transaction id: 0f68d3aea56ad8258e2d51d339f39bea8e3fd595572edf9334b2154248557219
sender/receiver: both
addresses: 1Jt2zoENJmUTjs1a8cL7MoWuds62kWPnFx is my address(sending), 1BqAMyFLfSegiSwDcBDXnjZxDPKn2axoyn is also my address(receiving)
wallet software: electrum on Debian
mempool: yes, i have checked http://www.mocacinno.com/page/getraw, entered my transaction id, and i was shown the raw transaction, so this transaction is in your mempool
something strange: no, i have checked for unconfirmed parents, dust outputs and double spends on blockchain.info, and could not find any anomalies.
rectified situation: God yes in the future I will always crosscheck the wallet default fee with the recommended current fee (fairly new to all this and didnt know the default would bone me) and will even add a little to it
as the trying every accelerator every time i can (viabtc every hour) and checking if it has finally been confirmed all the time is causing some serious anxiety.
tip: not yet, once i am able to get more btc or if there is a different way i can tip (paypal if you could contact me this would be the best way) I most certainly will. What you are doing is amazing
for someone new like me that has ran into this problem for the first and last time.