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561  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: When is best for a player to draw the line? on: March 24, 2024, 03:51:42 PM
You can't tell unless you have had experience in gambling and the experience is what teaches you when to stop. If you sure conversant with winning, your body will understand and if you are conversant with the pain of loss, you will know when it's time to pack your bags and leave the casino or put the phone down. With my experience with sportsbets, if an initial deposit has been made and bets are been stake on and upon seeing the result on my different bets, if my bets give me break even, I don't wory and I try again but if that initial deposit give some good profits, I take out the profits and continue with the same amount of the initial deposits.

However, if my games gives me a minor loss, I wouldn't bother, will continue playing until I win something worth my time but as soon as the initial deposit is affected, I take my love from the betting platform and I don't risk another money even though my brain is trying to convince me that there is a simple game I can make some money from, I don't buy into such temptation, before warn is before harm they say and that's what I do when it come to gambling.

You've got a nice strategy I prefer playing with a specific amount, then whenever there is a fresh win, it means added time to my gambling session. I don't care about the funds; times play a vital role this time. The funds are calculated so that I'll know the amount able to take me till the designated time has been met. So, the wins mean that the session can be enjoyed for extra minutes. Meaning that no funds will be added once the time has been exhausted, instead, I continue gambling with the profits. This allows me to enjoy the fun completely and wouldn't bother playing again till the whole day is over.

Most gamblers find it hard to satisfy themselves with enough fun in gambling, by not gambling for a good period. It's not about the money I'd repeat this, what matters is getting the satisfaction, that the thought of gambling would get us exhausted. Once money has been crafted out for gambling purposes it'll be used for that till we are tired. The wins can also be carried over to the next day. It only takes discipline to maintain such strategies, even yours, which demands that a gambler wouldn't deposit another fund when his designated banking roll has been exhausted.
562  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling mistake repeated by the gamblers on: March 24, 2024, 03:28:35 PM

View gambling as though you are looking at life, problems don't end. Humans keep meeting unique versions of troubles, that keep making life look harder, but deep down it's those obstacles that make the life journey fun. Hence the gambling mistakes that continually occur help gamblers to continue gambling, and not get tired of it. Consider when you are done with a video game and feel like you've mastered it, playing it won't be fun anymore compared to when it gets harder each time you try. Gambling losses happen consistently to make players understand they haven't mastered the game. Hence the house controls it this way to get hold of every gambler's curiosity to win all the time.
For me, I don't have to master it but experiencing fresh mistakes as I gamble is actually a good journey that I'd always remember. It makes me want to improve more with my decisions so that I won't commit mistakes that I have done already. If it's new then I'd accept that and will add that up to the list that I have learned already and won't do it again. Anyway, just enjoy as you gamble and whatever is the outcome of it and when you're creating mistakes. Make sure that they're not going to lose your entire fund.

Do you think that gambling mistakes are limitless? using this strategy you may end up making no further mistakes in gambling. Because having thoughts on this, I was wondering how many mistakes exist in gambling. There could be many ranging from chasing losses to emotional troubles, mood swings, addiction, etc. But if a gambler is able to bypass chasing losses, he may have solved lots of his future gambling mistakes. As gamblers only have to face win or loss. How it came about, is not in our jurisdictions, being inquisitive to correct the losses, is a well-known gambling mistake. Undergoing a process as you do, could lead to mastering yourself towards any possible gambling mistakes, as you may experience them all, and make notes on all gambling mistakes available.

That's why I mentioned mastering it. You can as well expand my horizon on these endless mistakes in your context. At first, I thought you were referring to a mistake repeating itself, but this time getting in check with the mistakes not to repeat them again, got me thinking of newly possible gambling mistakes. But if you enjoy this, it's great. I understand that gambling is unique and different for everyone. Hence, what you experience is quite strange to mine. Take it gradually and stay responsible in all the processes that erupt anytime you gamble.
563  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Try to stick to your instincts as a gambler on: March 24, 2024, 02:52:18 PM
Your narration is exactly what also happen to me before but my own was removing like 3 game which have already started out of my prediction and replaced with 3 other games but in all the 3 I added, 2played together with other games but 1 still cut the game. I was very angry a terrified seing that I lost the game I could have won. And my instincts was telling me to allow the game to continue and I refused. but went ahead and added some games.
As a gambler, there's enough roles to play and risks to be  levelled upon because it's mainly your decision as a vital roles in gambling and most importantly, We're milking from the system back to back, atleast it'd the only evidence that show a gambler to be making huge moves in the market. We're humans and we have instincts and they're very active when it involves the system. Our instincts play a vital role in these our bets, never stop throwing attempts of games because instincts directs us on what to do specifically, making our losing ratio reduced.

Gamblers should learn to respect their instincts to the extent of knowing when to follow them. Because our instincts can work in a tricky way. Whatever side of thought the gambler chooses is his instinct. Imagine if you never played the three games, Pi-network, and they ended up being positive, you'll still blame it on not listening to your instinct. Both thoughts came from the brain, and one must be right and the other wrong. I remember playing a roulette game, one morning, and the same thing happened my instinct suggested I choose red, and I picked black, then the ball stopped at red. If I had chosen red and the ball stopped at black, I would have called it instinct as well.

