hello everyone !
finally !
everything is fine.
the most important thing is to understand that
If you reset your device as new you will create a new wallet thus new accounts (0 balance) and new addresses.
so i think i got sometimes confused and did silly things with recovery phrase, restore the device and so on..
at the end, i had three lists with 24 words... and only my first list allowed me to reconnect with my crypto.
once you understand the trick, the rest is easy and works fine.
you have the right recovery phrase ? ( be very careful of the look alike words when you write them down )
you ll fine your crypto back.