and saying 0.24 is out and there is nothing WE can do about it is just...
You can let it to default. You can't do much, and you've got to acknowledge that full rbf is the natural state of the network, because ethics are secondary in mining. You can't expect global adoption to come with 0-conf.the natural state of network was first seen. that is what satoshi implemmented and there have no good arguments have been presented why would this be bad. people learned that 0 conf is risky and implemented opt-in rbf. some people used rbf and it is a feature of the wallet not the network. And now a thing that worked perfectly fine and is a wallet issue is pushed onto nodes. this thing is pushing the network out of the natural state. incentives were perfectly fine. there is a risk and oportunity to use 0conf and rbf at the same time. a user could choose with their wallet how much risk/convinience they want. Now that chooseing is gone.
"Natural state"
It uses docker which is new and thus needs new skills to acquire and maintain.
Docker is almost 10 years old. Umbrel is made mostly with non-tinkerers in mind who conveniently install 'applications' which automatically run in their own containers. There is not much to maintain.I agree that maybe docker is a fine piece of software which helps a lot. At the same time we must also agree that running an umbrel node is fine... until something breaks. And until Dartchoin was on most of the umbrel support chanels, this was also an unpleasant experience.
Buidling on making things easy is something the bitcoin community must work. Ignoring regular (fiat) users is not the way to bitcoin adoption.