Hence, in a game of prediction, whenever a player loses, he shouldn't bother about the other thoughts of what he had played, being the right one. The day happened to be different. And the gambler doesn't have any reason to bother over his mistakes. Yes, we have to listen to our instincts, how do we differentiate which one amongst the double thoughts is right? That's the foundation of gambling. When a person is left with two options, he only has the privilege to pick one. Nothing more nothing less. Nearly cannot kill a bird, as gamblers, we have to move on. Swimming in the ocean of regrets and mistakes only leaves the gambler in the past. Instead of focusing on his next game, he'd wander a lot on his past one. Thereby, repeating mistakes in the next game, as he's not prepared to make the right decisions.
564  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Where is the fun when you lose your money? on: March 24, 2024, 02:24:34 PM
Sometimes after making a predictions of 10 games and taking them to your bet, only 1 out of that ten would bring about the loss of the entire game. Though it's painful but that feeling of getting close to making a win is what keep the hopes up and sometimes this can be the fun part where you told a friend that you are not sure of that particular game. Lossing money is not fun in real sense but when you feel like spending some cents rather than using a huge amount then your loses won't even bother you.
How a gambler feels after losing a gamble depends on his bet amount and intention. When someone places a large amount of bet and his intention is that if he can win this bet then he can earn a lot of money from it. then if he loses in gambling it will hurt him a lot and he will never be happy in this case. But if one goes to gambling for fun and bets a small amount maybe $0.1-$2 in this case he will accept it with a smile even if he loses the bet. so gambling is not the same for everyone and has different feelings for different people.  It depends on the intention of every individual

Hearing players complain over losing out on a game due to a single match, makes me wonder why gamblers decide to pick multiple predictions. It's quite much for the player to analyze. I don't think gamblers should recklessly pick games, due to greed. The more it accumulates, the higher the amount. Looking at it, the gambler would add more, hoping to win in all games. That's weird, we all need to understand that a few games work fine. At least a gambler should wager his money on teams he's aware of and focus on analyzing their win and loss history. The fun for the gambler appears when he sees the amount he could win, and wagers. Sadness reappears the moment the results return void. Money has been lost, a huge one at that.

The house will have the best smile on the gambler's loss. But if the player is only wagering a smaller amount, he wouldn't have to feel sad over his losses. The game gets fun for him every single time, and his emotions will remain stable. Nothing is special about feeling sad when gambling. It develops no changes or makes any difference in the game. Instead, the player out of sadness will end up harnessing more losses. A good state of mind helps the thoughts of the gambler to be better. And sadness spoils the mood of a player. He'd have to act faster than he should, in his chase for loss. What is best is enjoying the game, by wagering the amount we are capable of losing.
565  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Try to stick to your instincts as a gambler on: March 23, 2024, 11:49:12 PM
Actually, games like slot machines are play based on intuition or gut feelings rather because their outcomes is usually random with no way for the gamblers to influence the result. For games like sports betting is where your skills and knowledge play important role. Research and analysis is useful in this category of gambling because it gives you additional information on the players or the team entirely to know the strategies to employ and the best options to help you win your bet. However, this doesn't make sports betting more easier than the slot games or guaranteed your winning but it gives you more control of your own bet and of course, increase your chances despite that analysis are not accurate sometimes.
Slot machines are based on luck, so you can't control the outcome. This can make them more exciting but also more addictive. Sports betting is different because you can use your knowledge and research to make smarter bets. This doesn't guarantee you'll win, but it gives you more control and can make the game more fun and strategic. One should always know that all gambling has risks, so it's important to be careful and think clearly before going ahead to gamble, in order to avoid gambling out of hand or gradually leading yourself to addiction.

Gambling, sports, or slots has its downside. Like what Op just felt in sports can occur in slot games as well. But in a different context. Slot game happens in a way the gambler will argue with his instinct on whether to hit the next button or stop. He'd imagine he could win on the next one, then try again, if he wins, he'd want to try again, believing that his idea worked. Although sports gambling allows the gambler time to watch the game without doing any other thing, other than thinking, slots put the gambler on steady thinking and gambling. He has no time to rest, he's free once the session is over. Sports betting and slots seem almost similar, and none is easier than the other.

I understand that knowledge and analytical strength are a plus for sports gamblers, but as you said, it doesn't guarantee a win. Like slots, being a professional doesn't mean you'd win. Gambling in any form can't be understood completely. What led Op to withdraw before the final whistle was blown was self-doubt. He didn't want to lose out completely. He wasn't wrong, he got what he wanted. Additionally, he got greedy when he realized that he could have won more if he left the funds untouched. It's a "had I known, I knew" situation, and the player can think about this for a long period.
566  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling addiction causes loss on: March 23, 2024, 11:35:44 PM
A gambler who has entered the addiction phase is usually quite stubborn, they always claim to others that what they do is "normal and there is no harm", this is the confession of addicted gamblers who do not feel that they are addicted to gambling at all, and this is the reason why gambling addiction is difficult to overcome because this kind of disease is in the brain and mind of a person who has significant ambitions and preferences for gambling activities so that no matter how much you tell them by suggesting anything that leads to change for the better, they will usually ignore it.

