First off, I'm sorry for what's happening with your family, cancer really is a terrible thing. As far as facebook goes, I'm only friends with around 70 people and a large portion of them are family. So, that's not really a good target audience for asking for help. As far as donating to your cause, I have nothing to donate. I've always been the person to donate when I'm able. Unfortunately, as you should know, medical bills are extremely costly and have left us entirely broke. You personally may choose not to talk about it here, but I am in the off-topic forum and I don't believe I'm violating any sort of rule here. So, please take your criticism of what I'm trying to do for my family somewhere else. If you don't want to help, then don't, no one is twisting your arm here. I leave you with a story as to why helping individuals is better than trying to help everyone with a charity.
The famous story of the boy and the starfish shows why using charity to fix
individual problems can be very valuable.
Once upon a time, a man walking along a beach saw a boy picking up starfish and throwing them into the sea.
He asked the boy why he was throwing starfish into the sea.
The boy replied, "The tide is going out. If I don't throw them in, they'll dry up and die."
The man smiled patronisingly and said, "But, there are miles of beach and thousands of starfish on every mile. You can't possibly make a difference!"
The boy smiled, bent down, picked up another starfish, and threw it into the sea.
"Well," he said, "I made a difference for that one."
from
http://www.bbc.co.uk/ethics/charity/against_1.shtml