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There has been different ideas about running DNA test. People dropping there utmost mind about the running of DNA test.

A man was like as a husband, you have a lot of responsibilities so make sure you don't ignorantly take responsibility of another man's child or even children thinking it's yours. Do DNA test.

A lady was like if she gets married and her husband insist on a DNA test and at the end it confirms he is the father, that she will make sure he doesn't have access to the child and that means the end of the marriage, even when it's that she already has other children before the confusion of running a DNA test.
This makes me ask if running of DNA test is really a confusion?

But then, the cost of DNA test will for sure make postnatal health service bill more expensive if a hospital adds it to their service charge, because not everyone can afford it even if it is a personal (the husbands) decision.

You know your wife and your wife knows you
then why DNA test? Is it not waste of funds?

**When should a man demand a DNA test?
**You as the wife, how will you feel about that?
**Should it really become part of a husbands budget on every child delivery?
**What do you really think about running a DNA as a man or as a woman?

I think it will help those lovers who are not sure about each other. It's really hard to take responsibility that is not for you. It actually happens in real life that someone takes responsibility for something that is not theirs, which is more painful for the person when he finds out later. For me, if it is proven that he is not the real parent, then that should be a reason for separation and a valid ground for divorce or annualment. There is no reason for you to be together for a long time if there is fraud going on from the beginning.


The day he finds out that his partner is pregnant, the man has the right to demand it, especially if he is not sure about the child.

For me, it should only be for those who have the ability to pay and not for everyone, especially if you really don't have the money to take out not unless they can ask for it for free or maybe if its shouldered by the government .

I expect that the test for DNA is mostly require for conflict resolution, but when there is nothing like this, then i don't see the need for taking a DNA when the trust and peace is being found within a marriage settings, for the government to raise alarm on individual right for taking this could interpret another thing and causes for loss of trust and crave chances for disunity, because everyone will then begin to think of whether they have been cheated or not in their marriage and seeing the need for taking the test as necessary even when its of no importance.

The conversation of a DNA test didn't start just because  families are comfortable spending money or that the husbands don't trust their wives. Before Theirs ever a need for a DNA test, there must have been signs that suggest that there's unfaithful in the marriage.

If you get married to a lady that's a virgin, it gives you the first stage of trust and if while she's with you you're sure she can't cheat, you can't forget anything like running a DNA test. If these are not in place and for any reason, you have a doubt in you and suspect that there's at least a 5% possibility that your partner is unfaitful, then just run the test. There's nothing bad about it as long as you have the funds.

For answering your question, all depend on how healthy your relationship with your wife. When talking abaout risk management especially its correlation with family financial planning and budgeting, we must able to identify, face and discuss any potential risk to avoid it become actual cost in the future. Try to separate between DNA test as trust issue (without any indication) on wife or as tools for risk mapping (if there are indication). If you do DNA test without any rational thing, trust me it will cost more for the damage of whole family life.

A man can ask DNA test and make DNA test budged on every child delivery if you found unmatch time of pregnancy or your wife has cheating/ having an affair experience /habit. In this case DNA test can be small expenses to avoid bigger cost and biggest lost.

Don't asked about women feeling, if your women are faithful wife then you must admit you deliberately damage your most valuable asset (which is trust). It will be hard to life in same roof with psychological problme with your couples. DNA test request is an accused to your wife that she having an affair based on your paranoia not real proof. I said it is waste financially.

From this discussion i think DNA test plan in every delivery is relation foundation problem not financial problem. You need to fix your communication, honesty, emotional maturity, becaus e in world of married trust is the most valuable asset to keep life time commitment.

My only question is why is this in the economics board?  ;D ???

You really don't understand how life is and what is going on right now, I have a friend who has a very peaceful home and his wife act so lovely and they were very happy together but a time came when they wanted to relocate to the United States and a DNA test was demanded to determine if the children is actually his or not and the wife refused and told him they should not relocate anymore for something the wife really wanted and that made him worried and he decided to run a DNA test and found out that out of 3 children 2 is not his own. It is only a foolish man who will put  100 percent trust in his wife my lovely ex girlfriend cheated on me and I never expected she will do that, so I don't trust women 100 percent.