Sometimes this situation can also become a problem between you and your friends, and maybe they will think that you are one of those people who interfere too much with other people's business. And I think it is a fact that an addicted person will only be able to stop when they have really felt the downturn that can traumatize them due to excessive gambling involvement, so if for example they do not appreciate your good intentions trying to help them then let it go because in the end time will answer with regret.

I don't think every gambling addict will be opportune to have this rethink without a helping hand. Yes, there are people who after a while of experiencing problem gambling will trace back to their roots seeking help. Pain helps to recuperate the brain. But a times, things happen as you said, the person feels his right on the inside. And people who claim to change his mind, always piss him off, because they don't sound friendly to him, anymore. They want to be left alone to keep chasing their goals. Since we all know that the result of gambling addiction is quite dangerous to society, reaching out to them still helps. It mustn't be about his addictive behavior or trying to get him sad telling him he's doing the wrong things. A quality conversation is a therapy. People want to discuss with those they love, it helps their brain feel better. The goal is to get the player on our side using a quality conversation as a key point.
567  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: The madness of gambling addicts. on: March 23, 2024, 11:26:32 PM
Limitations are a nice idea for gamblers and will help anyone to excel in gambling. The problem revolves around self-control and discipline. Gamblers, find it hard to realize why they can't stick to the limitations they made available for their good and financial stability. However, they forget it's an actively steady action that shouldn't be neglected. Lossing can help a gambler erase his limitations from his thoughts. The urge to continue gambling consistently occurs in the gambler's mind. Hence, he may not get hold of himself anymore, as he needs to get back his funds. Addiction sets in the moment a gambler is no longer in control of his behavior. The addiction level increases gradually, and the player forgets every single financial target he has to practice.

I prefer that naive gamblers get a coach who'll guide them on what to do or not. Gambling urge remains what it is, players need to focus on becoming responsible at all costs. Imagine the pain addiction puts on an entire family or society. It's something we have to be careful about. Playing on our own self-promises can be dangerous, many players have tried this and failed. Read lots of gambling books as a gambler and realized how hard it is to gamble alone, with no mistakes that could lead to addiction. Having a gambling buddy can help us cross-check our behaviors in the form of examining the fresh habits of one another.
Limitation will helps anyone in gambling because they can prevents themselves from using more money and more time to playing gambling and will knows when they must stop playing gambling. Gamblers will realizes that playing gambling doesn't have to be too long as that can makes them lose much money and forget about the limitation. Their financial will not be stable if they already playing gambling from a long time before because they will thinks that gambling is their main things that they must fills. They will not thinks to doing the other things as they already have gambling that can be their focus in their lives. That's why they must always learn and practice about self-control to limits themselves in playing gambling so they don't have a problem later.

A gamblers must knows how to treat gambling properly so they can prevents the trouble and not trying to playing gambling too long as that can makes them difficult to leave gambling. Playing gambling with limitation will helps them to playing gambling without worry with anything and can enjoy gambling as an entertainment. When they face a problem, they can share it to their family and asked for helps so they will have a chance to prevents the addiction because they gets helps from the right person. Their family and friends can be besides them while they are playing gambling and always reminds if they are almost excessively for playing gambling so they can still on their limits.

A family member observing the gambler as though he's a coach can be detrimental to the supervisor if he's a non-gambler. It's more tempting for the non-gambling to try out the game. I think gamblers should be the observers of other players when they're gambling. Putting a non-gambler in this place will only get the person wondering if he should gamble. Especially when the person he's watching plays wins some money. I think that's enough to make him forget his task is monitoring the gambling in his home. Gamblers are meant to be flexible. They need to maintain a good relationship with other players, especially, those who have been experienced in the game. They are always willing to help gamblers with problems to relieve their stress and become better players.

However, it's hard to get them in all localities, but the task of that gambler will be better than a non-gambler. He's used to the game and can't get bothered over any outcome anymore. A family member's duty is more appreciated when he discusses and converses with the gambler to help him feel other aspects of life. I don't feel comfortable allowing a non-addict to see my screen while on a gambling site. I easily switch to another tab. Because he could visit the website, and wager with no prior experience, which may lead him to trouble.
568  Other / Off-topic / Re: Have you won a bet with your last cash? on: March 23, 2024, 11:13:44 PM
The pressure is high when you are down to your last bet, that's why most of us losses because we want to get back immediately so we lose our discipline. However, if we will just follow the proper bankroll management, there's a chance that we will be able to recover because in gambling, losing streak and winning streak are just normal, and we should always be ready when that time comes.

But sometimes that's how people gain strength to bet all they have for thinking that this is their last shot and if they can able to win then its up for them to continue or just pull out there money out of those casinos. But winning is not totally have more higher chance to occur on this since losing will most likely come out especially if we are been so nervous for seeing the possible result and for sure we are bothered then maybe cannot place good bet due to unwanted things that they don't imagine that might happen.

Losing streak or winning streak is normal and its just this matter will depend on how a person can handle their situation since and they should be more prepared on something like this to happen since taking decisions will matter depends on what they want to happen on that scenario.

Yes, whatever outcome a gambler faces he should be prepared to receive it and act accordingly. Not everyone would be comfortable having a losing streak without feeling the pain. The same applies to gamblers who are lucky to hit a winning streak, they could get carried away with the belief that the streak is not yet over and lose out in a big way. I think Casino has thought the game till the end. Whatever a player faces win or lose, the house is well prepared. Imagine, most gamblers still don't know how the house benefits from the winning streaks. Winning guarantees the house that a gambler will be back soon to try again. Hitting a winning streak, and possessing no control over the decision to make, is as good as not having it in the first instance. It'll all disappear.

