So I ended up going with hashcat. I ran bitcoin2john with my wallet file. I got the string of has that begins with $bitcoin$ when I put it in my hash.txt file and try to run the following:

hashcat -a 3 -m 11300 hash.txt ?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! --force

I get:

Hashfile 'hash.txt' on line 1 ($bitco...$10cb87989a39ef71$60692$2$00$2$0): Token length exception
No hashes loaded.


Now i'm unsure what's wrong with it. there are no spaces in the hash, no extra lines. I even rand the bitcoin2john again and got the same ash and did it again, and I constantly get the same error. 

Even only having that simple token in, it max's out the run time, before its able to actually run the attack. what would you reccomend?

Any other software for not knowing any password combination at all?

Yes I just read through it all and have tried a few times. there are too many combinations. it tells me its reached its max time. Of 168 hours. What would you recommend?

So I have a wallet.dat file from a family member that has passed away. I am trying to unlock the wallet. But since they have passed away I cant really put in any tokens because I have zero idea what the password to the wallet would be. like literally at all. what would anyone recommend me putting into the file for tokens, for the best possible outcome??

Thanks for yall's time.