I believe a husband should take a DNA test when there is the minimum of doubt about faithfulness of his wife, of whether the child in question shows some physical characteristics which do not coincide with the genes of the husband, like different skin color, different eye color, hair color, etc.
There are women who get very offended by having their husbands asking for those kind of tests, which is understandable, since it is an indirect accusation of infidelity.

Anyways, a husband (depending on the jurisdiction) could carry out those tests in secret and figure out whether their kid is actually his. Though, morality about taking a secret DNA test could be questioned.

The reason why some men ask for a DNA test for their children is mostly because of some certain suspicion they are getting towards their wives, if the trust is there between the both partners there won't be need for a DNA test. however as a man, I advice that if your suspecting that the children you have with your wife are not yours biologically, I believe you should go for a DNA test privately with those children, asking permission from your wife makes her looks awkward, as she would begin to question herself if this man doesn't trust me and this will certainly cause fiasco in the family, so in a bid to avoid that kind of a drama, it is better you visit the hospital and do it privately on your own.

If I suspect that my partner is unfaithful. Or she insinuates that I am not the father of the children.
If you trust your partner DNA test shouldn't even be discussed. Such a cost comes in when there are disagreements.
I think it's necessary if there is mistrust. But it's not important when there is no suspicion of infidelity.

Many men do DNA because of lack of trust, since they don’t trust each other that much, to be sure if the child is his or not,  especially in this our generation women are doing the unimaginable things, child that doesn’t belong to their husband, they will put it on their head to take responsibility, so that’s why most men do DNA test to approve whether the child is his or not, many men out there are taking responsibility of children that’s not theirs, which is very bad, so for me if u have money to run a DNA test pls do women ain’t worthy to be trusted.

DNA test has broken some much home sometimes people get scared of doing a DNA test so their home can be save while some people don't have  the money to do a DNA due to high cost of it those who only afford it are rich dudes
If there is no trust in a marriage that is if a man didn't trust his wife and he has money to do DNA he should, most women are not to be trusted now I have heard several news where a man find out that out of his 4 children it's only one that biologically belongs to him the other 3 are from another man, the husband out of shock of the news from the doctor he slumped and died so some women can be heartless, i will say that getting a good wife is a blessing.

It's very natural to ensure each other's trust because currently many are burdened by a generation of women who are too free in their behavior. So, as men, we certainly agree with this matter of not fully trusting a woman. The responsibility we carry out towards our wives and children is truly ours. If it isn't ours, it would be a great loss to what we do to provide for them. For another reason, we as men have significant responsibilities, especially after having a wife and children. They rely entirely on us, as their resources rest on our shoulders, as we are tasked with being responsible for them.

Therefore, in our opinion, the results of a DNA test would be very beneficial, as we should avoid making mistakes in our responsibilities, which are a priority for us as men. If the DNA test results are inaccurate, we will not experience much responsibility, as we do not have the full right to support them. Unless the opposite happens, in which the DNA test results are correct, this will establish us as their primary source of support. This is because the positive results will make us fully responsible for them, regardless of the results of the DNA test taken by the woman.

Do you no why the agitation of DNA will start happening between a husband and wife?, is when the belief they have for each other's before are not there because of doing things they never do before and spending time outside till late hours in the night without the husband knowing her way about, so actually if suspicious of cheating start coming up the husband will be relying on DNA to no if his blood is the same with the child, however I no is important for both husband and wife to agree on DNA before carrying out the process but if the suspicious is done out of proportion you can do it by yourself since an hair from the child could give all the sample a doctor will use to get the results so that it wouldn't cause a breakup on the family.

Men do ask for DNA test when there is no longer trust in marriage. When trust are broken the quest to take a DNA test become important to clear the doubt of the man. But aside that men don request for DNA knowing how expensive it is to do something that may likely be negative. people don't do DNA like other kind of medical test, but only on when issues arises.