A winning streak could be a straight-up win for 4 consecutive times. It's enough to convince a player that his gambling strategy is the best. He'd try it next time, and always, tried to convince people to try his strategy. I've read a thread of a member who tried to talk down other players for trying his strategy. Maybe he had some winning streaks and thinks it'll be that way for long. Those experiences do, not often. The house designs them to deceive players with a weak self-control skill. Thereby getting them to gamble over their limits and expected wagering amount. As they'll need to take advantage of this opportunity, not knowing it's a trap. Gambling is fun, however.
569  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Rich or poor gambler, who should risk more? on: March 23, 2024, 10:59:07 PM

Both responsible and irresponsible gamblers consist of high and low rollers. No cheap gambler, gamers can't be tagged poor, it's better called low rollers, as we can't determine for sure who's poor, indeed. A rich player can decide to be a low roller and a poor high roller. That is gambling above his income. Hence, the attitudes of these sets of people must differ, gamblers who are irresponsible have the same behavior regardless of their financial status, same as the irresponsible players. We all know what happens when one chooses to be irresponsible in gambling. If he's rich, he could end up poor as you said. Risk in this context means who gambles with a huge amount of money. A poor person can't afford to wager a huge amount, but what makes him a high roller, can be a low rolling for a rich player.

So, the risk for a person who doesn't possess lots of money could be going the extra mile by borrowing, illegal businesses, to raise money for gambling. However, trying to match this context of reason can be difficult in terms of behavior and type of gambler. Looking at the perspective of a rich player who chasing losses, is he actually in need of the money or addicted to the behavior? He's rich and may not be seriously on the lookout for more, to the extent of chasing losses. He could wager a huge amount and wait for another time to gamble. Unless he wants to go broke, then chasing losses while wagering huge amounts will take him there. Gambling is a risk for everyone, and the amount we wager doesn't define whether we are rich or poor in real life.

Well actually we don't have to bring someone's background in problem gambling because after all it all depends on how the approach they have on gambling which is simply that if for example they have the wrong approach and that is not recommended then obviously the impact will be very bad, and maybe we can only see them from their responsibility or I mean whether they are responsible or not and how they treat their gambling activities, this is outside of being poor or rich and more like whether they put something that they can be responsible for or not.

Rich or poor at the end of the day it's the same and I think the scenario of some of the actions that they would take would not be much different if they were the irresponsible gamblers and in terms of the impact it would be the same and maybe the only difference would be the timing of who would be worse off sooner. However, risk is never indiscriminate, or in other words, the possibility of risk in gambling will never see your background, rich or poor still have the same possibility but maybe with a different amount of loss.

Think of a well-connected rich irresponsible gambler, his problem gambling can be settled easily by his acquittances. But a player who is not connected and financially stable will suffer his problems alone with fewer people concerned to help. That's the only difference I can recur that makes being rich and connected as an addict, better than not having enough funds and connection. I do ask myself, who will be there for me when things go wrong? It's an excellent self-question as a gambler. It's not just trying to follow the ways of the high rollers, or knowing who is taking the most risk. Every action must be thought about to the cure before we take an action. It's not an easy thing, but putting in the right work and choice is worth it.

The high rollers can easily fall back on his people, and they'll fund him more money. Unlike a player who has little or none to offer financially, he'd lose out lots of friends, if he had any, and be left with nothing. A player who is not close to his family is expected to crosscheck all these, before trying to engage in gambling risks. Anything can happen to any gambler, hence having an escape plan is just as crucial as having the game plan. Getting caught up in gambling addiction is quite very painful and regretful. The world has changed and lots of people are depressed, being in a more severe condition as gambling addiction, in a time like this is very disturbing and dreadful. Players must be observant of the world around them, to know their next move.
570  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: While placing bet what comes your mind on: March 23, 2024, 10:44:56 PM
Very funny feeling that have pesuaded many into exusting they entire bankroll within a shortest time frame and at that you will losing everything at once, and I will like to ask you.

Did you follow that mind telling you to increase your bet amount and there after increasing it?

Secondly how did it go, did you win the bet or you lost?

Many times I have been a victim of myself when I allow greed take over me to the point that is stake up all my entire place.
This is something I have seen when my friends played on gambling sites. Yes, when they lose, other friends will say immediately follow the defeat, because it is possible to get a big win. And when they win, they will usually say to increase the bet amount because each round is getting better. And when my friend followed those words, I saw him receive double losses and when he won he lost his winnings.

I don't think it's good to listen to other people's words, whatever happens we have to stick to the gambling we usually do, whether we lose or win. When people say that to us, we don't know what they mean, it could be that they want to see us lose by a lot, and if we win they want to see that victory turn into defeat.

Several times I saw the same thing when they were gambling, one person would try to get those playing hot and the other would try to influence those who were playing. Indeed, this seems to have become a style of joke in my environment, but it's still not good to follow what they say.

