You don't have to be a good speaker. People get by with less. Just love yourself and believe in what you are doing.

You should have close conversation with audience members before your presentation.
Because, it warms them up to you and lets you gauge their sense of humor, which is particularly critical if you are a speaker that tends to let a curse word fly or uses bold and provocative stories or language. Besides, you can glean insights to incorporate into your presentation.

i think those speaker got fun interaction with the audience can make a very deep memory to the audience about what he was going to express

Do not speak on any topic you a novice , also before you contribute on any issue make sure you have your facts ready. Talk less and hear more.

just a tip, don't stop moving when you're in the stage, always do something and say something so there wouldn't have an awkward pause

Its not an easy task to undertake, you need to have a vigorous practise and control over yourself before being a good onstage speaker

Practice infront of a mirror. That will help you to find out your own character and fluency. This is very effective.

If you mean that your English is bad and you need to brush it up then find a tutor and start learning.
If you have a problem leading a conversation in your mother language then you should widen your vocabulary by reading books, magazines etc.

Dont be shame

First thing first you need to be a good listener to be a good speaker.

The secret to confidence is practice. Just practice speaking to a lot of people and try to express yourself. Be honest and be natural. Talk based on how you feel, what you honestly think and stop giving a shit about what other people think. I hope you get great in socializing soon :)

First, make sure that you plan  your communication appropriately. Use tools like the Rhetorical Triangle , Monroe's Motivated Sequence  , and the 7Cs of Communication  to think about how you'll construct on what  will you're going to say.

Everybody is a good speaker. It's just that lack of confidence hinders our ability to speak from flowing out.
Nervousness and shyness are also factors especially when speaking in front of a crowd.

Anther factor is knowledge.
If you are going to speak in front of your classmates about an assignment you didn't review the night before, you mumble for words.
If you are talking about something you know by heart, then confidence would be there, making you speak straight to the point, without nervousness and all.

You believe your self and dont stres, and you feel it and you can

Just keep doing whatever you are doing, speaking one-to-one will improve your skills with time, you are doing the best way trust me

To be a good speaker, it takes the first two things to be how you are sensitive to the situation and conditions so you speak in the right place. The second is learning good attitude and body language as you speak..

be confident and be compose and with a lot of practice you will be good with time

Less preparation makes the mastery of material that is not maximal. This will automatically trigger a sense of worry if the material to be delivered is not smooth. I once experienced it, suddenly asked for a sudden presentation. Not a good situation and a lot of choices but situations like this can make the presentation a mess.

First, you must prepare your talk carefully. Next, you should practice in front of a mirror. Finally, be confident.

to be a good speaker, first must master the material in talking, eye gaze, body language should also be mastered, confident in talking, and aggaplah the freshener as your closest friend.

Many guiding book make you to be better speaker, just follow it and practice if you have spare time, and confidence is everything for good speaker.

Like many of my teachers, my work is not tied to presentations, so I do not want people to talk freely with my acquaintance, so I would like to know more.

I suggest you start a speech in front of the mirror.

First of all, you should prepare and rehearse your mini-presentation in advance. At the interview, you will be asked about work experience and additional skills that might be useful in the work. Ask friends or relatives to conduct a test interview with you. Check the answer for each expected question.
Don't worry and you're gonna be alright.

To  be a good speaker, you must have confidence to speak and also you have a good attitude and body language you speak, you must be compose and practice how to speak, as time goes on you will good.

In my opinion the way to be a good speaker is to always set  goals in our conversation, know who you are talking to, understand our strengths and weaknesses, be yourself and look natural, and Eye contact with people in front of us, with eye contact as if we managed to bring them in. into what we're talking about and get them to focus on what we're talking about. practice speaking to a lot of people and try to express yourself. Be honest and be natural.

It is not easy to be a good speaker but I think to be a good speaker someone has to be courageous,reading books, practising it alone in the house.