I won't continue because you're right, this is not a mental health line.
In conclusion, I will only say that it was you who started, and now it is not logical and abrupt that you change your position, saying "continue elsewhere."

If you didn't like the message "WenMingHappy" - you could just keep silent from the very beginning and not respond to the message of this "WenMingHappy".
But since you answered him, you should have acted softer.
That is, the principle is very simple - either do it kindly, or don't do it at all.
I already said that I understand that you probably sincerely wanted to support this person, and I said that since you started doing this, you should have done it softer, trying not to offend the confused person with prickly harsh words.
A truly courageous person is usually also a noble and merciful person and fights without speaking out loud about his bravery.

But it's not for me to judge you.
Just as you should not condemn other people, and you should not say offensive words, which you again allow in your last post.

For my part, I apologize if I offended you.
I did not want to offend anyone, but just wanted to remind people to be kinder and more forgiving towards each other.

In fact, in responding to your post, I addressed everyone, not just you personally.

Well, let's continue the discussion about the methods of finding a solution.
I have been reading this forum thread for a long time.
It's just that I usually don't enter into discussions, limiting myself to reading.

I want to express my support and sympathy to you!
Don't despair, you are not alone!

The sun is still shining, the sky is still beautifully blue!
And most importantly, your loving wife and children are by your side.
And they love you and will love you no matter what, loving you the way you are!

Remember the words of the oath during the wedding, when the newlyweds say to each other the words about how to "love each other in illness, and in sorrow, and in poverty and poverty .."?
Well, this seems to be just such a period in your life.
But please don't despair, friend!
This difficult period will definitely end and God will surely give you a reward for your patience!

Be patient!
In the meantime, go to the temple, or just pray to God.
Reach out to loved ones for support and comfort.
Also try now during this difficult period to be in nature more often, to take walks in the fresh air.

And if you can't make money, try to at least temporarily change jobs - at least you can even just work in a taxi for now. This will distract you from sad thoughts, and at the same time give you at least some income for the first time!

But most importantly, don't despair.
And stop thinking about "turning yourself off"!
In the end, it is better to endure sorrows here on Earth, but then to be in Paradise for enduring these sorrows and failures!

Yes, you know how to "support" a person ...
Most likely you wanted to support a person, but you do it by mixing sugar and salt.
Instead of speaking words of support and consolation, you simply finish off the person with your cruel term "coward".
But you can not call a coward a person who is now hard.

Many of us have moments in life when failure follows failure and it seems that a person no longer has the strength to get out of this black streak.
And at such moments it is very important to find a friend or just any other person who will support and encourage someone who is having a hard time and who is in despair.

But do you really think that calling a desperate person a coward is a productive method that will help him rise and get out of trouble?!
If you think this way and consider it as a friendly participation, then, as they say, with such “friends” you don’t need enemies.

Forgive me for my harsh words, but also understand a simple thing - those who can scold and at the same time continue to look blankly at someone's suffering - the majority around.
To call a person a rude word - anyone can, in this sense, all people are very rich in evil words.

But instead of scolding - try to console!

After all, the God you mentioned has always comforted, healed, helped, and never scolded or judged anyone!
And since you mentioned God, let's try to do the same thing that God does, and if you see a despondent person, it is better to support him, comfort him, and not scold him - and then God Himself will comfort you one day