Gamblers are to learn from the mistakes of others, but they let themselves get moved by the thoughts and contributions of problem gamblers. Those distractions easily push the player to try what has never been on his mind. I prefer gambling around professionals whose concerns are centered on making strategies, that improve responsible gambling. No need to meddle with players who don't acknowledge the troubles gambling could cause to society. Those who, personally, get the thought to wager high amounts, only require working on their game. And make changes to the time and place they've chosen to gamble.

Behaviors can be influenced by the activities one worries or thinks about at a given time. Playing at a quiet moment is effective when the gambler has enough concentration to search his consciousness to see if his inner mind is suggesting nice ideas. No need to follow it. Sticking to our strategies will make the gambler switch his thoughts to himself, and the inner mind's decision will be completely dependent on the gambler's thoughts and decisions. Sometimes we act but feel it wasn't our initial idea. That's true, yet we have the energy to moderate such behaviors or thoughts. Unrealistic ideas shouldn't get executed. Gamblers must stay careful.
571  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: When you are not to gamble. on: March 23, 2024, 10:31:23 PM
Gambling cannot be fun because I know quite well that gambling has to deal with loss and profit, the people that I can believe that the gambling is to catch a cruise or entertainment for them is people that is rich because they are different between poor people thinking and rich people thinking they reach person come overlook everything by concerns a little money, a poor man cannot overlook anything to deal with the money because it mentality is different from a rich man mentality so a rich man gamble to catch fun a poor man gambling in order to met itself rich because it believe that the gambling is one of its source of income

I agree with you, gambling is not supposed to be fun for those people who gamble just for the sake of winnings and profit, this is applicable to some average person who gamble because of considering it as a part of their income but when it comes to those rich people, gambling is really just a fun for them but with a mix of some business things of course! because they do this as one of their stress reliever but some of them are frugal when it comes to betting because just like a typical business tycoons, they think very well and they have a practical mindset before doing such things so I must say, it depends to the level of thinking of a person, it doesn't matter of you're an average or rich person.

Gamblers are better off to be frugal and extravagant at some point. But the challenge remains the fact that gamblers are not equipped with the energy or strength to maintain their actions, when extravagant. Although everyone expects us to stay frugal at all times, a bit of risky moves could be worth it, when done at the right moment. Figuring out the moment when we are not meant to gamble is also an added strength to the gambler. It facilitates the gambling ability of a gambler. Such that he doesn't play at any given time, even when he's not in the mood. The moment a gambler has developed the feeling of chasing losses, he can stop gambling for the moment and focus on other activities that'll help him stay relevant emotionally.

How then can this be achieved? through continual self-examination. It'll help the gambler to move further in finding out his real behavior. He'll be able to figure out what gambling makes him do, whether he's in control or being controlled. The period a gambler is under control and maintains his gambling behavior, he'd have more fun. Struggling emotionally as a gambler is quite troublesome for the financial growth of a player. Losses embrace the player and upgrade to issues to depression. Where he'd have to blame himself for some of his mistakes. Undergoing such internal troubles is not worth it as a gambler. It makes the player feel he's not designated to achieve his gambling goals.
572  Other / Off-topic / Re: Dont chase your loss on: March 23, 2024, 10:12:59 PM
The issue of chasing loses is sometime that comes due to emotions especially when you might have lost money on several occasions.
Chasing of loses usually leads to incurring more losses, Though on a normal case everyone would want to recover a lost game and it really not an easy stuff to just let go because we are talking about money here, it's natural that no one would want to let their money just go, this is where discipline and self control comes into play in gambling.
Right, Emotion kill a man slowly, It's work like slow poison. Emotions are very bad things. when people become emotional they lose control over themselves and then they don't know the difference between right and wrong. they keep gambling as their main objective and think that there is nothing better in their life than gambling. so emotions have to be kept under control first and if emotions are under control everything else can be controlled

Gamblers always tag some disputes towards emotional behavior, that's great, most people undergo a lack of self-control, while gambling. And multiple factors influence this behavior, it's not just if the person has chased lots of losses. The life situation of the gambler can lead him to emotional troubles or stress. Then when he gets to gambling, he wouldn't have any left to manage his games. The whole vibe gets bad, and players will have to regret their actions. It's only that gamblers blame gambling as the primary cause of their emotional dispute. Yet, tracing it down, you'd realize the player has been facing a real challenge that restricts his happiness. Closely observing the attitudes of therapists, they tend to know the upbringing of such a gambler. It then helps them hold a meaningful conversation with the gambler. Neglecting the right cause of the emotional problems delays the healing process of the gambler. Thereby making him feel that nobody can help him heal. Most often it's not the gambler's fault. However, it's important to figure out the cause of our problems. Such a practice is better than just circulating those who blame gambling alone.
573  Other / Off-topic / Re: Keeping your gambling habit a secret. on: March 23, 2024, 07:20:37 PM
My life experience shows that not everything that happens in your life should be told to someone. There are things of a personal nature, and if you don’t want to talk about them, then that’s your own business. But there are some cases when you cannot remain silent about your passion for gambling, if, for example, a person gets married, then his spouse should know about such things, over time he will find out anyway, because God makes everything secret obvious, and this is a serious issue that can affect the entire family's well-being

Of course not every stranger should not that you gamble. You dont even have to tell it yourself to others. But my idea is not to keep it in secret on purpose. There is no need to do it when nobody is at home only. If asked what your are doing or if you gamble - answer honestly. There is no need to have a special secret bank account to gamble with that money only (but it might help to those who cant control their finances). There is no need to clean browsing history straight after gambling and etc. If asked by family of friends - answer honestly. They wont judge, and they dont have right to judge you.