Normally women don't feel happy doing DNA test. They always feel unsecure because anything might happen along the line of the marriage and will never find it possible to find peace in their home. Or maybe  the fear of losing both Father and son, because of this they prefer not doing DNA test .

If the husband can pay then he can go ahead and do the test, but if not he should just forget about it except your wife acts strange which might doubt her trust before you can run a test.

I don't need to do a DNA test because my children are a replica of me, and I myself knows they belong to me even without going to do a test but however if I have money, to clear my doubt I will go and run it on them.

I was also going to ask this question because it's not related to economics It's needed to be in off-topic.

I am not sure why this DNA is now having importance because if you are in love then you have to believe in all otherwise you need to left and stay alone because its always sensitive issue, and you have no right to ask about anyone faith if you are sincerer than your partner is also sincere it's all done.

DNA testing is very sensitive investigation. It is classified into two.  Rest of mind DNA test and Legal DNA test. In rest of mind this where the man felt his not comfortable with the activities of his wife. Therefore choose to clear any doubt without any legal registration. While legal DNA test is where both couple are in dispute. Acquisition and Advice of cheating. Such DNA test is refer as legal. Law have to sign such results.
Making a postnatal Bill for DNA test is optional, it is unacceptable to impose such into ones marriage. Besides the outrageous Bill for DNA test can't be affordable by many. DNA testing is only requested for promiscuous marriage.

I feel this DNA test is only taken when partners are in doubt of their selves like when the husband feels or know the partner is unfaithful cos asides being expensive even if you're capable of affording it you won't just go and waste money when you know you have a faithful wife and that the children are yours.

Okay so the lady saying she'd end the marriage even if the test prove he's the father. That is just spite at that point, right? Just like you were vindicated, he IS the dad, and what now is the reason you are still angry that he asked?

That is all you really need to know.

Since when the question itself is the crime then we are not discussing trust anymore. We're talking about power. Of who is allowed to ask questions and who is not. And that is a completely different discussion that no one wants to engage in since it gets ugly very quickly.

Men don't get pregnant. Can't feel the kid growing. Don't have that biological certainty that women have from maybe day one. They are simply expected to believe and otherwise they are the villain in some way.

But we check up all the rest that counts. Contracts. Degrees. Credit scores.

Why is this different?

A DNA test can only be run when a child has been conceived. It cannot be done when the child is still in the womb, but when the woman has delivered the baby, a few weeks DNA test can be done.

ThankGod for health technology, if not, women nowadays would use men to father a child that does not belong to the man. It is happening in our world today, even right now, a Man somewhere is fathering a chil,d thinking the child belongs to him.

I feel like a DNA test shouldn't be much of a big deal and it is something that should be done without letting it cause any sort of conflict, besides DNA tests are not only about confirming the paternity on a child this test is also carried out to know if they are any medical conditions that are being passed genetically. what happens between couples nowadays is that once this is suggested by the Manchester woman starts seeing it as a disrespect to her but that shouldn't the mindset behind this

This is true. If you are in doubt, you won't be at peace with yourself up until you did this step. This is also a very solid ground for Legal issues if both parties are in conflict. But for regular deliveries without any issue, I don't think you need to include this in the service bill because this is quite expensive. And it is not very practical especially if the family can't afford such service. Unless, we have this test kit where you can get the results in just few hours at a very cheap rate.
But if you trust your spouse enough, for me, there's no need for this and so this is only additional bill for the family if it will be like a mandatory test after birth. For me, it should be an optional and not mandatory.

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So I don't know in other countries. There may be good reasons like having database so it is easier for criminal investigations and such. But we all know that not all people can afford this. So for me, this is fine as long as it is not mandatory.

There must be good reasons for such testing. This means that the fact of the wife's infidelity must be established (for example, caught red-handed, or there is irrefutable evidence). Just suspicion is not enough to conduct testing. Of course, an insecure person may insist on testing based on their suspicions. But if the test shows his paternity, then there will be no turning back. The relationship between the spouses will be ruined by distrust forever.

