How would I go about sending more of a fee now? I have balance in my btc but is this possible? I can send another bit of fee
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Yes, there are 3 options, but 2 of them are very technical, and the one that is easy to do actually needs to be enabled BEFORE the transaction is initially generated...
Those are the 3 options i said you could ignore because they would confuse new users: opt-in RBF, CPFP and double spending the unconfirmed inputs.
In theory, you're not really leaving more fee in your current transaction, you're either replacing the transaction by an allmost identical transaction leaving more fee, or you're using the outputs of the stuck transaction in a new transaction that has sufficient fees to cover both the stuck transaction and the new one... But like i said: doing a CPFP or double spend is pretty technical.
so in reality i have to wait 240 minutes for it to come thru? what if it doesn't confirm? do i get it back or is it lost forever? it's a lot of money to me..