Concealing our gambling habits is only effective and acknowledged, for safeguarding non gamblers. Not everyone is capable of discussing gambling without being subjected to gambling someday, secretly, or openly. On other notes, gamblers are free and not outlaws. There'll be no need to hide their gambling habits. I prefer letting people know, over bottling it up. When nobody is aware, gambling awareness won't be achieved. A player can lose his awareness, but a close friend can help revive him. Condemnation and arguments instantly start, some friends cutting us out and adding salt to our game, letting others know that we gamble. These factors have led most gamblers to focus on the game, and not discuss it with anybody.

It's a self-determination, players own their life and time here. I don't think convincing anyone on what to do, when they didn't ask for our help, is a wasted effort. That is, a player who is comfortable concealing his gambling habit, isn't doing any wrong. What is most crucial is staying responsive. I've never seen where both factors keeping it a secret or not, changed the gambling behavior of the gambler. Both types of players can get addicted. Aside from addiction, third-party contributions don't count. Everyone has their purpose for any action they commit. Nobody controls the impulse of being bullied with our money.
574  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling can bring positivity and light into people's lives on: March 23, 2024, 07:00:51 PM
The first mentioned on Op's list, winning jackpots, has deceived millions of naive gamblers to get into problem gambling. It's possible to win the money, but not always easy to control and maintain the funds. A new gambler who has not been wealthy, made rich in a few days will easily fall back to poverty, compared to a wealthy player. Sudden riches help a gambler achieve the fantasies in his brain. He'd want to immediately get whatever he once dreamt of, and most of the items on their Wishlist wouldn't contribute to fetching them consistent money. They'll look out for methods to fasten the growth of the funds, as it drastically dwindles, each day. Emotional stress or pains may develop in the process of achieving these goals. And watching the funds get down at a fast pace, leaves the gambler restless.

He'd gamble profusely, till the money was gone. Life changes for the person indeed, but it could be for worse. Paying for properties that he can't maintain will be bad. Once the money is gone, the player is faced with responsibilities that are too difficult for him to condone. Hence, gambling is quite too wide, and people shouldn't consider only playing for money. Being inquisitive adds to a player's confusion when he wins big. He never thought about what would be next after winning big. What will the money change in my life? How does it affect the lifestyle? Will they find themselves in trouble through this change? Holding money without long-term mastery leads to transient riches. The person will only perform best in squandering the funds.
575  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Where is the fun when you lose your money? on: March 23, 2024, 06:39:07 PM
I considered gambling for fun to be the same as going to a bar and spending a few dollars to have a good time, and back then I often did it on the weekends with friends.
And now when I feel bored I turn to online gambling which I like to play on the weekends for just a few dollars, and I don't think much about the winnings even though they sometimes exist. Because the most important thing for me is that I can enjoy the game with my capital of only a few dollars and if it runs out I stop. And if I win I will also stop so that I can enjoy it no matter how big it is, and most importantly I can feel like I am enjoying the game.
Gambling for fun is the things that we must do to prevents the problems such as addictions that many people already had in gambling. It is okay to spends some dollars and have a good time because that's what we do when we wants to playing gambling in our spare time. But not many people can do this because many people still used more money to playing gambling and they are trying to chase the wins even if they already losses before. They change their reason for playing gambling from having fun to making money which is difficult to gets. If you wants to limits your gambling activity, you must have the other activity so you can used that activity besides of playing gambling. Your minds will not thinks about playing gambling when you are in your spare time because you will thinks to do the other activity.

Healthy gambling also includes calculated wagering on games to the player's satisfaction. However, it's not guaranteed that one would be satisfied whenever he gambles. But the few days a gambler feels like he got what he wanted, helps in balancing the interest of gamblers. Most gamblers stay limited for a long time without trying a few minutes of high wager. It all depends on the gambler's behavior and what they need. Some can maintain the new steps and stop after trying the high wager method. Without affecting their spending limit. The mistake happens when a gambler then forgets that he's meant to shortly try wagering high, and retreat, unapologically, to his low wagering habit. So, they lose it easily and run after the big money. Gamblers don't feel that urge after losing out few cents or unit dollars. Hence, the greed isn't controlled.

It's not wrong to up the amount, taking it above our capacity is quite wrong. Thereby risking the habit of the gamblers. Sometimes the casino could offer a win after wagering big, that'll be a nice amount of money, but the fun could be erased after realizing that nothing is left to go home with. Hence, the fun isn't for such a gambler. But a player who doesn't make this his principal aim of gambling feels happy to test out his fresh strategies. He rarely thinks of where his money went and chasing it is the last idea on his mind. In a nutshell, the analytical gamblers who focus on achieving happiness through gambling will get what they want. What a player has in mind while gambling affects his behavioral end product.
576  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling until you go totally broke on: March 23, 2024, 06:15:51 PM
I asked him what happened? What the sudden need for financial assistance? He tried lying (I noticed from his turn) but later, he opened tell me that he had some funds on him which could possibly have sustained him until this month ending to get his salary, but he didn't know what came over him, he went to a casino last night and in the process of trying out one and two games, he gambled and lost every single penny on him, and now, he has nothing to fall back on for the few days remaining before he gets his salary for the month of March.
He got broke as a matter of gambling with greed. How can someone gamble till he lost his sences of reason of not knowing when to stop. I think that is the baisic problem of gamblers they always want to win big by chasing after loses, and end up becoming broke to the extent of depending on people or friends to survive. I guest he may have learnt his lessons this time. For me I think you should have just given him some money despite you knew he was lieying about the rent issue, then tell him never to do such again let it now be on his head.


