I've finally got my node running stable, here's the settings I've got.
environment variable:
setx MALLOC_ARENA_MAX 1
bitcoin.conf:
maxconnections=40
rpcthreads=100
blockmaxsize=640000
minrelaytxfee=0.00005
mintxfee=0.00005
limitfreerelay=5
edit:
Looks like I've only extended the period before my node crashes and burns.
edit2:
I'm compiling bitcoin from the github source, maybe this might work...
edit3:
*yawn* I guess I'll come back some time in 2017 when this has completed...
edit4:
This boost library is massive...
try this:
maxconnections=12
minrelaytxfee=0.0005
blockmaxsize=250000
(I know it is not good...but it is only for waiting v 0.12)
"monit" could help you to restart bitcoind if not respond