See
this post on how to do RBF on a non-RBF transaction, but you need to act FAST!
Your transaction is 8 hours old, and still unconfirmed. It pays 30 sat/vbyte, which could get confirmed in a few hours. Or the receiver can do CPFP and it will confirm quickly.
You'll also need to broadcast the new replacement transaction to a node that supports Full RBF. There's no guarantee this will work, but it's worth a try. Your money is currently all gone, so don't be cheep on fees. I'd go with 64 sat/vbyte.
Which wallet did you use?
Hi Im doing this now, do I use wallet.adb.remove_transaction("bdf3d2cd0a45d69d2b91f3a0d99c266641c80ff180e8fe35f060e2a5ad1559e3") in console?
An error says: NameError: name 'et' is not defined