i am electrum wallet retarded i had some sentto my wallet at first it said something about unconfirmed parent so i wentto the option of child to parent whatever raised the fees and it went through and my balance showed everything was there..next day i open my wallet and it says unverified and my balance says synchronzing..i am using the portable version...50 usd went through fine no problems the higher amount said unconfirmed parent then i moved up the fee(through teh child to parent option thing) and it went right through balance showed everything......now this morning  is still saying unverfied remember im very new to this so anyone who can explain what i can do in lamens terms id appreciate possibly even give a small amount of bitcoin to for service i have alot