I don't see Kickstarter enabling BTC anytime soon, as they're still stuck on a single credit card gateway. And yeah, I too worried about getting ripped off. Not as easy to file a chargeback and/or dispute without a bank to fight for you.

IgnitionDeck is a WordPress crowdfunding plugin that offers a Bitcoin Crowdfunding gateway: http://IgnitionDeck.com/id/bitcoin-crowdfunding

Name is Nathan Hangen, and I'm the co-founder of Virtuous Giant, a web development company. Our main product is the IgnitionDeck WordPress crowdfunding plugin, which supports bitcoin payments. We really like Bitcoin because of its digital nature, and because of the way fees are calculated. Essentially, zero middlemen.

http://ignitiondeck.com/id/bitcoin-crowdfunding/

After being asked by dozens of Bitcoin fans, we built a Bitcoin payment gateway for the IgnitionDeck crowdfunding plugin: http://ignitiondeck.com/id/bitcoin-crowdfunding/. It runs on WordPress and is self-hosted, in the event you want to customize your campaign.

Right now we're using the Blockchain API to convert currency into Bitcoin and to manage the payment tracking, but I'd be curious to hear which wallets and/or Bitcoin commerce solutions you trust/use most?

I've been playing with Coinbase, which I also like, but it seems very young.