First of all I want to specify you guys that transaction reversal is easy in PayPal as compared to BTC, In BTC you cannot dispute or chargeback so sending first is not considerable option.
That is your problem with dealing with BTC, it doesnt matter if it gets sent to you first as anyone can tell there bank the same day nope it's a fraudulent transaction.
So if you don't want to deal with PayPal then use something else. We do not know if you have a fake PayPal account that you just W/D the money real quick, and someone else gets stuck with having to repay.
As I stated options you have or I will hit you with neg.