Giving him money has double meaning between these two friends. On one side the Op gets worried about what he'd end up doing with the money. If his friend's addiction gets worse, he'd have to blame himself for sending out arms to him. Lending him money is like offering him money. It'll be difficult for the addict to think of paying back his debt. However, the addict may be reaching out for financial assistance to everyone he's ever known. What is most crucial to gamblers is having money to satisfy their gambling urge. However, if his friend, the Op, didn't send out the money, his friend could have an alternative on who's next. I think it's confusing on the side to pick on such a situation. What Op did, seems right to him, for some reasons, which include that he's a friend to the addict. But the right thing is checking up on him. It's funny he wouldn't use the money to grab food or other utilities. He'd wager them.

Hence, his journey of financial help isn't a short one. Once he bypasses this level of financial stress for a few days, he gets used to this and ends up finishing his salaries earlier every month. Within him, he's gone through this and will next time. No way everyone would understand what he's doing. People do this out of addiction. And due to the actions of addicts who wager all their money till they end up broke, my idea on Op's friends was generated. If he's not able to take care of this earlier, it could affect his progress financially. So, Op has other jobs to do, like calling him once in a while to exercise his mental capacity, and then help him deal with it if such troubles erupt again. New mistakes occur each day. Gamblers need a guide.
577  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling mistake repeated by the gamblers on: March 22, 2024, 09:18:58 PM
Normal things can happen with the urge to win
but mistakes definitely exist and are repeated continuously by gamblers.
And losing is also normal and that's why most mistakes are repeatedly done because many of the gamblers sees things normally as if losing is part of daily lives which is true. As the losses have been accepted and expected, there will be mistakes that shall be stopped and learned but new forms of these mistakes can come out again like it has never done before. It is the cycle of doing mistakes, learning from it and on top of that, another mistake comes.

I agree with the idea of continuously experiencing fresh mistakes. Gambling is a continuous process, and we must find ourselves making mistakes. One can't master the process, because the losses keep appearing. Hence, gamblers will definitely feel like newbies at some point in their everyday gambling sessions. Embracing the mistakes and learning ways to cut them down, is better. What matters is figuring out the best idea for dealing with these mistakes? It's not the gambler's fault to feel happy after a win for instance and want to wager more in celebration of his wins. The professionals, even, get greedy while gambling, the difference is that they tend to level it and not abuse the greed. It's natural for humans to get greedy at some point. Especially when money is involved.

View gambling as though you are looking at life, problems don't end. Humans keep meeting unique versions of troubles, that keep making life look harder, but deep down it's those obstacles that make the life journey fun. Hence the gambling mistakes that continually occur help gamblers to continue gambling, and not get tired of it. Consider when you are done with a video game and feel like you've mastered it, playing it won't be fun anymore compared to when it gets harder each time you try. Gambling losses happen consistently to make players understand they haven't mastered the game. Hence the house controls it this way to get hold of every gambler's curiosity to win all the time.
578  Other / Off-topic / Re: Have you won a bet with your last cash? on: March 22, 2024, 08:55:11 PM
In many occurrences it's alarming how people win big on their last wager. The person due to the fun, doesn't think of stopping, unless determined. This rarely happen, and players do lose their last cash. Although it shows a strong urge to take the last shot, yet gamblers need to review the risks. What happens next after winning or losing the game, should be an embraced question for every gambler, who intends to take this step. Will he have to trek, long distant, before he gets home. Or wager his wins again, till it exhausts, or go home with enough funds to take a ride. Those are three different occurrences attached to such a prediction. The player needs to show he's ready to face the obstacles. When the last cash wins money, what will it bring to the gambler? More stress or rest? Gamblers are troubled with lots of factors, making it difficult for a gambler to stay steadily aware of what could happen with him and his funds.
A gambler can lose their lasts cash but if he can accept the results he gets in gambling, he will not have too worry about his lasts cash. He will considers that is the lasts shot before he quit gambling and will not think much about that. If many gamblers can do that and don't thinks about the outcomes, they will not have to feel too sad because they already knows the risks. Besides that, it's just a gambling which have two options, win or lose and he will place his lasts money. But if he can wins with his last cash, that will be a surprised for him because he can winning before he go home. But a gambler must thinks about how he go to home if his last cash is the lasts money that he have and lose his money. If that is the cases, he must not place a bet because he can't go home without money. But if he go to casino with his friends, he will not have to worry.