Personally I feel that DNA test is very important for every family to do (if they have the money to do it) a lot of things are happening in the hospital these days and switching a child after birth by some of the hospital staff is not a new thing now in this generation so we all need to be careful and do a DNA test and not because you are doubting your partner but because you don't want to raise a child that isn't yours biologically. There are people that give birth to their children through a nurse that is operating on her own outside the hospital and most times she only has one patient to attend to so it's more safe there because you have nothing to worry about as switching your child but in the hospital a DNA test is very important.

you have a point, if a man suspects his partner isn't faithful to him then there's no need to ask his wife for permission to run a paternity test when he can juat run it privately..most ladies cause a scene because they know that they are guilty because if they really have nothing to hide they won't allow such a small thing resort to a big issue..personally I don't see anything wrong in running a paternity test

Honestly this would really become a problem and possibly might break some lovely homes because the rate at which men discover they ain't the paternal father of their kids it's so alarming  and hence the need for conducting a DNA test after childbirth to confirm if the child is his. Likewise the fee for that shouldn't be expensive at least there should be a discount by the hospitals. All of this is because the society today slot are going on under cover and by chance if noticed it becomes a time bomb.

Running a DNA test as a man or woman is personal decision, most test the paternity of their kids when they are having suspicions about infidelity from their spouse but this causes conflict most times. The best thing to do is to run the test privately without informing tj woman about it. Asides from paternity a DNA test can also be done to detect other things as well and it's very important

The moment your partner starts acting suspicious and giving you a reason to doubt, then I don't think it's a waste of funds in anyone.
I have heard so many crazy stories of people raising kids that aren't theirs even till this day. Conducting a DNA test is not a crime, especially when there is already too many reasons to doubt your partner. The truth, this matter of paternity test doesn't have a general method of addressing it because it can be a bit complicated for others, especially when the partner ends up coming out clean.



I don't think it should be a must for every man to conduct a DNA test on the delivery.
Most relationships that are still standing together, are heavily built on love and trust, and the last thing a man would want to do is to break such trust especially when he doesn't have a probable reason for doubts. But mind you, there are other cases where a lot of people have been forced to raise the kids of other men unknowingly, just because they trust.

DNA test should never be consider as waste of fund, because in this world we are living now a lot had changed. And the so female genders is not to be trusted anymore, and sorry to say they are evil. This female gender can go to grave with their evil secret. Well Am trying not to be rough here, but this so called female genders had hurt me a lot and I know they have hurt a lot male genders out there with this their obnoxious way of doing things. At least if you haven't been a victim before, you have heard other people's stories on how they struggled training another person's children, and later find out that those children was never their own so ridiculous. Do you know how painful it is to grow old with children and later find out that they were never yours?

Well having a DNA test is not a bad thing but the truth is that before a man starts asking for a DNA test, it means he’s not sure if the child is his. Because on a normal day he will not just suggest for a DNA test when his very sure he’s the father of the child and also considering how expensive running a DNA test cost.

Most women don’t find it funny when their husband request for a DNA test even when they are 100% sure the child is for their husband because they feel for their husband to ask for a DNA test implies that the man doesn’t trust them and believe they had an affair with someone else. Why some women are not actually happy about it is because they know the child is not for their husband.

While this question is for everyone,it depends on how you and your wife understand each other in the house and how frequent your wife move from outside and coming back to your house,if your wife goes to market all the time bear it in mined that she might cheat on you,women are not trusted at all so you need to do DNA test ,it help in a marriage relationship,I support DNA test

Very few people get DNA tests done but those who do do it to prove their suspicions right. Most men do it because DNA is a personal decision and many personal things are associated with it. Men think that it is better to get a DNA test done first than to suspect someone and then accuse them because if the accusation is wrong there can be many problems in the relationship and if his suspicions are proven correct it can put a lot of pressure on the child and the rest of their lives. Before getting a DNA test done the circumstances emotions and results should be taken into account so that there are no problems later.

