why dont you pay for me to run two extremely specific matching video cards instead.

If there's no privacy issue, can you please share the transaction id? How much fee have you used per byte? As I can see in the mempool.space, the fee is significantly high at the moment, maybe because we have seen a significant increases of bitcoin transactions.
If you have paid enough fee and your transaction is valid, it should be confirmed by now.

OP has RBF enabled so they can change the fee now and increase it anytime. Or, they can use CPFP method to accelerate the tx if they have access. Waiting for such huge time doesn't make sense if OP is in hurry.

I'll do it for 6k in Sats.

I agree with owlcatz, it's illegal and unethical to find someone on Instagram. That's against their privacy and anybody who does that fall into criminal genre. Although, I can easily find the details of that person, but I won't do any such thing for money. I believe nobody on this forum would do such unethical things for money.

You have mentioned that the person you want to search for is your old friend. It is really not worth to share her picture with someone you don't know. Trusting someone on forums by sharing personal pictures or pictures of of a friend is not a sign of intelligence.