Ok guys got everything sorted thanks to one person . You can close the thread now . I thank you so much (;

Thank you SIR! Seriously . This was quiete helpful. My btc core wallet is currently running on the v0.12.1 version . So abandoning the transaction would be like deleting it and reuploading it with an added fee ? I did that now . Waiting for further instructions .(:

Tbh . I seriously need some help of someone who could guide me through it step by step. I barely have a clue how to properly use the programs because for the purpose I've used it, my current knowledge was enough. But now that I that all my btc are stuck in a pending transaction it would be very helpful if someone could tell me what the easiest way for me is to get my btc back onto my Bitcoin core wallet, assuming that I have no clue what so ever how to start of .

So how does that whole zapwallet thing work out .
Or much rather can I delete the transaction without the money being lost ?

So I've been going through the beginners section of this forum but couldn't find a thread, dealing with the problem I got atm. I got a bitcoin core wallet and wanted to send a certain amount of bitcoins to a certain tor website . I've done that before and was annoyed by the transaction fee that I was charged throughout the transaction because I always had to resend btc onto the website to finally have the right amount of btc on the websites wallet . This time
I saw that there's the possibility to adjust the transaction fees manually and even tick in a box which says (send without transaction fees if possible) I did that without hesitating and now have to deal with the consequence of waiting forever until the transaction is finished. My question now is. What is the longest time a transaction of 0.36 btc can take . Or how long should I expect this transaction to take ?