If you're at the point where you don't trust your partner so much that you need to take a DNA test, then you need to have a long think about whether you should even be together at that point. We've all heard horror stories in the media and they are absolutely clickbait type articles, but they are so far from the norm that you need to wake up. Yes there are people out there who cheat or end up doing other things that results in a baby, but you can usually tell or get a feeling if this is happening in your life. We should not normalize or encourage this sort of intrusive and frankly paranoid behavior, there needs to be more trust in life than this. Would you sacrifice your partner if they agreed on the provision that you break up regardless of the results? Even if it was your kid. That's the real question to be asking.

You don't really know anyone totally these days, some people have the desire to run such tests when there occurs events that births suspicion on their paternity of the children for e.g, like catching your wife cheating, your blood not matching if your child is in desperate need of blood after an accident or even making shocking discoveries on wife's past which ensured after you two have been married.

It is said that only a woman truly knows the father of a child and if you ever find yourself in a situation where you question the paternity any of your children, the best way to put your mind at rest is to go for the test for that child or all your children. It is always better to figure it out on time than much later in life after taking full responsibility of another man's child all your life only for the biological father to come claiming them at a later time.

All this question just implies that when a man does not trust his wife or there is a misunderstanding about affairs, to prove the woman guilty or not guilty will require her to go for a DNA test. This will confirm if she is free of the charges against her by her husband. If the results is positive then she is guilty of the charges, but if she is not guilty them she will face the consequences of betrayal. I know the aspect of how the woman will feel, can only happens when the woman is not guilty. But if she is guilty them she has nothing to fell about Rather she will beg for forgiveness. But however this DNA is very expensive to practice and can only be used in the case of distrust but when there is trust there is no need.

The real question is, if you have doubts about your wife having a kid with someone else, then why is she is even your wife? Think about it, I am not saying it never happens, of course it does happen, but that's not the point.

Even in a case where a husband trusts the wife, and then turns out it's someone else's baby, that dude didn't distrusted the wife. So in this case, the question is, if you think there is even a slight chance that baby could be someone else's, then why the hell did you stay for that long? You shouldn't be married to begin with.

She is still your wife because you still love her. But some events could bring doubts that can be cleared by a DNA test.

I have been watching some programs about paternity tests. It has been a good experience because you would see different cases. These programs have exposed me to the tricks of some women. Some cases will give you reasons not to trust anyone. Anyone who feels that their partner is unfaithful should get a DNA test because some women can be cunning.

Demand DNA test from who? As the Man if you feel your child or one of your children doesn't belong to you, you can quietly go do a DNA test without anyone knowing about it. Demanding a DNA test from your spouse is going to make things complicated. If any of my child doesn't look like me I will run DNA test of that child if I have the money. Some will say they can look like their mother that's true but I have to be sure that it is mine.

It can't be on every child, there some children that looks exactly like their father, those ones there's no need of running a DNA test on them.


DNA test is very important when there's a track record of your wife cheating. As a man you have to be sure that the children you are raising are yours. I am a strong supporter of DNA test.

My own idea sha , I think DNA should be a compulsory thing to do even if the healthcare service want to add it to their bill, because the rate at which men are taking responsibility for what is not there own , I have seen a story where a man three kids belong to his wife’s ex , sometime I think men should carry out the test without involving there wives, especially first child , most women not all are fun of having multiple sex partner when they have a serious date , and if a long the line pregnancy occur the serious date is usually responsible but deep down they really can’t tell who the father is , I heard a story where a girl had a boyfriend and still dating a married man , she sleeps with both without protection, the boyfriend had no idea she is seeing another man but the married knows she has a boyfriend, along the line she missed her period and she wanted to terminate the pregnancy but it didn’t work out , because she is not sure if it belongs to the married man or her boyfriend, but her boyfriend proceeded to marry her so they don’t have a child out of wedlock, I believe till now it still hunt her , she actually don’t know who owns the child between the both men , to me DNA is a most do , weather I trust you or not .

