first and most important thing is that you have to prepare yourself and your mind to consider gambling as a fun game without having to hope for big wins and you have to admit that gambling is not a place to make money.

this is a very important thought pattern and you must really maintain it to continue to be a healthy gambler without being tempted by anything tempting and then you must always gamble responsibly and always plan your budget within one month by taking 3%-5% of your income. you can bet within one month and use it on games that have the smallest betting amount and don't have a big risk, for example sports betting.
It's quite easy to become a beginner gambler but still be a healthy gambler as long as you really stick to the commitments you have planned and another important thing is never to be tempted by big wins because it's all just about luck.
some things you also have to think about are maintaining your emotions because this is very important when in gambling you will definitely lose more often than you win and you have to really understand this and stop immediately after losing a few times and come back again a few days later.

mentally, this will affect the child's future and most mothers will not agree if their child gambles even if they win millions of dollars.
did you ever remember there was a thread where a boy got a big win but his father told him to return the winnings to the casino?

that's one example, not only a mother but even a father won't agree if their child gambles, even if they just want to have fun, but there are still many other ways to have fun without being involved in gambling.
parents definitely think about what's best for their children, especially if a mother finds out that her child stole money just to gamble and when he comes home with millions of dollars in large amounts of money, his mother will definitely not agree because initially the money used for betting was the money he stole and a mother would definitely think that child's future could be threatened if you let your child continue gambling and one day they could steal a large amount again and if you say imagine I am a mother I will educate my child to immediately leave gambling with the threat of not being given any money.

so, that's why it's very important for couples when they want to talk about something sensitive, they have to look at the right situation to be able to say everything that needs to be discussed even if in the end there are some words that they don't agree with but at least if the conditions are peaceful, they definitely won't there will be arguments or misunderstandings and when discussing sensitive matters such as gambling, if you are not allowed to gamble, of course there is always a solution and well, as you said, gambling nowadays is not a bad thing so a wife can give confidence to her if he can maintain her responsibilities and remain a good wife who takes care of her children and gambles when she has free time.
I'm sure that as long as everything is discussed comfortably, our partner will definitely give us freedom as long as we don't cross the limits that have been determined previously.

yep, a gambler should be able to have thoughts like that, not be influenced by streamers or influencers and only bet at the right time and not exceed predetermined limits and think that streamers or influencers are just entertainment that we should watch when we have free time but only assume that it is all just entertainment, just like the gambling we play.
on the one hand, we as viewers don't need to be influenced by anything broadcast by the media and we don't need to be tempted by everything that is broadcast because they only provide broadcasts that entertain us.

so I support what you say, that we can still be ourselves, betting according to our abilities without having to follow the betting style of an influencer or streamer.

gambling is not a scenario of destroying someone's life but it depends on how a gambler can manage everything well and loan money is also not a bad scenario if it is used for something better when in dire need.

from the assumptions you say, I slightly disagree, but basically you are right that gambling or loan money can make a person's life very bad if they don't have a big responsibility for everything that has been done, like in these two cases, gambling can bring ruin to a person. If gamblers cannot gamble responsibly and loan money, it will also have a bad impact if they cannot act responsibly, thinking about the ability to return the money they have borrowed.

all of this is just about responsibility but still loan money and gambling should not be combined because both will be very bad in the long run when you have to return the money you borrowed but all the money has been lost due to losing at gambling and you will definitely regret it.

that's true because with the word "hope" sometimes a gambler misunderstands what it really means.
I mean there are a lot of gamblers who think that hope is always there in gambling but they don't understand the real meaning that hope is when we gamble a small amount and surprisingly get a big win when we really need money but without expecting beforehand to get that win.
so this hope must be interpreted deeply by a gambler, or else a gambler will experience big problems when he hopes in gambling to get a big win, but as you said, getting a big win will not be as easy as saying it.

we as gamblers don't need to hope too much to get big wins, even though we are sometimes jealous of other people who get big wins, but believe me, luck will come as long as we can gamble responsibly.

I have heard and seen a gambler who gambles with money from selling his valuables but that is for gamblers who are irresponsible and cannot manage their finances but like the OP I am sure he is someone who can manage his finances well even though he spends his money to buy electronic goods but of course he has set aside a little money to gamble the next day without having to worry about getting money to gamble and for me spending the winnings to buy electronic goods or other items that have benefits for himself is the best way to spend money rather than taking another risk on investment which produces results but still takes a big risk.

