So it's a structural problem
A structural problem is when you don't put enough cement in your concrete mixer and the building falls down.
Having a big mouth is a character problem. One that I've admitted having, many times. One that I constantly apologize for, on a regular basis.
If you, personally, have a problem with my attitude, big mouth, or liberal views, as an intelligent, mature, grown up adult human being you avoid airing dirty laundry in public and have a mature, grown up discussion in private.
That's how you avoid polluting the community with any bad blood and you avoid causing grief to others who don't have to witness all the childish/rude interactions.
Looks like you did not chose to keep it private and instead came to a, VERY, public forum to whine about someone being rude to you.
Are you 5 and still need to run to your mama because the bully at kindergarten just called you a lazy programmer that only demands for progress and never pitches in?
Actually, don't answer that. It's a loaded question that comes from that dark place in me, that I mentioned before and I need to keep in check.
So to conclude this, I'll apologize here, the same way I've apologized on the Discord server:
I'm really sorry for what I said in the heat of the discussion. I have a big mouth and I need to keep it in check every time I engage brain to keyboard.
But at least I'm aware of this humongous character flaw and I routinely apologize for it...
Cheers,
Gus