He handed me his peers.dat file and that solved the problem, I have now 1 active connection, thats more then the 0 i had before. Before i was between 0-2 connections, changing every second. made me crazy, couldnt get my wallet sync.
I like Eth a lot and as a matter of fact currently have a larger portion invested in it compared to Bitcoin, but I doubt that it can surpass Bitcoin in both price and value since the latter is too popular.