I tried all sorts of combinations of addnodes listed on this forum, and also on coin exchange for several days over a period of a couple of weeks - none of them connect only 2 of the nodes answer and one is an icmp redirect (filtered) and the other is an unreachable.  I think that there are so few clients open and they are all on dynamic ip's.

If several of you put your current nodes on posts,  I will sync up,  and then publish on a permanent ip address - so then we have a known ip address that will always work to get seeds from.