We will need to resolve it sometime. I have a feeling we will be stuck in a deadlock for a couple of years more until some devs come to their senses and create a compromise. My advice would be to stay neutral in te forks.
I agree the future of block chain is distributing threw put fairly and increasing decentralization at the same time. Hopefully while creating place for smaller players, therefor playing on the systems strengths. Often when two parties disagree greatly the solution is in the middle. Ultimately the problem with this is, as it always is, that people will not easily go down a path that they think will harm them in any way. Even it represents the greater good of the community. However only threw destruction are we recreated so just as BTC nicked the old financial system. perhaps that outer fith on either side should be abandoned.