Running a DNA test is not a bad idea but why are you doing it? Running DNA can ruin a good family because it will make your wife that believe in you to start feeling that you don’t love her, I know that every man is scared of taking responsibility of another man child but when you and your wife love each other you will never think of doing a DNA test, trust issue is what makes some people of doing it or when the relationship between a husband and wife is totally broken.

I don’t know about other people but for me I think DNA test is a wasting of time when you are your wife is not having any problem, what make people do DNA test most is when a girl lied that she is pregnant and the man did not believe the baby is his, as far as I know the woman I get married to and i have never seen her cheating on me or doubt her before, i will never think of doing DNA test.

This is were you are misunderstanding this, you can't accuse someone because of a regular market, if you have a family that doesn't buy things in buck but only what you can use for the day, your wife will definitely go to the Market on every blessed day because there is nothing left to eat in the house since the last market has been exhausted, so actually your food stuff purchases depend on how consistent or rarely she would be on the market, if you have done your part in making sure there is a limitation in going to the market then you can suspect if the market activities is becoming unbearable.

DNA testing itself is not bad, but when said is the real thing. If there is already suspicion and distrust in the relationship then such a demand is natural, But if this question suddenly comes up in a good family, there is no doubt that it will hurt. A woman can then feel that she is being considered guilty. I personally believe that as a rule it is not necessary for everyone. Where there is trust, there is no point looking for evidence with papers. Again, where the suspicion is so deep that you cannot sleep at night, the test may give you peace of mind, However making it a part of the budget to give birth to every child is neither realistic nor humane. The bottom line is that a relationship lives on trust, not the test report.

Don't fully trust a man or woman, who you call your spouse because if you are being told or shown what they do in secret, you wouldn't believe with your eyes that they can do that at your back.

If a man can afford a DNA test, let them do it as early as possible, to save themselves from future shock because many men have been training the sons and daughters of others, thinking it's theirs and it's their old age, they are finding the truth, leaving them with the greatest shock of their life. Some die as a result of that. I wouldn't want that to be the case with anyone I know because that's heartbreaking, after years of emotional bonding and money spent on kids that are not yours

Trust is one thing that keeps married couples together if you think your wife or husband can not be trusted then there is no need of being in love with that person because you guys are just pretending to stay together just because of what you two are benefiting from each other. DNA test should not be that expensive if it has become a thing of a particular concern but it should be an agreement between the man and the woman because if it is carried out without the presence of one person if the results happens to be positive which means the man is the father or the child if the wife finds out that the husband carried out a DNA without her consent it becomes a problem because she's not going to trust him again.

In a good hospital were a new born baby is been delivered successfully, all the necessary test is supposed to be conducted for the baby, to know he or her blood group and paternity of the baby,

So it will enable to know the genotype and the forensic results of the baby, so it's there that you will know if the baby belongs to you or not..

But for uncivilised country, were hospitals doesn't operate accordingly, you will not know your the paternity of your baby until you conduct a DNA test

Actually, a father of a child need to know the paternity of his child right from the day it was delivered in the hospital before discharging them.

Life has it own test ,what many women who are legally y married are doing right now in their husband place is quite confusing because it's really bad for a woman who is legally married to meet another man ,and sleep with him this is abomination in my area locally,now considering the fact that the man of the house requested a DNA test results from all their kids to me is very good and I see nothing bad in it ,even you as a woman you should be very happy about that , because you and your wife are one maybe you just decided to do the test is not wrong ,so nobody should see DNA test as bad decision from the husband if he has the money let him do the test to be very sure , women are very wicked this days ,I think oat before married should also be. Consider many woman can cheat in marriage,before a husband said he want to do DNA test he has observed something,and to me if I observed anything I must do the DNA test , weather my wife like it or not I must do it ,so that my conscience can really free my emotions.

Most times there are usually situations that does leads to the demand for a DNA test. Some partners can actually have trust issues and yet still stick together but when cases like this come up they demand for it to be sure they are not taking responsibility for that which they don't believe  they are responsible for. Another reason could be when a foul play is suspected from the Hospital as whe have heard cases of swapped babies.