how can i trust you though mate, im willing to give it a  shot  though

its so hard to get these bitcoins, im looking for a quick way

You should respect  the sites rules, you go into someones house you dont use bad language if they dont want you to, same principle here.

i was  going to use intersango and then i heard about people having troubles with them it got me really worried..

is this possible??

Yeah instawallet have a warning on there site about this...

im new to bitcoins and would appreciate help from anyone...

its such a long process getting bitcoins i wish paypal did support them.