I have wisdom to share: This is originally a line from Buckaroo Banzai Across The Eigth Dimension:

"No matter where you go, there you are."

You, with money, are the same person as you, without money.  Having money may change the way you live, but get over the idea that it will change you.  It won't.  If you expect it to, you'll waste a lot of time trying to figure out who you are.  And if you do shit you don't like or aren't good at, expecting that you will like it or be good at it now that you have money, you're being dumb.  If you're unhappy without money, you'll probably be unhappy with money.  If you can't form stable relationships because you don't value other people enough, you'll still have that problem when you have money.  etc. 

So, long-story-short: money is a tool, not an aspect of identity.