It's bad to begin what we can't finish. Such a gambling habit can be dangerous when it registers in the brain of the gambler, he could try it next time. Not doing it is better than taking the risk. The win will be quite small and won't be worth it, since it's the player's last cash. In this context, last cash means transport fare. Hence, the amount is not big enough to fetch the gambler a big win. So, moving away with the fund is more cool than putting ourselves in emotional trouble, when next we try it and don't win. Humans, definitely, will repeat what they've done in the past. This means the gambler will soon develop this feeling that gambling his last cash is fine and acceptable.

He could get addicted to doing this and going all-in immediately. It's the worst form of addiction, going all-in immediately, which means whatever money the gambler takes to the casino will be considered his last cash, as he'd wager it all at once. Not saying, Op will get to this level, but a thousand-mile journey requires only a single step. It's of no importance, joking with our emotions and last cash. Luckily, Op was able to end the gambling session after winning, some gamblers would see it as an added time to gamble. Then lose out both the wins. If the gambler visits the casino with a friend, what would be his/her fate when alone in the casino, and the behavior already controls him relentlessly?
579  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Gambling addiction causes loss on: March 22, 2024, 08:22:07 PM
Whatever I will be suggesting to your friend for sure he won't listen. He didn't even listened to you when you've explained that he's addicted.

That's how it is going to be with those gamblers that are seriously addicted already. No suggestion will be good to them because what they are listening with is only themselves.

They can't admit that they're heavy gamblers and they're losing a lot and have been doing crazy things just to gamble.

No way, do you expect an addict to quit fronting on his addictive behavior, he'll definitely lie and bottle it up. The healing work is on others to help the addict, as he, indeed needs it. Don't mind his strange action, it looks like he doesn't want to help hands. Neglecting them won't be the right choice, working on ways to help change the addict is better than watching him misbehave. While they listen to themselves alone, sooner they'll want to talk to somebody. Deep down, they'll try to save themselves from the attitude, since they personally got into addiction, their self-consciousness will make them believe it's possible to come out with nobody's help. I think that's the main purpose behind why they avoid helpers.

Due to their psychology being affected, they wouldn't make it out alone. That's why sometimes a gambler will decide to open up and reach out for help. Which remains the best time to help an addict. When he's in need of it because he wants it and is tired of the lifestyle. In your context is fine to give them a space. But, to some extent, it's risky, as their attitude can get worse when left unattended. Staying in touch with the gambler helps revive his brain towards changing. Addiction isn't interesting for anyone, seeing his acquittances talk to him, will make him think of being like his unaddicted friends. Sooner, he'd confide with them and seek for help. When neglected he may not try talking to anyone. Thereby stressing his brain, on saving himself.
580  Economy / Gambling discussion / Re: Rich or poor gambler, who should risk more? on: March 22, 2024, 07:55:34 PM
I agree with you, that makes sense too. because every person has a different financial situation, and in my opinion this also depends on the gambler's approach to gambling, because even though their finances are bad, if they have a strong approach to gambling because they are chronically addicted then they will gamble even though They don't have good finances, but if they are seriously addicted then it is very likely that they will force themselves to continue gambling by doing anything that can make money for gambling.

That's true, indeed gambling will only end with two possibilities, namely winning or losing, but in my opinion what will happen more often is that the end of gambling is losing. We have to be aware of that, because it's true what you said is that the possibility cannot be guaranteed in the end, but with gambling the only thing that can be guaranteed is defeat.

Good point, we'll leave aside the rich or poor bit and it's true that it all still depends on how they approach gambling, if it's basically as you say that they have a strong ambition and enthusiasm for gambling along with some addictive mindset then it doesn't matter if they're poor they're still going to treat gambling with an aggressive approach, and the point is rich or poor if you have the wrong approach to gambling then obviously the rich are going to be poor and the poor might sacrifice their lives just for one spin based on luck.

One of the reasons why losses are more common than wins is because casinos apply a larger percentage of losses than wins, and I think it's a natural thing because after all this is a business for casinos which as we often hear that overall wins are actually only for the casino itself in the long run, and gamblers only get occasional wins that come by "chance" and also those that depend on luck, this is the reason why you can lose more if you basically put seriousness because all wins are nothing more than "possibilities".

Both responsible and irresponsible gamblers consist of high and low rollers. No cheap gambler, gamers can't be tagged poor, it's better called low rollers, as we can't determine for sure who's poor, indeed. A rich player can decide to be a low roller and a poor high roller. That is gambling above his income. Hence, the attitudes of these sets of people must differ, gamblers who are irresponsible have the same behavior regardless of their financial status, same as the irresponsible players. We all know what happens when one chooses to be irresponsible in gambling. If he's rich, he could end up poor as you said. Risk in this context means who gambles with a huge amount of money. A poor person can't afford to wager a huge amount, but what makes him a high roller, can be a low rolling for a rich player.

So, the risk for a person who doesn't possess lots of money could be going the extra mile by borrowing, illegal businesses, to raise money for gambling. However, trying to match this context of reason can be difficult in terms of behavior and type of gambler. Looking at the perspective of a rich player who chasing losses, is he actually in need of the money or addicted to the behavior? He's rich and may not be seriously on the lookout for more, to the extent of chasing losses. He could wager a huge amount and wait for another time to gamble. Unless he wants to go broke, then chasing losses while wagering huge amounts will take him there. Gambling is a risk for everyone, and the amount we wager doesn't define whether we are rich or poor in real life.
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