thank you for the quick response, its a relief 

Status: 1/unconfirmed
Date: 6/22/2012 06:05
To: xx 1D6o8d7w38nNDPwWoaa2dbesjKWxhu62HR
Debit: -3.50 BTC
Transaction fee: -0.0005 BTC
Net amount: -3.5005 BTC
Transaction ID: a71e0d7c65e5a3f2b9fdddecfcc56234cad1a819789807f392717f1a3d8cc475

this is the transaction information when i double click, if it helps
thanks for the answer

I was certain I put the x'es as the label, maybe thats what really happened and im just too impatient

instead of "address" i sent to "xx address" 
will i see the money back or its gone for good?

thanks!