how about trying imitating people in the movie/TV series or other TV shows. their speaking rhythm and speed is suitable for the listeners. when we were young, we listened to our parents, that's a kind of imitation as well
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if you wanna speak appropriately in case that you annoy/hurt others, read some books about speaking skill or go to class for speaking training.