It all depends on how a gambler manages his finances. as I said before, if a gambler can manage his finances well, he will not have problems in terms of budgeting for gambling and will not have problems spending his winnings to buy valuable items.

making your own rules about all the best limits and managing your budget best as possible is very necessary in gambling because only in this way can gambler avoid addiction or the bad effects of greed.
Indeed, it will not be easy as we imagine to manage finances and obey our own rules regarding the limits that have been set, but as long as you are willing to try it, you will definitely get used to it and will easily understand the right time to stop gambling and will easily save your budget.

I really support the advice you give because this is one of the best ways to be a healthy gambler and stay safe.

selling valuables such as gold, motorbikes and even family vehicles that I once sold when I experienced dark gambling in my past which made me realize that I had become a bad gambler and think about how to heal myself from all of this.
but I am grateful that from the bad things that I experienced, there is a woman who is now my wife, she is a helper and is like an angel destined by God to help me get out of the dark zone and I am very grateful, even though I have lived through a very bad past, there is someone who is very well lead me towards a better path.

if I remember the past, maybe I will really regret it, but after everything gets better, I can return everything I lost in the past and like the story you said, this is almost similar to what I experienced, getting benefits even though I had experienced very bad gambling.

some even consider gambling as an investment that encourages a gambler to gamble every day in the hope of getting a return from a big win.
but still gambling every day will have a negative impact in the long term even though someone gambles every day with great responsibility but in the long term it will have an addictive impact if done continuously because our minds will definitely be influenced by things that tempt us every time we are in the world. gambling and subconsciously we have a lot of expectations such as hoping to win big after spending a lot of money.

while gambling every day is not necessary in the long term, but in the short term it has a bad impact on draining our savings because our minds consider gambling as a job, main income or even as an investment.
It is this gambler's thinking that misleads itself while they forget something important, namely that gambling is entertainment that is done happily without having to spend money every day.

patience is one of the keys to helping a gambler avoid bad impacts such as greed or chasing losses.
I have had many bad experiences that I have gone through and I have managed to get through all of this with the patience that I have instilled in my mind to continue to think slowly without betting with anxiety and always enjoying every bet I make.
like for example when I only bet at a local casino on a poker game with a budget of $10 but it can produce a win of around $40 but not in the short term and I get that after a few hours of me betting.

patient gamblers usually always make wise decisions every time they want to place a bet, always think about the long term and assess how big the risk is if they bet too big and usually gamblers like this can actually be said to be professional gamblers because they can fight everything related to the temptations that exist in gambling but a gambler can strongly maintain his passion so as not to be too tempted.

patience in gambling is really needed and in this way a gambler can enjoy and have fun in every betting session without having any regrets.

believe it or not, I feel like my luck is with the dealer.
as I often do when playing roulette, I feel luckier if the dealer is a woman and when the dealer changes to a man, I feel like my luck has just disappeared and I lose more often, whereas if the dealer is a woman, I often win.
It's a little strange and ridiculous, even now I feel that way, but after this thread I'm not alone and feel the same way.

logically the dealer will not actually affect the luck we will get, but I have felt this and not just once but many times and I only told you about this ridiculousness after you made this thread and it answered all of what I was also thinking. the same thing. sometimes the dealer has a slight influence on the gambler, such as the game being uncomfortable or the dealer being less enjoyable, but it all depends on the experience of each gambler.

a common problem that gamblers often do is when they don't want to lose but they still gamble but when they lose they brag and blame other parties and this is a very ridiculous incident that gamblers often do.
I understand that there are gamblers like this, in fact almost all the gamblers I know still have this kind of character when they don't want to lose or lose, they keep betting because in their brain they have the assumption that they want to try to get a big win even though logically their mind already says it's impossible to win big while being unlucky and gamblers like this are like going against their own minds who don't want to gamble and are forced to do so.

the feeling of wanting to continue gambling actually only depends on your mindset and for me, if a gambler has a good mindset, of course when he wants to gamble again he will firmly adhere to the guidelines in his own mind not to gamble anymore and secure his budget so he can gamble responsibly.

I'm not sure whether there are gambling addicts who can really be responsible for their finances and for me that is impossible because what I know so far is that a gambling addict tends to always think about continuing to gamble to get a big win and doesn't care whether his money will run out, which he will definitely do keep gambling before getting a big win even after getting a big win he will keep gambling again with bigger hopes.
so it is very impossible if there is a gambling addict who is surprisingly able to manage his finances and become a responsible gambler and if that is true it means he is not a gambling addict but just an ordinary gambler.

a gambling addict will never be able to feel or enjoy every betting session, he can only enjoy feeling happy if he only wins, so it is not surprising if someone still gambles even though he always loses because there are several causes between addiction or indeed only betting $1 every day for the reason of betting in sports betting with high odds to try your luck.

