EDIT:
OK, after some gnashing of teeth, cursing, and a bit of Googling, I got PyWallet installed and removed the transaction. Blockchain.info flags it as a double spend (which it is...) but it's getting confirmed and just showed up as pending in my receiving account. Fingers crossed but...
:-)
Thank you ranochigo for the -zapwallettxes command, it's looking like the wallet is back to a pre unconfirmed transaction state.
Cheers!
Cheers!