If I understand correctly the OP is wondering what makes bitcoins valuable.
The closest thing to bitcoin is gold, if you exclude using gold in jewelry [which is mostly to show it off], bitcoin and gold are similar in many ways.
Compare bitcoins to gold ingots, they turn out to be similar in many ways:
-Both are rare and limited in the world.
-Both require effort to produce.
-Both can be traded anonymously and are accepted as payment methods in many places.
-Both have no way of reversing the payment unless the person who received them willingly sends them back.
-Both have a deflating value, not really deflating but rather than the money we use is inflating
The money we use now is originally used as a replacement for gold, I think the old US Dollar had something that says you can refund the money to gold anytime you want.
TL;DR version: bitcoin is the new gold