Thanks guys, I did use an online wallet service, and it dictates the fees (I can't really change it). My first transaction (to another address) went through in a few minutes. This one is still stuck for about 52 hours now.
I tried sending BTC to my daughter, and after more than 2 days, it is still unconfirmed. Did I put enough fees, because I thought I followed the recommended fees.
If a miner can just help confirm/unstuck this, thanks so much.