saying about Napoli which is still strong, to be honest, I still doubt it because a team can be said to be strong when it is able to face big teams without defeat or bad results, only a draw, but the fact is that Napoli still hasn't achieved consistency and it still takes a long time for a coach to understand how talented they are. players and process them into very solid and strong teamwork.
however, if we talk about the Napoli vs Inter match, I am sure that on paper Inter will win the match in terms of the depth of the players. Inter has a very solid player formation, not just relying on 1 player, while Napoli is still the same as before, relying on Osimhen.

we probably don't need to compare these two teams because they are very clearly different in everything like the players and the quality of the players is very much superior to Inter Milan and this is an opportunity for us as bettors to take advantage of betting on this match and there is no doubt betting on Inter.

even though Frankfurt is currently experiencing decline in performance, look at Frankfurt still being able to get 2 wins, which means that the performance of the Frankfurt players can still be relied on and it is very easy for Frankfurt to beat Darmstadt.
and on one hand, Darmstadt is just a team that has just been promoted this season with very bad results at the bottom of the standings, while currently Darmstadt is experiencing serious problems because several players are injured and of course Darmstadt will not be able to appear stronger at home because of the attacking players. and many midfielders currently suffer from injuries.

however, I have not seen and placed a bet for this match, but from the discussion we are talking about, it makes me believe that Frankfurt will easily secure 3 points to improve their performance and I also see that it seems like Frankfurt doesn't have any injured players.
but it looks like its position will not change because Dortmund will also only get weak opponents which gives Dortmund an advantage to maintain its position and for Dortmund fighting Koln is not difficult task.

so far I always repeat what I said before that Nice is just a team that is lucky enough to be able to take advantage of the situation when several big teams are having matches in other competitions and I don't consider Nice a challenger or competitor to PSG because the performance of these two teams is very good. very different and if we look at the point difference, Nice is already very far behind, 8 points is not an easy difference because if Nice is a strong team, they must be able to secure at least 3 consecutive wins, but that is a very difficult task.
meanwhile, for example, Nice can get 3 consecutive wins, it is very impossible because PSG will do the same thing and it is impossible to make a mistake because PSG always really hopes to get the title in League 1. on the one hand, this team is already aware that only in League 1 is It's full of hope because in the UCL it looks like PSG won't qualify again.

we have to realize that Nice will eventually lose control and be overtaken by the teams below and I really believe that if that happens at the end of the season and maybe Monaco or Brest will take over.

your opinion is very reasonable and it is true that Neymar has to experience other problems related to his increasing age so that his physique is not as strong as before and his performance declines more often and on one hand he is also a human being who, when he is old, will certainly have more sensitive physique and ultimately unable to make good contribution to team that paid him a salary.

I have previously strongly supported that Al Hilal should look for another player to fill the empty spot to replace Neymar because if Neymar position not filled with quality players it will only be in vain and I see that Al Hilal efforts are currently focused on finding suitable player to replace Neymar.
TBH, I was wondering if it was time for Neymar to retire from football because in the previous european team he had an injury and it took very long time and currently in SPL he is also experiencing the same problem and if indeed his injury cannot be completely healed then it better to leave football or retire for the common good.

overall, Arsenal has a big chance of winning the match at home, but it should be noted that Arsenal once lost control when playing at home against West Ham.
but we have to believe that Arsenal will not repeat their mistakes again because on the one hand, this is Arteta opportunity to cover up his previous bad streak and get 3 points from this match and immediately improve his performance to move up to the ranking above him.
Crystal Palace is just a very weak team from the last 5 matches which did not get satisfactory results for the fans and the victory that Crystal Palace got at that time was just luck for me because they got a weak opponent like Brentford which is currently known as the worst team with 5 defeats streak so it's natural that Crystal Palace can beat him.

well, from all this we can conclude that Arsenal performance is far superior to be able to win and I think Martinelli should be able to score a lot in this match.

this is not entirely Xavi fault and this is all just about a lack of players caused by a lack of money to be able to bring in more quality players so that Barcelona players lose their performance because they are tired and need replacement players.
we can see that in every match and in every competition the main players are always played, while a player feels tired so it is natural that his performance is not as strong as the other team's because the other team has many quality reserve players who are able to replace the main players.

and regarding Real Madrid failure in the Copa Del Rey, this is not a big problem, in fact the players can rest a little to win the title in the UCL and that is the goal.
If Barcelona can compete against Atletico Madrid, I am sure that even though Atletico has beaten Real Madrid, beating Barcelona will not be that easy and I am sure that Barcelona will win that match.