Thank everyone for your replies. I am using this as a nice learning moment. I was going to do some electrum magic had this not confirmed before I head out this morning. Nothing like a little delay to make someone a quick learner.

I appreciate everyone taking the time to drop some knowledge on me.

I found some reviews elsewhere that had nothing bad to say about it. I thought it was a bit too cheap. I did not get a refund from the accelator no. Nor a reply. I am assuming thats btc gone gone gone.

It was chump change in the long run.

I am about to leave on a trip so I may just pull the trigger on btc.com.  at the end of the week once I am back. I hear they are legit. They want $54 to accelerate it though.

I did hear back from bitcloak. they are going to look at it again and see if there is anything they can do to help

I just used ConfirmTX and used their pay service. They only wanted $5.00 to accelerate and if not confirmed within 3 days gives a free acceleration

http://confirmtx.com/

Suggestions as to trusted sites I could use?

Yea and my paid acceleration didn't seem to work from the member through here. Its still unconfirmed. I checked some of the prices from sites quoted above. $65 to press what is now less than $200 transaction isn't equitable.

I feel like I may be done with bitcoin for now and moving on to sites to accept something else.

I am the sender of the coin sending it to another wallet I have on some other site. 

I sent the coin from my electrum wallet. Unfortunately I had to lower the fee to get the right amount I wanted shipped as the fees had gone up so incredibly high. I just wasn't aware. I figured it would be ok and had no idea it would delay the confirmation by days if at all lol

I ran this on sunday evening.. still nothing.. Maybe my fee was too low? I paid to have it accelerated yesterday afternoon and nada.. any thoughts other than patience?

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Yea I did the tumble through bitcloak

I have contacted them and also contacted quickseller here to see if there is anything either of them can do, even if I need to pay a fee that is fine.

Any other suggestions?

Perhaps just wait a few days and let it drop off them attempt to rebroadcast at a higher free?

Did a transaction yesterday with some bitcoin.  I really only use it several times a year.  Since I have last used it helix has gone and fees are out of the roof. Mind you I am only doing a several hundred dollar transaction.

I did tumble the coins but the places now cost so much I stupidly lowered my fee so I had enough to send.

The result?

15 hours and still not confirmed on the receiving end and probably won't be.

Of course viabtc says transaction i.d. does not exist though I can find it on blockchain and I have screen shots..

Then I start doing research..seems I discovered a bit too late the folly of my ways and the fact that the dynamics of the bitcoin market for low level transactions has changed drastically