Ofc it is a fair comparison.
You are basically saying that multi sign are safer because you will have 2 pieces of paper one for each key.
Then you are saying that if I have 2 piece of paper for the same seed it is a larger attack surface? It doesn't make any sense.
Ok, let me see if I can clarify my thoughts on this with a concrete example.
Let's say we have Alice who has a single key backed up in 3 different locations (that's your case) and Bob who has multisig 2 of 3 wallet with his 3 different keys backed up in 3 different locations just like Alice.
Let's assume that in each of their physical backup locations the probability of loss is 1% and probability of compromise is 2%.
What is their risk profile?
Probability of loss:
for Alice = 1% * 1% * 1% = 0.0001%
for Bob = 1% * 1% = .01% (as he would need to lose only 2 keys to suffer total loss)
Probability of compromise
for Alice = 2% + 2% + 2% = 6% (as the compromise of ANY of her backups will incur a total loss)
for Bob = 2%*2% = 0.04% (as the attacker would need to gain access to BOTH of his backups to steal his funds)
Their overall risk is the SUM of the probabilities of the two scenarios,
Alice = 6.0001%
Bob = .05%.
As I was doing this little exercise, it occurred to me that as probability of loss rises vs. probability of compromise - there is a point at which Alice will be better off with a single key. I guess the exact point at which this happens will depend on the specific probabilities. Not sure how you would estimate those two for something like a safety deposit box in a bank. I guess depends on your jurisdiction a lot.